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Why you should never go through your partner's phone but then what do u suppose he does?

I don't think it's general...

Isn't it better for me to know the truth than to be fooled?


XavierBlue

You were unfortunate

The truth hurts buh its much berra than living with lies...

Cutehector:
The truth hurts buh its much berra than living with lies...

yea true.



This situation hurts so much. I'm sure so many things would be going through his mind right now and the marriage will never be the same again. Just like the saying "curiosity killed the cat". But then the challenge is, would it not be a good idea to know the truth? A great poser.

Now that he found out he was second choice; would that revelation add a penny to his life? Or make him happier? It'd prolly ruin his happiness, and his ego.
Am all about knowing the truth, if its early on, but in this case man, its too late.
He'd wish he never got to know about it.

Yh if he is second best .. He should be happy he found out now than later.
Some dont know and be living life of lies

Cutehector:
The truth hurts buh its much berra than living with lies...

Trust me bruh, you would wish you never found out.

dablazor:
Trust me bruh, you would wish you never found out.

that is why the truth hurts! Dnt u get

dablazor:
Trust me bruh, you would wish you never found out.

I love to know the truth, so I can deal with it now than later, I remembered the day I read my gfs chat with a friend of hers where she said she has no plan marrying a Yoruba guy that, she's the only girl and it won't be easy for her folks to let her marry from anoda tribe, being an Imo girl, this is someone we had plans to get married someday, when I read it, I paused, nd read it again, I didn't get myself for a while until I confronted her.
I think it's a good idea to check one's partner's phone once in a while, too many shocking secrets are always there to find out.

LadyBoss1:
Yh if he is second best .. He should be happy he found out now than later.
Some dont know and be living life of lies

This same lady might have been acting and treating him like the best thing that has ever happened to her, he'll be shocked seeing this.

if he is SU. i won't bother.....

jimmy4x:
I love to know the truth, so I can deal with it now than later, I remembered the day I read my gfs chat with a friend of hers where she said she has no plan marrying a Yoruba guy that, she's the only girl and it won't be easy for her folks to let her marry from anoda tribe, being an Imo girl, this is someone we had plans to get married someday, when I read it, I paused, nd read it again, I didn't get myself for a while until I confronted her.
I think it's a good idea to check one's partner's phone once in a while, too many shocking secrets are always there to find out.

Man that sucks, she shouldn't have kept that from you, besides she might just wanna give her friend that impression for a reason best known to her, I believe you did ask why?

Cutehector:
that is why the truth hurts! Dnt u get

I do get it, but sometimes, you'd wish you never found out.. I been in this position twice before..
Sometime ago my ex-girl had a chat with a friend and told em some crazy ass shit about me, things I always thought she adore about me, and they had a hell of a laugh out of it, man I was totally disturbed I felt betrayed and erthing, the bad side is; I really loved her, and after I confronted her about it, I figured she loved me just as much, but I couldn't just get that stick out of my head, I lost someone that loves me genuinely from prying around her fone, I always wish I could go back in time and never had look.
Sometimes, the truth should remain buried bruh, that's what I think.

dablazor:
Man that sucks, she shouldn't have kept that from you, besides she might just wanna give her friend that impression for a reason best known to her, I believe you did ask why?



I do get it, but sometimes, you'd wish you never found out.. I been in this position twice before..
Sometime ago my ex-girl had a chat with a friend and told em some crazy ass shit about me, things I always thought she adore about me, and they had a hell of a laugh out of it, man I was totally disturbed I felt betrayed and erthing, the bad side is; I really loved her, and after I confronted her about it, I figured she loved me just as much, but I couldn't just get that stick out of my head, I lost someone that loves me genuinely from prying around her fone, I always wish I could go back in time and never had look.
Sometimes, the truth should remain buried bruh, that's what I think.

sure, I did ask.