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When I was a child,I see ladies with engagement ring and I am like why did she.....

agarawu23:
its important if the guy is truly ready not just some hustling guys holding down ladies with engagement rings

agarawu23:
its important if the guy is truly ready not just some hustling guys holding down ladies with engagement rings

6month is OK.
you can't hold engagement ring for years, if the guy isn't ready to settle down, he should continent his bf & gf game

Cirphrank:
May God not let them meet Lord Of The Rings. Lol, una go wait tire, and I wrote una, cos, he'd have engaged many others too.

ammyluv2002:
Agreed!

agarawu23:
oh!!! seems we are now reasoning together this days no more argument

morning

krall3:
now that you are no longer a child what are you like when you see them wearing the rings?

agarawu23:
its important if the guy is truly ready not just some hustling guys holding down ladies with engagement rings

6month is OK.
you can't hold engagement ring for years, if the guy isn't ready to settle down, he should continue his bf & gf game

Afrok:
Well when u see genuine engagement rings on people u'll know, forget abt those things u see on the fingers of some ladies that don't even have boyfriends not to talk of fiance, they're wearing it just to belong.

dharay99:

uhm maybe.

#btw...mehn
see 0p mouth for her dp.

Eseohe23:
Yea I agree cos ladies wear fashion ring these days.....but I know an engagement ring when I see one.

Whosoever that wears a ring to "belong"is on a long thing and she's deceiving herself.

Eseohe23:
Thanks for your answer..

If he's truly ready why not go for marriage instead of the engagement?

I have seen a lady with engagement ring for 4yrs(donno if she's lord of the rings o)

LadyBoss1:
Op
I think yes you have to get engaged first then marriage .. Hence y married couples wear two rings (wife)
Also engagement can even be merged with introduction.
It can be personal btw both coup,es or they can announce it to friends, family n have a party.

But there is no time frame, some ppl stay engaged for one year , 2,3 some months before they get married. Lol hope this helps

agarawu23:
4years is too much.
Another thing is you ladies, you want a guy to be fully loaded before you guys wed. You guys don't wanna hustle with any guy unless you see the already made guys. The already made guys didn't became rich overnight if their parents aren't rich.
Some guys are just scared to face marriage palava with their little cash that's why they end up engaging a lady for years though some guys are not just serious.

Eseohe23:

LadyBoss1:
4 years is not too much
If there is guarantee he will marry some guys just take a lil longer before they sign dotted line

agarawu23:
4years is too much.
Another thing is you ladies, you want a guy to be fully loaded before you guys wed. You guys don't wanna hustle with any guy unless you see the already made guys. The already made guys didn't became rich overnight if their parents aren't rich.
Some guys are just scared to face marriage palava with their little cash that's why they end up engaging a lady for years though some guys are not just serious.

mayorkyzo:
I think an engagement ring should be given to a girl a few months to the wedding..when concrete plans are in place for the wedding..not giving a lady a ring to hold her down for years...

Eseohe23:
Ehn! For a lady to have been engaged to the guyfo 4yrs,think they've been throuh so many things together.so the idea of not hustling with him shouldn't be there.

dharay99:

lolz,
Am i gonna get beaten for dat?

Eseohe23:
Nah you won't

so...y d bent face

agarawu23:
hmmmmm
If marriage can break, what does it take engagement to crash? ladies out there aren't ready to soak garri with you and that's the fact. the few ones are scarce like the fuel scarcity.
if a lady can endure 4years engagement without pressure from friends & family, definitely she is a teen because 4 years is just too long..

AgapeCharis:
Not all relationships lead to marriage. However, when one decides to take his relationship further to marriage, it's paramount for both party to come together and assure themselves of committing to make it work. That's why it's called ENGAGEment.

This is where many persons miss it. Engagement is not a time to see if you guys are compatible. What were you doing all the while you were dating? That period of engagement is a period of planning and preparation(financially, spiritually and otherwise). Though I'm not a fan of long engagement, 6 months is an inadequate time frame for effective and solid preparation. It depends largely on what their relationship was like before the engagement though.

That'll be all for now. So, engagement is not overrated.