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What Do U Do?? by gabbidonb(op): 7:58am On Jul 06, 2015*

My friend is in dilemma; his gf has grown so fat over the years that he does not find her as attractive anymore. When he tries to discuss the issues with her; she wil be angry n demand my friend should love her the way she is n for who she is. My friend is confused n contemplating moving on. Please advice nlanders.

Re: What Do U Do?? by SPG4U(m): 7:59am On Jul 06, 2015

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Re: What Do U Do?? by Cutehector(m): 8:03am On Jul 06, 2015

Ur frnd isn't ready to get married den... He should go date an anorexic patient

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Re: What Do U Do?? by libertyfather(m): 8:04am On Jul 06, 2015

SPG4U:
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and this is for? cause the op add it at the end of his post

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Re: What Do U Do?? by agarawu23(m): 8:04am On Jul 06, 2015

he should try and take her to gym and if she refuse, the choice is left for the guy. I dislike fat chicks.

BTW the girl never settle down and she don dey gain weight, if she born nko?

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Re: What Do U Do?? by Nobody: 8:05am On Jul 06, 2015

Fix office pins on her head, tummy, hands, legs, all over her body - its known as acupuncture.
Watch your robust girlfriend deflate in no time.

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Re: What Do U Do?? by trendy01(f): 8:06am On Jul 06, 2015

He should talk to her nicely abt eating healthy and avoid late night food, they should exercise together and he should avoid buying her junk foods

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Re: What Do U Do?? by Cutehector(m): 8:08am On Jul 06, 2015

trendy01:
He should talk to her nicely abt eating healthy and avoid late night food, they should exercise together and he should avoid buying her junk foods

buy who junk food... Him wey dey complain say she fat na him go still use him money buy her icecream.. U dey tthink straght at all?

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Re: What Do U Do?? by funlord(m): 8:12am On Jul 06, 2015

Op there is no hope 4 your guy oh! Because 2 seperate fat person from food is like trying 2 seperate dogs from eating bones! Then this 1 come be woman on top? IMPOSSICANT!

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Re: What Do U Do?? by Nobody: 8:13am On Jul 06, 2015

Cutehector:
Ur frnd isn't ready to get married den... He should go date an anorexic patient

Remember he didn't meet her like that,she wasn't as big when he met her.

How about helping her lose the weight. "Hey babe,I'm going out for a run,u wanna join"? Stuff like that. In every relationship,there should be physical attraction.

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Re: What Do U Do?? by Nobody: 8:14am On Jul 06, 2015

gabbidonb:
My friend is in dilemma; his gf have grown so fat over the years that he does not find her as attractive anymore. When he tries to discuss the issues with her; she wil be angry n demand my friend should love her the way she is n for who she is. My friend is confused n contemplating moving on. Please advice nlanders.

he should take her to the gym bt if she refuse,then tell her to stop eating fatty and oily food.

Re: What Do U Do?? by gabbidonb(op): 8:34am On Jul 06, 2015

trendy01:
He should talk to her nicely abt eating healthy and avoid late night food, they should exercise together and he should avoid buying her junk foods

The lady has a very good job and eat junk a lot; she barely cook at home even on wknd, she eats in restaurant like everyday. My guy is just fed up with her stubborn attitude n I really can't advice him what to do

Re: What Do U Do?? by gabbidonb(op): 8:37am On Jul 06, 2015

agarawu23:
he should try and take her to gym and if she refuse, the choice is left for the guy. I dislike fat chicks.

BTW the girl never settle down and she don dey gain weight, if she born nko?

the lady has a very busy work schedule ; even at that she is somehow arrogant n feels my friend should love her no matter what

Re: What Do U Do?? by gabbidonb(op): 8:40am On Jul 06, 2015

funlord:
Op there is no hope 4 your guy oh! Because 2 seperate fat person from food is like trying 2 seperate dogs from eating bones! Then this 1 come be woman on top? IMPOSSICANT!

this is a real challenge for him; especially when the lady feels uncomfortable to deal with the issue n feel less loved each time that is mentioned

Re: What Do U Do?? by naijaboiy: 8:40am On Jul 06, 2015

[color=#1980BC]Mtcheew!

