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Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by DanceVille: 8:07pm On May 23, 2015
DanceVille:
These are just qualities Guys look for in a lady..
If can thank me with a PM later on..
Let's get down to business..

Are you a single lady who has kissed umpteen toads but not yet landed the prince? Or are you just holding onto something that was never meant to be? If you want to know what makes a Guy fall for a Lady and willing to walk him down the aisle, read on....


1. A Lady With Her Own Life:Ladies, please note that he doesn't want someone clingy.If you are one person who has her own set of friends and can hang out by yourself, you're closer to hitting the jackpot.


2. No First Move:Ok, so is it ladies first or do guys get be gentlemen and ask the lady out? The guy likes a lady who never makes the first move.He wants to decide how he's going to woo you, serenade you - so be a lady and let him!.


3. Love's In The Air:Does your heart beat faster when you see him? Does his voice make you want to see him? While some may experience these, others may feel a sense of comfort and security when with him.
This makes for a good foundation to take the relationship.


4. Show Your Car:Someone said that sweat the small stuff.But in a new relationship, you definitely need to! Doing little things to show him that you care will make his heart grow fonder.


5. Sexy Yes, Slutty No:Don't indulge in PDA right off the bat - You are likely to scare him off! Guys kike to take it slow and prefer being non sexual but flirty in the initial stages of the relationship.


6. Wait For Sex:Don't jump into bed on your first date.Sex can effectively ruin what could otherwise be a beautiful relationship.
Both of you may end up having little in common other than sex.So wait a while before you seal the deal.


7. No- Nonsense:A guy wants a lady he can respect.If he knows he can't get away with anything, he's likely not to go down that path.Also, don't date a guy who is seeing other ladies, married or abusive - they are just not worth it.


8. Be His Buddy:Make him feel good infront of his friends and important people.Don't laugh at him but with him.


9. Lay Off:If you're the kind who will call, text and mail your guy umpteen times a day, rest assured he will run out the door, in a jiffy.
Don't badger him, especially about the future.Take it as it comes and things will just fall in place!.


10. Good Attracts Good:If he's well-mannered and gentlemanly, then you have scored a 100! As dating experts say, "Good manners are a sign of what kind of man he is" , ensure that you have similar values and he's dependable and truthful..
Cc:lalasticlala
Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by agarawu23(m): 8:08pm On May 23, 2015
move around with good friends

"show me your friend and I will tell you who you are" is a proverb judging reality. You can't move with bad friends and expect a promising young man to approach you. today you club , tomorrow you party undecided and you want a responsible guy? shuffle your friend list if you have the bad ones,

be religious

A soul without God fearing is a dead man walking, have faith and show sign of a true believer and watch God grant you your hrt desire cos we guys Like Ladies who blv in God and not until u become SU o grin some guys hate over religious babe .
Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by okabe(m): 8:08pm On May 23, 2015
Nice...you tried but some points are hardly general
Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by sinaj(f): 8:10pm On May 23, 2015
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Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by DanceVille: 8:14pm On May 23, 2015
agarawu23:
try and space your points
Ok dude!
Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by Maximus17(m): 8:20pm On May 23, 2015
sinaj:
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I see you o.... grin
Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by epelumi42(m): 8:24pm On May 23, 2015
OK. Stereotypes...
Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by Maxcollins042(m): 8:36pm On May 23, 2015
Ok Ladies what's your say on the epistle above?
Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by sinaj(f): 8:39pm On May 23, 2015
Maximus17:
I see you o.... grin

I see you too nigga cool
Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by TheSonOfMark(m): 8:44pm On May 23, 2015

I actually like females who make the first move.smiley

Do you know what level of psychological maturity a lady needs to attain to walk up to a man and chat him up damning society's stereotypic embargo on such moves?
Such a female is a risk-taker who when placed in either a business or home environment would make bold decisions all by herself even without the help of a male.
Such females tend to be independent, savvy, honest with their opinions and bold without losing their feminity.

Tell me, why should any 21st Century male with a healthy self-esteem and his priorities in place not like or even LOVE such a woman?smiley

I'd adore her anyday.

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Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by shumuel(m): 9:59pm On May 23, 2015
Ok
Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by Nobody: 10:06pm On May 23, 2015
Summary is have Quality in the Quantity of your entity.
Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by DanceVille: 9:09am On May 24, 2015
starlingslimnet:
Summary is have Quality in the Quantity of your entity.
Love that mehn!
Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by DanceVille: 9:10am On May 24, 2015
TheSonOfMark:

I actually like females who make the first move.smiley

Do you know what level of psychological maturity a lady needs to attain to walk up to a man and chat him up damning society's stereotypic embargo on such moves?
Such a female is a risk-taker who when placed in either a business or home environment would make bold decisions all by herself even without the help of a male.
Such females tend to be independent, savvy, honest with their opinions and bold without losing their feminity.

Tell me, why should any 21st Century male with a healthy self-esteem and his priorities in place not like or even LOVE such a woman?smiley

I'd adore her anyday.
Hmmm! Nice one dude
Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by McEwen(m): 9:10am On May 24, 2015
starlingslimnet:
Summary is have Quality in the Quantity of your entity.
You go skool cool
Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by Nobody: 10:11am On May 24, 2015
DanceVille:
Love that mehn!
You have a Good point there bro
Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by Nobody: 10:26am On May 24, 2015
As long as she got a phatt azz

Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by Nobody: 11:48am On May 24, 2015
@#10: a guy can have good manners and still be a player. It's definitely a good idea to ensure that he's "truthful".
Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by DanceVille: 1:40pm On May 24, 2015
Incline:
@#10: a guy can have good manners and still be a player. It's definitely a good idea to ensure that he's "truthful".
Hmm! Nice one miss..
Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by MsBliss(f): 2:51pm On May 24, 2015
11. be a good cook 12. be obedient/submissive 13. be neat 14. be presentable 15.respect him 16. boost his ego 17.support him 18.love him truly 19.show him off 20. trust him.











my own list ...... ...... .... ...


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..So help me God .
Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by IceSplash(f): 3:08pm On May 24, 2015
Ok
Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by DanceVille: 3:10pm On May 24, 2015
MsBliss:
11. be a good cook 12. be obedient/submissive 13. be neat 14. be presentable 15.respect him 16. boost his ego 17.support him 18.love him truly 19.show him off 20. trust him.











my own list ...... ...... .... ...


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..So help me God .
Nice compilations

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Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by TheSonOfMark(m): 6:20pm On May 24, 2015
MsBliss:
11. be a good cook
12. be obedient/submissive
13. be neat
14. be presentable
15.respect him
16. boost his ego
17.support him
18.love him truly
19.show him off
20. trust him.












my own list ......
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..So help me God .

You don't exactly have to go out of your way to boost his. If he already has a healthy level of self-esteem that wouldn't be necessarily.smiley
Re: Ladies, Top 10 Good Qualities Guys Look For In A Lady by MsBliss(f): 8:29pm On May 24, 2015
TheSonOfMark:

You don't exactly have to go out of your way to boost his. If he already has a healthy level of self-esteem that wouldn't be necessarily.smiley

That's not what I mean actually . You know the kind of words u use can build or mar a person's self esteem . Using the right words such as praise and not letting him down in the presence of his friends can go a long way.

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