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Okay, before you nail me on "cassava" cross, am not a fan of sex
before marriage but the truth be told, one of the things plaguing
Christendom is the refusal of Christians to get updated, esp over
issues related to sex and money. Many denominations refuse to talk
about it, some see sex as a means for child bearing only and not to
be enjoyed. It pains me when I see marital homes break as a result of
one party complaining about unfulfilled sex, hence the need for this
write up.

Seriously, as a single guy, the first prayer I asked God while praying
for a life partner was to ask Him for a lady who will be my SEXUAL
MATCH. I love God so much so that I can discuss anything with Him, I
can pretend before my Pastor, ...etc but not God. The reason was, I
don't want to commit the sin of infidelity when am married, neither do
I want my wife to do, hence the need for that.
Sex is one part of our lives we should pay attention to, it doesn't
matter if u are a virgin, sex is part of us, you don't need to learn the
art, you only need to garnish it and make it better. Note, compromise
and agreement is what makes a better sex life; learn to adapt to what
your partner wants, otherwise, learn to convince your partner over
things you don't want him or her do to you during sex, until you get
to a point of agreement.

Another point is looking good. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder,
they say. For your marriage sake, if your husband WHOM U LOVE,
wants u to go on bum shorts for him, esp at home, pls do. You may
say 'he wants u to dress like a prostitute', and I will say, while the
answer MAY Be YES, it will stop him from patronising prostitutes.
While you may argue that you don't want to dress like that, I would
like to ask you one question

DO YOU WANT TO SEE YOUR PARTNER IN PROSTITUTES' HANDS?
Lastly, learn to COMMUNICATE and. CARE FOR your partner.
Understand him or her, because sometimes your partner, especially
the women, may not voice their feelings, but expect you to know, or
at least guess.

This writeup assumes you start having sex only after your wedding.

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I give u sense by fire by thunder

Ok I get ur point, u want ur future wife to wear only bumshot in your house. Then what would ur daugther bw wearing?