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Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by topbod: 11:27pm On Jun 27, 2015
If you use abstinence as a tool.....he could use endurance as a trick......if his endurance fails and he marries u to get what he want..... Once he get it,u can't project how tinz will play out.....what matters is mutual Love for each other....saying sex b4 marriage is like giving expo b4 exam...bcs he will do it your way @ first...that he will keep it your way after marriage is the koko...in summary....don't base marriage on sex....

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Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by Superman11(m): 11:29pm On Jun 27, 2015
its true na .. its easy to run after tasting especially if you get bored. most ladies who don't have high sex drive can be boring for many guys..

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Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by Nobody: 11:30pm On Jun 27, 2015
cococandy:


Really? So if she's had sex before that must she just continue having sex with any guy she dates even if that's not what she and regardless of whether the relationship lasts or not?

Surprisingly someone with your kind of mindset will the at the fore front of those who label ladies aswhores yet you can't imagine a relationship without sex simy because the girl is done it before.

I swear most guys thy comment on this forum are deranged. No sense at all.
SMH


stop swearing so much. It's unbecoming.
And yes, I belong to that school that says it aint a relationship if we aint fucckin. Fornication shmunication.
Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by STEVENcrack(m): 11:31pm On Jun 27, 2015
Jennifer89:
Op haven't you heard of secondary virgin?
Be deceiving yoursef.

U wey ur breast don fall finish.

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Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by cococandy(f): 11:38pm On Jun 27, 2015
BoboYekini:
stop swearing so much. It's unbecoming.
And yes, I belong to that school that says it aint a relationship if we aint fucckin. Fornication shmunication.
If someone is speaking deranged and you call it that, it ain't swearing.

Well if you belong to that school of thought that relationship without sex is not possible for you, you better not belong to the slut-shaming school of thought too. Well hopefully not. Because that one is not unbecoming, it's plain senseless.

Try to make sense of insisting that a lady has to sleep with you for it to be called a relationship and at the same time is a slut for having premarital sex with you and whoever else she dated before or dates after you. If you can make sense of that twisted shyt right there, thumbs up.

standd's thread comes to mind.

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Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by kalufelix(m): 11:40pm On Jun 27, 2015
sandrannna:
Why are guys crazy about sex?
dats just the way it is baby...just as you see the agama chasing the opposite sex or the cock tryin to pin down the hen its no different with humans except we have to follow a rather more cultured approach as higher animals. Sex is very important to a healthy male specie cos they are the carriers of life.

Trying to hoodwink a guy into marriage on the bases of NO SEX is a very very very flawed and dangerous approach believe me (i dont care bou the religious perspective) Love breeds Sex and Love and Sex breeds marriage you cannot separate any of this 3 variables (except you re dealing with a player or a runs girl)

There are 1001ways to ascertain the genuity of your love r/ship and make your man commit to you ...withdrawing sex is a very easy option but its not the best because things can go horribly wrong afterwards...

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Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by Nobody: 11:41pm On Jun 27, 2015
If you can't stand the heat,,,,, get out of the kitchen...
Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by sandrannna(f): 11:42pm On Jun 27, 2015
kalufelix:
dats just the way it is baby...just as you see the agama chasing the opposite sex or the cock tryin to pin down the hen its no different with humans except we have to follow a rather more cultured approach as higher animals. Sex is very important to a healthy male specie cos they are the carriers of life.

Trying to hoodwink a guy into marriage on the bases of NO SEX is a very very very flawed and dangerous approach believe me (i dont care bou the religious perspective) Love breeds Sex and Love and Sex breeds marriage you cannot separate any of this 3 variables (except you re dealing with a player or a runs girl)

There are 1001ways to ascertain the genuity of your love r/ship and make your man commit to you ...withdrawing sex is a very easy option but its not the best because things can go horribly wrong afterwards...



How many girls av u deflowered? U sound like a player. Which club do u play for?
Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by lawaldoski(m): 11:43pm On Jun 27, 2015
zaragal:


Tell dat to the breeze...u ren't talking to me...okkk?? undecided, my boyfriend no dey see my pants and he spend... tongue cheesy
see dz one dey dcve her slf. Who dey follow u enta d room wen in dey ride lik bicycle wey d pedder lose. So te im dey gv u anal join, e no end dre o, u dey suck im stick n d two coins too
Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by Jagabanthelion: 11:46pm On Jun 27, 2015
If she isn't a virgin n refuses u sex,na friendzone u dey be dat. If u no wan dey wash car for Orubebe to later drive,beta make urgent alternative arrangement. Dats d thing wit girls these days,if they aren't giving u,they are giving someone else. Only like 0.5% will remain celibate.

