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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Rexnegro(m): 2:57pm On Jul 02, 2015
glimpse33:
OP, you should be greatful you are handsome!

let the ugly guys tell you their pains first, then you would be thankful to your creator!

note* ugly guys shouldn't quote me tongue
I quote u do ur worst ..

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by angieberry(f): 2:57pm On Jul 02, 2015
So you had to upload your picture to prove your point
Thok:
Since Na ma guy Write this, make I comment. So so true, most especially when the one you want go dey give you toughhh time.

Also, some dude feel that all you're about is to knack all knackables.
imagine when your friend comes asking you what the latest style is?....

Naijaboiy, Na me Baritone.. figure out who.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by zyzxx(m): 2:58pm On Jul 02, 2015
thank God
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by misspicy(f): 2:59pm On Jul 02, 2015
naijaboiy:

It's not always the case. smiley
but u no fine,u dnt need to boda abt that cheesy
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Thok(m): 2:59pm On Jul 02, 2015
angieberry:
You got a problem with that?
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by jaz(m): 2:59pm On Jul 02, 2015
erm,,, what's the summary cos it seems i really missed the point

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by khalhokage(m): 2:59pm On Jul 02, 2015
The struggle is real.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 2:59pm On Jul 02, 2015
misspicy:
fine boys are cheats.
mcheeeeew!!!!!!!!!!!!
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Bruno3000(m): 3:00pm On Jul 02, 2015
Very very true op. Especially no 3. Its funny hw u meet some pple for d first time and they immediately start hating... Now I knw why.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 3:00pm On Jul 02, 2015
Thok:
Since Na ma guy Write this, make I comment. So so true, most especially when the one you want go dey give you toughhh time.

Also, some dude feel that all you're about is to knack all knackables.
imagine when your friend comes asking you what the latest style is?....

Naija boiy, Na me Baritone.. figure out who.
Broos! How far na?

I come dey wonder where you hide since.

Na you be the dark guy for that picture abi?
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by deejayALFY(m): 3:01pm On Jul 02, 2015
glimpse33:
OP, you should be greatful you are handsome!

let the ugly guys tell you their pains first, then you would be thankful to your creator!

note* ugly guys shouldn't quote me tongue

d same wit me bt i tnk God i handsom... #TeamHandsom
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by misspicy(f): 3:01pm On Jul 02, 2015
Loveren:
mcheeeeew!!!!!!!!!!!!
no need to worry as u no fine tongue
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 3:01pm On Jul 02, 2015
Naijaboiy, don't worry. Your loneliness is over because u will receive countless number of PM's and all that.

Excellent write up but I am not a handsome dude sad sad

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by IamLEGEND1: 3:01pm On Jul 02, 2015
tinkle:


can I mail you

i havent really gotten the hang of how the mail thing works but if you can check ur inbox kind lady, i will be very grateful.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by okazuu(m): 3:02pm On Jul 02, 2015
so on point especially 3&4
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 3:02pm On Jul 02, 2015
misspicy:

no need to worry as u no fine tongue
LOL e b like say u want make i snatch u leave ur guy o
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by angieberry(f): 3:02pm On Jul 02, 2015
*stiffles laughter*
No. Not at all.
Okbye
Thok:

You got a problem with that?
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by kennysteve77: 3:03pm On Jul 02, 2015
naijaboiy:
Being a handsome or good looking guy is a very wonderful gift of nature which every body see as a good thing. People who are born good looking are always grateful to be created that way by their maker. The society always tend to think these set of people always get things done easily because of their looks. They are also believed to always easily attract the female opposite sex of any type. They are given some kind of special preference most times.

But one thing people fail to notice is that these set of people are just human beings who encounter some setbacks as a result of their physical features.

Now let's analyse some of these setbacks or disadvantages together.

1) Objectification: People tend to objectify handsome or good looking guys. They tend to define you by only your superficial attributes and fail to read you as a person,,because they miss to see anything in you besides your looks. For example,, they hardly think you are good at anything else other than just being good looking. Your looks will seem to over shadow every other quality in you. This issue has tasked good looking guys to work harder and prove their worth to people that they have other things to offer than just a mere good looking physique.

2) Topic of discussion: To the Handsome guys in the house. Have you noticed that you seem to be a topic of discussion in little groups especially amongst idlers. Those who don't really have anything doing other than gossip. They just settle down to discuss you and say all sorts of things about you. Even the things that you can never do.

3)Envy/insecurity: Sometimes people tend to get envious at you for no reason. Some get jealous by mere looking at you. You'll have your friends whom are less good looking than you being insecure whenever you are around them. They wouldn't let you follow them whenever they want to meet their girlfriend. You try to be nice and they accuse you of trying to snatch their girlfriends.

4) Loneliness: It is a very surprising Fact that some,,if not most good looking guys are lonely. Except maybe the extroverts who defy the odds to make friends themselves. Most people conclude that guys who are handsome already have so many people clustered around them. A girl would see a good looking guy but she will choose to ignore him because she feels he already has a lot of girls at his beck and call,,therefore it would be a waste of time getting to know him. When this keeps happening,,you discover that most handsome guys have little or few friends while some are even single without a girlfriend to call their own.

