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ogele:
The day my wife will stoop so low to allow the maid to be making my food and serve me the food, dressing our bedroom, that when I will also stoop so low to convert the maid to my mistress. So if she can cook and serve me food what else.

Guy, this excuse don expire.if for any sane reason your wife no fit do all the household chores, just help her. If you Sabi cook but your wife no fit serve you foodfor any sane reason , dem ban you from entering kitchen?
If you wan screw the maid, just go ahead and stop making excuses.
I am sure you don't want your wife to be screwing your gateman who washes her car.

The chunk of the blame should go to the wifen when the house maid washes her panties including that of the hubby, cleans up n dresses the bed of the couple, cooks n dishes out food daily, keeps the house clean nd perhaps takes care of the kids. Definitely the maid becomes the madam. Ladies r wired to be home builders not seducing their men with other ladies in the name of 'helpers'. We men atimes loose it esp when we see anything under the skirts n it only takes self control n discipline to keep clean aside that we are just dogs that need to tamed

Aminat508:
This long standing anomaly of men sleeping with house helps even in most times ending up the woman leaving her matrimonial for the maid....who gets blame?
does the wife takes a greater blame by leaving the house maid to run everything in the house...even attending to the man's needs

while she plays madam sitting doing nothing nd forgetting her wifely duties

If she's too lazy to carry out her responsibilities in the house, she should be ready to see the maids help her with her bedroom chores as well.

jaybee3:
You obviously would never understand why people cheat.

Here is a clue, most people cheat because there is the feeling that they can get away with it prudue to the false sense of assurance that they would never be caught.

It also doesn't help that the society (especially African) sort of accepts it to be the norm thus having no sort of repercussion that would otherwise have served as some sort of deterrent to would be cheaters.

So you know, some of the most powerful men in history have fallen for their maids. Case in point, the gorvenator Arnold

Are you saying a man that sleeps with his wife's maid is doing it to prove to himself that he's still ahead of the game and cannot be caught Makes no sense to me really.

Where is the respect he's meant to give to his wife? Most women dnt bother if they dnt know their husband's mistresses, but it's suicidal to know that ur husband is sleeping with ur maid right under ur nose, the woman will look like a phool!

Like I said earlier "some men" will not phuck their wife's maid... They are just too proud to engage in such

INTROVERT:
All parties are to blame but the biggest blame is always on the man.

well spoke dear but sometimes I blame wives for that........you can imagine were person called herself a wife will be sitting doing nothing all duties on the maid alone including serving food for the man and some other things

when niger girls get married they feel they have arrived, madam, she chooses the works to do and the ones she wont,naggs her husby anyhow, gets over fat, looses shape,complains a lot,determines when or when not to have sex with her husband. maids now take care of the whole household wife's work, cooks,serves the husband,wash his cloths,clean his rooms, she even respects and attend to the husband more than the madam of the house..what do you expect, the woman is a looser, the maid wins..

Dubemkelly:
The chunk of the blame should go to the wifen when the house maid washes her panties including that of the hubby, cleans up n dresses the bed of the couple, cooks n dishes out food daily, keeps the house clean nd perhaps takes care of the kids. Definitely the maid becomes the madam. Ladies r wired to be home builders not seducing their men with other ladies in the name of 'helpers'. We men atimes loose it esp when we see anything under the skirts n it only takes self control n discipline to keep clean aside that we are just dogs that need to tamed

I am against a lazy woman! A lazy woman is a slacker in all ways and she exposes herself to the danger of her maid taking over her home.

Only a foolish woman allows a maid to run her home completely.

Aminat508:
This long standing anomaly of men sleeping with house helps even in most times ending up the woman leaving her matrimonial for the maid....who gets blame?
does the wife takes a greater blame by leaving the house maid to run everything in the house...even attending to the man's needs

while she plays madam sitting doing nothing nd forgetting her wifely duties

no maid wil cook my mealz if u cant cook me a gud meal stay in ur fathers house any maid datz is above 12yrs is nt welcom in my house resist d devil n he'll flee away frm u

If you are not a married man you wouldn't understand what this article is saying because some women relentantly refuse men of different right like SEX,food,house keeping etc.so to me I blame it On women heavily

like my uncle wife always in d room chatting and watching Telemundo. she talk to her three house girl on phone from the room..she only go down stairs to bark command and fiam she is upstairs. ..cant cook . lazy as hell. the husband doesn't eat at home she is too lazy and busy chatting to care..

tell me why the husband wont fuckkkkkk around when she is like dis. umu nwanyi imo. maybe thr own definition of marriage na to fuckkk born.


God no go let me see such

Aminat508:
This long standing anomaly of men sleeping with house helps even in most times ending up the woman leaving her matrimonial for the maid....who gets blame?
does the wife takes a greater blame by leaving the house maid to run everything in the house...even attending to the man's needs

while she plays madam sitting doing nothing nd forgetting her wifely duties

[size=14pt]......it's always better to get a notoriously ugly maid or someone elderly. Even if all devils and Satan were locked up and kept from man, men will still sin cos it's a work of the flesh. As long as you have a physical body, you should understand it has its desires which are not always good. Lusts, anger, malice, hatred, jealousy, envy all find their dwelling in the flesh. So, part of our priority occupation is to control the desires of our flesh and body[/size].

Adufetohposh:
I am against a lazy woman! A lazy woman is a slacker in all ways and she exposes herself to the danger of her maid taking over her home.

Only a foolish woman allows a maid to run her home completely.

Thats just it, bring a maid to assist u and she would surely assist u in every chores of the home nd also warms ur bed on ur behalf

INTROVERT:
All parties are to blame but the biggest blame is always on the man.

true cus he will be the one to make the final decision on the matter

Most of the time, it's the men that owns the blame, except the maid rape or blackmail him (nearly impossible).
No matter how seductive the maid could be, bible sef say 'Flee every evil appearance'.
But its mostly initiated by the men. The woman too should try as much as possible not to create any atmosphere for such.

