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Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by Flashh: 11:18am On May 31, 2015
baybeeboi:


and urs is even better, eeediot.
Nothing like these in the dictionary. Frustrated coward!

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Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by Nobody: 11:19am On May 31, 2015
Flashh:

I think you should focus of your English rather than tribalism. Idiot_

See you undecided you dey correct person English but your own get as he be,

It should be "focus on your English" not focus of your English
Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by Aystarz: 11:20am On May 31, 2015
myproperty:
OP this your write up is great. In where some people may object, you gave what the bible says and intends and also gave suggestion for those who may have already married in such condition. very good write up.
Thanks

It is indeed an insightful write up. I have learnt so much in just a short while; but as many truesays of the past, most people would most likely treat this piece with with kidgloves; many (especially the ladies) would rubbish it and call the op unprintable names; Well of course even the vain men around would do likewise. It's little wonder the marriage institution is in shambles, today.

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Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by dotna(m): 11:21am On May 31, 2015
EggovinMma:
Trash!
cool
This topic is one of the reason I believe the holy books have little or no regards for women.


as for regard to women, I understand the Scripture actually instructed that Men should love their wives with ultimate sacrifice just as Christ love the Church
Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by AreaFada2: 11:23am On May 31, 2015
What I see is a guy with Victorian mentality.

The Victorians did all kind of "atrocities", adultery, fornication and more. But went to church regularly and did all under veil and flowing gowns.
Same atrocities are going on in churches now, it's all just holier than though hogwash. Majority are pretenders. What you need is Grace of God and faith.

Broad is the way that leads to destruction. Matthew 7: 13-14.
For the time is come judgement must begin in the house of God. 1 Peter 4:17

If you go by this your list, just join your nearest monastery. But while you're there, you're free to hammer adult men, but please don't touch the kids. cheesy

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Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by baybeeboi: 11:23am On May 31, 2015
Flashh:
Nothing like these in the dictionary. Frustrated coward!
last I checked the bolded is the plural of ''this'' . Now stop embarrasing yourself, coward!
Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by viktor01(m): 11:23am On May 31, 2015
nice piece op, kip it up and may God help us all

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Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by bigiyaro(m): 11:24am On May 31, 2015
@op, well done, ur write up is notin bt d perfect truth though i somewat disagree with ur point in marrin an older woman.i've witnessed were d woman is older bt d man is very much older in spiritual tins n he very much leads his family very vibrantly in all spheres of family life.

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Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by Flashh: 11:26am On May 31, 2015
baybeeboi:


last I checked the bolded is the plural of ''this'' .
Now stop embarrasing yourself, coward!
Are you this dumb?

"These" for two words, plural.

"Embarrassing" not "embarrasing"

You need to go to library and brush up ⬆ your ignorance!

Dumb ass_

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Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by freecocoa(f): 11:27am On May 31, 2015
Like any sane woman would want to marry a man who reasons this way.

Imagine, a divorcee, a career woman, even an older woman, aren't you just the perfect man OP, mschew.

Nonsense and condiments.

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Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by freecocoa(f): 11:31am On May 31, 2015
RedBenson:
Op, nice one there.

@ No. 4: The Feminist, we seem to have so much of this type of ladies these days especially by the traits they show on this forum. Sophyrocks, freecocoa, cococandy, khia come to mind and these are women either grudgingly married or still looking for a man to marry. TheSonOfMark, come check out how your feminist sisters will come defend theirselves here.
Come stop mentioning me in your rubbish, I never told you I was looking for a christian man to marry, taking a look at the list your fellow christian man came up with, I'd rather die a virgin than have anything to do with a man who reasons this way, let alone marry him.

I am not a christian btw, so mind your imbecilic self.