5) High Expectations: Some times people give a lot of high expectations to good looking guys. Most times they expect you to be the head or leader. They feel since you are good looking you should be able to make decisions and be charismatic. They would want to follow your every step. While this can be very difficult for the guys who aren't outspoken/introverted,,it could work out well for the confident ones. So it's a bit of an advantage and disadvantage. But the problem comes when you do something out of what your followers expect of you. There will now be a crisis between pleasing yourself and pleasing the people that expect so much from you.

6)Pretty girls play hard to get: Now this is a very confusing fact. But it is of a truth that girls who are also good looking will play hard to get and put up a higher wall of defence when you are trying to approach them. Have you wondered why a beautiful girl easily succumbs to the toasting of that your "not-so-good-looking" friend but she keeps posting you whenever you approach her?. It is difficult to get their sense of interest. She feels that her showing of interest in you is a massive conceit of power.

7) Intimidation: The case is not any better with a less attractive girl. When a handsome guy is talking to a girl less attractive than he is she may feel way too intimidated. She may also feel he just wants to use her for sex and she wouldn't want to date someone more attractive than her because she can't use her sexuality power. A guy also has to become careful of this type as they may become really clingy to him after they have gone intimate for a while. And any sign of dis interest shown by him automatically makes him a heart breaker and from there he's tagged a "player".

8 ) Confidence is misunderstood for arrogance: The sub heading has already explained the point briefly. Good looking guys who are confident and not shy of showing off what they have are considered to be arrogant and proud. They are looked at as condescending. It has become so bad that they don't even know of the best way to reply to a compliment again. There is no way a handsome guy will reply such compliments without coming off as proud and ignoring the compliment completely is not even an option.

9) excessive self-confidence might turn into vanity: On the other hand,,we have some set of good looking guys who become over confident and dwell on their looks for everything. They allow the praises get to their head and concentrate on their looks alone. They ignore other important aspects of life and depend on their good looks to get them what they want. They forget that everything is vanity at the end.

10) share yours. wink

Cc: Lalasticlala.
Ishilove.

Hahaha... But one thing I've observed in our society (especially this developing Nigeria), is that the masculine version of a hot and sexy lady is a rich guy with great affluence and not the handsome or 'beautiful' guy. The good looking guy who is poor ends up as a toy in the hands of ladies he is meant to dominate.

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Bruno3000(m): 3:03pm On Jul 02, 2015
naijaboiy:

How does admiring another guy mean that a girl is a hoe?

It's of a fact that other guys who are of average looks are scared of their good looking friend to take their girlfriends.

You just don't want to understand the point. Instead you want to attack.

By the way the topic of the thread never said "handsome girls",,so why are you this sensitive? undecided
I tire o... Typical naija girl.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Thok(m): 3:04pm On Jul 02, 2015
naijaboiy:
I dey.. Na read only mode now. Good guess. Your ministry they move.. cool
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 3:04pm On Jul 02, 2015
WE HANDSOME GUYS HAVE A LOT OF PAIN.

WOMEN ALWAYS LIKE HARASSING ME EVEN HERE IN NAIRALAND angry

THAT MAD WOMAN HAVE HARASS MY LIFE TO SOME EXTEND, SHE JUST LIKE CALLING ME ODE FOR NO GOOD REASON angry


I WON'T GO INTO NAME CALLING OR SO ON.



I HAVE RECEIVE MORE THAN 100 PM FROM SOME MADAME AND OLDER WOMEN HERE IN NAIRALAND. JUST CHECK MY DP AND SEE WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by naijaboiy: 3:04pm On Jul 02, 2015
misspicy:

but u no fine,u dnt need to boda abt that cheesy
Lol,,no mind me jare.

I just wan help the fine guys out there. cheesy

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Krismart(m): 3:04pm On Jul 02, 2015
chudidonas:
I was expectng this and it is spot on.

Once you're handsome, every girl believes you have a girlfriend and you're automatically a cheat.
If you're handsome, even the cheap girls you know their story will want love and commitment from you immediately you say Hi to them. Lol
True talk. Am a victim
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 3:04pm On Jul 02, 2015
misspicy:
fine boys are cheats.
How you take know?Dem tell you say na all pu.ssy dey attractive?Forget it,if you are not attractive to a guy there is no how his joystick will rise for you.That's what it is.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Obodo999(m): 3:05pm On Jul 02, 2015
glimpse33:
OP, you should be greatful you are handsome!

let the ugly guys tell you their pains first, then you would be thankful to your creator!

note* ugly guys shouldn't quote me tongue

Yes I am ugly but that hasn't stop me building 3 houses.
Besides not having girlfriends while hustling enables me to focus and build those houses. cool

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by drss(m): 3:05pm On Jul 02, 2015
Wow! Great topic. smiley
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Lovexme(m): 3:06pm On Jul 02, 2015
angieberry:
*stiffles laughter*
No. Not at all.
Okbye

#1 trouble maker tongue
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Thok(m): 3:06pm On Jul 02, 2015
angieberry:
Laugh out loud, its a free world. have a cool day.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 3:06pm On Jul 02, 2015
naijaboiy:
Being a handsome or good looking guy is a very wonderful gift of nature which every body see as a good thing. People who are born good looking are always grateful to be created that way by their maker. The society always tend to think these set of people always get things done easily because of their looks. They are also believed to always easily attract the female opposite sex of any type. They are given some kind of special preference most times.

