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misssclassy:
[color=#000050]I have made my opinion known. Take it or leave it. That's your fvcking business.
Try and contribute meaningfully instead of going around this section perpetuating childish attitude with people that you are old enough to give birth to. [/color]

dharay99:

dear, plz ignore dat iconic daftard who
has been tagged "madness" ryt from child birth.
Plz jez ignore d lame goat.

prettythicksme:
Shut ur stinking mouth up!!i was only kidding with dharay and ur immature minds think something else(u and missclassy)fools!!

MORNDEW:
feminism, one of the reasons for high rate of divorce this days. You sound like women are suppose to be the head of the house or have equal roles in a relationship/ marriage. The holy books have this roles clearly stated. Am sure u believe in a deity if you do, don't you think u ar going against the principles of ur deity? So tone down ur feminism nd women fight. If u don't, u still need to know that men shud be atleast slightly above women.

MORNDEW:
Is this how you behave? You insult anyone u come across? What has warranted such insults? And u are som1's girlfriend ND wife to be on. Na Wa of.

MORNDEW:
Is this how you behave? You insult anyone u come across? What has warranted such insults? And u are som1's girlfriend ND wife to be on. Na Wa of.

like d oda girl wasn't insulting huh...
U better stop beinq a pússy worshiper.

MrsChima:
Feminism is not the reason for high divorces period. Most men will not marry a known feminist if he has a problem with the views.

If you ask the average non-African couple, you will see that many divorces are results of infidelity, sex dysfunction, domestic violence, lack of communication, lack of trust and love, finances, and incompatibility.

Divorce occurs when one or more mutually agree to dissolve their legal union because of said issues.

President Barack Obama and Michelle Obama is a prime example of how relationship should unfold. I am not saying that people should have a standard relationship because that's not realistic however we should support each other regardless of the breadwinner.

If we are going to nitpick about Feminism and all relationships should be traditional then there should not be any female breadwinner and males at home playing videogames. There's shouldn't be any single father's and househusbands! I think we focus on too many irrelevant subjects and not improve quality of lufe!

Everyone wants to be right but no one wants to be the sound of reasons!

One question, how do you explain the high divorces amongst traditional women who are not a feminist? Contrary to popular belief, Feminists is a minority group.

MORNDEW:
Is this how you behave? You insult anyone u come across? What has warranted such insults? And u are som1's girlfriend ND wife to be on. Na Wa of.

MrsChima:
Feminism is not the reason for high divorces period. Most men will not marry a known feminist if he has a problem with the views.

If you ask the average non-African couple, you will see that many divorces are results of infidelity, sex dysfunction, domestic violence, lack of communication, lack of trust and love, finances, and incompatibility.

Divorce occurs when one or more mutually agree to dissolve their legal union because of said issues. President Barack Obama and Michelle Obama is a prime example of how relationship should unfold. I am not saying that people should have a standard relationship because that's not realistic however we should support each other regardless of the breadwinner.

If we are going to nitpick about Feminism and all relationships should be traditional then there should not be any female breadwinner and males at home playing videogames. There's shouldn't be any single father's and househusbands! I think we focus on too many irrelevant subjects and not improve quality of lufe!

Everyone wants to be right but no one wants to be the sound of reasons!

One question, how do you explain the high divorces amongst traditional women who are not a feminist? Contrary to popular belief, Feminists is a minority group.

yorubaboiy:
i really wish misssclassy were like u....both of u seem to be feminists bt i still consider her a shallow minded one....anyways thumbs up for this comment....me really like it

dharay99:

like d oda girl wasn't insulting huh...
U better stop beinq a pússy worshiper.

MrsChima:
One more thing...the Bible never specified the roles of genders. Let go over some confusions that most men seems to digest.

Male and female was created on the sixth day.
Man was brought TO LIFE not created after the Sabbath to have dominion over the Earth. He was responsible to tend Earth but lost that "duty" after the Original Sin.

Woman was brought to life to be a help meet (wife) which in concordance also referred as partner to Adam but guess what in Matthews Chapter, it highlights that NOTeveryone is meant to be married and there are people who will remain eunuchs! It is a choice to get married and if you choose not to marry...remain a virgin.

How can God bring life to women only for man in the beginning and later narrated that not everyone is meant to be married (husband and wife)? There were only 3 things that was instructed to man/woman and that was to be fruitiful, man is the head as long as he followsJesus Christ, and wives were to submit to their husbands as he follows Christ.

The ten commandments were rules for all nations and still there are no specific gender roles in the bible given by God. It was man that defined gender roles.

