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MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by YOURMAN(op): 8:56pm On Jul 04, 2015
Hey people! I don't know if this is the right section for this ..but if its not maybe the mods can help move it to the right section

After my graduation from one of the nigerian universities, I have been staying with my elder brother.. He's the second born as a lady is my parents first born.. But he's the first son.. Age of about 42+.. Before I got admission in school I do stay with him and after my university education, I went back to his place, because his house is big and spacious to contain me .. After about two to three months, I have been going to work with him I noticed something..

There is this number he usually call wen we are going back home in the car.. The way he talks to the person on phone I doubt if its a guy he's talking to.. Because the number is saved with a guys name "henry" but I do hear a ladies voice at the back of the phone.. So I'm wondering..

After my final findings I do discover thats a lady..
Now the big question is my bro got 3 grown up kids.. And a wife..
What should I do? Should I just leave him to move on or tell the wife?? To me I feel that he's still a young flexing man! Maybe he should enjoy it while it last.. Or I should just tell the wife because the wife is cool to me and nice.. What should I do..

Also Note behind.. This my bro.. I do respect and fear him so much.. I can't even dare talk about a lady with him.. As his like a dad to me! So telling me to talk to my bro is out of the solution.. So my fellow people what should I do?
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by joganut(m): 8:57pm On Jul 04, 2015
*in felas voice* palava u dey find... all i can say is be smart bro luk out 4 urself.....

Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by demmy0325(m): 8:57pm On Jul 04, 2015
Its not a good thing your brother is doin... Buh Just keep shut... Aint Ur business at all..... Jst act like U dnt see it and face what concerns you...
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by YOURMAN(op): 8:58pm On Jul 04, 2015
Pls mods : ishilove lalasticlala need ur help
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by Cholls(m): 9:01pm On Jul 04, 2015
my brother...
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by kristonium(m): 9:02pm On Jul 04, 2015
You got no evidence against him yet..
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by YOURMAN(op): 9:04pm On Jul 04, 2015
Yea! Bt I'm 99 percent sure! He's cheatin
kristonium:
You got no evidence against him yet..
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by demmy0325(m): 9:05pm On Jul 04, 2015
kristonium:
You got no evidence against him yet..
.. So you are seriously telln her to tell his brothers wife..?.. undecided
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by YOURMAN(op): 9:06pm On Jul 04, 2015
Yes that has been wat I'm doin lately
demmy0325:
Its not a good thing your brother is doin... Buh Just keep shut... Aint Ur business at all..... Jst act like U dnt see it and face what concerns you...
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by Arami92: 9:08pm On Jul 04, 2015
Talk to your brother, not his wife.
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by YOURMAN(op): 9:09pm On Jul 04, 2015
I dey fear him oo! I reaaly cnt summon dt courage to do dat
Arami92:
Talk to your brother, not his wife.
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by MEILYN(m): 9:10pm On Jul 04, 2015
Face your front, marry your own wife and don't cheat on her. That solves it.
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by Arami92: 9:12pm On Jul 04, 2015
YOURMAN:
I dey fear him oo! I reaaly cnt summon dt courage to do dat
Then leave it, don't meddle in another man's household affairs. That's dangerous territory and he is your brother. Maybe speak to your mom about it and see if she has any advice, but don't go telling his wife na
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by demmy0325(m):
YOURMAN:
Yes that has been wat I'm doin lately
.. Then thats what U should continue to do forever... Does he love and respect his family....? Its 3kids gon bro.. She has no option..


.. I just hope the man realize his mistake sooner and stop..
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by Johnrake69: 9:13pm On Jul 04, 2015
Guy don't even think of it. Its really none of your business. They will use you to settle their quarell. Enough said already.
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by Nobody: 9:19pm On Jul 04, 2015
I believe confronting your brother in a decent manner, would be more appropriate wink

...just let him know you're aware of the happenings
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by msmon(m):
Don't even go near talking!
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by Dinnyuy(m): 9:22pm On Jul 04, 2015
u no fit use pen*s threaten ashawo" better allow your brother do his things b4 he allows you do his things%%
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by Nobody:
The advice is simple, it's none of your business, except you wanna wreck you brothers matrimonial home...
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by Kolade354(m): 9:29pm On Jul 04, 2015
Tomfrench:
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J for Jollof grin
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by Nobody: 9:32pm On Jul 04, 2015
Kolade354:
J for Jollof grin
grin
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by YOURMAN(op): 9:33pm On Jul 04, 2015
Okay. Done
lalasticlala:
please edit your thread and replace the short forms with full words.. thanks
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by Nobody: 9:38pm On Jul 04, 2015
"Henry"
grin
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by Slimzjoe(m): 9:41pm On Jul 04, 2015
You don't have to Do anything.....just Playfully Tell him something Like 'Bros! I dey see You ooo!'

That kind thing...try smiling When saying it else, na Wahala ooo grin
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by okoocheche(m): 9:55pm On Jul 04, 2015
my guy, ur brother no b fool oh, u n go understand. But u don't take action in everything u see or hear na. Just stay cool.
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by jnrbayano(m): 10:02pm On Jul 04, 2015
Mind your business
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by stinggy(m): 10:50pm On Jul 04, 2015
YOURMAN:
Pls mods : ish.ilove lalast.iclala need ur help
Either you talk your brother out of such affairs or STFU and stop acting woman angry
What even brought the thought of telling his wife?
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by 360ng: 10:52pm On Jul 04, 2015
Re: MY BROTHER IS Cheating On His Wife by Tval(m): 10:52pm On Jul 04, 2015
All these sham accounts created for posting grin
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