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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by richidinho(m): 1:34pm On Jun 15, 2015
Nickymezor:
hmmm I hear u sad

How r you

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Nickymezor(f): 1:53pm On Jun 15, 2015
richidinho:


How r you

Pls read my siggy ...tnk me lerra
Am fyn. Sure I will root 4 him cool
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by richidinho(m): 1:55pm On Jun 15, 2015
Nickymezor:
Am fyn. Sure I will root 4 him cool

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by isacolukay(m): 2:03pm On Jun 15, 2015
50% blame to the man for not sticking to his marital vows.
20% blame to the wife for not taking 100% control of the husband's sexual energy,
15% blame to the housemaid for coveting what her madam is enjoying and
15% blame for the gateman who has refused to take charge of the housemaid's gate.



Gbam!

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by agarawu23(m): 2:41pm On Jun 15, 2015
queensmith:


not for the offence, just for not protecting herself. The offender receives 100% blame for the failure of the marriage
hmmm! you gat a point sha
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by peeparty(m): 2:44pm On Jun 15, 2015
Whoever brought a matured housemaid to the house is to be blame.
Wait oo!


What am I saying sef, now adays some men sha even if na small pikin u bring frm village come. dem go begin finga d girl small small frm der it progress d next torey na say belle don enter.


D best is not to have a maid atall.

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by bogolobango(m): 3:08pm On Jun 15, 2015
INTROVERT Lol so make him no climb abi

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Masculity(m): 3:18pm On Jun 15, 2015
INTROVERT:
All parties are to blame but the biggest blame is always on the man.

Men are always blame bearers.
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Nobody: 3:25pm On Jun 15, 2015
The wife is to blame. . .







For everything. cool
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by cococandy(f): 3:27pm On Jun 15, 2015
Phema:
The wife is to blame. . .


For everything. cool
Exactly.

Just as the man is to blame if his wife sleeps with their male help, gateman or driver.
How dare he employ a full bodied man in the house to do the heavy lifting and manly stuff when it could be a temptation to his wife?

*some retardded stuff on this forum sef undecided

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by funlord(m): 3:29pm On Jun 15, 2015
Aminat508:
This long standing anomaly of men sleeping with house helps even in most times ending up the woman leaving her matrimonial for the maid....who gets blame?
does the wife takes a greater blame by leaving the house maid to run everything in the house...even attending to the man's needs

while she plays madam sitting doing nothing nd forgetting her wifely duties
grin
Aminat508:
This long standing anomaly of men sleeping with house helps even in most times ending up the woman leaving her matrimonial for the maid....who gets blame?
does the wife takes a greater blame by leaving the house maid to run everything in the house...even attending to the man's needs

while she plays madam sitting doing nothing nd forgetting her wifely duties

The wives are to blame for being "terrible in the sack" and slacking on their matrimonial duties! Something pushes such men to cheat so close to home! FIND OUT WHY!

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Nobody: 5:19pm On Jun 15, 2015
cococandy:

Exactly.

Just as the man is to blame if his wife sleeps with their male help, gateman or driver.
How dare he employ a full bodied man in the house to do the heavy lifting and manly stuff when it could be a temptation to his wife?

*some retardded stuff on this forum sef undecided
Are you serious?
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by cococandy(f): 5:21pm On Jun 15, 2015
all4naija:

Are you serious?
yes cool

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Nobody: 5:32pm On Jun 15, 2015
cococandy:
yes cool

Can you explain why you hold on to that view?

I think a woman who has the intention of cheating would do that. The same thing can be said of a man..
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by cococandy(f): 5:34pm On Jun 15, 2015
all4naija:

Can you explain why you hold on to that view?

I think a woman who has the intention of cheating would do that. The same thing can be said of a man..
Can it?
I figured we are in the business of blaming others when someone cheats.

#iamjustmessingwithyou smiley

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Nobody: 5:37pm On Jun 15, 2015
cococandy:

Can it?
I figured if we are in the business of blaming others when someone cheats.