MORNDEW:
did the other lady insult me? Many of u need re-orientation here so saying the truth means pussy worshipping. Do i look like one of dem dat live their live here do u regularly see me online here let alone having frnd here? U ar a guy nd need to have sound brain usage.

any thing else....

misssclassy:
[color=#000050]You little inconsequential opinion about me has been duly noted and shredded. [/color]

misssclassy:
[color=#000050]First of all it's erroneous to define a gender by the words of some ancient book or doctrines of a religion.
As far as I am concerned, men and women were created to coexist and support each other.
You can't say women were created just to support men. That's bullshit in my opinion.

Now to your question. You asked if women have lost their usefulness. What sort of _stupid question is that?
When you use the word "usefulness", what you are directly implying is that women are some kind of artifacts of objects that just perform some particular purposes and when they are done you men can just dump them in a trash can
That's objectification of the highest form

Women like men are humans, and like all humans, they all perform different functions and obligation. It isn't just restricted to one area, hence my terming your question as _stupid
I would agree with you that women are supposed to get up and make some usefulness of themselves and not rely solely on the opposite gender but I also believe that that is the revolution taking place currently.
The world has more independent, self reliant women than it has ever had. [/color]

MORNDEW:
well written but i don't think femeinism should be championed so strongly the way some of you have been doing. Bible never specified gender roles but he asked women to be submissive. Being a feminist nd wanting to write off that submissive principles is daring the bible. If we all are same then who shud do the submission? If you want me to go through the bible and prove to u that the bible realy require women to be atleast slightly under men and give them all the respect i will do so. Missclassy has a stronger point championing her own outside religion but if u still believe in bible/religion nd fighting for feminist issues, then u are in one way questioning ur bible/religion.

MrsChima:
Let me clear some misconception about me...I am a feminist who believe and support equality in all aspect of life. I am not religious but spiritual. I follow the spirit of God, and I have no issue with women submitting to men because someone has to.be the bigger person and take one for the team when all else fails!

I have never said women shouldn't submit to men but both should submit unto each other when necessary. Man is not perfect and his decisions and thoughts will not always be perfect...women should submit only if the man submit to God because God will have the perfect solution even if God tell the husband to yield into your wife desires!

If you read Genesis, -it is clear why God appointed man to be the head of HIS family. Eve was punished for disobeying God with Adam leading over her and painful childbirth. In every team or partnership there is a sole leader to represent the family. Everyone can't speak at the same time! If God thought that man was better than woman he wouldn't have told man to love your wife as Christ love the church and DIED for it. Would die for your wife?

You said why do I championed feminist views as vigorously as I do...why do men championed anti-Semitism views as they do? We have a right as an individual to be what we want and express our ideas and opinions regardless if others don't agree! We each have a passion that we fight for or support and who decides what passion is relevant or not?

I don't think many women have an issue with submitting but if they must do as said the bible...the men must do as said the bible! How can a wife submit to a husband that doesn't love her. Galatians and 1 Corinthian talks about the definition of love and van you honestly say the average husband's display that type of love to their wives? I doubt it or otherwise she would submit without defiance!

MORNDEW:
meaning?

Eyekandi:
We can talk here I guess

MORNDEW:
It wouldnt be nice. Its a private discurssion and shud be so. Pls lets discuss outside here

Eyekandi:
Ur email!

MORNDEW:
amadiprincewill1@gmail.com

MrsChima:
Feminism is not the reason for high divorces period. Most men will not marry a known feminist if he has a problem with the views.

If you ask the average non-African couple, you will see that many divorces are results of infidelity, sex dysfunction, domestic violence, lack of communication, lack of trust and love, finances, and incompatibility.

Divorce occurs when one or more mutually agree to dissolve their legal union because of said issues. President Barack Obama and Michelle Obama is a prime example of how relationship should unfold. I am not saying that people should have a standard relationship because that's not realistic however we should support each other regardless of the breadwinner.

If we are going to nitpick about Feminism and all relationships should be traditional then there should not be any female breadwinner and males at home playing videogames. There's shouldn't be any single father's and househusbands! I think we focus on too many irrelevant subjects and not improve quality of lufe!


Everyone wants to be right but no one wants to be the sound of reasons!

One question, how do you explain the high divorces amongst traditional women who are not a feminist? Contrary to popular belief, Feminists is a minority group.

Eyekandi:
Check ur mail

MORNDEW:
i ve not seen any message

Eyekandi:
Iam_ur_woman@yahoo.com