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For The Heartbroken. by Rosemary216(f): 4:35pm On Jun 08, 2015
I can't help it when i see people who look dejected and hopeless as a result of heartbreak from the people they claim to be in love with,

When my friends come to me to tell me about how they feel over a heartbreak, i just laugh and tell them- "Don't let one setback stop you from finding love and happiness in the rest of your life."

Some people after a heartbreak feel that their world have ended. a close friend once said she feels like a walking corpse since she broke up with her guy!
Most times I hear people talking about something that went wrong in their relationship. Something terribly wrong, and now they're never going to recover from it.

People open themselves emotionally and when something doesn't go the way they planned, suddenly they vow to remain closed and cold for the rest of their lives. They decide they're never going to allow themselves to be vulnerable again, all because of one event. It seems that one event or relationship experience has the power to change the way we live. One event can set you back for weeks or even months. But one event means nothing. Life is a series of events. Every day, dozens of events happen to us. Every day we move forward in different ways.
Do not allow yourself to become traumatized by one thing. Get over it. The strong persevere and the weak are consumed by one event. When you allow one event to define you, you're saying you'd rather stay in fear, you'd rather stay traumatized, and you'd rather stay alone.
You think staying closed off emotionally from the world so nobody hurts you is the best thing to do Well, if you stay closed off emotionally, nobody will love you either. It's time to lose the fear. It's time to forget that one event holding you back. It's time to embrace your vulnerability. Vulnerability makes you feel alive. Vulnerability will help you find new love.
No one says you may have a problem free relationship, but the earlier you realize that it is not a bed of rose the better for you. You alone can define your relationship, even if its not the best, you can make it worth your while.


I wish you a heartbreak free relationship.

Re: For The Heartbroken. by Cutehector(m): 4:46pm On Jun 08, 2015
Lol gime one pill leme take
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Rosemary216(f): 4:50pm On Jun 08, 2015
Cutehector:
Lol gime one pill leme take
lmao! only one??
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Nobody: 4:53pm On Jun 08, 2015
Rosemary216:
I can't help it when i see people who look dejected and hopeless as a result of heartbreak from the people they claim to be in love with,

When my friends come to me to tell me about how they feel over a heartbreak, i just laugh and tell them- "Don't let one setback stop you from finding love and happiness in the rest of your life."

Some people after a heartbreak feel that their world have ended. a close friend once said she feels like a walking corpse since she broke up with her guy!
Most times I hear people talking about something that went wrong in their relationship. Something terribly wrong, and now they're never going to recover from it.

People open themselves emotionally and when something doesn't go the way they planned, suddenly they vow to remain closed and cold for the rest of their lives. They decide they're never going to allow themselves to be vulnerable again, all because of one event. It seems that one event or relationship experience has the power to change the way we live. One event can set you back for weeks or even months. But one event means nothing. Life is a series of events. Every day, dozens of events happen to us. Every day we move forward in different ways.
Do not allow yourself to become traumatized by one thing. Get over it. The strong persevere and the weak are consumed by one event. When you allow one event to define you, you're saying you'd rather stay in fear, you'd rather stay traumatized, and you'd rather stay alone.
You think staying closed off emotionally from the world so nobody hurts you is the best thing to do Well, if you stay closed off emotionally, nobody will love you either. It's time to lose the fear. It's time to forget that one event holding you back. It's time to embrace your vulnerability. Vulnerability makes you feel alive. Vulnerability will help you find new love.
No one says you may have a problem free relationship, but the earlier you realize that it is not a bed of rose the better for you. You alone can define your relationship, even if its not the best, you can make it worth your while.


