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Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by oshe11: 10:38pm On May 28, 2015
Oseigha:
Hello everyone,
I need your suggestions on the best proposal setting to adopt. I recently started dating this lady who was my good friend before I asked her out. we were more like family friends. I had to battle so hard to overcome the inertia I had to tell her about my feelings for her. she accepted to date me after much efforts from me and her elder sister who also happens to be my friend.
But right now, she is insisting I propose to her 'formally', and that I make the setting romantic enough to make it a memorable day for her.
The problem is that I have no clue what setting to adopt. Please I need feasible suggestions on this matter. I need to propose within the weekend. Thank you in advance for your suggestions.
Invite ha out n den diss ha clothes, shoe,etc n wen she gets angry n strts walkin away, walk up to ha n yell at ha saying 'its tym to set tins ryt n tel U who d man in dis relationshp is' b4 she says anytin, slap ha wit ur left hand n if she says 'u slap me' giv ha anoda 1 wit d ryt hand...... If she strts kryin or wana walk away....... Pull ha back, kneel down n bring out d ring, den do d needful(propose)





I sure hope dis wud b 'memorable' enuf
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by Temmytea70(m): 10:38pm On May 28, 2015
Ishilove:
Wrap the ring inside fufu or semo, add beta banga soup to the mix, and when she finally digs through the fufu and finds the ring inside, propose.

What if it backfires and she mistakenly swallows the ring?
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by Flashh: 10:38pm On May 28, 2015
missclasssy:


Elucidate.
Must we prolong here? Can i PM you?
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by Smartwave: 10:41pm On May 28, 2015
o - oh

Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by Nobody: 10:41pm On May 28, 2015
Flashh:

Must we prolong here? Can i PM you?

WTF
Your manner of approach is zero.
You have poor communication skills
I hate your text style
I hate your text color( it looks gayish)

Worst of all, you irritate me.
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by Oseigha(m): 10:43pm On May 28, 2015
kpolli:
Wait!!! You just started dating her and she insists you propose to her formally?? Or do you mean ask her out formally?
I have always known her. I asked her out not quite long but I have no doubt on my mind if she is the right one.
I also want her to wear my ring to scare away 'predators'
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by Bowaley17(m): 10:43pm On May 28, 2015
brb
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by madjune(m): 10:44pm On May 28, 2015
Stand in the middle of the highway; so the whole world sees you two.
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by Nobody: 10:44pm On May 28, 2015
Ishilove:
Wrap the ring inside fufu or semo, add beta banga soup to the mix, and when she finally digs through the fufu and finds the ring inside, propose.

Your ideal dey very very dull undecided you know why?

Most nigeria no dey stew fufu or semo, na swallow we dey swallow those kind of food,

And the chemical were dem dey use take make some of this ring dey poisonous,

She come swallow am die that instance, police go destroy that guy life thinking say he use rat poison kill the girl and una moderator go come put am for front page with graphics photos of the girl belly were burst for restaurantundecided

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Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by Oseigha(m): 10:50pm On May 28, 2015
madjune:
Stand in the middle of the highway; so the whole world sees you two.
Thanks for ur suggestion.
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by Flashh: 10:53pm On May 28, 2015
missclasssy:


WTF
Your manner of approach is zero.
You have poor communication skills
I hate your text style
I hate your text color( it looks gayish)

Worst of all, you irritate me.
Quit this poor mentality!

Text looks gayish... Poor commutation skill... Manner of approach zero... Irritate you. grin

What you listed are pointless. Can't you try new excuse to prove you aren't a male? sad

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Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by Captainswag225(m): 10:54pm On May 28, 2015
Oseigha:

Pls educate me on the appropriate speech.
well, u catch start by asking the people at the gathering to give u a few minutes of their time jux to say something.....u can start from any angle for eg proverb or a quote to support for speech.....the greatest treasure God gave to man was life, love, family, great friends,companionship (my own quote though) then u can go to ellaborate on the special people in your life and then narrow it to your g.f, talk about how great she has been in your life, how happy she makes u, say all the great stuff about her and then move on the main action..... Eg she has been a great revealation to my life and i look forward to spending the rest of my life with her and raising beautiful kids with her.. ... Kneel down and propose
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by kpolli(m): 10:56pm On May 28, 2015
Oseigha:

I have always known her. I asked her out not quite long but I have no doubt on my mind if she is the right one.
I also want her to wear my ring to scare away 'predators'

I have known her is different from I have dated her.... I can't go and marry my neighbor just like that.... Dating is different from being friends, but what do I know....

All the best!
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by Nobody: 10:57pm On May 28, 2015
take her on a boat cruise on the atlantic ocean... wen u don reach d middle of d ocean, tel her to marry or she should get out of d boat if she no gree... thank me later...

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Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by Leon2036(m): 10:57pm On May 28, 2015
So what if we suggest now, u pruposse e no come romantic reach, she go come say No the u go propuse again? Well my suggestion,look for any vacant digital bill board pay for just a day and that day take n stroll around that area then ask to close her eyes when her picture comes out on the billboard with the word will u marry me quietly kneel down with ur ring,, hope I try??

