I'm just a little curious and also want to learn from guys who have gone ahead of me. Especially guys who married older ladies and also ladies who got married to younger men....It will really be nice if you can share your experiences with us before some of us follow suit. Thanks in advance.

Nothing is wrong, provided the lady has good morals n shes respects u. Speakin from xperience.(dated an older lady for a long time)

Well, I won't venture into that.. Age is just not only a number..

I cee no problem with it.i'm married to a much older man,am 25..he's 45.it all depends on the mutual understandin and choice tho.

ahnie:
I cee no problem with it.i'm married to a much older man,am 25..he's 45.it all depends on the mutual understandin and choice tho.

ahnie, tnx for ur contribution but i'm not actually referring to d guy being the older one now...I mean the lady being the older one. say 2-3 years older or so.

Its all depends on both of u. If u'r mature enuf 2 handle tinx u'r gud 2 go. Tho am seein som1 older dan me by 10yrs

donbenedict:
Well, I won't venture into that.. Age is just not only a number..

hmmmmm

The choice z yurz.

Curiousity01:

ahnie, tnx for ur contribution but i'm not actually referring to d guy being the older one now...I mean the lady being the older one. say 2-3 years older or so.

best of luck.

I prefer the lady to be older than me. Young females don't know what they want. They act before thinking.

The older they are the better!

I prefer much older ladies. The young ones lack depth. If you found her and she vibrates at your frequency, regardless of her earthly age go for it. Some souls are ageless and evergreen. The best of them are those of them that take care of Body,mind and soul that when they tell you their age you gonna doubt.

Chubhie:
I prefer much older ladies. The young ones lack depth. If you found her and she vibrates at your frequency, regardless of her earthly age go for it. Some souls are ageless and evergreen. The best of them are those of them that take care of Body,mind and soul that when they tell you their age you gonna doubt.

:-D:-D bro u very rght

You have to weigh your options and test her very well before venturing into this.

Marriage itself is very complicated; marrying an older woman makes it more complicated. It then follows that if you will make such attempt at all, you have to sit down and think deeply:

1. Which personality is involved ie the person you want to marry;

2. what is her maturity- Emotional Quotient, Intelligence Quotient and Spiritual Maturity;

3. What other factors can affect your marriage in the future other than the age factor?

etc

Chubhie:
I prefer much older ladies. The young ones lack depth. If you found her and she vibrates at your frequency, regardless of her earthly age go for it. Some souls are ageless and evergreen. The best of them are those of them that take care of Body,mind and soul that when they tell you their age you gonna doubt.

I feel u bro...bt honestly i really wish i cud have one or two married folks who really are into diz system to share dia experience wit d house including the pros and cons.

Curiousity01:

ahnie, tnx for ur contribution but i'm not actually referring to d guy being the older one now...I mean the lady being the older one. say 2-3 years older or so.

You are within same age cycle, so in other words you are age mate. Was thinking you meant ten yrs plus older.

U must b open minded,b willing 2 take/bear consequencies of dating olderwomen cos,u'r likely gonna b mocked:dating her mum's age tinx lik da
Ur goals must b dsame,d 1 am dating wnts marriage& i wnt s3x u knw its conflicting& if u knw d rght buttons 2 press u'r goin 2 enjoy her wella.

cc: Babyosisi
You are needed here. She's a woman full of wisdom.

ahnie:
I cee no problem with it.i'm married to a much older man,am 25..he's 45.it all depends on the mutual understandin and choice tho.

Why now?

evolg:
cc: Babyosisi
You are needed here. She's a woman full of wisdom.

Thanks for the compliments

Curiousity01:

ahnie, tnx for ur contribution but i'm not actually referring to d guy being the older one now...I mean the lady being the older one. say 2-3 years older or so.

2-3 years is still within your age bracket,not a big deal.
If you were talking 5 years plus then I might have something to say on that.

I'm in that dilemma now. My best friend is 2 and half years younger than me. We've been good for about 3 years now. He doesn't mind at all, in fact, he is the one pushing more for it. He says things like, "l have more experience when it comes to relationships", "I will buy age in the market if it will make you happy" etc.

He is really a great guy but I really want an older man because 1) I'm bigger than him physically. 2) Sometimes I see his actions or decisions childish, I can't wave the age thing past my mind. 3) ...

I don't really know what to do as I don't love the other options as much or say I'm not as close to the other options as I'm close to him. I will leave the future to decide.

ahnie:
I cee no problem with it.i'm married to a much older man,am 25..he's 45.it all depends on the mutual understandin and choice tho.

oh waoh!!you get along well?

Felt like,mum did asked me same question,but daz my choice,al-do,he looks like under 30s.

babyosisi:


Why now?

Oh sure.but you dont mess with me,he's ready to spill his last drop of blood for my sake.

mystiqueDZ:
oh waoh!!you get along well?

ahnie:
Oh sure.but you dont mess with me,he's ready to spill his last drop of blood for my sake.

awwww.... ;Dmay the love grow more.....

ahnie:
Felt like,mum did asked me same question,but daz my choice,al-do,he looks like under 30s.

The age difference is too much but
I wish you a very happy marriage

Tenk you.

babyosisi:

The age difference is too much but I wish you a very happy marriage

Curiousity01:

ahnie, tnx for ur contribution but i'm not actually referring to d guy being the older one now...I mean the lady being the older one. say 2-3 years older or so.

2-3 years is good even some people could marry woman of more than 5 years older it depends on individual.

You can watch the related videos from battabox guys on the subject. The videos is below.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RDez2sPtuxM



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7PxRdKxD8SE

Curiousity01:
I'm just a little curious and also want to learn from guys who have gone ahead of me. Especially guys who married older ladies and also ladies who got married to younger men....It will really be nice if you can share your experiences with us before some of us follow suit. Thanks in advance.

Nothing really wrong if the lady is >.............................. cant find a word for it


most ladies naturally have an issue with submission even if she is 22 and your are 45 immediately you start dating youd see a change in the way she atlks and relates with you. believe me i know men that respect their wives even when the wives talk anyhow to them in public. ladies much be chosen with tact else if she is older and not ...........................(still cant find the word ) then God help that man. so its a function the personality not the age and since we cant control or determine the character now adays due to the matrimony rush id rather you stict to the young ones

Nothing wrong, as long as she loves and respects you. . Marrying a younger person isn't an assurance of respect and love, so if you see someone that rocks ya boat, please take her to the altar...

I don't think there's anything wrong with marrying a lady older than you, but I think it's a happy thing. Older women will be more planned, more intellectual, elegant, sexy, and full of fun. These cougars will have their careers, so there is a high probability that they can also bring you some connections and money. They also treat marriage more rationally. Compared with young women, they are more willing to spend their time managing this marriage.
My brother is married to a cougar and they are 15 years apart. But they love each other and get along very well. They met on a cougar dating site: https://cougarslover.com/match/.

No.