₦airaland Forum

dinachi:
And yet it still had to be boys! You do registration? So you now have a data base of your four some and unwashed A*hole cleansing customers for easy access?
You are clearly indeed a great business woman bwahahahahahahahah

dinachi:
So these unwashed assholes and foursome girl is still trolling! How market Na?

kilode100:
You don't say??
His issues are clearly deeper than I thought, oh what a waste!!!

Thanks Sis.

Chillisauce:
watch him click likes with other monikers only him knows.
You didnt read the article of 20million Nigerians are mentally deranged.

Or you think they dont have access to internet?
Sending fraudulent mails and pm.

That 1000naira he paid eh, him go ping you tire until your battery dies
Person wey him job na to sniff kitty kat of orange and corn sellers.
You come give am your no.
Better go buy another sim before the guy locate you. Na really psycho him be oh.

but i trust you sha. No shaking!

donholy28:
setorimama lekuselekuse hmmm d devil is at work....find out what's repelling ur husband first...den fix ur lust

mizzochocinco:
make sure your husband and cousin look alike so that if you fall pregnant no one will suspect you.

Since your husband doesnt find you attractive anymore let someone who still finds you attract enjoy abeg.

Body no be firewood. You are still young and you still have life in you. If you keep disturbing your husband they will tell you you nag. Dont be a nagging wife, resolves your problems in the arms of another and stop disturbing your husband over something he doesnt want to do.

kilode100:
forget the unwashed assholes and orgies as I ve told you that they are all in the past.

fem29:
My dear, my mantra is don't let anything anyone does stake away my joy. I TRY to live my life by this motto God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.

Hun sex is not food. Empower yourself.

kilode100:
He told me to give up Nairaland prostitution that he will take of me.
He wakes me up with pings to give him Mouth Gig, he tells me to suck his asshole

Chillisauce:
you make me laugh.
So you dont know that that username linda20 is dinachi the kittykat sniffer.
ANd one danjazzy username like that.

na so him dey change moniker and séx always. The tumour in his head is growing. Na here we go dey the thing go burst .

kilode100:
Imagine telling me the egusi soup that I served on Saturday night is tasteless and watery and meanwhile.

mizzochocinco:
make sure your husband and cousin look alike so that if you fall pregnant no one will suspect you.

Since your husband doesnt find you attractive anymore let someone who still finds you attract enjoy abeg.

Body no be firewood. You are still young and you still have life in you. If you keep disturbing your husband they will tell you you nag. Dont be a nagging wife, resolves your problems in the arms of another and stop disturbing your husband over something he doesnt want to do.

dinachi:
Are you this weak? Bwahahahahhahaha

biaka1994:
Thanks! @least am sure we stil hav reasonable peeps on nairaland. Well I wasn't in a hurry 2 get married but I got preggy n dad wasn't happy abt it and frm wia I cum frm they belief once ur preggy u r married and we ddnt wanna abort d baby so we decided 2 see my family.

tearoses:
You are a kid, married to an adult and so you are going to have to grow up very fast. .

dinachi:
This just about sums it up! Brilliant advice from a smart, intelligent and down to earth woman! You are indeed an asset to your husband.

tearoses:
Kini gbogbo eleyi gan You people should go and open your own thread or go to national stadium to fight intead of all this.

Royalroy please sanitise this thread. Thank you.

@biaka, now that you have shed more light on the issue, one is able to advise you better.
You have a choice, you can do it the long hard way or take it the short term easy way out, but both have different consequences

I will be blunt with you and you may not like what I am going to say, but as Zi said, this hopefully will help another girl in the same situation or prevent another girl from finding herself in this situation

Firstly your husband was forced to get married to you due to the pregnancy. You were not his choice or certainly not his choice to be his Mrs at that point. If not for the pregnancy, he wouldnt have married you at that point.
He is resentful becasue his plans were shattered. He is also angry at your family for forcing him to marry you and he is taking that anger our on you.

