cap28:


Why is it so difficult for you people to understand that in order to have sex with a woman she must give her consent? Even if she had been used to playing around with the guy, does that mean that she had no right to say no to sex with him and 2 of his friends?
This girl is 19 years old, she is still a kid, there are a lot of girls of that age who act like tom boys especially if they grow up in a household where they are the only girl in a household of male siblings, she trusted this guy and probably looked up to him as an older brother, what is wrong with that?
You mentioned lions having an instinctive need for meat, yes that's true but lions are animals and their lust for meat is based on a natural instinct to hunt and kill in order to survive, do human beings need to ra.pe in order to stay alive?
The difference between a human being and an animal is that the human being (hopefully) has the ability to exercise self control - when you make the kind of excuses that you've made above you are basically saying that you are incapable of behaving like a human being, well if that is the case you should be treated like an animal and you know that when an animal attacks a human being it is usually killed.

Oh I understand you perfectly, but I think you misunderstood what was posted, read my previous posts. No one is justifying the action, A normal thinking human being doesn't rape only an animal does. My point is the guys aren't human, they must have shown signs of it before and she should have protected herself from these lions in human clothing immediately she discovered they weren't behaving human. When you don't scold a child you found playing dangerously with a knife in front of your house or take measures to ensure he doesn't come back, the next time they play they'll try to stab you with it. This doesn't make the child free from blame, but maybe you would have saved yourself from being stabbed or saved the child from becoming comfortable playing dangerously with knives. hope this clears things a bit for you on where my posts stand.

carzola:
if all the girls raped came out to the public then am sure you would be a suspect too... i expected that the picture of the girl be published too not only that of the guys. i want to see what was rapable about this girl..

Now that's just you being plain mean if you ask me, again the courage to even speak up after such a thing happens is just commendable. Do you know how many ladies are molested not just by male friends but also by uncles and cousins? The stigma that comes with being a rape victim in this part of the world is just too bad for her face to be splashed all over the papers( you only need to read comments here" to understand my point) and what exactly makes a girl "rapable" to you because judging by comments from most guys here once our "3rd leg" stands, our brain stops functioning

stan241:
If you read the topic properly, you would see where even the guy's parents threatened the girl not to report the case because they are landlords in the area which all but confirms this particular case to be true, don't let your own personal experience cloud your judgement and I'm sure the police wouldn't parade them if the story was false

my Guy if a girl comes to my house this raining season i would gladly welcome satan to give me evil thoughts and tempt me.... i have sisters and all are responsible, that girl found what she was looking for, to me the guys in question are victims of sexual molestation she indirectly seduced them.

Tapout:



chasing the devil away, yet still inviting him





interesting, ....

I detest ra'pe, but this is just being stupid, she's trying to avoid him and yet she normally goes to his house to while away time, ..who goes to someone's house by 9.30am on a Wednesday to while away time??

please we shouldn't jump into conclusion yet, like some posters have already done...there's more to this story, someone is not just telling the truth.....ra'pe my a'ss she probably has been having an affair with the guy in question, just that this time she wasn't expecting a foursome

So what if they had sex before then? Does it give him the right to invite his friends to molest her?

It's rape no matter the scenario and you and all those who liked your post might as well be closet rapists.

GodMode:

Its not a factor
Africans used to dress semi-nude and no crime happened

Unbelievable!!! It is NOT a factor You live in Nigeria right??

[size=20pt]Stop being silly, there are no moral justifications for rape [/size]

Tapout:



chasing the devil away, yet still inviting him





interesting, ....

I detest ra'pe, but this is just being stupid, she's trying to avoid him and yet she normally goes to his house to while away time, ..who goes to someone's house by 9.30am on a Wednesday to while away time??

please we shouldn't jump into conclusion yet, like some posters have already done...there's more to this story, someone is not just telling the truth.....ra'pe my a'ss she probably has been having an affair with the guy in question, just that this time she wasn't expecting a foursome

nicerichard05:
PLS WE SHHOULD TRY AND LOOK AT THE OTHER SIDE OF THE STORY

*FIRSTLY WHAT KINDA FRND WERE DEEY?

*I GUESS SHE WAS PLAYING ROUGH PLAY WITH DEM THAT WAS WHY WEN ONE OF TE GUYS THREW HER TO THE BED, SHE SIMPLY REPLIED "I am don't want dis kinda joke, pls if this is ur REGULAR JOKE stop it"

*WAS SHE COLLECTING GIFTS AND MONEY FRM THE GUY EVEN THOUGH SHE KNEW SHE WAS NEVER GOING TO DATE HIM?

