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Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by sukkot: 12:12am On Jun 28, 2015 |
ifeness:nigga you are the deluded one. a black atheist. crazy shyttt. like you created yourself. oh i get it, you think we originated from some primordial soup. fork outta here with that mess 1 Like |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Atk1nson(m): 12:21am On Jun 28, 2015 |
zaragal: don't let me go into details, but dere is a big difference btwn a borehole and a well. u can go in and out of a well and not even know u did, at d end of d day, it's more of work dan fun. also d oda body features of Jane n Jennifer dat complement it is also not the same, so d feeling is definitely not d same. I am also not making excuse for randy men o, I'm just responding to your assertion |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Nobody: 12:22am On Jun 28, 2015 |
sukkot: Typical Christian with delusion
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Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by hasyak(m): 12:22am On Jun 28, 2015 |
Marry her as your second wife? |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by refreshrate: 12:23am On Jun 28, 2015 |
MrsChima: On your quote for blackmail above you were asking how he would talk to his son treating his wife the way he treated his mum or his daughter getting married to a man like him, seriously what do you call that? On sitting down and communicating, in your anger you probably missed the part where he said hed asked his wife to join him where he was so they could be a family together. He did He communicated She didnt listen. The first rule of love is to listen, not hear, listen heard that before? Theres no need using a hammer to kill a mosquito ma, the talk about being in a loveless marriage and all, the wife only need listen and trust me things wouldnt have had to aggravate to probably seeking professional help and all that. Why wouldnt she just listen? But she would always expect him to listen. And he always would case in point he mentioned something about not wanting to be the cause of truncating her career and stuff. People change for one reason or the other. The wife had a good man, she failed to manage things right and pushed him into the arms of another woman. Listening and understanding you partners needs is something this generation of women dont get. Some people only need attention, give them all the money in the world if that attention isnt there they will seek it somewhere else. Case in point if it was money why do rich people still divorce? Some people its money, give them all the attention and theyre never ok. Some people have next to nothing in this life and you see where the woman is ready to do anything if you try her husband and theres nothing you tell her, you see that her husband nobody can be better than him as far as shes concerned, how about that? The wife goofed. The banker lady played her cards right and it will shock you she could possibly make the man blossom in more ways than you could possibly imagine. She knows the value she sees in him and is smart enough to appreciate it, it the wife fails to understand how to manage what she has/had thats her loss. Thats the thing women of this generation being made to believe its only the man who should do all the appreciation and value the relationship. Reality check ladies, love is a two way street, if your boyfriend or husband is cheating on you, youre not doing something right check yourself and stop trying think you own rights to his thought process, even God his creator gives him freedom of thought! |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by refreshrate: 12:26am On Jun 28, 2015 |
Atk1nson: obviously you and zaragal dont understand what it means t be in a relationship, it goes well beyond s3x |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Atk1nson(m): 12:30am On Jun 28, 2015 |
refreshrate:abeg read d last paragraph of my post. I was only responding to her comment, my comment has nothing to with Mr n Mrs issue |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by sukkot: 12:35am On Jun 28, 2015 |
ifeness:i am not a christian. never stepped into church in the last 5 years. i am spiritual |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Nobody: 12:42am On Jun 28, 2015 |
sukkot: Don't lie because you have been quoting from the Jewish book without making any sense. You may not have stepped into a church but an empty drum is still an empty drum. You don't sound matured enough to comment on this thread.#No offense intended,just an observation. |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by liyahwillie(f): 12:43am On Jun 28, 2015 |
Omavik:are u legally,traditional married?I don't mean friendship marriage!if u are do u have kids ?if no sit down and put ur brain in order! If yes "I sorry for ur kids"when two elephant are fighting in the forest then u should know dat it's de ground dat suffer's it"think twice oooooo |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by danchuzzy(m): 12:44am On Jun 28, 2015 |
why are you so immature ![]() you are sleeping out, and you are married ![]() why did you get married in the first place. you b acting like undergraduates who go about having a girlfriend and being in love with their other friend's friend or sister. you are married for Christ's sakes.. you have two beautiful children and seems you want to risk loosing them.. you are in love with your co-banker? smh does it mean you were never in love with your current wife... abi na "deeply in love" been dey misss. mtcheeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwww!!! okay, shebi you wan hear am ![]() ![]() file for a divorce, apply for child custody and maybe you'd be satisfied. both given your story, you've been in love before, what makes you think you wouldn't be deeply in lve with someone else in the next couple of years ![]() wake up bro. if na juju dem dey jazz u... tell dem say you no work. Finally, marriage is about sacrifices! |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by sukkot: 12:49am On Jun 28, 2015 |
ifeness:you are just a vacuous dummy with nothing of value to say. why dont you return to the atheist section. this type of thing here requires people with some sense and emotion and spirituality. not a robot who thinks he came from some primordial soup. fork outta here with that nonsense 1 Like |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by liyahwillie(f): 12:50am On Jun 28, 2015 |
MrsChima:well spoken may God bless u 1 Like |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Nobody: 12:59am On Jun 28, 2015 |