I am not saying that he will never love you or snap out of it, but it certainly isnt an overnight thing.

Also crying and begging a man who has no feelings for you is only going to make things worse. Stop it.
I would hate it too if someone I dont want around me comes begging all the time. It will annoy me even more.

You put the cart before the horse, by getting pregnant for a man who you dont know his intentions were, and you are not in a position to be able to solely care for yoursefl and your baby and you are dependent on someone else for upkeep, so it wont be a walk in the park.

This is why I said you have a choice.
You can either say "whatdahell" I need sex and will go out to get it, in which case you will eventually get caught and your hubby who never wanted you will have a reason to kick you out . .
Your parents who also forced you to marry a man becasue you were pregnant dont also sound like parents who will accomodate you as dalemosu if your hubby throws you out. So unles you have plan B, dont try it.

The second choice is to accept your current situation and try to make it better. It will take time though so its not a one week or one month thing.
If this is the option you are going to go for, then first things first STOP BEGGING.
Study your husband well. What are the things that he finds attractive in women? what are the things that he likes? You said he is 10 years older than you, so for a start there is almost a genrational gap.
So while you may like all these telemondu abi whats it called, facebook chatting, Kim and the likes, he may be into politics, finance and more important things. Go and meet him there.

Expose yourself, better yourself, educate yourself, be capable of having deep, sensible and interesting conversations & show him that you have brains and you are actually an asset. Give him an oppourtunity to miss you and to appreciate your worth. You can only do that by actually having something to offer.
You are a kid, married to an adult and so you are going to have to grow up very fast.

Forget about sex for now. What is sex without a relationship and romance anyway? 5 minutes pam pam against a hours of sweet talks, hugs, kissing, lovemaking, gist and laughs & sleeping in each others arns. . I kow what I will choose if its me.

Grow in poise, elegance and self worth and show him that you are not the girl he was forced to marry, but the woman that he would have loved to marry.

What are your interests? Do they/can they generate capital?
A man will always almost respect a woman who can hold down the home front in his absense. The little little money he is giving you, how do you spend it?
Are you the type that sits in darkness becasue oga has not come bacl to buy fuel for the gen?

My dear you may be a baby in age, but you are now in an adult situation.
Honestly I feel for you becasue most 19, 20, 21 to 23 year olds dont even know what they are doing or want and marriage is too big a thing for them to comprehend and deal with, but you are here now, and you just need to make the best of a bad situation.

Feel free to ask me any questions or need more advise. I pray that it all works out for you.

tearoses:
Kini gbogbo eleyi gan You people should go and open your own thread or go to national stadium to fight intead of all this.

Royalroy please sanitise this thread. Thank you.

@biaka, now that you have shed more light on the issue, one is able to advise you better.
You have a choice, you can do it the long hard way or take it the short term easy way out, but both have different consequences

I will be blunt with you and you may not like what I am going to say, but as Zi said, this hopefully will help another girl in the same situation or prevent another girl from finding herself in this situation

Firstly your husband was forced to get married to you due to the pregnancy. You were not his choice or certainly not his choice to be his Mrs at that point. If not for the pregnancy, he wouldnt have married you at that point.
He is resentful becasue his plans were shattered. He is also angry at your family for forcing him to marry you and he is taking that anger our on you.

I am not saying that he will never love you or snap out of it, but it certainly isnt an overnight thing.

Also crying and begging a man who has no feelings for you is only going to make things worse. Stop it.
I would hate it too if someone I dont want around me comes begging all the time. It will annoy me even more.

You put the cart before the horse, by getting pregnant for a man who you dont know his intentions were, and you are not in a position to be able to solely care for yoursefl and your baby and you are dependent on someone else for upkeep, so it wont be a walk in the park.

This is why I said you have a choice.
You can either say "whatdahell" I need sex and will go out to get it, in which case you will eventually get caught and your hubby who never wanted you will have a reason to kick you out . .
Your parents who also forced you to marry a man becasue you were pregnant dont also sound like parents who will accomodate you as dalemosu if your hubby throws you out. So unles you have plan B, dont try it.