*WHAT WAS SHE DOING IN A GUY SHE DOESNT WANNA DATE AS EARLY AS 9AM, WWAT IF IT WAS D GUY THAT WAS HOME ALONE, DEY BOTH WWOULD HAV BEEN HOME ALONE ABI? ND YET SHE DOESNT WANNA DATE THE GUY.

MORAL: Pls ladies don't encourage a guy if u no u wouldn't date him, dnt collect gifts or money frm dem. Once a guy has asked u out, der can never be let's jst be close frnds, it doesn't wrk dat way, is either u date him or u cut off the relationship.

I get your point but it still doesn't justify being raped or are you saying once you ask a girl out and she refuses that we should just delete them from our lives totally? Yea ladies should be careful with the kind of male friends they keep and going by the press release they are neighbourhood friends whose families know each other, I'm sorry but i just don't see any basis that leads to anything other than those guys being castrated if possible

stan241:
Now that's just you being plain mean if you ask me, again the courage to even speak up after such a thing happens is just commendable. Do you know how many ladies are molested not just by male friends but also by uncles and cousins? The stigma that comes with being a rape victim in this part of the world is just too bad for her face to be splashed all over the papers( you only need to read comments here" to understand my point) and what exactly makes a girl "rapable" to you because judging by comments from most guys here once our "3rd leg" stands, our brain stops functioning

The male brain was built to obey the 3rd leg, in a guys dictionary when a girl agrees to come to your place it means she has made up her mind to fork you.. Guys i der lie

VirginFinder:


My female relations will not hang out with a man or men in their rooms in the name of friendship.

No responsible lady does that.

A man's mood changes in a second...

Point of correction "a mad man's mood changes in a second..." which is why they are being locked up. The mad men that raped her deserved what is coming their way. Brother if at your age you can not have a female friend whom can freely visit you without you trying to get into her pants I advice you seek professional help before your case ends up like that of these young men.

exhibition:


Unbelievable!!!
It is NOT a factor You live in Nigeria right??

Do you realize that in some parts of this same country, people roam the street naked? Do you know that the idea of full clothing is a foreign concept?

Guys will always justify their own weakness and stupidity. Mtcheew.

carzola:
The male brain was built to obey the 3rd leg, in a guys dictionary when a girl agrees to come to your place it means she has made up her mind to fork you.. Guys i der lie

Only folks who don't know self control say stuff like what you just said, I have female friends a lot of them who visit from time to time and it doesn't mean my first instinct is to s3x them that's just plain wrong and a bad mentality to carry around bro

carzola:
The male brain was built to obey the 3rd leg, in a guys dictionary when a girl agrees to come to your place it means she has made up her mind to fork you.. Guys i der lie

Yea but that is where self control comes in or do you s3x every girl that comes to visit you? That's just a very wrong mentality to carry around bro

carzola:
my Guy if a girl comes to my house this raining season i would gladly welcome satan to give me evil thoughts and tempt me.... i have sisters and all are responsible, that girl found what she was looking for, to me the guys in question are victims of sexual molestation she indirectly seduced them.

Lols lemme just believe you trying to be sarcastic about this whole issue sha cus you sound like you are and as per the weather, that is where having a partner comes handy though, not looking for who to rape up and down

carzola:
my Guy if a girl comes to my house this raining season i would gladly welcome satan to give me evil thoughts and tempt me.... i have sisters and all are responsible, that girl found what she was looking for, to me the guys in question are victims of sexual molestation she indirectly seduced them.

Lols lemme just believe you trying to be sarcastic about this whole issue sha cus you sound like you are and as per the weather, that is where having a partner comes handy though, not looking for who to rape up and down or better still find olosho house and cure your conji surely there has to be other ways to get off than raping a girl na

[quote author=braine post=34952075] I used to respect you on this forum, but you just fell my hands.[/quote

Save your respect!I don't need it!

stan241:
Yea but that is where self control comes in or do you s3x every girl that comes to visit you? That's just a very wrong mentality to carry around bro

Oga i dont carry such mentality cause of my level of education, exposure and financial status, its been long a lady turned me down so ive never had any reason to think of rape.

If I were these dudes, I'd sue nairaland and other newspapers for publishing this. FYI, the accused persons are innocent until proven and declared guilty by a competent court of law. Also, this is against the pillar of natural justice dat says HEAR THE OTHER SIDE (audi alteram partem).

exhibition:


Unbelievable!!!
It is NOT a factor You live in Nigeria right??

Only a pervert and a man with superiority complex issues will see it as a factor

I love sexy ladies

naijaboiy:

Shut the fhuuck up and think with your brain.

Can someone not be objective for once?

Allow him to air his opinion in peace.

What has his mum or any family member got to do with this?

Nonsense!

