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| How Do Guyz Manage Women With Children Outside Wedlock by onoerime(op): 10:14am On May 14, 2015 |
Sometimes I regret marrying a woman with a kid outside wedlock. I do regret that someday this child will grow up to trace her true biological father. I notice that most fathers ignore children outside wedlock. The reasons behind it is what I don't understand. From an igbo friend, I understand that children outside wedlock are bethroted to the real husband and automatical he is the father of the children. I still don't agree with this culture. Someday the children will trace their biological father. Sometimes I am faced with the challenge of taking this baby to the real father. I know that there are men faced with challenge. How do you cope and manage this suituation? |
| Re: How Do Guyz Manage Women With Children Outside Wedlock by buygala(m): 10:15am On May 14, 2015 |
.....Still trying to understand the op  Anyway, Whatever questions you are asking now are questioms you should have asked before getting yourself hooked up to a single mom  My advce... If you don't know what to do, then fast for 40 days and 40 nights, and ask Jehovah to show you the way  |
| Re: How Do Guyz Manage Women With Children Outside Wedlock by Nobody: 10:21am On May 14, 2015 |
Op as u have decided to stay with her while shes got another man child then do just that , be a father to the child . Even tho u know deep down you are not the dad n the child might later find the biological dad , still be there the rewards can b great .  N you can have your own children too makes it easier .. Over here its normal men marry women 3 kids all different dads and they are still there. But if you love her love the child too regardless |
| Re: How Do Guyz Manage Women With Children Outside Wedlock by donbenedict(m): 10:25am On May 14, 2015 |
Yh I can manage.. Only if thr r no dramas |
| Re: How Do Guyz Manage Women With Children Outside Wedlock by Hysmady(m): 10:27am On May 14, 2015 |
I can't...Never,the biological father should claim the child...I can't carry another person's load |
| Re: How Do Guyz Manage Women With Children Outside Wedlock by Xynthialuvy(f): 10:36am On May 14, 2015 |
Pls,treat the kid like he's urs. U were not forced into it. |
| Re: How Do Guyz Manage Women With Children Outside Wedlock by Young03(m): 10:41am On May 14, 2015 |
@op, y shud u go 4 d woman wit a baby out of wedlock knowing wel u wunt take care of the child dude, if u cant take d child as urs den beta leave d mum |
| Re: How Do Guyz Manage Women With Children Outside Wedlock by TheSonOfMark(m): 10:45am On May 14, 2015 |
donbenedict:There'll always be drama especially when you try to reprimand the child and her or she say hurtful words to get back at you. You'd even quarrel with your wife over it. |
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