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any ladies that claim no sex before marriage should also be prepared to foot her bills. telling a guy that that you don't want to have sex before marriage as a lady is not bad, but it is bad when you continue to pester the guy for money everyday. if you cant give him sex, then dont ask him for money also for whatever reason. if he decide to give you money, no problem. but telling him to give you money when you cant give him sex is out of place.
no sex before marriage is equal to no money before marriage.

only silly dudes still fall maga with the "no sex relationship" some guys are so stupidd to the extent that if a girl just give them ordinary pecking dey will start bringing out their hard earned money.

if you be virgin, I must confirm it and that doesn't guarantee you I will spend my cash on you. I refused to be scammed by that word ladies call "love "

agarawu23:
huh

na so na

Well, I have a girlfriend, and I give her out of the magnanimity of my heart


So if I don't believe it's a must to have sex with a girl before you can give her money. Relationships differ; so do people!!

Observing....

Neduzze5:
Well, I have a girlfriend, and I give her out of the magnanimity of my heart


So if I don't believe it's a must to have sex with a girl before you can give her money. Relationships differ; so do people!!

try undastand the OP, hin no say make u no gv if u wish, bt make d gal no force u to gv her or turn u to atm wen she no fit throway leg.

Jollyjoy:
Observing....

observe very well.

Following..............

pinkyruledworld:
try undastand the OP, hin no say make u no gv if u wish, bt make d gal no force u to gv her or turn u to atm wen she no fit throway leg.

exactly. i will give her anytime i feel like. she should not pester me for money. i'm not her atm.

Neduzze5:
Well, I have a girlfriend, and I give her out of the magnanimity of my heart


So if I don't believe it's a must to have sex with a girl before you can give her money. Relationships differ; so do people!!

you dnt understand me.

ladies should not ask us for money if they will not give us sex.

clevvermind:
any ladies that claim no sex before marriage should also be prepared to foot her bills. telling a guy that that you don't want to have sex before marriage as a lady is not bad, but it is bad when you continue to pester the guy for money everyday. if you cant give him sex, then dont ask him for money also for whatever reason. if he decide to give you money, no problem. but telling him to give you money when you cant give him sex is out of place.
no sex before marriage is equal to no money before marriage.

there is also a problem if he decides to give you money. The mind set of "give and take" is already there. So to the ladies, don't take at all! And should in case he starts suspecting you of cheating because you don't ask/collect money from him and you don't agree to sex, then get him diapers

clevvermind:
any ladies that claim no sex before marriage should also be prepared to foot her bills. telling a guy that that you don't want to have sex before marriage as a lady is not bad, but it is bad when you continue to pester the guy for money everyday. if you cant give him sex, then dont ask him for money also for whatever reason. if he decide to give you money, no problem. but telling him to give you money when you cant give him sex is out of place.
no sex before marriage is equal to no money before marriage.

what should i even type. Counsel you on proper relationship ethics or what. I give up

clevvermind:
ladies should not ask us for money if they will not give us sex.

I've been saying it for the longest time yet is the most stubborn pill of truth for many to follow. Marriage is merely legal prostitution minus the religious symbolism. If you think I'm wrong, consider that most women will only consider you if you have money. No good looking lady will fall for a broke guy, miss me with the "love matters" dribble. So you get married, what happens if/when the money dries up and she sees you're not "trying hard enough", don't let wife see a suitable bachelor with solid financial stability and well mannered. It's over, after all you've invested. Women aren't shy about this admission, many just hide behind it, "it's nothing wrong with us seeking 'happiness'". Doesn't have to be money, she'll cheat over being bored.

Don't spend money to keep a woman, ever.

(no I'm not speaking from personal grievance, but my trained spirit refuses to let me to be taken for a fool... Enjoy)