#iamjustmessingwithyou smiley
But, do not you support something like that in your family. Is that clear?
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by thorpido(m): 5:37pm On Jun 15, 2015
The man is to blame 100%.If he feels uncomfortable around a maid in his house,he can send her away.
Men should have control.

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by cococandy(f): 5:38pm On Jun 15, 2015
all4naija:
But, do not you support something like that in your family. Is that clear?
Lmao.

It is clear sir grin

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by iPopAlomo(m): 5:41pm On Jun 15, 2015
agarawu23:
3 reason why you should blame the wife ?

1. don't tell us the wife is blind to realize the housegirl is matured enough to scatter her home , a housemaid with a killer front and back when her own is just little. Or you think temptation get respect ? devil can use anybody.

2. If a woman is hardworking, I see know reason why she should need a house girl. Even if you are working in the bank, (which is not our business) you have to create time for your house work and focus on your husband.

3. Some of you ladies can't satisfy your husband. You have killed the current your husband knew you for while you guys were dating. Now you are married to him and you think you should reduce your sexual activities. OK na , he go fuuuck una housemaid including your friends.


when Mr NL comes up... don't campaign for me... just remind me... your comment have bought me over... you've earned my free vote...

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by pickabeau1: 5:44pm On Jun 15, 2015
isacolukay:
[s]50% blame to the man for not sticking to his marital vows.
20% blame to the wife for not taking 100% control of the husband's sexual energy,
15% blame to the housemaid for coveting what her madam is enjoying and[/s]
[size=18pt]15% blame for the gateman who has refused to take charge of the housemaid's gate.[/size]

Gbam!

hahahahahahaha
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by agarawu23(m): 5:45pm On Jun 15, 2015
iPopAlomo:



when Mr NL comes up... don't campaign for me... just remind me... your comment have bought me over... you've earned my free vote...
smiley smiley smiley

will be waiting bro
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Godmother(f): 5:55pm On Jun 15, 2015
I blame all parties:

The maid for sleeping with a man knowing he's legally married to another,
The man for stooping so low as to sleep with a maid and exposing his wife to ridicule,
The woman for opening the door to temptation. I'll lay a large part of the blame at the man though. He should have some self-control.

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by KanwuliaJara: 8:32pm On Jun 15, 2015
What is wrong with a man TRYING to find happiness?
Are house maids not Human Beings? undecided
All the men I know that MARRIED their house maids actually found TRUE-LOVE!
As long as they are not underage or sexually-exploited, I see nothing wrong!

FREEEEEE WORLD!!!! kiss

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by isacolukay(m): 9:32pm On Jun 15, 2015
pickabeau1:


hahahahahahaha

Wetin you wan make I talk naw?
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Aitee1: 10:11pm On Jun 15, 2015
Simple, get a male maid but ensure your hubby isn't bisexual undecided
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by kliq(m): 10:11pm On Jun 15, 2015
The wife
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Nobody: 10:12pm On Jun 15, 2015
The madam of the house is to blame
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by freecocoa(f): 10:12pm On Jun 15, 2015
Like seriously?
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by bogolobango(m): 10:13pm On Jun 15, 2015
Aminat508 haha owo yin lati bere oo se bi eti wa ni ile oko
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by ayusco85(m): 10:16pm On Jun 15, 2015
Aminat508:
This long standing anomaly of men sleeping with house helps even in most times ending up the woman leaving her matrimonial for the maid....who gets blame?
does the wife takes a greater blame by leaving the house maid to run everything in the house...even attending to the man's needs

while she plays madam sitting doing nothing nd forgetting her wifely duties

OP look atew. common english u cant spoke cheesy cheesy
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Nobody: 10:16pm On Jun 15, 2015
Result of the woman's laziness. Why can't you clean your house by yourself?

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Nobody: 10:16pm On Jun 15, 2015
let us put d blame on konji,cos dat thing na bastard!! cheesy #some guys find it hard to contrl their diick.

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