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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by onegig(m): 3:37pm On Jun 03, 2015
Aren't you guys ever tired of this back and forth argument. Someone has an issue she needs help with. Respond to her post , give whatever advise and move on. Arguing on such things only confuse the op the more.

No one needs your thesis on who cheats most and why people cheat. You can always open numerous thread as regards that.

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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by 5minsmadness: 3:39pm On Jun 03, 2015
freecocoa:
She's supposed to have a part in it? I know you didn't ask me but I'll assume it's just a civil conversation, so you won't mind if I cut in.

A man who will cheat, will cheat because he decided to, he made a choice.
Have I ever been uncivil to you? grin

That statement doesn't make sense. Saying A MAN WHO WILL CHEAT WILL CHEAT is like saying its inevitable, no matter what the woman or anyone else does. A man has a choice whether to cheat or not, and such choices are influenced by his immediate environment(wealth, poverty, time, availability, home condusiveness)

So a man who may want to cheat can be influenced by outside factors and inner self control not to do so.

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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by SAMBARRY: 3:40pm On Jun 03, 2015
Ruth abokoku die with him na. Shebi na your cross, carry am on your head like cross of calvary till you start depending on drugs to suppress your hiv.



Some of your mates wey tow your line dey Victoria garden cemetery. After 2 years remembrance they're history

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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by SAMBARRY: 3:45pm On Jun 03, 2015
Ahen as I was saying you said you want to commit suicide
there're many ways to die but let me give you theffastest one. Lock all the windows and doors in the middle of the night let's say like 2am so that it won't be easy for anyone to come to your aid then when your husband is asleep pour fuel all over the floor then set the house ablaze. When you and your husband die you people can continue your relationship in hell. He no go see anybody to cheat with


next

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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by cococandy(f): 3:47pm On Jun 03, 2015
5minsmadness:


What do you mean by the bolded?
Are u saying there is no reason why the man cheats?
Are u saying it's genetic or something?
You make it sound like she had no control over the matter, like even the man has no control over the matter, 'a man that will cheat will cheat' what does that even mean?
yes she has no control over it.

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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by freecocoa(f): 3:48pm On Jun 03, 2015
5minsmadness:

Have I ever been uncivil to you? grin

That statement doesn't make sense. Saying A MAN WHO WILL CHEAT WILL CHEAT is like saying its inevitable, no matter what the woman or anyone else does. A man has a choice whether to cheat or not, and such choices are influenced by his immediate environment(wealth, poverty, time, availability, home condusiveness)

So a man who may want to cheat can be influenced by outside factors and inner self control not to do so.
You know, I don't even remember but one can't be too careful.grin

Well, I think it just means that, a man who wants to cheat, goes ahead to do it, regardless of what and that's what it is, doesn't matter what the woman or anyone else does.

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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 3:53pm On Jun 03, 2015
You feel hurt but to attempt suicide because your husband cheated on you is some major over reaction as if this man is your life you don't seem very balanced to me i feel you need help. You really need to take care of your mind.

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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 4:01pm On Jun 03, 2015
The last time you could swear with your life that he wasn't cheating on you.
You have parents that can help you from the looming danger but you prefare steps to enduring a cheating husband so that you can continue worshipping a man and his family that dont care whether you or your family exist. Infact you have began googling some and hoping/advicing he uses condom.
You prefare to manage a situation that will take you without your children to an abroad of no return instead of seeking ways to salvage them even if it means absconding with them to the abroad you came from. Keep decieving yourself you are staying for your kids and not of your steadily eroding esteem.
This is your second near death experience because of that man, obviously you are capable of bracing a third.
The only reason you are catching the next breath is for your man to live, when you find a more important one, you will know what to do.

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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Setaje(f): 4:20pm On Jun 03, 2015
First of all. Like I learnt so late in life that " life is not fair and it's just one big gamble. Op u made a statement that u have been a good girl and u don't deserve this. Even virgins say this later in life. This is one problem good girls have. You expect a reaction this way because your actions have been good forgetting that even sweet jesus was betrayed. Now I understand that the pain u feel when u are actually paying for a sin is bearable compared to the pain u feel when u no nothing about it.


