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9 Reasons Guys Love Being In A Relationship by wenson(m): 3:41pm On Jun 16, 2015
The truth is bachelorhood has a lot of advantages and
perks which we guys enjoy. We can do what we want
with nobody bearing down our necks coupled with the
fact that we have a leeway to be promiscuous.
However, despite these perks, no man wants to spend
the whole of his life running from one girl to the other in
the name of dating. When we get to the point where we
start feeling the need to have a woman to lean on,
including having romantic feelings, that is when we
actually want to drop the bachelor hood garb and try
something in the form of commitment.
Almost all guys want to end up in a serious relationship
at the end. We want someone that we can share our
innermost happiness and things with. Someone that can
offer some sort of stability as we tread through the
stormy waters of life. So, what exactly brings us to this
point of love in our lives? Come along with us as we
bring 9 reasons why we love being in a relationship.

1. Lots of sex
Being in a relationship offers the opportunity for
unlimited sex which comes mostly without any form of
strings attached. There is a major reduction in financial
inducements as opposed to when we were jumping
about. We also don’t have to go through awkward
conversations where the girl asks us “what does this
mean for us?” as we are already committed to you.

2. No awkward morning-afters
This is one of the niceties that comes with being in a
relationship. We no longer have to bother with awkward
morning-afters which may involve conversations and
various other things. We can choose to not make
breakfast and also decide to talk about the previous
night or not. Irrespective of what we do, there is no
underlying feeling and no one has leave to take a cab
home in anger.

3. We are appreciated
At last, we have found a girl that recognises our manly
and alpha abilities. Things such as hanging frames and
little repairs of things that are broken around the house
gives us the opportunity to show off our skills. This
also reveals our handy nature and the respective tools
we have to deal with the broken problems. We finally
get someone to show off to who will be impressed.

4. Shared cleaning duties
We don’t have to bother about how the stress of
cleaning up the house as the duties are soon to be
shared. We want this so much as we don’t have to go
through too much to achieve that spotless clean
appearance.

5. There’s way more experimentation
We are tired of the one night stand and paying for sex.
There’s no way in hell we can try and test out new
sexual positions which we are not sure of but we crave
innately. Also, it will be difficult to make a video with
just a date for us to watch it later on. All these can be
done and achieved in a relationship and we so much
crave and want this.

6. You encourage our dreams
A girl committed to us would make us think we can
achieve big things even when we seriously doubt
ourselves. And that is a huge bonus.

7. You challenge our ideas
A lot of the time, you help us sift and fine tune our
ideas. Whether it’s an extremely dull one or one that can
change the world, being in a relationship affords us the
opportunity to have someone close challenge our ideas
for us to be better.

8. You know us better than anybody else
You seem to know us better and that’s why we want to
be committed. Our colleagues at work see our
professional side, our friends see our funny and rowdy
side. Our girlfriends see it all from the stubborn, tender,
generous to the cranky side. And despite the fact you
know all these about us, you don’t judge us and you
love us irrespective of the flaws and rough spots we’ve
got.
More so, you will tell us the truth when others don’t.
Whether we are wearing pants that are too tight or a
geeky shirt, you’d tell us and strive to make us appear
our best.

9. Privilege of checking you out
It might seem pervy but we’d always check you out.
That time you come out of the shower with nothing but
a towel around you and you drop it to put on your bra
and panties. Then slip on your your blouse and skirt. All
of that is part of what we live for and why we want to
be in a relationship.

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Re: 9 Reasons Guys Love Being In A Relationship by MEGGATRON(m): 3:44pm On Jun 16, 2015
I LOVE no1
Re: 9 Reasons Guys Love Being In A Relationship by wenson(m): 3:53pm On Jun 16, 2015
Majority will like it
Re: 9 Reasons Guys Love Being In A Relationship by Nobody: 4:00pm On Jun 16, 2015
more like

9 lustful reasons guys marry undecided

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Re: 9 Reasons Guys Love Being In A Relationship by Nobody: 4:27pm On Jun 16, 2015
Ah God.
Re: 9 Reasons Guys Love Being In A Relationship by wenson(m): 4:37pm On Jun 16, 2015
MzMayD:
more like 9 lustful reasons guys marry undecided
Lustful u say?
Re: 9 Reasons Guys Love Being In A Relationship by wenson(m): 4:40pm On Jun 16, 2015
Teempakguy:
Ah God.
wetin happen bros
Re: 9 Reasons Guys Love Being In A Relationship by G3n3sis: 4:48pm On Jun 16, 2015
Ironically, the op is not yet a bachelor. How kids grow!
Re: 9 Reasons Guys Love Being In A Relationship by focusM: 5:26pm On Jun 16, 2015
Ok o,nice piece.
Re: 9 Reasons Guys Love Being In A Relationship by wenson(m): 5:59pm On Jun 16, 2015
G3n3sis:
Ironically, the op is not yet a bachelor. How kids grow!
So wah r u insinuating?
Re: 9 Reasons Guys Love Being In A Relationship by wenson(m): 6:00pm On Jun 16, 2015
focusM:
Ok o,nice piece.
Thanks
Re: 9 Reasons Guys Love Being In A Relationship by SkinnyDude(m): 6:36pm On Jun 16, 2015
I Love No1. Atleast, My Soap Wil Last
Re: 9 Reasons Guys Love Being In A Relationship by Nobody: 7:32pm On Jun 16, 2015
wenson:
Lustful u say?
yes!!! undecided

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