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Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by biggmusty(m): 11:49pm On Jun 27, 2015
axiliborha:
What's wrong with no sex until marriage?

Whats also wrong in no marriage on till afta sex?

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Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by tosyne2much(m): 11:50pm On Jun 27, 2015
Though I don't support premarital sex, but for a lady to put you in such a condition, it actually means that there's something up her sleeves


One just have to be very tactful and watchful when dealing with such ladies



To each his own opinion

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Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by kalufelix(m): 11:53pm On Jun 27, 2015
Superman11:
most ladies who don't have high sex drive can be boring for many guys..
for guys like me..she says no sex till marriage i say no Mouth Action no marriage ...lol now you know what that means
Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by biggmusty(m): 11:55pm On Jun 27, 2015
MsBliss:
Whatever excuse she gave to you for not wanting to have sex again until her wedding ,is her choice ,her decision and you should respect that .

There's never a good reason to commit fornication and no matter how we all try to paint it,fornication remains a sin and sex shouldn't be indulged in until marriage.

She learnt from her mistake and is willing to make amends. You shouldn't force ,blackmail or coarse her into doing what she don't want to do.


The most annoying thing is that when these same type of guys want to get married , they start searching everywhere for virgins. The untouched ones after succeeding in ruining the lives of other ladies .

Sister mi no virgin girls again o.... Na fairly use we boys dey luk for nw
Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by afuye(m): 11:58pm On Jun 27, 2015
Lol...women and ojoro
zaragal:
cheesy cheesy cheesy...heheheheheheheheheheheheheheh....no wedding no sex...virgin or no virgin gorrit??
Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by ManTiger(m): 12:01am On Jun 28, 2015
Some lady worth waiting for... while some, it's just a waste of time.

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Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by tosyne2much(m): 12:05am On Jun 28, 2015
MizMyColi:


I would love to reply you, and possibly engage in a debate.....

But,
I came here solely to read commentswink
Pls engage in a debate MizMyColi cool




I actually enjoy seeing you argue cheesy
Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by Nobody: 12:05am On Jun 28, 2015
cococandy:

If someone is speaking deranged and you call it that, it ain't swearing.

Well if you belong to that school of thought that relationship without sex is not possible for you, you better not belong to the slut-shaming school of thought too. Well hopefully not. Because that one is not unbecoming, it's plain senseless.

Try to make sense of insisting that a lady has to sleep with you for it to be called a relationship and at the same time is a slut for having premarital sex with you and whoever else she dated before or dates after you. If you can make sense of that twisted shyt right there, thumbs up.

standd's thread comes to mind.


Slut shaming is what women do to themselves. It's either you let us have an adult relationship( if you've ever had in the past), or you be a child, lock up hold your panties in your father's house until you get married. You don't get to tell me 'the girl is good' after you 'been there, done that'. Can't you see? It's simply illogical.
P.S. She's only a slut if she won't have sex with me after having with others before me, after me. You see the difference?
Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by ronald4lif(m): 12:06am On Jun 28, 2015
tosyne2much:
Though I don't support premarital sex, but for a lady to put you in such a condition, it actually means that there's something up her sleeves


One just have to be very tactful and watchful when dealing with such ladies



To each his own opinion

I concur. For a lady to impose an embargo on sex prior to the commencement of an affair depicts something is amiss. Could sex be her prime and only 'asset' she's got going for her?. Quite a dubious approach. Why the caveat ab initio?.

It's baffling how some of them think they can prohibit copulation in a relationship but cry blue murder when a guy cease to finance the relationship.

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Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by kalufelix(m): 12:07am On Jun 28, 2015
sandrannna:




How many girls av u deflowered? U sound like a player. Which club do u play for?

am not a player and i play for no club ...i just dont give such high ratings to sex
Whats the diff b/w a virgin and a non virgin...
Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by menxer: 12:09am On Jun 28, 2015
kalufelix:
dats just the way it is baby...just as you see the agama chasing the opposite sex or the cock tryin to pin down the hen its no different with humans except we have to follow a rather more cultured approach as higher animals. male specie cos they are the carriers of life.

Trying to hoodwink a guy into marriage on the bases of NO SEX is a very very very flawed and dangerous approach believe me (i dont care bou the religious perspective) Love breeds Sex and Love and Sex breeds marriage you cannot separate any of this 3 variables (except you re dealing with a player or a runs girl)

There are 1001ways to ascertain the genuity of your love r/ship and make your man commit to you ...withdrawing sex is a very easy option but its not the best because things can go horribly wrong afterwards...

