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Why Do Most Men Treat Their Girls Like Rags? Is it because they feel they should always be in control or because they enjoy being in control the negative way? The funny aspect is that the ladies themselves prefare such men to the caring types like me. Am confused. I need answers

franel79:
Why Do Most Men Treat Their Girls Like Rags? Is it because they feel they should always be in control or because they enjoy being in control the negative way? The funny aspect is that the ladies themselves prefare such men to the caring types like me. Am confused. I need answers

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Anyway, my men treat me well; like I am their boss.

You are lucky. Hold your man well. My problem is finding a girl that won't take advantage of my kindness and at last give it up for a Hard & Selfish bloke. And at last after the heartbreak it seems all roads now lead to my place.

so you are the rebound/BFF? Aww . . .











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r u talkin about women or chickenheads?

Please can yall guys stop putting those hoodrats in the same category as us women.

What is rebound/BFF? Aww . . . ?

Please Tell me

Am sorry if I hurt your feelings but have I been dating chickenheads instead of women? If thats the case Please Help me out by describing the Real  Woman

franel79:
Am sorry if I hurt your feelings but have I been dating chickenheads instead of women? If thats the case Please Help me out by describing the Real Woman

a real woman would never let a man treat her like a rag.

You are absolutely right. Now I understand you. But I still have a problem

sistawoman:
a real woman would never let a man treat her like a rag.

Nahhh. . . Poster, Not all men are like that cause mine is not like that. . . but sad to say, my brother is like what you have described. Just thank God his fiance is ditsy

@ your post poster! Some gals (the ones i refer to as goatheads - ISHI EWU) present themselves as rags - what then do u expect of de man (wolf)
- - - As regards ur problem, ur real - i mean true gal - wil never take advantage of ur bein kind, lovin and respectful. Those goatheads ar not truly yours.

You have all been helpful but has my attitude been a major disadvantage to the kind of girls i attract? if yes what do I do to get my dream girl who will love me and treat me like a king just the way i'll treat her

From my own experience, if you dont treat them like that they will take you for granted. That is my current experience with my GF and I am looking at her and shaking my head.

Ths is nt a thread o.abeg make dm dilite am

I wont blame the men, i will blame the woman.
No man can treat you like a rag without your permission.

U are so right fhemmy

**shakes head**

somebody gat issues , u a batty boi?

There are men that cannot handle the slightest irritation and SOME women can be mightily irritating. There's nothing as bad as realising that that hottie you've been pining for for ages and is now your girlfriend is nothing more than an air head with no style nor personality! A lot of women spend too much time in outward adornment and too little on inside refinement.So if you have a short fuse as a guy what would you do especially if the girl is the CLINGY CLINGY type? I cannot imagine a SENSIBLE guy treating his CORRECT girlfriend like trash because he knows the SCORE and realises the girl can be as good with him as without him.
It is only those "waka pass" girls that live FOR and OFF men and whose only input and qualification in a relationship is to FLOP in bed and MOAN that get treated like trash. And deservedly SO!

In think it would depend on the way the lady projects herself to her man; if a girl projects herself in a decent and commendable manner. no man would treat her like rag.

@Ifedisky,
I TOTALLY agree with u. You will be surprised that some ladies (after months of "toasting" them) have absolutely no personality that u would wonder how, on God's good earth, u spent that much time chasing after her. Then I realised that really, most of these gals hardly say anything during the "toasting" period other than "I'm not interested", "leave me alone", "I say NO, na by force" etc.

Na so e be bros!

My brother treats his gf like a rag alright. She is beautiful and slim and very fair and all. . . but the problem with her is that she aint got a brain. She does not know the difference between coffee and tea and Fish and Chiken. And if she eat chicken or fish with its bones, she owuld freak out and she would choke. they are many things which mnakes me feel annoyed with her like her insecurity towards herself. When mny rbother is at work,. she would call him like 90 times just to check on him and that to make sure theres no toher ggirl at his side. I mean like what the "TOOT" . . . . . . thats what pisses me off and i think thats why my brother treats her like a rag.

but anyays, they are engage and soon will get married. he treats her like a rag and she is still into him even though she cries everyday on the way he treated her.

I think that girl needs Psychological help

no one treats no one like rag.

^bullshit!

@ Bleep you; is it safe to assume that your mom (if you have one), and your sisters (ditto mum) are not exempt from this your peculiar treatment?!!

huh?

Ifedisky:
@ mess you; is it safe to assume that your mom (if you have one), and your sisters (ditto mum) are not exempt from this your peculiar treatment?!!

LMAO . . . 
I'm waiting for the answer . . . . . . . .
Ifedisky, i loved the 'ditto mum' part  

I GUESS THE REASON IS BECAUSE "girls are everywhere" lolllzzzzzzzzzzzzzz