Na Konji

Adufetohposh:
Are you saying a man that sleeps with his wife's maid is doing it to prove to himself that he's still ahead of the game and cannot be caught Makes no sense to me really.

Where is the respect he's meant to give to his wife? Most women dnt bother if they dnt know their husband's mistresses, but it's suicidal to know that ur husband is sleeping with ur maid right under ur nose, the woman will look like a phool!

Like I said earlier "some men" will not phuck their wife's maid... They are just too proud to engage in such

You are already getting your knickers twisted gyallll.
What i said in essence was, most men that will cheat with their maid would do so because they believe it will be done under secrecy thus they never getting caught.
I don't believe any man would openly sleep with the maid and flaunt it in front of the wife. It simply doesn't work like that

Without self discipline we constitute a nuisance 2ourselves and those around us,as an adult everyone is supposed 2control his/her emotions n nt d other way round...unless dem jazz u

jaybee3:
You obviously would never understand why people cheat.

Here is a clue, most people cheat because there is the feeling that they can get away with it prudue to the false sense of assurance that they would never be caught.

It also doesn't help that the society (especially African) sort of accepts it to be the norm thus having no sort of repercussion that would otherwise have served as some sort of deterrent to would be cheaters.

So you know, some of the most powerful men in history have fallen for their maids. Case in point, the gorvenator Arnold

That is why I said women have the power to stop men from cheating. The day women start making men pay for their cheating ways is the day we will start noticing at least a reduction in the number of cheating men.

Lets put the blame on GEJ . My opinion .

it depends on the played out scenario,let me sight an example i have this family friend that brought a 15yr benue babe as maid,the wife used to be a very LAZY woman,when she comes from her shop she goes straight to her room(to watch dstv) even if there are visitors she spends at most 30mins and off she goes,with this lazy attitude she got a maid and u can imagine the rest everyone of us knws the man dey coil the maid only madam dstv doesnt,so in such case its a the wife with the major blame however my personal verdict is its always the man thats to be blamed....Reason: the day u touch ur maid u turned her to the wife and ur wife the maid.

fellis:
So its not even the mans responsibility to teach his wife how to satisfy him?
Lmao.
Men are something else.

Howz it his responsibility, eh ? Marriage is to be enjoyed, to edify d couple NOT for some lectures. I think ur argument wud be valid if itz d wife's responsibility to teach her husband hw best to look after her.

LAZY & IGNORANT WIVES ! ...SMH

richidinho:
Madam

Free the maid jare

As you pray for promotion in your working place
The maid also deserve to be promoted

when your wife promotes the driver never cry foul, he deserved it too

cococandy:
there aren't many of them like that to go round. Those of them like that are bullied to show some 'alpha' traits.

Maybe by poking anything with hole that comes their way. Who knows

Alpha males don't go around singing it in people's ears. People tell them they are Alpha males. The more someone talks about being an Alpha male, the farther away they are from being an Alpha male.

agarawu23:
3 reason why you should blame the wife ?

1. don't tell us the wife is blind to realize the housegirl is matured enough to scatter her home , a housemaid with a killer front and back when her own is just little. Or you think temptation get respect ? devil can use anybody.

2. If a woman is hardworking, I see know reason why she should need a house girl. Even if you are working in the bank, (which is not our business) you have to create time for your house work and focus on your husband.

3. Some of you ladies can't satisfy your husband. You have killed the current your husband knew you for while you guys were dating. Now you are married to him and you think you should reduce your sexual activities. OK na , he go fuuuck una housemaid including your friends.

If you work a lot and make little time for sex with your wife because you are in and out of the city for business, blame yourself when she cheats on you

Before I answer your 'silly' question ...Please help me out first..













If I (a woman) sleep with my gateman,
















Who is to blame?

I blame the man reasons;
1. He shudnt allow his manhood determine his direction
2. Any time he thinks of sex or feel like having sex ,he shud think abt his wife
3. He shud learn and train himself on how to manage his body
4. He needs total self control
5. He needs to be deeply rooted in it......whatever you starve will die.. ..he shud starve it and always live in the consciousness and awareness of God's presence.

Moana:
If you work a lot and make little time for sex with your wife because you are in and out of the city for business, blame yourself when she cheats on you

haha
is this the best way to defend yourself ?

Aminat508:
This long standing anomaly of men sleeping with house helps even in most times ending up the woman leaving her matrimonial for the maid....who gets blame?
does the wife takes a greater blame by leaving the house maid to run everything in the house...even attending to the man's needs

while she plays madam sitting doing nothing nd forgetting her wifely duties

if house husband ᶤร sleeping with house maid you blame the house Wife. Temptation ᶤร everywhere. She shouldn't have allowed mature girl to house maiding her home.

omooba969:
@bolded

But na d wrapper make sense pass o...ur wife or housemaid, na to use 1 finger comot am & there u av 'Eve' in front of u!

Guy, datz heaven!

HAHAHA...... BADEST GUY, EASY ACCESS SHEBI? BUT FOR MUA, NOTHING DEY MAK GO GAGA LIK A SWEET BEAUTIFUL SPOTLESS THIGH, MEEEN... INFACT I LOVE IT PASS UKWU SELF LOL, SO I LOVE BOMB SHORT COS IT DISPLAYS D THIGH TIN... BUT WRAPPER GO COVER EVERYTIN.

4 People to be blamed in order of magnitude:
1. Husband
2. Wife
3.Maid
4. Devil

Ask me for reasons.

http://digidats.com

I blame Lusts !