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Shit happens but love conquers all... See it as a mistake and forgive her

u sleep with another too then 50/50

my candid advice - Don't go ahead with the Marriage plans if u know u cant live with that feeling of not trusting her

mrsefan:
u sleep with another too then 50/50

and what will that leads to?

I no dey for her mind biko.

Forgive and wife her jare.. It's one of those things.

Or,
Can you swear you didn't yansh another babe for that seven months??
Some women can't stay that long without serious hammering, so she relieves her herself, what is the harm?

Some people sef.

Erukumakanaki:
and what will that leads to?

it will lead to 60/60

Ur advise is misleading

mrsefan:
u sleep with another too then 50/50

mrsefan:
it will lead to 60/60

very Pointless Point!

Bro Chill Jor..... What if she Just said it to Really Know if you Trust her?
Take this From me ' she's not Cheating until You Catch Her'
#Peace

Hmmm

Guys self,it nt like u didn"t sleep with anoda gurl during those months. See beyond her flaws and let go. But if u knw u cn"t forget it, just end the affair becos u may neva trust her again. What is love without trust!

Heart breaking. I would lose trust for my partner too except we were broken or something. So what will you do with this information?

kilode100:
I no dey for her mind biko.

Forgive and wife her jare.. It's one of those things.

Or,
Can you swear you didn't yansh another babe for that seven months??
Some women can't stay that long without serious hammering, so she relieves her herself, what is the harm?

Some people sef.

senseless post.

kendrick9:
senseless post.

It seems you are in a similar situation?
Wife and forgive her biko.

so now if we tell you to break up with her..

you go do am?


And don't rule out they huge possibility dat she just made it up to stir up some emotions in ur (probably) stale relationship.


it might seem counter-productive but.....



never rule out the possibility.

Kini big deal

kilode100:
It seems you are in a similar situation?
Wife and forgive her biko.

i have no idea what u are saying.... i just thought ur advice was trash.

Its not the last time she will sleep with someone, and its not the last time you will sleep with someone. These things happen in marriages a lot but people simply refuse to talk about it. Marriage is human invention to claim ownership of women. Nature didnt invent marriage. Humans did. And anything created by humans, arent perfect, so is marriage. How many times do married women and even people's fiancee play karma sultra on my bed ? Uncountable!

Although I can't tolerate cheating either from the man or the woman.... I advice you to do what your mind tells you. But on the other side, if you know you love her so well and can handle that distrust with ease then you can go ahead. You can't have a hundred percent perfect lady... have in mind that over a thousand people are also seeing her and are heads over hill to sleep with her. women generally loves patronage not minding the consequences. this doesn't mean she is not in love with you. if you break up now you both will regret. Take things easy and explore better avenues in building trust once again in her. Don't fail to invite me to the wedding proper.

We all know whatever we say here wouldn't make a difference in ur relationship/decision dude.
But dn d best advice had bn doled out 2 u, if u knw u can't ever wipe dat confession off ur memory it's best u quit(ur choice tho) because it will defo constitute a beta part of ur thought abt her whneva u r away in ur marriage(if eventually u marry her)...In as much as u still get 2 think abt, u cant eva trust her again no mata ao she tries 2 redeem hersef. She might even b pulling ur legs sef

Somethings are better left untold

See why the truth hardly comes by these days If she wasn't truthful to you, the trust u had in her would have been intact, now she's truthful to you, no more trust.









At least you should respect her for being honest to you and not break up with her cos she told you the truth.
Btw were u also honest to her by telling her how many you slept with? I doubt. Put yourself in her shoes and treat her the way you will like to be treated if it were u.
Respect that lady jor, her kind is rare, besides she knows it was wrong, that's why she opened up to you. Who knows, She might have cheated because she thought you were no longer into her like before, considering the distance and time interval. Don't judge or distrust her cos she told you the truth.

#truthShouldBeEncouraged

no one is 100% perfect. forgive her and wife her jare




btw. don't forget to invite nairaland o for the wedding

Dump her...

Jollyjoy:
Guys self,it nt like u didn"t sleep with anoda gurl during those months. See beyond her flaws and let go. But if u knw u cn"t forget it, just end the affair becos u may neva trust her again. What is love without trust!

im not sure there was anywhr he said he slept with another girl,from his write up,we have to assume that he didnt

but on a more serious note,d girl wasnt smart..what did she xpect by telling you that,knowing yu wont take it well...well im not supporting lying in a relationship,but discretion shud b used at times..over stretch d truth a little ,well op yu cant get over it..its trully a testing timv for ur relationship..but for d fact she cud tell yu sth like that means that she feels yu wud forgive her..mayb you are d docile and gentle type..thats y she feels yu wud b a gentleman nd yu wud understand nd forgive her

she definitely slept with more than one guy.
be wise bro and use your head more than your heart.

Dude, quit this your so-called relationship. What are you waiting for?

I'm beginning to understand why lots of men get the crap they get.

So... so fucking what...?!
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Get out of the kitchen if you can't handle the heat... besides... Nah you go find trouble... what if she's joking... But I hope she's not... But you as a guy.... you Bleep up...
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what sort of question is... babe... How many guys have you slept with...?!
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You guys nowadays take fucking too seriously...