I washing my cloth when my brother wife pay a visit to us, thou that's the 1st tym she will meet me washing, Immediately she drop her bag and deep her hand inside the water to start washing, I tried all my possible best to stop her yet she won't allow me, I was confused she's not a new wife she's married to my brother over 3yrs now, and she's educated and older than me.
I notice same with my 2nd brother wife, thou am a little bit older than her, she will always pack my clothes whenever she visit I watch before I notice, and I don't always feel comfortable, especially with my boxers and trousers.
So I want to ask if its right for the two wife in question to do my laundry, incase if such situation occurred again.
Females and single brothers pls ur opinions is highly needed here

I wanted to say something, but you want females comment

right or not... if ur not comfortable with it, tell her

If it were me and she insisted, I would turn it into play, get another bucket and do competition who go finish first

ITbomb:
If it were me and she insisted, I would turn it into play, get another bucket and do competition who go finish first

Like seriously that's wat I did......but was concerned abt the when she washed some before I return home

There is absolutely nothing wrong with it, she is just a good wife...
Ideally, that is how it ought to be, when a woman get married to a man, she also marries the man's family. Just be nice to her & always help her in anyway u can.
Ur brother is lucky to have such a good woman as a wife...

You could have asked if it's right for you to die young?

Isn't she human?

It is not ideal especially in his house.

I don't know all cultures but I can never wash my bil clothes. I don't even wash my husband’s clothes when washing machine dey dia. My man does his laundry himself. Even ironing.

TooNoisy:
It is not ideal especially in his house.

I don't know all cultures but I can never wash my bil clothes. I don't even wash my husband’s clothes when washing machine dey dia. My man does his laundry himself. Even ironing.

u u call urself a wife? Allowing ur hubby do his laundry..hmmm..na wa oo

pretydiva:
u u call urself a wife? Allowing ur hubby do his laundry..hmmm..na wa oo

Yes I am a happy and proud wife. I vowed to love, honour and cherish him forsaking all others. That can mean a lot of things but not always washing clothes. He likes doing his laundry himself and that is not your business. Besides, technology has made it easy.

pretydiva:
u u call urself a wife? Allowing ur hubby do his laundry..hmmm..na wa oo

It's high time Africans understood that all marriage can't be the same.

FrancisTony:

It's high time Africans understood that all marriage can't be the same.

I Tire o.

pretydiva:
u u call urself a wife? Allowing ur hubby do his laundry..hmmm..na wa oo

Imagine this comment

pretydiva:
u u call urself a wife? Allowing ur hubby do his laundry..hmmm..na wa oo

You chose to do your husband's and brother in law's laundry. That's not a problem but to think every wife has to do it or to think you are a better wife than wives who chose not to especially when the husband is not complaining or when technology can do it is when it becomes a problem. Everybody cannot be like you and you have no right to judge other people.

pretydiva:
u u call urself a wife? Allowing ur hubby do his laundry..hmmm..na wa oo

Not every man is helpless. I like to do my laundry myself. My wife knows this. It's all about understanding.

snakebeat:
There is absolutely nothing wrong with it, she is just a good wife...
Ideally, that is how it ought to be, when a woman get married to a man, she also marries the man's family. Just be nice to her & always help her in anyway u can.
Ur brother is lucky to have such a good woman as a wife...

that is nonsense



op if she tried that stunt with me and I told her to stop it in a nice manner repeatedly and she refused.the next time she comes.i will gather all the used pants and boxers including menstruation pant and then soak it inside water for days. When I know she's coming



I'll bring out the bucket I soaked all the pants in and feign washing because I know she will say she wants to help me. When she says so I'll happily leave the bucket for her.


