Marriage in your 30s is way better than in your 20s.
Now that I have my happily ever after, I can’t
imagine going through life with my ex-husband.
Marriage works when you’ve found the right
person.
But there are also advantages to waiting until you’re
a little older to tie the knot:

1. By your 30s, you most likely have sowed your
oats.

You’ve dated around, know what’s out there, and
got all the bad boy loving out of your system.

2. You’ve had enough time to recover from your
first major heartbreak.

During my research, I found that many women got
married because they thought they’d never find
anyone else to compare to their first love, so they
settled.

3. Your 20s are about self-indulgence.

You’re creating yourself. By your 30s, you know
who you are and what you can offer a partner.
You’re not going to outgrow each other.

4. With age comes maturity and better
communication skills.

Instead of fighting over little things or pushing
issues under the rug, you know how to address
them.

5. You know what you want.

You’re not going to waste time dating someone in
your 30s when you know it’s not going anywhere,
so the partner you marry will be someone with
whom you can have a successful future.

6. You’ve established self-confidence.

By bringing out the best in yourself, you’re
enhancing your marriage.

7. By your 30s, you’ve hopefully learned how to
manage money.

Finances are a huge source of conflict for couples
and a reason many young couples divorce. Who
wants to spend all their nights fighting about cash
flow?.

8. You’re more secure in your career in your 30s

This provides you the time and energy to focus on
a marriage.

9. You’ve had time to live alone.

Either with a roommate or love interest, and
you’ve become a responsible adult. You’re not
learning this while adjusting to marriage.

10. You’ve found your voice.

In your 20s, you’re facing pressure from friends,
family, and society to follow the norm. In your 30s,
you have the courage to stand up for yourself. And
that will lead you to where you should be and
who’s supposed to accompany you on this life
adventure.


http://9javibes.com/lifestyle-relationships/10-valid-reasons-you-should-get-married-in-your-30s-not-your-20s/?utm_source=&utm_medium=facebook

Cc lalasticlala
Ishilove ( I'm still mad at you!)

For guys abi?

Don't mind this OP o ladies. Please if you see a nice handsome serious hardworking guy please settle down.

Guys can afford to wait till 40 self cause they can still see one small girl to deceive and marry . The same guys will think of you as a 10th hand who as been passed around if you even mention 28 talk less of 32.


BETTER YET OP CORRECT THE TITLE OF THIS THREAD.

One woman's poison, another woman's food


While some women get married at 19 and live happily ever after, some get married at 37 and end up getting passed around 6 husbands before they are 55

Point is.... Not everyone is destined for a blissful marriage, or even any marriage at all

INTROVERT:
For guys abi?

No..

For goats

Marriage is all about happiness and being with someone that will give you everlasting joy

though some blv in early marriage why some don't. The fact is you must be fully ready with the listed above especially finance (for guys) , it's very important and you must be matured enough to handle your marriage.

Marriage no be play play o, it will take you time to figure out the right one, the more you screen them , the more your age increase. But at the end of the day, you will finally end up with one and you will have to live with him/her with the experience you have learned so far.

don't screen much o Ladies, our 'time' isn't same with yours. a guy can get married at any age if he is financially OK and ready. but ladies get bus stop o.......

Some points are good. But delay does not necessarily offer the best at all times

The delays in school and other academic/career pursuit will compel you to wait till 30s.
Where are you running to sef?

buygala:
ok

buygala THE SPECIAL ONE.

The BASHORUN GAA of romance section. LOL

INTROVERT:
For guys abi?

abeg leave this space for us na abeg.

Why not wait till 40, I think is better you'll even improve on all you listed above. Fatuos and Irrational!!

What abt guys

A woman should marry in her 20s, a guy can wait till he is in his 30s.

INTROVERT:
For guys abi?

Don't mind this OP o ladies. Please if you see a nice handsome serious hardworking guy please settle down.

Guys can afford to wait till 40 self cause they can still see one small girl to deceive and marry . The same guys will think of you as a 10th hand who as been passed around if you even mention 28 talk less of 32.


BETTER YET OP CORRECT THE TITLE OF THIS THREAD.

ur desperation for "likes" is appalling. U need a life like seriously.

INTROVERT:
For guys abi?

Don't mind this OP o ladies. Please if you see a nice handsome serious hardworking guy please settle down.

Guys can afford to wait till 40 self cause they can still see one small girl to deceive and marry . The same guys will think of you as a 10th hand who as been passed around if you even mention 28 talk less of 32.

More or Less.

1. By your 30s, you most likely have sewed your
oats.

'sowed, not 'sewed'. 'Sow' has to do with planting, while 'sew' has to do with stitching.

Ishilove:
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'sowed, not 'sewed'. 'Sow' has to do with planting, while 'sew' has to do with stitching.

mommy english

firstEVA:
ur desperation for "likes" is appalling. U need a life like seriously.

Like Badly

temitemi1:
What abt guys

40's

...and what if I have all these above features,achieved all these and feel ready in my 20s ?

People should get married whenever they feel and know they are ready. Some won't until 40 sef.

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I don't support this....I plan to get married by God's grace 23-25

Nothing stops any smart or emotionally intelligent 20-something year old from meeting these criteria...

buygala:

No..


For goats

Singles giving married advice since 1500BC

okay

Ishilove:
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'sowed, not 'sewed'. 'Sow' has to do with planting, while 'sew' has to do with stitching.

were you the one that deleted my thread? -the funny face thread ✘

Orisirisi...
Better in the 50s sef

Ishilove:
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'sowed, not 'sewed'. 'Sow' has to do with planting, while 'sew' has to do with stitching.

Blunder finder!!!