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Trust Issues In A Romantic Relationship: Does Love Equal Trust? / Why I Have Trust Issues!! / For Those Having Trust Issues (2) (3) (4)
Trust Issues by charlesikhalea(m): 6:10pm On May 30, 2015 |
My girlfriend goes tru my phone at every slight opportunity, she checks my Whatsapp,Bbm,Facebook and text messages. I find this annoying, its not that am against her touching my phone, but waking up at night to find ur girl checking ur calls logs to see who u called and who called u is not a pretty sight, she went ahead to memorize my lock pattern to do all this, I dunno if am overreacting but am seriously considering quitting, but I want to know if anyone experiences this and how he or she is dealing with it |
Re: Trust Issues by Cutehector(m): 6:12pm On May 30, 2015 |
Quit bro.... |
Re: Trust Issues by buygala(m): 6:13pm On May 30, 2015 |
Get rid of her immediately A girl who is that insecure has underlying mental problems.... A bit of jealousy is good for any relationship.... But when it comes to the serial-killer kind of stalking, then the handshake has definitely gone beyond the elbow But another issue is.. Most girls who are as insecure as your girlfriend don't take breakups in good faith.. They tend to be destructive or even suicidal.... If op really wants to walk away from her, he had better do so tactfully in order to avoid stories that touch 1 Like |
Re: Trust Issues by Nobody: 6:14pm On May 30, 2015 |
Talk to her about it first. Make her understand how pissed off you are about that attitude, and if she keeps it up, you can quit. |
Re: Trust Issues by Tunnamania(m): 6:14pm On May 30, 2015 |
You gave her the impression to suspect u, check your doings. |
Re: Trust Issues by damseyl(f): 6:17pm On May 30, 2015 |
over Protective, lol. don't get upset, that's Just the kind of girl she is. its her personality. 1 Like |
Re: Trust Issues by lordizak(m): 6:18pm On May 30, 2015 |
for me its right. my babe dey off data when she dey with me, cos of chat, as android users I go say make I give her film, she no know say na hot spot things. Whatsapp messages go begin troop in, me on the other hand I draw a line as to how far I go with the opposite sex. my babe dey even ask guy to play truth or dare at 2 am with a guy on Whatsapp. trust is actually earned. |
Re: Trust Issues by elantraceey(f): 6:23pm On May 30, 2015 |
She just have an issue with trust probably from past relationship, try to talk to her about it at least in a polite way so she won't think you have something to hide. For you to consider quitting over a minor issue like this then I don't think you love her. 1 Like |
Re: Trust Issues by justmag(m): 7:14pm On May 30, 2015 |
The moment she thought she was "INSPECT YOUR GADGET"....you should have left her. If there is no trust then what do you really have?? |
Re: Trust Issues by charlesikhalea(m): 7:49pm On May 30, 2015 |
Blackett: Av spoken to her about countless times. she even accuses me of cheating just cos I asked her to go easy on my privacy. Before I drop this issue here bros I done tire, imagine she even checks my bank Alerts to know exactly how much I av in my account,as in there's a code u text for Gtbank to get ur balance, she does that too. |
Re: Trust Issues by charlesikhalea(m): 7:50pm On May 30, 2015 |
justmag: The last time I tried to quit no be small tears I see...... |
Re: Trust Issues by charlesikhalea(m): 7:52pm On May 30, 2015 |
elantraceey: Trust me, my love cannot stand all this poking and sneaking around. I have spoken to her jor, I just feel she has stuffs to hide that's why she's sneaking around thinking am like her too. |
Re: Trust Issues by Nobody: 7:54pm On May 30, 2015 |
charlesikhalea:Nah. She has crossed all lines. Dump that girl now. 1 Like |
Re: Trust Issues by charlesikhalea(m): 7:54pm On May 30, 2015 |
lordizak: I don't understand bro, u think its right for her to go tru all my chats and messages? |
Re: Trust Issues by charlesikhalea(m): 7:55pm On May 30, 2015 |
damseyl: Hmmmm |
Re: Trust Issues by charlesikhalea(m): 7:58pm On May 30, 2015 |
Tunnamania: Lolz ure funny bro, the only impression I gave is that I make a living by fixing and styling female hair. is that a wrong DOINGS? |
Re: Trust Issues by charlesikhalea(m): 8:01pm On May 30, 2015 |
buygala: Your point is very noted bro. I have had a little taste of this |
Re: Trust Issues by Tunnamania(m): 8:04pm On May 30, 2015 |
charlesikhalea:I said it,my supposition was right . Your occupation alone is enough reason for her insecurity, all u need to do is to assure her that she owns u. You can do that by using her pictures as dp on your bbm, WhatsApp, Facebook, even nairaland . |
Re: Trust Issues by charlesikhalea(m): 8:23pm On May 30, 2015 |
Tunnamania: Well I used to do that, until I noticed she never uses mine on her dp. |
Re: Trust Issues by lordizak(m): 9:25pm On May 30, 2015 |
charlesikhalea:I don't password my phone, I don't low my ringtone, I don't keep secrets from her. |
Re: Trust Issues by lordizak(m): 9:26pm On May 30, 2015 |
charlesikhalea:I don't password my phone, I don't low my ringtone, I don't keep secrets from her. how does trust work if one person is worried what the other might discover about them? I can't fathom why being uptight will you life partner. |
Re: Trust Issues by Tunnamania(m): 9:27pm On May 30, 2015 |
charlesikhalea:Now I don't know what else to say. |
Re: Trust Issues by charlesikhalea(m): 10:23pm On May 30, 2015 |
lordizak: Lolz, She ain't my life partner just yet, she's not the reason for locking the phone tho, I generally keep my phone locked cos its around lots of people daily. |
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