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Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by kpolli(m): 10:57pm On May 28, 2015
EyeKandy:
The hopeless comments ruined this thread. Made me waste my time reading over 3 pages of BS!!

These are people that sleep on NL all these years. Grow up, get a life or get busy.

OP: since you already proposed informally, I won't advise you to go "all out". A nice fancy dinner should be fine. Hint a server/bartender of your plans and make them take pictures. If you can afford a vacation, that would be perfect.

If she loves to show off, invite your friends and hers over to her house. It's easier to execute if her family is aware so they could join in the "surprise planning" with light food and drinks. And everyone would go awwww smiley Seems like she wants the "surprise". Good luck!!!

Alo alo ooo, alo alo
Story story o, story story.....
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by JuanDeDios: 10:58pm On May 28, 2015
Flashh:
That her elder sister just want to put asunder.

If you see its getting out of hand, the best is to leave the two of them... I am telling you this so as not to have short life.


Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by LuvSwollenPussy(m): 10:58pm On May 28, 2015
Oseigha:
Hello everyone,
I need your suggestions on the best proposal setting to adopt. I recently started dating this lady who was my good friend before I asked her out. we were more like family friends. I had to battle so hard to overcome the inertia I had to tell her about my feelings for her. she accepted to date me after much efforts from me and her elder sister who also happens to be my friend.
But right now, she is insisting I propose to her 'formally', and that I make the setting romantic enough to make it a memorable day for her.
The problem is that I have no clue what setting to adopt. Please I need feasible suggestions on this matter. I need to propose within the weekend. Thank you in advance for your suggestions.

See ya life. Na woman dey dictate to you how to propose to her. You never marry her o..she don dey show you her level and you even post am. She dey use u compare wetin she dey see other men do to her friends.

No worry when u marry am finish, na she go decide when you go see her naakkedneess, when you go chop and whether you go comot for house or not.

Iddioot.

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Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by Nobody: 11:02pm On May 28, 2015
oshe11:
Invite ha out n den diss ha clothes, shoe,etc n wen she gets angry n strts walkin away, walk up to ha n yell at ha saying 'its tym to set tins ryt n tel U who d man in dis relationshp is' b4 she says anytin, slap ha wit ur left hand n if she says 'u slap me' giv ha anoda 1 wit d ryt hand...... If she strts kryin or wana walk away....... Pull ha back, kneel down n bring out d ring, den do d needful(propose)





I sure hope dis wud b 'memorable' enuf

Proposal abuse...
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by Nobody: 11:03pm On May 28, 2015
Ishilove:
Wrap the ring inside fufu or semo, add beta banga soup to the mix, and when she finally digs through the fufu and finds the ring inside, propose.
what if she swallows the ring? shocked
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by Donpizzle(m): 11:05pm On May 28, 2015
missclasssy:


Even you?
SMH

By the way you didn't add the part where she mistakenly swallows the ring with the fufu, chokes on it, coughs and vomits blood, rolling uncontrollably around the terra coated floor of the restaurant and finally dies right in his arms, her eyes starring blankly at him.

e cant fit happen joor.
Shoro niyen
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by bankai2015(f): 11:06pm On May 28, 2015
i would advice you use public transport medium. for example take her on a tour through train, and propose to her
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by EyeKandy(f): 11:06pm On May 28, 2015
kpolli:


Alo alo ooo, alo alo
Story story o, story story.....

If you don't, you'd be tagged as unromantic. Step your game up and listen. smiley
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by Graccccccccy(f): 11:06pm On May 28, 2015
Dorrobucci:
It depends sha... You can choose to propose to her ontop of a tree or in the market. Though i did mine in the toilet, was kinda fun.
In the toilet Hahahahaahahahahahah
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by ZACHIE: 11:06pm On May 28, 2015
Petrol filling station
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by whitestar01(m): 11:06pm On May 28, 2015
Best advicesssses so far nl
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by Donpizzle(m): 11:07pm On May 28, 2015
Invite a juju priest to ur house to rap sme incantations as u propose to her.. U hear mi?
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by Khd95(m): 11:08pm On May 28, 2015
I dont want 2 biliv u r forced into doin dis.


Alryt,take her 2 go play FIFA15,dat game is dope or simply walk her down d street 2 go buy suya nd then GBAM,u propose on d street.
Also,u can take her 2 snake farm nd propose ryt there..


Meanwhile..d era where d formality of kneeling b4 ladies 2 ask dem'will u marry me'will b over soon...

Folks could ping bae nd say'marry me,pls'
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by oshe11: 11:09pm On May 28, 2015
Sacluxpaint:

Proposal abuse...
its memorable n romantik, trust ME!
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by oshe11: 11:09pm On May 28, 2015
Sacluxpaint:

Proposal abuse...
its memorable n romantik, trust ME!
Re: Need Suggestions On The Appropriate Setting To Propose. by Nobody: 11:10pm On May 28, 2015
Graccccccccy:
In the toilet Hahahahaahahahahahah
swthrt why are u laughing?

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