adonismuller:
Rubbish.....you just sit down and start twisting the bible...

I can marry who ever I want so far I love the person and she aint married to someone els!

mystiqueDZ:
[right][/right]Balderdash!!!!!!!!!

1. THE UNBELIEVR:
Who is an unbeliever? The lady that do not believe your own church doctrine?The one that belives in Allah or just that agnostic/theist lady?
2.THE DIVORCEE:
Please do answer me dear one...Would you love for your sister to have a second chance at marriage if God forbid the first one was a disaster?
3. OLDER WOMAN:
By older what do you mean? Months older,years,decades?if you meet a loving soul who is ready to respect you et al,it is not ideal because she is few years older?
4.FEMINIST: I wouldn't digress on this one but am very sure you do not want a yes sir,yes sir lady.......
5. IMMODEST DRESSER:
Hmm no right thinking lady would not cover herself.....
6. GOSSIPER:
Please do tell....how do you know a lady who gossips?
7: CHILD AVOIDER:
I love kids so I don't know how a woman wouldn't want one or more..but what if the man do not want kids as well....is it ideal/ christlike?
8.WANDERLUSTER:
Hmmm you got me there.......
9.CAREER FIRST:
A real woman balances her family and work....
10. DEVOTION LESS:
If I forget to read my daily manna every morning....does it mean am not devoted?

The interesting thing about the bible – like the constitution – is that you can use it to justify just about anything if you put your mind to it. Pick a little bit here, paste a little bit there, and voila! You have your own doctrine......

adonismuller:
Rubbish.....you just sit down and start twisting the bible...

I can marry who ever I want so far I love the person and she aint married to someone els!

freecocoa:
Like any sane woman would want to marry a man who reasons this way.

Imagine, a divorcee, a career woman, even an older woman, aren't you just the perfect man OP, mschew.

Nonsense and condiments.

freecocoa:
Come stop mentioning me in your rubbish, I never told you I was looking for a christian man to marry, taking a look at the list your fellow christian man came up with, I'd rather die a virgin than have anything to do with a man who reasons this way, let alone marry him.

I am not a christian btw, so mind your imbecilic self.

EggovinMma:
Trash!

This topic is one of the reason I believe the holy books have little or no regards for women.

streetzdreamz:
Y'al turns the bible upside down just to go alongside with your personal convictions, as rightly said by someone earlier its just like the constitution! Ur points are valid to some extent, but the divorcee,older woman,childbirth points are your personal believes not what d bible says,going further will sound as though am talking to a wall,but you pple need to stop tagging ur turts as what the bible says.....

philiancoop:

For Christian Men

osile2012:
Op i must commend your effort for writting this piece, but i don't agree with most. And i will advice you not to judge so that you are not judged.

First:- You talked about age and marrying an older woman. You are so wrong in that statement, When 2 people marry the become one before GOD and age means nothing.

secondly:- You talked about divorcee, answer these questions according to these scenarios.

An african man travels abroad, meet a christian lady in a church, they date and marry. After a few years of marriage the man gets his citizenship and decides to leave the lady. Should she remain without a man for the rest of her life, knowing the man is never coming back and probly has married someone else?

A man who has been abroad for a while, comes back to Nigeria meets a young girl and they start dating. He takes care of her and family while he is abroad. Finally comes home and they marry. He gets her pregnant . And after 5yrs he is not coming back and says he is not interested in the marriage again he just wants the child. Should the young girl remain single forever since the man is no longer interested?

I believe all those who married for paper are going to hell .Because whoever they marry later, they are committing adultery and children that come from the next marriage r born from adultery?

What of a person who is married abroad and one day, his foreign wife decides she does not want the marriage anymore and decides to divorce the man. Should the guy remain single since divorce is not acceptable ?

Toks2008:


[b]Free cocoa get this straight. I have been married before and i know exactly what the institution feels like.

Please advice any lady or guy you know to find out very well about the past marriage of a divorcee who wants to start an affair with them because once a divorcee most times is always a divorce especially if a man divorcees his wife for any other reason asides sexual infidelity or if the lady divorcees the man asides UNREPENTANT ARBITRARY WIFE BATTERING and not because of irreconcilable differences or sexual infidelity.