Take heart. Don't stop being good. Be good for the sake of God and your kids. Forgive your husband. At least he acknowledged his wrong. Develop a strong heart because I don't no of any young man close to a sitting governor that doesn't get themselves involved in orgies and sex! The most important thing, protect yourself. If u feel u cannot cope, cheating on him might calm u down but it's a temporal solution to a big problem. Pele

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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Ayoswit(f): 4:21pm On Jun 03, 2015
Some men are wicked sha. My dear stay alive 4 ur kids

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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 4:22pm On Jun 03, 2015
You want to kill yourself because of a cheating husband? Someone you can talk to and he will decide not to ever cheat again...and if he continues to cheat, you make sure you protect yourself from HIV/Aids the best way you can...
You can even leave him if you can't find a place in your heart to forgive him, but don't kill yourself please.

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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by softnipples(f): 4:23pm On Jun 03, 2015
What are you waiting for? undecided
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by ionsman: 4:24pm On Jun 03, 2015
chowlade:
Do it back to him. dont let him have a clue dat u did it

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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by An2elect2(f): 4:25pm On Jun 03, 2015
Am yet to see what suicide has solved.

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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by elohorayodele: 4:25pm On Jun 03, 2015
no man is worth dying for, if you kill yourself you will render your kids motherless and the cheating donkey will marry another woman sharparly

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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 4:25pm On Jun 03, 2015
Get tested.

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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 4:26pm On Jun 03, 2015
An2elect2:
Am yet to see what suicide has solved.

It would stop the pain...

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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by jeje123(m): 4:26pm On Jun 03, 2015
Kill urself @ ur own risk
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by chi4ik4(m): 4:28pm On Jun 03, 2015
make she kill herself na, who cares? mmmmtch
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by mannyU: 4:28pm On Jun 03, 2015
That's tiptop bad what he did but...


Neva an excuse 2 kill yaself!
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by domopps(m): 4:28pm On Jun 03, 2015
Then tell her to welcome to my world just found out my Gf cheated on me too!

Stumbled on their secret love making chart on her phone! Don't even no what to do #the fool telling her his imaging the d day they did it and still wants that kind of moment again with her!




Cheeeeeers

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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by owolawitola(f): 4:28pm On Jun 03, 2015
This is a terrible advice. She would just feel worse.
chowlade:
Do it back to him. dont let him have a clue dat u did it
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by victorazy(m): 4:28pm On Jun 03, 2015
chowlade:
Do it back to him. dont let him have a clue dat u did it

Oya na! No be she go pack her thing back to her parents house with shame? grin
This is men's world, bear it and pray over it.
"Two wrongs don't make right"
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by tonychristopher: 4:29pm On Jun 03, 2015
make she kill herself..make e dey easy for thje man to acarry more women
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Joey82(m): 4:29pm On Jun 03, 2015
@OP

looks like u are a learner.
in Nigeria, there is no way you will have ur husband all to urself if he's a politician or has anything to do with politics.
If him tell u say him be born again, tell am say na lie.
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by ryd3(m): 4:29pm On Jun 03, 2015
Before some idiots come and start commenting rubbish, please note that this is one of the most mature comments Ive seen on NL ever! Una craze people fit start de comment
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by goshen26: 4:29pm On Jun 03, 2015
chowlade:
Do it back to him. dont let him have a clue dat u did it


Will cutting of head stop the headache? Smh
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by ignis: 4:31pm On Jun 03, 2015
what has she done if she kills herself?
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by elohorayodele: 4:31pm On Jun 03, 2015
chowlade:
Do it back to him. dont let him have a clue dat u did it

what tribe are you again?
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by dljbd1(m): 4:31pm On Jun 03, 2015
chowlade:
Do it back to him. dont let him have a clue dat u did it
You know...I 'liked' your pix cos of a matured comment you made on a thread some days ago. But with this comment you just made, I've 'unliked' it. angry
You've displayed no sense of maturity.

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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 4:32pm On Jun 03, 2015
For lasting matrimonial peace,don't snoop into your spouse phone. Please never attempt suicide over unimportant issues.
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by InvertedHammer: 4:33pm On Jun 03, 2015
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Husband cheats on you...You kill yourself.

Husband 2. You 0.

Go back to your job when ready. Live for your kids.
Stay away from your husband. Perhaps by the time he realizes his mistakes, it will be too late. Every challenge we meet on the way provides us with a gateway to something greater. The only person with the key to your life is you.
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