But one thing people fail to notice is that these set of people are just human beings who encounter some setbacks as a result of their physical features.

Now let's analyse some of these setbacks or disadvantages together.

1) Objectification: People tend to objectify handsome or good looking guys. They tend to define you by only your superficial attributes and fail to read you as a person,,because they miss to see anything in you besides your looks. For example,, they hardly think you are good at anything else other than just being good looking. Your looks will seem to over shadow every other quality in you. This issue has tasked good looking guys to work harder and prove their worth to people that they have other things to offer than just a mere good looking physique.

2) Topic of discussion: To the Handsome guys in the house. Have you noticed that you seem to be a topic of discussion in little groups especially amongst idlers. Those who don't really have anything doing other than gossip. They just settle down to discuss you and say all sorts of things about you. Even the things that you can never do.

3)Envy/insecurity: Sometimes people tend to get envious at you for no reason. Some get jealous by mere looking at you. You'll have your friends whom are less good looking than you being insecure whenever you are around them. They wouldn't let you follow them whenever they want to meet their girlfriend. You try to be nice and they accuse you of trying to snatch their girlfriends.

4) Loneliness: It is a very surprising Fact that some,,if not most good looking guys are lonely. Except maybe the extroverts who defy the odds to make friends themselves. Most people conclude that guys who are handsome already have so many people clustered around them. A girl would see a good looking guy but she will choose to ignore him because she feels he already has a lot of girls at his beck and call,,therefore it would be a waste of time getting to know him. When this keeps happening,,you discover that most handsome guys have little or few friends while some are even single without a girlfriend to call their own.

5) High Expectations: Some times people give a lot of high expectations to good looking guys. Most times they expect you to be the head or leader. They feel since you are good looking you should be able to make decisions and be charismatic. They would want to follow your every step. While this can be very difficult for the guys who aren't outspoken/introverted,,it could work out well for the confident ones. So it's a bit of an advantage and disadvantage. But the problem comes when you do something out of what your followers expect of you. There will now be a crisis between pleasing yourself and pleasing the people that expect so much from you.

6)Pretty girls play hard to get: Now this is a very confusing fact. But it is of a truth that girls who are also good looking will play hard to get and put up a higher wall of defence when you are trying to approach them. Have you wondered why a beautiful girl easily succumbs to the toasting of that your "not-so-good-looking" friend but she keeps posting you whenever you approach her?. It is difficult to get their sense of interest. She feels that her showing of interest in you is a massive conceit of power.

7) Intimidation: The case is not any better with a less attractive girl. When a handsome guy is talking to a girl less attractive than he is she may feel way too intimidated. She may also feel he just wants to use her for sex and she wouldn't want to date someone more attractive than her because she can't use her sexuality power. A guy also has to become careful of this type as they may become really clingy to him after they have gone intimate for a while. And any sign of dis interest shown by him automatically makes him a heart breaker and from there he's tagged a "player".

8 ) Confidence is misunderstood for arrogance: The sub heading has already explained the point briefly. Good looking guys who are confident and not shy of showing off what they have are considered to be arrogant and proud. They are looked at as condescending. It has become so bad that they don't even know of the best way to reply to a compliment again. There is no way a handsome guy will reply such compliments without coming off as proud and ignoring the compliment completely is not even an option.

9) excessive self-confidence might turn into vanity: On the other hand,,we have some set of good looking guys who become over confident and dwell on their looks for everything. They allow the praises get to their head and concentrate on their looks alone. They ignore other important aspects of life and depend on their good looks to get them what they want. They forget that everything is vanity at the end.

10) share yours. wink

Cc: Lalasticlala.
Ishilove.
damn!
Why do I always come late to the most important threads?

This also happens to intelligent guys. smiley

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Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 3:06pm On Jul 02, 2015
misspicy:
fine boys are cheats.
I'm handsome and light skinned for I'm real attractive,I am no cheat,I am a loyal lover and I'm grateful to God for that personality. So don't stereotype if ur handsome ex cheated on u.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 3:06pm On Jul 02, 2015
6)Pretty girls play hard to get: Now this is a very confusing fact. But it is of a truth that girls who are also good looking will play hard to get and put up a higher wall of defence when you are trying to approach them. Have you wondered why a beautiful girl easily succumbs to the toasting of that your "not-so-good-looking" friend but she keeps posting you whenever you approach her?. It is difficult to get their sense of interest. She feels that her showing of interest in you is a massive conceit of power.

Topic says "Guys" but this particular point is talking about girls.
Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Nobody: 3:06pm On Jul 02, 2015
YourMain:
According to stereotype, they're not usually very intelligent either.

STOP TYPING SHIITS

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