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Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by Nobody: 11:33am On May 31, 2015
olasmith10:
Simply means don't marry any woman at all..

on your own. The op is clear and definite about the message. Avoid any complication. Better stil lipsrsealed
Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by olasmith10(m): 11:34am On May 31, 2015
Btruth:
nope! Just a guideline to a good marriage life nii. Think wisely.

yea, of course I know, buh av u ever sat down to evaluate the nature of our modern day woman..even religiously.. der r certain tins dat don't add up dis days..tins v really changed.
Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by braine(m): 11:34am On May 31, 2015
SU Things. cheesy
Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by Ayoolajumoke(f): 11:37am On May 31, 2015
baybeeboi:


you mean Girls like Kemi and Fumi?

No, girls like Amaka and chirinda undecided

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Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by 2CatWoman: 11:37am On May 31, 2015
3/10 grin grin
Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by Nobody: 11:38am On May 31, 2015
Missfavourblog:
good one happy sunday

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Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by Btruth: 11:39am On May 31, 2015
olasmith10:


yea, of course I know, buh av u ever sat down to evaluate the nature of our modern day woman..even religiously.. der r certain tins dat don't add up dis days..tins v really changed.
Yes Ola, I really do understand that. Well, for me too, I did not really agree with the OP points.
Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by baybeeboi: 11:42am On May 31, 2015
Flashh:
Are you this dumb?
"These" for two words, plural.
"Embarrassing" not "embarrasing"
You need to go to library and brush up ⬆ your ignorance!
Dumb ass_
this is where i leave you to ur blunders.
Please, please....be sure you have the rest of your sunday a blunder free one.
Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by ihatesycophant(m): 11:42am On May 31, 2015
Mr. Man, I fault this number 3. Spiritual leadership or leadership is never a function of age neither growth. If by age many pastors today will not be one because they have many aged men in their churches. In the whole Bible no where in the scripture God prescribe age limit for spouses. Total submission to the grace of God is what individuals required to have a good and submissive spouses that can be translated to home. I've seen a wild young woman and also a wild old woman in many family setup.
Mr.Man are you aware that there are prophetesses in the Bible and what is their function. Let me direct you to a portion in the Bible that even told us what this woman called Anna and what she was doing in the temple day-night. Read through this:

36 And there was one Anna, a prophetess, the daughter of Phanuel, of the tribe of Aser: she * was of a great * age * , and had lived with an husband seven years from her virginity;
37 And she was a widow of about fourscore and four years, which departed not from the temple, but served God with fastings and prayers night and day.

Now, going through the portion of the scripture you quoted, Paul was able to give the condition that will save the woman to have access to pulpit which was stated in verse 15 as thus:

1 Timothy 2:15New International Version (NIV)

15 But women[a] will be saved through childbearing—if they continue in faith, love and holiness with propriety.
Have you seen their saving grace. The four concepts saved a woman to have access to pulpit and can lead because the Bible cannot contradict itself since God recognises the place of prophetess as seen in the book of Luke quoted.

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Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by holyokoto(m): 11:43am On May 31, 2015
The Moses law against inter marriage is pure as a result of Racism according to the Sanhedrin rites.
Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by ZAMZINE(m): 11:44am On May 31, 2015
bushdoc9919:
I am afraid I disagree with the older woman reason. Being the spiritual leader has nothing to do with age.....or would Timothy have been a leader of the(early) church?

Also disagree with the career driven woman.While I believe that housewife is important.....we do need more ladies in the workplace. The problem really is that laws governing the workplace do not favor mothers....and something needs to be done about that.

I am for conservative dressing....but I must also point out that conservative dressing ideas vary from place to place.Dress in a way that glorifies God...which means asking God for guidance.

The truth is all this reason not to marry this or that because of this or that SIMPLY GOES AGAINST WHAT CHRIST STANDS FOR, Which is....LOVE.
Even Moses did not include any of this in the 10 commandments neither neither did JESUS CHRIST mention any as a criteria for marriage. Instead OP just kack for one corner formulate him own 10 COMMANDMENTS then come use Bible back am up. All the women in this world share a bit from this your 10 COMMANDMENTS OP.
Over do DEY kill easily, but it's always hidden as a good virture to its victim.