I wish you a heartbreak free relationship.
Exquisite cheesy cheesy cheesy

Babe, you're very good and I do love your post.
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Cutehector(m): 4:57pm On Jun 08, 2015
Rosemary216:
lmao! only one??
if I take more dan one, it may become overdose and I may do smth worse.. Maybe become a tyrant grin
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Nobody: 5:04pm On Jun 08, 2015
Has it goten to this?
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Rosemary216(f): 5:22pm On Jun 08, 2015
Cutehector:
if I take more dan one, it may become overdose and I may do smth worse.. Maybe become a tyrant grin
lol... wel dats a gud start
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Cutehector(m): 5:27pm On Jun 08, 2015
Rosemary216:
lol... wel dats a gud start
hw many would u take
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Rosemary216(f): 8:34pm On Jun 08, 2015
Cutehector:
hw many would u take
me? Dnt need! Am ok
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Cutehector(m): 8:35pm On Jun 08, 2015
Rosemary216:
me? Dnt need! Am ok
lol we all get sick.. wink
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Nobody: 8:37pm On Jun 08, 2015

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Re: For The Heartbroken. by Rosemary216(f): 9:11pm On Jun 08, 2015
Cutehector:
lol we all get sick.. wink
nt all. Mayb jst u
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Cutehector(m): 9:14pm On Jun 08, 2015
Rosemary216:
nt all. Mayb jst u
lmao. I havnt been hrtbroken befor..
Re: For The Heartbroken. by czarr(m): 9:39pm On Jun 08, 2015
.....why do people put themselves in a position where their heart can be tampered with....
I refuse to give anyone an exclusive right over my heart.
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Rosemary216(f): 6:39am On Jun 09, 2015
Cutehector:
lmao. I havnt been hrtbroken befor..
yaaaaa... Welcm to d group guy
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Rosemary216(f): 6:40am On Jun 09, 2015
czarr:
.....why do people put themselves in a position where their heart can be tampered with....
I refuse to give anyone an exclusive right over my heart.
really?
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Rosemary216(f): 6:42am On Jun 09, 2015
juicee1:
I need overdose
How To Make Your Boyfriend Find You Interesting
Interesting.
wow... U wont survive
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Cutehector(m): 6:42am On Jun 09, 2015
Rosemary216:
yaaaaa... Welcm to d group guy
wat group sorry?
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Rosemary216(f): 6:43am On Jun 09, 2015
Jollyjoy:
Has it goten to this?
to wat?
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Rosemary216(f): 6:44am On Jun 09, 2015
Cutehector:
wat group sorry?
lol 'neva bin hrtbroken' group
Re: For The Heartbroken. by czarr(m): 6:47am On Jun 09, 2015
Rosemary216:
really?
...can't risk it.
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Cutehector(m): 6:49am On Jun 09, 2015
Rosemary216:
lol 'neva bin hrtbroken' group
u can't be in love and not be hrtbroken.. Ur single
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Nobody: 6:53am On Jun 09, 2015
Hehehe
give me the whole bottle.
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Rosemary216(f): 6:58am On Jun 09, 2015
czarr:
...can't risk it.
life itself z a risk
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Rosemary216(f): 7:00am On Jun 09, 2015
Cutehector:
u can't be in love and not be hrtbroken.. Ur single
says who Z it only ppl who are datin or engaged dat get heartbroken
Re: For The Heartbroken. by MrTeymee(m): 7:10am On Jun 09, 2015
czarr:
.....why do people put themselves in a position where their heart can be tampered with....
I refuse to give anyone an exclusive right over my heart.

Spot on bro.
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Cutehector(m): 7:12am On Jun 09, 2015
Rosemary216:
says who Z it only ppl who are datin or engaged dat get heartbroken
yes
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Rosemary216(f): 8:48am On Jun 09, 2015
Cutehector:
yes
nooooooo! Nt true! I clearly disagree
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Rosemary216(f): 8:49am On Jun 09, 2015
Teempakguy:
Hehehe

give me the whole bottle.
ahhhhhhh... Abeg ooooo! Help urself
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Cutehector(m): 5:44pm On Jun 09, 2015
Rosemary216:
nooooooo! Nt true! I clearly disagree
why do u say so, explain
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Richiy(f): 6:08pm On Jun 09, 2015
Sometimes it's karma, like in my case. I used to go around breaking people's hearts until mine was broken. And one may be tempted to do what czarr suggested. Keep your heart to yourself.
Re: For The Heartbroken. by Rosemary216(f): 6:22pm On Jun 09, 2015
Cutehector:
why do u say so, explain
uhmmmmm... Wat are we even arguin

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