sukkot: If that makes you love yourself better. |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by sukkot: 1:00am On Jun 28, 2015 |
ifeness:nigga you are still responding ? dont you gotta go give your hero and mentor stephen hawking his bath ? fork outta here with that shyttt man ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Nobody: 1:02am On Jun 28, 2015 |
sukkot: I will,if that will help you become a better person. |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Nobody: 1:13am On Jun 28, 2015 |
Make your family matters a priority, ensure that you constantly communicate love with your wife(She is really trying), safe your marriage and forsake the way of adultery. I forbid you from taking the affair with your colleague serious! Of course it is giving u a sweet feeling, it simply ephemeral nothing gives a lasting happiness like a good family fought for. 1 Like |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by MrsChima(f): 1:13am On Jun 28, 2015 |
refreshrate: Are you the lady in question? You seems to.be taking this too personal. Is OP the only married man in Nigeria/world? No, he is not. I made suggestions that can help ANYONE going through similar situations as OP. Not everyone communicate with their partners and not everyone try talking to their spouse. So it was not only to him bit others it may apply. Secondly, just like you told me not to dictate his thought process which I have never said I did or desired to do so. You can't dictate the wife's thought process. Maybeshe ddidn't want to listen because she has her own reasons just like OP has his own reasons why he committed adultery instead leaving his wife. Simple. Thirdly, I didn't know suggesting one to think their actions and how it affects their children is blackmail. I forgot this is Nigeria, the land of the hypocrites and stone throwers. If the wife had "listened" would that stop him from cheating and "falling in love"? Nonsense! We only heard one side of the story and I am only commenting to what he said without taking in the wife's side and the truth! I stand by my comments and you don't have to agree with it. There is absolutely no reason for one to cheat even if they were held by gunpoint! 3 Likes |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Bonethugss: 1:42am On Jun 28, 2015 |
Hmm. Sad.. I take a different stance though. Personally I detest your person, to justify cheating on your wife in the name of "satisfying emotional desires" is just disgusting. I would advice you to get a divorce, so many marriages in this country ought to be dissolved yet, for the fear of "what people will say", "the shame", or "the kids", they remain. Its clear you don't love your wife anyone, the worst is that you don't respect her, and my dear in a relationship respect is more important than love. You entire write up is just selfish, you seem only keen on pleasing your desires regardless on the impact on your wife or kids. Please get a divorce, we have many single mothers doing well... Better than transmitting something to her, or the fake marriage institution she is currently living in. 4 Likes |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Nobody: 1:49am On Jun 28, 2015 |
Its obviously your libido talking now,when its stops you'll know the right thing to do. Conji na bas***d! |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Tex42(m): 1:55am On Jun 28, 2015 |
@OP... Can you read the first sentence you made again;you said you needed matured mind, and I ask;which matured mind would tell you to leave your wife and two kids and go after your "mistress/sex mate". It's a pity that @32,you've not really understood the craftiness of that rod between your legs and you let it do the thinking for you. Sure you know/heard of men who were led by their rod and how they ended up. The likes of Samson and Abacha... My friend! just go back to your wife and kids and stop being irresponsible. FYI, i'm not a mature mind. Thank you! 1 Like |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by MrsChima(f): 1:59am On Jun 28, 2015 |
liyahwillie: Thanks dear Bless you. |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by kenoc: 2:37am On Jun 28, 2015 |
At your age this should not be your problem. All you need now is to give your life to Jesus Christ. There is no other advice that will work except surrendering to Jesus Christ and you will be delivered. Teach your family the way of God and you will enjoy your marriage. God will open your eyes to see the truth of my opinion. |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by prophetfire: 2:37am On Jun 28, 2015 |
This is satan at work,takin advantage of u bcs of d emotional gap bw u n ur wife. STOP NOW. At least for the sake of ur children.its all about sex?mr man grown above it.life is much more than sex.it takes more than good sex to measure real love.u probably was havin great sex wit ur wife b4 it fell apart.change ur perception of ur wife.see her in a positive light,with the eyes of faith in the fact that she is n can be good.above all pray to God to deliver U frm this mess. |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by juman(m): 2:51am On Jun 28, 2015 |
Stop adultery with her, better marry her as second wife. 1 Like |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by repogirl(f): 2:59am On Jun 28, 2015 |
You let your marriage go and now you dont feel for your wife anymore.....marriage doesnt work.by itself, you have to work at it every single day. You and your wife can find that spark you had before marriage if you are willing to but if you go on and divorce her.... Your kids will suffer emotionally You will also find some stupid excuse against your new wife and still.cheat on her as you are a serial cheat.... Grass isnt greener anywhere, you water and tend your grass to keep it green and healthy. Make the right decision and not the cowardly, selfish one. 1 Like |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by unphilaz(m): 3:15am On Jun 28, 2015 |
Dlionsheart:WORD |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by unphilaz(m): 3:21am On Jun 28, 2015 |
zaragal: To the bolded, its really strong. The red is FACT! 1 Like |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by charleff512(m): 3:23am On Jun 28, 2015 |
Omavik:What makes him happy will definitely break someone's heart and lead to break up. |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Tundeiab(m): 3:59am On Jun 28, 2015 |
mysweetnina:This is why I don't suppose spouses living separately. |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by xakakes: 4:31am On Jun 28, 2015 |
mysweetnina:my honest opinion right:you are a f..L |
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