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Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by baybeeboi: 11:45am On May 31, 2015
Ayoolajumoke:

No, girls like Amaka and chirinda undecided

oh!
you mean girls like Bumi, Kemi, Fumi, Jumoke, Amaka, Chirinda? . That guy was just all about y'all.
Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by Flashh: 11:45am On May 31, 2015
baybeeboi:


this is where i leave you to ur blunders.

Please, please....be sure you have the rest of your sunday a blunder free one.
I am schooling and brushing up your ignorance... How do you feel?

Make use of your empty skull when next you wanna quote me.

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Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by olasmith10(m): 11:49am On May 31, 2015
Btruth:
Yes Ola, I really do understand that. Well, for me too, I did not really agree with the OP points.


I think we should just pray to God for guidance.. der are some ladies dat looks wrong buh deh might just be d best for u, while der are some dat ll appear like d angel in heaven, and later, dier attitude will be an eye sore..I once met a pastor dat told me he married a young lady in his church because she can pray nd fast very well..hell was let loose on d eve of dier wedding, a little quarrel and d said Lady landed a hot slap on d pastor.. it tuk d intervention of fellow men of God dat persuaded d pastor to continue with d wedding plans.. Buh truh is, today, deh rnt togeda...

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Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by Tee2902(m): 11:52am On May 31, 2015
Nice one. Very interesting...!
Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by Nobody: 11:55am On May 31, 2015
Thanks, you are right. I have divorced my wife. all these u stated was her.

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Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by mickel2223(m): 11:59am On May 31, 2015
see me see deeper life rules n regulations. marriage to the op should be boring.
Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by zeongeon: 12:00pm On May 31, 2015
OP nice write up, all you wrote down is the truth..u see unbelievers, feminist, career first women have ruined so many marriages.

Its better the men listen to OP so that u don't regret marriage for a bad marriage can b d worst mistake anyone can make.

And as for pple have problems with the older women point u can as well try marrying an old layer and see how far.

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Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by Petra23(f): 12:02pm On May 31, 2015
Okay i yaf gone through dah list...now single guys should w8 till they meet a perfect lady.
Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by lezz(m): 12:02pm On May 31, 2015
BarryX:
OP, you really have succeeded in making some feminist testosterone genes erect for some very potent religious reasons. grin

They will come smoking with hot bile after they put off the sunday service cloak
Be expectant.

I'm a firm believer in women being women in it's entirety
grin and I shall be here to bash those Godless waste of womanhood back to the sewage they come from.
Re: 10 Women A Christian Man Should Avoid When Considering Marriage by osile2012: 12:07pm On May 31, 2015
Op i must commend your effort for writting this piece, but i don't agree with most. And i will advice you not to judge so that you are not judged.

First:- You talked about age and marrying an older woman. You are so wrong in that statement, When 2 people marry the become one before GOD and age means nothing.

secondly:- You talked about divorcee, answer these questions according to these scenarios.

An african man travels abroad, meet a christian lady in a church, they date and marry. After a few years of marriage the man gets his citizenship and decides to leave the lady. Should she remain without a man for the rest of her life, knowing the man is never coming back and probly has married someone else?

A man who has been abroad for a while, comes back to Nigeria meets a young girl and they start dating. He takes care of her and family while he is abroad. Finally comes home and they marry. He gets her pregnant . And after 5yrs he is not coming back and says he is not interested in the marriage again he just wants the child. Should the young girl remain single forever since the man is no longer interested?

I believe all those who married for paper are going to hell .Because whoever they marry later, they are committing adultery and children that come from the next marriage r born from adultery?

What of a person who is married abroad and one day, his foreign wife decides she does not want the marriage anymore and decides to divorce the man. Should the guy remain single since divorce is not acceptable ?

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