Only immature ladies divorce their hubby because of sexual infidelity except they will never get married a gain or even be with any other man because 98% of men will cheat on their wives.

As for the career part please note that some women have left their marriage because of this. My ex practically told me to give her a break because she wants to pursue a career and i told her point blank that except she is planning to climb the career ladder by been slutty,i see no reason why any sane lady should leave her marriage to build a career no matter what especially when the man is not topping her from doing so.

When it comes to age, we all say age is nothing but a number but please lets be realistic, its not so easy to be in a relationship or marriage with a woman older than you because a man should be the head in the real sense and any form of alteration may only be coped with but will not naturalkly get balanced but nevertheless i dont see the age thing as a factor but the first two explained above holds water.[/b]

somegirl1:
2 and 3 are potentially conflicting points. If a woman shouldn't marry a younger man, at a certain age when most men older than her are married, she'd have to set her hope on the widower or the divorcee.

Now the divorcee's ex-wife, who through no fault of her own became the divorced woman, does not deserve to find love?

EggovinMma:
Trash!

This topic is one of the reason I believe the holy books have little or no regards for women.

Viciyus:


OK, answer my question,

1.if God tell you make you marry Prostitute, you go marry?


2. Can you marry a single mother?

MrDojo:


Sori sir God told who to marry a prostitute..?

freecocoa:
I don't see how you and the OP are saying the same thing about divorcees, does the fact that some divorcees are bad make all bad? So a woman who divorced her hubby for abuse or infidelity is automatically doomed to life alone?

I agree with you that career shouldn't take the place of your partner but that doesn't mean your ex was wrong to ask for a break, she probably noticed, with her pursuing the career, she couldn't be all you needed and decided to choose, I don't see the crime in that, atleast she was honest enough to let you know, than just string you along till you get frustrated.

Age has little or nothing(in some cases) to do with maturity, like there are no older men who behave like kids, vice versa? Leave the head talk alone please, age doesn't earn you respect in a healthy relationship, your ability to handle things and personality in general, earn you spots. You don't expect me to worship you simply because you are older, I respect people because they are deserving of it, which is what it should be.

Toks2008:


You are getting it twisted.

I can marry a divorcee a million times over but i will make sure i find out her reason for leaving the first marriage.

If its because of sexual infidelity i will make her understand that i don't plan to cheat on her but most men will cheat on their wives or g friends no matter how sexy the lady might be but i will marry her because she has a fairly reasonable ground for divorce.

I will also marry a divorcee whose ex turned into a punching bag FOR NO JUST CAUSE because some women can make an angel beat the hell outta them with their manner-less nature.

I will marry a divorcee whose hubby threw out for no just cause after finding out that it was actually for no just cause.

Asides from all these facts, i will be committing adultery if i marry any divorced lady for any other reasons.

freecocoa:
And you didn't see where I was called to the thread abi? Amebo.

majekdom2:
hosea... read from hosea 1 : 1-10. Apparently, many christains have not indepth knowledge of the scriptures.

liquidmetall:







So what are u going to about it mydear?

Throw the holybook away?

Ww have no choice than to adhere to it

Remember this article is for people that believe in God and what is written in the holy books





Yours faithfully
The liquidmetal

RedBenson:


I said it and she sure showed up with to defend her feminism. U go dey dia tey b4 u go see man wey go gree marry u. U think men think differently with it comes to issue of women and perhaps marriage? Every man wants to exercise authority over a woman and if you think there'll be a man out there who wouldnt mind you becoming the "authority exerciser" in the marriage, then extend your menopause to 60s or 70s cos even at 50s, you wont find such a man. Dont say i didnt tell you. Advice: keep your feminism to yourself or better still, throw it into a river and be a woman of which a man would want to have something doing with (except you're just showing opposite of your real life offline).

liquidmetall:






.you could have ignored them

freecocoa:
I have choices to make, ignore or reply, I chose to reply, your point is?