When she deep her hand inside pant water of 4days and the first thing she brings out is menstruation stained pants and toxic smell she will get the message immediately






next time if she sees me washing she will pass another place to enter so that our paths won't jam



next

TooNoisy:


Yes I am a happy and proud wife. I vowed to love, honour and cherish him forsaking all others. That can mean a lot of things but not always washing clothes. He likes doing his laundry himself and that is not your business. Besides, technology has made it easy.

ok

SAMBARRY:
that is nonsense
op if she tried that stunt with me and I told her to stop it in a nice manner repeatedly and she refused.the next time she comes.i will gather all the used pants and boxers including menstruation pant and then soak it inside water for days. When I know she's coming
I'll bring out the bucket I soaked all the pants in and feign washing because I know she will say she wants to help me. When she says so I'll happily leave the bucket for her.
When she deep her hand inside pant water of 4days and the first thing she brings out is menstruation stained pants and toxic smell she will get the message immediately

next time if she sees me washing she will pass another place to enter so that our paths won't jam
next

Lol.... The op is a man nau, moreover it's entirely coincidental & occasional. I really see nothing sinister about it, as long as the op doesn't capitalize on it, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it...

snakebeat:

Lol.... The op is a man nau, moreover it's entirely coincidental & occasional. I really see nothing sinister about it, as long as the op doesn't capitalize on it, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it...

There is everything wrong with it. It is called


ABOSI in yoruba parlance

pretydiva:
u u call urself a wife? Allowing ur hubby do his laundry..hmmm..na wa oo

Nonsense. Does doing a grown man's laundry make a good wife? Deceive yourself.

snakebeat:
There is absolutely nothing wrong with it, she is just a good wife...
Ideally, that is how it ought to be, when a woman get married to a man, she also marries the man's family. Just be nice to her & always help her in anyway u can.
Ur brother is lucky to have such a good woman as a wife...

Are you serious? ? She marries the whole family? She can as well 'service' the whole family ba?


Op, nothing wrong with it as long as both of you are comfortable with it. .

Eyaa..

They are good wives.

Holatunde007:
I washing my cloth when my brother wife pay a visit to us, thou that's the 1st tym she will meet me washing, Immediately she drop her bag and deep her hand inside the water to start washing, I tried all my possible best to stop her yet she won't allow me, I was confused she's not a new wife she's married to my brother over 3yrs now, and she's educated and older than me.
I notice same with my 2nd brother wife, thou am a little bit older than her, she will always pack my clothes whenever she visit I watch before I notice, and I don't always feel comfortable, especially with my boxers and trousers.
So I want to ask if its right for the two wife in question to do my laundry, incase if such situation occurred again.
Females and single brothers pls ur opinions is highly needed here

so you actually allowed you aporoko brother wife to dip her hands in the laundry containing those your dirty odowa called boxers wey you fit don wear for 4days?
chukwu e kwela!

aluu....


yuck yuck yuck

Chillisauce:


so you actually allowed you aporoko brother wife to dip her hands in the laundry containing those your dirty odowa called boxers wey you fit don wear for 4days?
chukwu e kwela!

aluu....
yuck yuck yuck

chilli behave!

You don come?

edwife:


chilli behave!

You don come?

Edwife where have you been .
don't mind op. Him balance for chair and someone is washung his odowa boxers. He comes opening a thread for it.

Chillisauce:


Edwife where have you been .
don't mind op. Him balance for chair and someone is washung his odowa boxers. He comes opening a thread for it.

I have been around dear,just tidying up few things but i am alright.

Lol,the op is just being funny.

Howdy babes?

edwife:


I have been around dear,just tidying up few things but i am alright.

Lol,the op is just being funny.

Howdy babes?

Just relieving some stress and waiting for game of throne to air.
I don't know why I read the spoilers. I might sleep off sef.

Chillisauce:


Just relieving some stress and waiting for game of throne to air.
I don't know why I read the spoilers. I might sleep off sef.

Lol,you are also a fan hun?
Sleep dear,you know our body needs as much sleep we can have.

Chillisauce:


Just relieving some stress and waiting for game of throne to air.
I don't know why I read the spoilers. I might sleep off sef.

OMG game of thrones!!! Let me not spoil it for you but right now I'm rooting for the White Walkers!

Stillfire:


OMG game of thrones!!! Let me not spoil it for you but right now I'm rooting for the White Walkers!

I read the news
And pls don't tell me more. I fit kill person.

edwife:


Lol,you are also a fan hun?
Sleep dear,you know our body needs as much sleep we can have.

Sure. I need it. See ya babes