You've some points there, especially "Sex is very important to a healthy" life.

ladies don't seem to get it, denying ur man sex in the name of no-sex-before- marriage is no guarantee he will be faithful or will satisfy u sexually. grin
Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by bobojoshua(m): 12:11am On Jun 28, 2015
mubarak001:
Soroniyen? Is spoilt brat anthem to make her get it outside and starve you inside...accept it, win her luv, gif her all the finest tins of lyf if possible, then, honorably inform her you are moving on without her...she wud ask y nah! just insist, only she go beg you to...u know d rest.
Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by geekybabe(f): 12:12am On Jun 28, 2015
Acidosis:
Girls should stop deceiving themselves



If you're a non-virgin and you don't want s e x, why date a guy?


If you don't want s e x, wait till a man comes to approach you for marriage. No bf/gf things.

I totally disagree with you on this. Dating isn't a ticket for sex. Let's put the virginity thing aside. A lady should by all means be able to make a choice of doing right and stick to it. And if you as the guy is not comfortable with her choices, by all means please move on to someone else.

So much for all these virginity talks. like a piece of removed flesh is supposed to make life more better. Virginity is a choice. Not a ticket to heaven.
Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by sandrannna(f): 12:13am On Jun 28, 2015
kalufelix:


am not a player and i play for no club ...i just dont give such high ratings to sex
Whats the diff b/w a virgin and a non virgin...

One is tight, the other is not tight.
Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by cococandy(f): 12:18am On Jun 28, 2015
BoboYekini:
Slut shaming is what women do to themselves. It's either you let us have an adult relationship( if you've ever had in the past), or you be a child, lock up hold your panties in your father's house until you get married. You don't get to tell me 'the girl is good' after you 'been there, done that'. Can't you see? It's simply illogical.
P.S. She's only a slut if she won't have sex with me after having with others before me, after me. You see the difference?

Of course undecided

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Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by PreciousBro: 12:20am On Jun 28, 2015
Its her choice to abstain from s3x till marriage, there's actually nothing wrong in doing so.

There's nothing wrong in being a non-virgin and still abstaining too.

But ladies shouldn't attach undue power to s3x as though is a determinant for marriage. Guys marry you for the good that you are not abstaining or being a s3x maniac, in your case@ Op, she has lost every right to dignity in innocence(not being a virgin/purity) but doesn't mean she doesn't owe it to her self to abstain but you should leave such ladies alone who attach condition,saying she doesn't want it on grounds that "you'd run away" if after, to me,its a clear indication that she only has her body(which isn't pure anyway) to offer and as the tool to procuring something as blissful as marriage.

Such girls will rarely stay loyal to you, because of course s3x is what it is, she obviously has the urge like you too,easing her self out, just not with you in order to appear as the holy mary before you.

I always pity such men that agree on preconditioned situation!

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Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by Superman11(m): 12:21am On Jun 28, 2015
kalufelix:
for guys like me..she says no sex till marriage i say no Mouth Action no marriage ...lol now you know what that means

BJ mouth action or kisses?? many ladies don't like either... sadly
Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by AliyNumbers: 12:24am On Jun 28, 2015
My point exactly. It already shows that she doesn't even rate you with the guy(s) she saw fit to taste the fruit without commitment. That's a slap to come from a non virgin. But in reality she will always say that so you value her more but once she feels you just might be the one and you play your cards right she will gladly let you have all of her.

Youngpo413:
everything is wrong if the lady is not a virgin.

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Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by kalufelix(m): 12:24am On Jun 28, 2015
Superman11:


BJ mouth action or kisses?? many ladies don't like either... sadly
those ladies are certainly not for me...
Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by kalufelix(m): 12:29am On Jun 28, 2015
sandrannna:

One is tight, the other is not tight.
does that really make any diff? The tight one ceases to be tight 10mins later
Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by Tex42(m): 12:29am On Jun 28, 2015
Feranchek:
Guys ehn.... una too dey rush!! Calm down! She's not a virgin means she has tasted the forbidden fruit. She probably said that to know if you're after her body of her being. Love her for who she is and be the best boyfriend you can be. I'm pretty sure her emotions will give in and she'll let you have a 'Bite' grin

I see sex as an icing on the cake (the relationship). So which would you prefer to eat (more), the cake or the icing?
it depends though... Some people see it the other way round;this time, sex is the cake(in thing) and the relationship is the icing.... Meaning they can not stay in a relationship without sex.
Re: When She Is Not A Virgin And She Says " No Sex Till Marriage ". by Nobody: 12:31am On Jun 28, 2015
Youngpo413:
everything is wrong if the lady is not a virgin.

You people are insensitive I swear. Are you a virgin yourself? The way you objectify women ehn like you can create one. Someone repented of their ways yet you still want the devil to use you to make them fall and you are happy about that. You need slap to reset your brain.

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