Helo my people, Please Deltans in d house, or people close to them, I am an Igbo lady from Imo state, there is this Delta guy that has been asking me out, and now, I found out that he literally lives in my head, am actually fallen for him, but I have this fear of the unknown, I have not for real dated a non-igbo, and I dont know much about the general characteristics of Delta guys, please is there any lovely nairalander that can help a sister. I need to know, is there something I need to know b4 getting in to this? what are they like in general? thanks in advance for ur mature advice

Please remove the generalization "deltans" cos no human being are the same.

In order to tackle your question, I need to know which part of Delta the guy is from.

Deltans are nice.. If he's from ughelli, or urhobo in general, then no p.. Dunno bout the rest.

some things u need to knw abt deltans are dat dey love alcohol and women but u knw not all of dem exhibit this behavior, but I can tell u a handful of dem do. They r fun to be with, very lively.

There is no tribe that have a general behavioral pattern. Moreover, there is no particular tribe that are
perfect in making good husbands. So if you like him and you feel he ticks all the boxes for you, then go
for him.I am from the North and my wife is from the East and trust me when i say i don't regret marrying her.

Happiness should be your primary yardstick to look for in a Man. It should come before state of origin.

he surely doesnt have ulterior motives

dont forget u are closer to the south than to the west and farther from the north_if u know what i mean
#AREA

This thread is why I wish I could give some one an e-konk.

You have to be careful not generalize certain behavioural patterns. The fact that a majority of people from an area or region exhibit certain traits doesn't mean it applies to all.

Just open your eyes and see. Being with a kinsman doesn't guarantee happiness or safety.

Lucky u.....u go and tank ur stars....cos delta men, especially d urhobo men are d most caring

As far as i'm concerned,ethnicity has got nothing to do with relationships unless the tribe in question carries out practises that are against ur beliefs.other than this,no problemo ,carry on as long as you love him

He literally lives in your head, hope he dey pay rent there?lol. There is nothing like a Deltan, just like some people have already told you, its not all about 'generalization'

No human is perfect babes. Forget about where he's from. If ur convinced within u dat u luvs him n dat he's d 1 4 u,den go ahead

luciangelymail:
Helo my people, Please Deltans in d house, or people close to them, I am an Igbo lady from Imo state, there is this Delta guy that has been asking me out, and now, I found out that he literally lives in my head, am actually fallen for him, but I have this fear of the unknown, I have not for real dated a non-igbo, and I dont know much about the general characteristics of Delta guys, please is there any lovely nairalander that can help a sister. I need to know, is there something I need to know b4 getting in to this? what are they like in general? thanks in advance for ur mature advice

You don't judge people based on tribe, rather you judge them based on their personalities. Study him, look out for his passion, believe and character. Communication is key!

vikyno:
Please remove the generalization "deltans" cos no human being are the same.

In order to tackle your question, I need to know which part of Delta the guy is from.

Thanx dear for ur comment. He is from Asaba

Tobiee:
Deltans are nice.. If he's from ughelli, or urhobo in general, then no p.. Dunno bout the rest.

Thanx Tobiee , he is from Asaba

Ruffychuks:
some things u need to knw abt deltans are dat dey love alcohol and women but u knw not all of dem exhibit this behavior, but I can tell u a handful of dem do. They r fun to be with, very lively.

Thanx Ruffychuks for that contribution. Means alot

2goodbobo:
There is no tribe that have a general behavioral pattern. Moreover, there is no particular tribe that are
perfect in making good husbands. So if you like him and you feel he ticks all the boxes for you, then go
for him.I am from the North and my wife is from the East and trust me when i say i don't regret marrying her.

Happiness should be your primary yardstick to look for in a Man. It should come before state of origin.

Wooow, happy for u bro. Hope to talk like this about d person I will marry. Thanks for ur advice

ivyT:
he surely doesnt have ulterior motives

dont forget u are closer to the south than to the west and farther from the north_if u know what i mean
#AREA

Noted IvyT, thanx

Yea, always have ur own money on u whenever u go out with him

sammoe:
This thread is why I wish I could give some one an e-konk.

You have to be careful not generalize certain behavioural patterns. The fact that a majority of people from an area or region exhibit certain traits doesn't mean it applies to all.

Just open your eyes and see. Being with a kinsman doesn't guarantee happiness or safety.

Lol @ e-konk .....no vex dear.noted, thanx

hybridtm:
Lucky u.....u go and tank ur stars....cos delta men, especially d urhobo men are d most caring

Woooow, really? Tnx hybridtm, but he is from Asaba

KiidaACE:
As far as i'm concerned,ethnicity has got nothing to do with relationships unless the tribe in question carries out practises that are against ur beliefs.other than this,no problemo ,carry on as long as you love him

Noted! Tnx kiidaACE

UnknownT:
He literally lives in your head, hope he dey pay rent there?lol. There is nothing like a Deltan, just like some people have already told you, its not all about 'generMy candid advice bro. If u are interested in a girl, bro u don't do it this way, get to know d person slowly, pictures may b deceptive, slowly does it, if u tell me u want me, what reply do u actually expect to get? B truthful? So u c? It s a turn off for most ladies, u can try this new clue on another lady because, since I gave it to u, it won't work on me anymore. Good luck bro, I love u because Jesus loves u too.alization'

Lol.......OK UnknownT, noted

pretydiva:
No human is perfect babes. Forget about where he's from. If ur convinced within u dat u luvs him n dat he's d 1 4 u,den go ahead

OK pretydiva. Tnx

luciangelymail:

Lol.......OK UnknownT, noted

Bia! When did I type this epistle? Pls, my comments here on nairaland is like the word of God, so don't add or remove

I'm not deltan. *walks out of thread*

vikyno:
Please remove the generalization "deltans" cos no human being are the same.

.....
then.......

In order to tackle your question, I need to know which part of Delta the guy is from.

what a contradiction

luciangelymail:
Lol @ e-konk .....no vex dear.noted, thanx

. You're welcome.

luciangelymail:


Thanx Tobiee , he is from Asaba

Asaba guys rock big time...wit that said, u most understand that everyman has its own character and strength irrespective of where his frm..But Delta Igbo guys are none to be cool guys though and treat women right. My2cent

luciangelymail:


Thanx Tobiee , he is from Asaba

Well that's good for you cos Asaba is more if Igbo which you happen to be. There won't be much cultural difference compare to other tribes from delta.

The most important thing is love and the personality of the guy involved. Try check his family background as well .

luciangelymail:


Thanx Tobiee , he is from Asaba

Asaba peeps are good.. No p with a deltan guy.. Go on.

stop being tribalistic and date whoever u love

sammoe:
This thread is why I wish I could give some one an e-konk.

You have to be careful not generalize certain behavioural patterns. The fact that a majority of people from an area or region exhibit certain traits doesn't mean it applies to all.

Just open your eyes and see. Being with a kinsman doesn't guarantee happiness or safety.

if you are still giving her the knock, help me give her my own abeg