I have a relationship for 2 years now. but completely wrecked me because I have believed I would be with this girl forever. She used to talk about marriage, and at the time she probably meant it. I created a future

in my imagination we were a happy couple with a passionate romance and an exciting social life. I thought about what our kids might look like. All this thinking and fantasizing built up a strong network of neural pathways in my brain. As far as my nervous system was concerned, I was already married to her.Now I found out she doesn't care about my feelings anymore,whenever I tell her I want to see her she complains that all I know is myself,that I won't let her study,She doesn't call me like before anymore,sometimes her phone is off if i asked why was the phone off she will tell me her phone is bad.Sometime ago I found out she was having another phone number which Ididn't know about me,but I forgave after I got to know.Now my dreams and ideas seemed ridiculous. Added to all my lovely future fantasies is now huge negative feeling. The meaning of the pictures in my head is flipping. As I lay awake going over and over why this is happening, I'm reinforcing how sad I feel and what a loser I must be. I feel terrible, and now even worse because I don't know if the feeling would ever end.

Last week I said to myself, “This is ridiculous! I've got to stop!” But her thoughts wouldn't stop. I don't want to think about her, but I can't help it. I know that Im not in charge of my own brain. I'm powerless while right now. This is what I've led me eventually into writing this. I want to get my mind on my side, instead of having it keep me awake at night.I feel loss and pain.My normal ways of thinking about the world are disrupted.My balance is upset. Please tell me how to move on I can't take this anymore.

Time will heal your pain.

Helpmeout:

I have a relationship for 2 years now. but completely wrecked me because I have believed I would be with this girl forever. She used to talk about marriage, and at the time she probably meant it. I created a future

in my imagination we were a happy couple with a passionate romance and an exciting social life. I thought about what our kids might look like. All this thinking and fantasizing built up a strong network of neural pathways in my brain. As far as my nervous system was concerned, I was already married to her.Now I found out she doesn't care about my feelings anymore,whenever I tell her I want to see her she complains that all I know is myself,that I won't let her study,She doesn't call me like before anymore,sometimes her phone is off if i asked why was the phone off she will tell me her phone is bad.Sometime ago I found out she was having another phone number which Ididn't know about me,but I forgave after I got to know.Now my dreams and ideas seemed ridiculous. Added to all my lovely future fantasies is now huge negative feeling. The meaning of the pictures in my head is flipping. As I lay awake going over and over why this is happening, I'm reinforcing how sad I feel and what a loser I must be. I feel terrible, and now even worse because I don't know if the feeling would ever end.

Last week I said to myself, “This is ridiculous! I've got to stop!” But her thoughts wouldn't stop. I don't want to think about her, but I can't help it. I know that Im not in charge of my own brain. I'm powerless while right now. This is what I've led me eventually into writing this. I want to get my mind on my side, instead of having it keep me awake at night.I feel loss and pain.My normal ways of thinking about the world are disrupted.My balance is upset. Please tell me how to move on I can't take this anymore.

Drink a bottle of Henney and go shag a lesbian.

RichyBlacK:

Time will heal your pain.

exactly

HEY loverboy, there are many decent girls out there y kill urself. common rise up and be a man she doesnt luv u no be end of the world abi u like uselu psychia? let go man , am available if u care am kool n decent u know.

I can't sleep. in a lot of pains

@ Helpmeout

Eyah. . .it really is unfortunate oo. . .u think maybe u should try therapy??

Cos its like this is real real bad oo!!

Just a suggestion. . . .

Thanks for your concern am trying my best to get over it. I've not slept all night fully awake

My guy, believe me you, no1 can ever give you a strategical advise on what to do to get over it, such heartbreaks are always a timely healer. It might take you two months depending on your emotional current. Once you get over it, you can face tomorrow and move on to getting another love if you are capable of taking a risk of LOVE.

I have been heart broken so many times, but the more I get, the more im stronger to face more that will come. God be with you!!

I wont bother you with how to get over this break up because you will surely wake up.
The part i dont understand is how you ever allowed it to get this bad
I cant fathom
She had a line that you never knew about and you were still doing romeo
That was enough signal
We need to be sensitive to every single detail in our relationships
You dont need a lovedoctor to tell you that love is going cold
The signs are always there
I dont understand heartbreaks cos i have never experienced it
I always would have moved on before the break up
No woman is worth dying for
You need to learn your lessons and move on
You are the only one that can help yourself
Try not to be alone hang around people
Wishing you the very best

@poster


i feel ur pain
i really do understand what u are going thru
its very painful especially when u already have a picture of what ur lives would be togeda
but trust me time would heal d wounds
just look 4 a way to develop urself, upgrade urself, engage ur self with more social activities
tell urself dat she dosent deserve u, during d day it might be easy 4 u to get ur mind off her
but i can understand dat at nite, it wld be very difficult becos it wld just be u and ur thoughts, So i wld suggest u take sleeping pills but make sure u dont get addicted sha!!!
My dear once u urself can be convinced dat she dosent deserve u I promise u wld get over it with time.

She wld definitely regret her actions.
Wish u all the best.

LIMUEL:

We need to be sensitive to every single detail in our relationships
The signs are always there

true talk once u see d signs d best tin wld be to move on

No woman is worth dying for

just d same way no man is worth dying for


sooo poster

dust urself up
and try to 4get everytin abt her
thank God dat dis happened now
u dont know what God has done 4 u
becos like dey say a broken relationship is far beta dan a broken marriage

@ Limuel

True talk!

@ poster

Trying to get over her will only worsen tinz 4 u. Just let her fade with the passing days. Try being wit ppl most of the time. . .

@ Limuel

True talk!

@ poster

Trying to get over her will only worsen tinz 4 u. Just let her fade with the passing days. Try being wit ppl most of the time. . .

There's a saying that when you love someone, don't expect that person to love you the same way you love him or her. Am sorry but you have to accept your faith; your beloved sweetheart has gotten another lover and you my dear should move on with your life; don't just sit there crying over a girl who doesn't even give a damm about how you feel.

Have you ever asked yourself if she knows what you're passing through because of her? If you starve yourself from now till eternity, does she care? My dear, you have to move on; life isn't one smooth road; there are gallops, pot holes and even pits but the most important thing is that you most strive achieve your goal so your life won't be a waste.

So my dear, move on; e nu go?

Should he move on to u?

Things like this are bound to occur. relax

patwhizkid:


Should he move on to u?

If he can pay my bills, then yes

Like a lot of people nhave said its only time that can heal your pain.

Meanwhile concentrate on other things e.g your career, couldd be that proffessional exam you've always want to write ( this is the time to start preparing for it, believe me it will help you in getting over her real quick).

Just take it easy, we all have gone will go thru this one time or the other.

argent:

Like a lot of people nhave said its only time that can heal your pain.

Meanwhile concentrate on other things e.g your career, couldd be that proffessional exam you've always want to write ( this is the time to start preparing for it, believe me it will help you in getting over her real quick).

Just take it easy, we all have gone will go thru this one time or the other.

No OOO, Dnt take anything professional into aspect now, you'll still end up thinking about her which will eventually lead you not to be focused. Social engagements can still be best prescribed as what can help you before you get into anythng professional. Hang out with ur friends, go to the movies, dnt listen to love songs e . t. c

My Friend;

Its bound to happen, dont be disturbed, but if i were in your shoes i will rejoice because it happened at the cappointed time, if it had happened after your marriage what would you have said ?

she is not just the woman for for take your time and you will get your perfect woman

congrate !!!!!!!!!

Eya! Sorry!