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Please, i have a story to share and would love to pass an advice credible enough to help their situations to them, their story began like this..there was a young girl and a guy involve in this, they met when he was about starting a processing to study in london then she met dis lady whom she was living with a family friend of theirs, she told d guy abt how she lost her mum and sister and left with a brother who was struggling as well but he seems to care less abt her, the lover boy fell in love with her and decided to keep his admission on hold to sort the girl out with him and he spoke with his elder sister who chose to sponsor him but along the line she wont be able to sponsor the 2 of them, few months later the girl left where she was staying to live with her aunt whose home seems closer to the lover boy, due to maltreatment the guy took the girl away without anyone's consent which resulted to so many threats on the lover boy's life and family after the girl has disclose their plans of travelling abroad to study but the aunt wasnt happy and almost poison the lover boi which he found out later when the girl told him her aunt's intention but God being merciful, the guy didnt drink what was offered...after almost a year she got pregnant and the lover wont allow the girl to abort tho she insisted but the guy stood by her during pregnancy and all responbilities was on him, washing the girl's clothings and she wont do anything as preffered by the guy, along the line the family knew she had a baby, and behind the guy's back she planned to run away and she later did and left a year old baby behind and the guy took care of the baby and kept sending pic to the girl but she wont be bothered but keep catching her fun with her friends, she felt no one is caring for her anymore, for 4weeks the guy didnt know her whereabout until when she couldnt cope with finances and lifestyle but the loverboy kept going to her place to give money and buy her things, she insisted for an introduction and the guy did it and came back home after 9months away after so much drama caused by the 2 families, now again thesame excuses she made at first that she discover its a sin to cohabitate after introduction oh, but it was an excuse she made at first whem she left and she slept with her ex while she left in the first place, the lover boi keep pleading for her to stay but she's insisting on leavine, what should he do after their daughter is now almost 4yrs old.. Moderator please front page , people need to learn from this, the liver boi had many chances to travel but he chose not leave her behind to go through rough things, please don't mind the way Its been written , I tried to summarize it and cause I don't know how to explain all happened btw them

Am not from Ekiti, so I don't understand what you have written

Mehn this is distasteful to read!

Anyway I still dont get why people go to such extremes for someone they are not married to.

Sparrow13:
Am not from Ekiti, so I don't understand what you have written

You're wicked


Op, me sef no understand o

Truly a Lover boy. He should get his acts together and take care of his daughter obviously the woman has some major issues she has to deal with she is not in a place to be a wife or a mother just because they have a daughter together does not mean he has to marry her. He needs to stop chasing her and treat his life.

Sparrow13:
Am not from Ekiti, so I don't understand what you have written

Promote what you love instead of bashing what you hate.
i thought that's what u think about yourself in ur signature?

MissSlimbody:
;DYou're wicked


Op, me sef no understand o

aunty na summary I try to do na but some pple understand sha

andromida:
Truly a Lover boy. He should get his acts together and take care of his daughter obviously the woman has some major issues she has to deal with she is not in a place to be a wife or a mother just because they have a daughter together does not mean he has to marry her. He needs to stop chasing her and treat his life.

wow wow wow lovely one there, God bless ur ideas

D lover boi is dumb.

adeekiti:
Promote what you love instead of bashing what you hate.
i thought that's what u think about yourself in ur signature?

and how does my comment depict hate ?
If I where to bash you or say something hateful I will have written
What kind of english is this ?
Did you go to school at all ?

dkronicle:
D lover boi is dumb.

yeepa it can happen to anyone, even the most wicked heart na love dey fall him hand

"When she insists on leaving", please.

adeekiti:
wow wow wow lovely one there, God bless ur ideas

Amen to the blessings.

I saw this post and bookmark it hoping that by now someone would have decipher what is going on when I return. Hmm

I dont usually comment on people's grammar but Op,this is not good. Please,do something to improve. It is never too late,i mean this in a good way. I cant even make sense of what you wrote up there

No man should go extra miles trying to impress a naija lady,they don't worth it,I pity the guy sha for falling in love with that kind of girl,how I wish he is my friend,I would have slapped him back to reality.

MizTyna:
I dont usually comment on people's grammar but Op,this is not good. Please,do something to improve. It is never too late,i mean this in a good way. I cant even make sense of what you wrote up there

sheybi ma sambisa u school me english