The second choice is to accept your current situation and try to make it better. It will take time though so its not a one week or one month thing.
If this is the option you are going to go for, then first things first STOP BEGGING.
Study your husband well. What are the things that he finds attractive in women? what are the things that he likes? You said he is 10 years older than you, so for a start there is almost a genrational gap.
So while you may like all these telemondu abi whats it called, facebook chatting, Kim and the likes, he may be into politics, finance and more important things. Go and meet him there.

Expose yourself, better yourself, educate yourself, be capable of having deep, sensible and interesting conversations & show him that you have brains and you are actually an asset. Give him an oppourtunity to miss you and to appreciate your worth. You can only do that by actually having something to offer.
You are a kid, married to an adult and so you are going to have to grow up very fast.

Forget about sex for now. What is sex without a relationship and romance anyway? 5 minutes pam pam against a hours of sweet talks, hugs, kissing, lovemaking, gist and laughs & sleeping in each others arns. . I kow what I will choose if its me.

Grow in poise, elegance and self worth and show him that you are not the girl he was forced to marry, but the woman that he would have loved to marry.

What are your interests? Do they/can they generate capital?
A man will always almost respect a woman who can hold down the home front in his absense. The little little money he is giving you, how do you spend it?
Are you the type that sits in darkness becasue oga has not come bacl to buy fuel for the gen?

My dear you may be a baby in age, but you are now in an adult situation.
Honestly I feel for you becasue most 19, 20, 21 to 23 year olds dont even know what they are doing or want and marriage is too big a thing for them to comprehend and deal with, but you are here now, and you just need to make the best of a bad situation.

Feel free to ask me any questions or need more advise. I pray that it all works out for you.

@biaka, now that you have shed more light on the issue, one is able to advise you better.
You have a choice, you can do it the long hard way or take it the short term easy way out, but both have different consequences
I will be blunt with you and you may not like what I am going to say, but as Zi said, this hopefully will help another girl in the same situation or prevent another girl from finding herself in this situation
Firstly your husband was forced to get married to you due to the pregnancy. You were not his choice or certainly not his choice to be his Mrs at that point. If not for the pregnancy, he wouldnt have married you at that point.
He is resentful becasue his plans were shattered. He is also angry at your family for forcing him to marry you and he is taking that anger our on you.
I am not saying that he will never love you or snap out of it, but it certainly isnt an overnight thing.
Also crying and begging a man who has no feelings for you is only going to make things worse. Stop it.
I would hate it too if someone I dont want around me comes begging all the time. It will annoy me even more.
You put the cart before the horse, by getting pregnant for a man who you dont know his intentions were, and you are not in a position to be able to solely care for yoursefl and your baby and you are dependent on someone else for upkeep, so it wont be a walk in the park.
This is why I said you have a choice.
You can either say "whatdahell" I need sex and will go out to get it, in which case you will eventually get caught and your hubby who never wanted you will have a reason to kick you out . .
Your parents who also forced you to marry a man becasue you were pregnant dont also sound like parents who will accomodate you as dalemosu if your hubby throws you out. So unles you have plan B, dont try it.
The second choice is to accept your current situation and try to make it better. It will take time though so its not a one week or one month thing.
If this is the option you are going to go for, then first things first STOP BEGGING.
Study your husband well. What are the things that he finds attractive in women? what are the things that he likes? You said he is 10 years older than you, so for a start there is almost a genrational gap.
So while you may like all these telemondu abi whats it called, facebook chatting, Kim and the likes, he may be into politics, finance and more important things. Go and meet him there.
Expose yourself, better yourself, educate yourself, be capable of having deep, sensible and interesting conversations & show him that you have brains and you are actually an asset. Give him an oppourtunity to miss you and to appreciate your worth. You can only do that by actually having something to offer.
You are a kid, married to an adult and so you are going to have to grow up very fast.
Forget about sex for now. What is sex without a relationship and romance anyway? 5 minutes pam pam against a hours of sweet talks, hugs, kissing, lovemaking, gist and laughs & sleeping in each others arns. . I kow what I will choose if its me.
Grow in poise, elegance and self worth and show him that you are not the girl he was forced to marry, but the woman that he would have loved to marry.
What are your interests? Do they/can they generate capital?
A man will always almost respect a woman who can hold down the home front in his absense. The little little money he is giving you, how do you spend it?
Are you the type that sits in darkness becasue oga has not come bacl to buy fuel for the gen?
My dear you may be a baby in age, but you are now in an adult situation.
Honestly I feel for you becasue most 19, 20, 21 to 23 year olds dont even know what they are doing or want and marriage is too big a thing for them to comprehend and deal with, but you are here now, and you just need to make the best of a bad situation.
Feel free to ask me any questions or need more advise. I pray that it all works out for you.