Idit-ot. ....objectivity in the face of a barbaric act?......go to hell with ur objectivity. His opinion is irrelevant in this topic. ...rape shouldn't be excused at all. ....maybe when your family or your daughter got raped then u will understand how rape victim and their family feels. If you are too ugly or with low esteem to chat a girl then get a fu***ckin pillow., make a hole and do your thing.

Adaeze003:


Do you realize that in some parts of this same country, people roam the street naked? Do you know that the idea of full clothing is a foreign concept?

Guys will always justify their own weakness and stupidity. Mtcheew.

The culprits should be punished I'm not supporting them. But the reasons why it happened should be looked into also to prevent in future.

I guess most ladies don't want that area of dressing to be spoken about, but it is the plain truth. The way you dress is how you would be addressed.

You people should stop trying to get excuse to dress provocatively.

I'm not talking about foreign whatever, we are in Nigeria and that is what concerns us not foreign or whatever.

[quote author=chisco82 post=34951855]
Why the insult naa?
Your dp, That shot gown you are puting on attracts rapist oo. Some guy can't control seeing ur laps.[/quonna


Nna e speak ekwa.Odika isi mere gi mmebi.

woodcook:
Putting herself in a vulnerable position you said? Those youngmen are adult who understood what rape is and the consequencies. Even if she walked around nake or exposed herself that does not give any sane person the right to molest her. Please if those guys can not keep their desires in check then they surely deserved to be locked up and spare society the horror of having such demented people around.

That's why I gave you the analogy of the armed robber.

I'm sure you believe no sane person has the right to walk into your house with a gun, and leave with your valuables....

But do you leave your door wide open at night?

Do you not put spikes on your fence and bars on your windows?

It is extremely foolish to put your self in vulnerable position,expecting everyone else to share your moral beliefs.

Nobody has the right to rape you, yes. But dont go to a spurned lover's house alone simply to 'While away time'

QED

stan241:
Only folks who don't know self control say stuff like what you just said, I have female friends a lot of them who visit from time to time and it doesn't mean my first instinct is to s3x them that's just plain wrong and a bad mentality to carry around bro

your 3rd leg needs medical attention try and see a vet.

carzola:
your 3rd leg needs medical attention try and see a vet.

Nah my 3rd leg is working perfectly fine, I dnt just go around putting it in every hole that comes around you know STD's and all

GodMode:


Only a pervert and a man with superiority complex issues will see it as a factor

I love sexy ladies

You can imagine what you just posted!!!

That is where it starts from, it doesn't just happen straight it starts from somewhere and that you just displayed now!

naijaboiy:

Once it's a rape case,,the Nairaland women get all boiled up and sensitive.

Anyone who tries to be objective about the issue and tries to look at the case from a different view becomes an instant devil.

SMH!

Honey!Shake ya dixk instead!This idiot I abused deserves worst than that!I was even mild with him.They are neighbours,this us what neighbours do,they visit each other,even when they don't date.This guys are wicked and needs to be forever castrated with their shameless fathers.

Well what I think is the boys ought to be punished severely like seriously. But if u see anyone condemning the girl act too saying y going to the boys house all the time.... They are just trying to pass a message to our girls . It's what we know and it's common . She actually might be teasing three of them you know... Leading them on but not ready for that shit. She said she knows three of them so they are not strangers... Nevertheless they should be jailed if need be but our girls should be much more careful.

carzola:
Oga i dont carry such mentality cause of my level of education, exposure and financial status, its been long a lady turned me down so ive never had any reason to think of rape.

Well that's really good for you to not having been turned down before but when/if it ever does happen pls don't take the route this young men took to avoid stories that touch

Tapout:



lol..thank u, see ur pics, don't go n get married, keep attending other people's wedding..u Don turn canopy.. idiat

I go continue to attend people wedding till I die,no be bad thing.But tell that ya papa say the thing Wey Dem take know am don dwt affect him pikin!Oloshious oloshi.Anu mpama

powerfulsettingz:

Don't be rude pls, I understand u ladies get boiled up to any case of rape, but the guy might just be right, why would she visit sm1 u rejected to date every day, majorly early in the morning, I smell lies in her story, its not pure rape, am sure she's always going there to have konji, but I guess this time the frnds wanted a share, which made her vex.

Can you just imagine this guys?I ASK AGAIN,NA SHIT DEM SHITTTTTT THIS PEOPLE COMOT

You guys are pissing me off!

stan241:
Well that's really good for you to not having been turned down before but when/if it ever does happen pls don't take the route this young men took to avoid stories that touch

buh come to think of it some girls deserve to be gang raped, my guy if u know how heartless women are, except to their children you would want to join the rape gang.