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10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by MEGGATRON(m): 1:17pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Marriage in your 30s is way better than in your 20s. Now that I have my happily ever after, I can’t imagine going through life with my ex-husband. Marriage works when you’ve found the right person. But there are also advantages to waiting until you’re a little older to tie the knot:
You’ve dated around, know what’s out there, and got all the bad boy loving out of your system.
During my research, I found that many women got married because they thought they’d never find anyone else to compare to their first love, so they settled.
You’re creating yourself. By your 30s, you know who you are and what you can offer a partner. You’re not going to outgrow each other.
Instead of fighting over little things or pushing issues under the rug, you know how to address them. 5. You know what you want. You’re not going to waste time dating someone in your 30s when you know it’s not going anywhere, so the partner you marry will be someone with whom you can have a successful future.
By bringing out the best in yourself, you’re enhancing your marriage.
Finances are a huge source of conflict for couples and a reason many young couples divorce. Who wants to spend all their nights fighting about cash flow?.
This provides you the time and energy to focus on a marriage. 9. You’ve had time to live alone. Either with a roommate or love interest, and you’ve become a responsible adult. You’re not learning this while adjusting to marriage.
In your 20s, you’re facing pressure from friends, family, and society to follow the norm. In your 30s, you have the courage to stand up for yourself. And that will lead you to where you should be and who’s supposed to accompany you on this life adventure. http://9javibes.com/lifestyle-relationships/10-valid-reasons-you-should-get-married-in-your-30s-not-your-20s/?utm_source=&utm_medium=facebook Cc lalasticlala Ishilove ( I'm still mad at you!) 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by INTROVERT(f): 1:18pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
For guys abi? Don't mind this OP o ladies. Please if you see a nice handsome serious hardworking guy please settle down. Guys can afford to wait till 40 self cause they can still see one small girl to deceive and marry . The same guys will think of you as a 10th hand who as been passed around if you even mention 28 talk less of 32. BETTER YET OP CORRECT THE TITLE OF THIS THREAD. 3 Likes |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by buygala(m): 1:19pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
One woman's poison, another woman's food While some women get married at 19 and live happily ever after, some get married at 37 and end up getting passed around 6 husbands before they are 55 Point is.... Not everyone is destined for a blissful marriage, or even any marriage at all |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by buygala(m): 1:19pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
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Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by agarawu23(m): 1:21pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Marriage is all about happiness and being with someone that will give you everlasting joy though some blv in early marriage why some don't. The fact is you must be fully ready with the listed above especially finance (for guys) , it's very important and you must be matured enough to handle your marriage. Marriage no be play play o, it will take you time to figure out the right one, the more you screen them , the more your age increase. But at the end of the day, you will finally end up with one and you will have to live with him/her with the experience you have learned so far. don't screen much o Ladies, our 'time' isn't same with yours. a guy can get married at any age if he is financially OK and ready. but ladies get bus stop o....... |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by ArchEnemy(m): 1:22pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Some points are good. But delay does not necessarily offer the best at all times |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by Nobody: 1:22pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
The delays in school and other academic/career pursuit will compel you to wait till 30s. Where are you running to sef? |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by MEGGATRON(m): 1:22pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by zinachidi(m): 1:23pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
INTROVERT:abeg leave this space for us na abeg. |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by zinachidi(m): 1:23pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
buygala: |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by Drinkwater(m): 1:25pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Why not wait till 40, I think is better you'll even improve on all you listed above. Fatuos and Irrational!! |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by temitemi1(m): 1:26pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
What abt guys |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by Nobody: 1:26pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
A woman should marry in her 20s, a guy can wait till he is in his 30s. |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by Nobody: 1:28pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
INTROVERT:ur desperation for "likes" is appalling. U need a life like seriously. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by Aspiregreat: 1:28pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
INTROVERT: More or Less. |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by MEGGATRON(m): 1:31pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by Ishilove: 1:31pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
'sowed, not 'sewed'. 'Sow' has to do with planting, while 'sew' has to do with stitching. |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by Nobody: 1:33pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Ishilove:mommy english |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by Aspiregreat: 1:34pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by Aspiregreat: 1:36pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by Olsoo(m): 1:38pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
...and what if I have all these above features,achieved all these and feel ready in my 20s ? People should get married whenever they feel and know they are ready. Some won't until 40 sef. |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by yorubaboiy: 1:42pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
WAT IF IT DOESNT GO AS PLANNED ...LIKE GETTING MARRIED IN UR 30'S |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by ggrin(f): 1:45pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
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Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by Nobody: 1:49pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
I don't support this....I plan to get married by God's grace 23-25 |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by Infomizer(m): 1:51pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Nothing stops any smart or emotionally intelligent 20-something year old from meeting these criteria... 1 Like |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by Olsoo(m): 1:53pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
buygala: |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by Nobody: 1:58pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Ishilove: Aunty ishilove, you like correction too much. Were you once a full time, primary school teacher? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by Aitee1: 2:07pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Singles giving married advice since 1500BC |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by Nobody: 2:11pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
okay |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by Nobody: 2:35pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Ishilove: were you the one that deleted my thread? -the funny face thread ✘ |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by ademoladeji(m): 3:04pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Orisirisi... Better in the 50s sef |
Re: 10 Valid Reasons You Should Get Married In Your 30s, Not Your 20s by ademoladeji(m): 3:05pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Ishilove: Blunder finder!!! |
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