fellis:
Firstly both of them made a mistake by having sex without protection yet the woman is the one that should fix the situation by changing herself to please Mr. Oga na master. Not both of them oo, but only the woman. Fixing the problem is her sole responsibility even though husband is the head of the house.
Secondly the man is supposed to be older than her and more sensible but she should be the mature one and start researching the husbands likes and dislikes to make him happy, she should be the mature one. Even though he is almost old enough to father her.
Thirdly, the child she conceived before being forced to marry him is the man's child, technically. Not even the woman's. The child bears his name. Yet he is the angry one because he married a girl when he wasn't ready to marry.
What about her? Didn't she also say she was not in a hurry to get married to him?
How will men ever feel the need to take responsibility for their actions and stop thinking they must blame their wives for everything when women themselves believe that they are the ones that must solve every problem in the marriage? That's how they will cheat tomorrow and come here claiming that their wives are at fault because they got old and fat after childbirth and the same wives should be the ones to solve the problem by fasting and praying for them to stop being unfaithful.

fellis:
Firstly both of them made a mistake by having sex without protection yet the woman is the one that should fix the situation by changing herself to please Mr. Oga na master. Not both of them oo, but only the woman. Fixing the problem is her sole responsibility even though husband is the head of the house.
Secondly the man is supposed to be older than her and more sensible but she should be the mature one and start researching the husbands likes and dislikes to make him happy, she should be the mature one. Even though he is almost old enough to father her.
Thirdly, the child she conceived before being forced to marry him is the man's child, technically. Not even the woman's. The child bears his name. Yet he is the angry one because he married a girl when he wasn't ready to marry.
What about her? Didn't she also say she was not in a hurry to get married to him?
How will men ever feel the need to take responsibility for their actions and stop thinking they must blame their wives for everything when women themselves believe that they are the ones that must solve every problem in the marriage? That's how they will cheat tomorrow and come here claiming that their wives are at fault because they got old and fat after childbirth and the same wives should be the ones to solve the problem by fasting and praying for them to stop being unfaithful.

dinachi:
This is why some of you will never have peace in your marriage,always thinking like kids.
The man was forced to marry her,it was not the other way round. You are just too combative.SMH

moreeni:
Sensible analogy madam,but our reality in this part of Africa is quite different. It is indeed a man's world. Let the little madam follow the earlier advice to bring in peace. All will be well.

Emaprince:
Last time, I called you a who.re, and you continue to prove me right. Look at the advice you are giving to a married woman. Same advice you and your sister gave your uncle's wife that made her get pregnant for another man and now she's about delivering a bast.ard for your uncle. The man that will marry you is already cursed from birth.



@topic
Na wa o. I'm speechless. Women really like sex this much. I can see that the only thing the OP think about is sex..na so the thing dey do una? *phew!*

dinachi:
This is why some of you will never have peace in your marriage,always thinking like kids.
The man was forced to marry her,it was not the other way round. You are just too combative.SMH