I will just walk away. [/color]

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Re: What Do U Do?? by Cutehector(m): 8:45am On Jul 06, 2015

ahsekeena:
Remember he didn't meet her like that,she wasn't as big when he met her.

How about helping her lose the weight. "Hey babe,I'm going out for a run,u wanna join"? Stuff like that. In every relationship,there should be physical attraction.

seems u Ddnt read d passage well.. She doesn't want to help hersef. She says he should accept her d way she is.. Dat means she doesnt wana slim down! Dnt u get?

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Re: What Do U Do?? by gabbidonb(op): 8:48am On Jul 06, 2015

Cutehector:
seems u Ddnt read d passage well.. She doesn't want to help hersef. She says he should accept her d way she is.. Dat means she doesnt wana slim down! Dnt u get?

exactly that is the bone of contention; she wants to slim down on her own accord not because the guy wanted him to; she feels not being appreciated for who she is .

Re: What Do U Do?? by Cutehector(m): 8:52am On Jul 06, 2015

gabbidonb:
exactly that is the bone of contention; she wants to slim down on her own accord not because the guy wanted him to; she feels not being appreciated for who she is .

this sums it all

cc: ahsekeena

Re: What Do U Do?? by gabbidonb(op): 8:52am On Jul 06, 2015

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Mtcheew!

I will just walk away. [/color]

v He is contemplating to that's why he needs help from anywhere in the world he can get it

Re: What Do U Do?? by gabbidonb(op): 8:54am On Jul 06, 2015

Cutehector:
this sums it all

cc: ahsekeena

my man is terribly devastated n worried abt the stress of starting all over again with another

Re: What Do U Do?? by agarawu23(m): 9:15am On Jul 06, 2015

gabbidonb:
the lady has a very busy work schedule ; even at that she is somehow arrogant n feels my friend should love her no matter what

arrogant is another case entirely. the guy should decide if he can cope or not

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Re: What Do U Do?? by eyeon(m): 9:25am On Jul 06, 2015

Does he need the road to move on through? . Oya follow Ngwa road.

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Re: What Do U Do?? by trendy01(f): 9:35am On Jul 06, 2015

Cutehector:
buy who junk food... Him wey dey complain say she fat na him go still use him money buy her icecream.. U dey tthink straght at all?

Mr man, open ur eyes wen reading, I said he should AVOID buying her junk foods

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Re: What Do U Do?? by trendy01(f): 9:36am On Jul 06, 2015

gabbidonb:
The lady has a very good job and eat junk a lot; she barely cook at home even on wknd, she eats in restaurant like everyday. My guy is just fed up with her stubborn attitude n I really can't advice him what to do

hmmmmmm dats bad

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Re: What Do U Do?? by Cutehector(m): 9:37am On Jul 06, 2015

trendy01:
Mr man, open ur eyes wen reading, I said he should AVOID buying her junk foods

why will he buy her junk food and stil be complainin for her to slim down? Does dat make sense?

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Re: What Do U Do?? by gabbidonb(op): 12:49pm On Jul 06, 2015

agarawu23:
arrogant is another case entirely. the guy should decide if he can cope or not

thanks for ur wonderful advice

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Re: What Do U Do?? by loomer: 1:02pm On Jul 06, 2015

Make she dey fat like pig dey go, until e don dey too late.

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Re: What Do U Do?? by Gurgle(f): 1:02pm On Jul 06, 2015*

Although its already been quoted it was mean so

erased

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Re: What Do U Do?? by Omotayor123(f): 1:44pm On Jul 06, 2015

op.. your friend has a problem with FAT huh

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Re: What Do U Do?? by gabbidonb(op): 2:34pm On Jul 06, 2015

Gurgle:
nawao love her for who she is

and who is she? LOL

although Im adding weight myself I wouldn't expect anybody to tolerate it at all

I cant advise your friend to abandon a fellow woman like me but if I were a man I no go suffer that nonsense at all. with fine babes everywhere chai

UNLESS

did she have any children for him? or she's just feeding herself for the winter

They have no kid yet; but my friend is planning to settle down with her n eventually have kids

Re: What Do U Do?? by gabbidonb(op): 2:36pm On Jul 06, 2015

Omotayor123:
op.. your friend has a problem with FAT

he does not like to have a fat woman in his life like settle down forever ; he prefers average n thick girls based on my experience from our friendship

Re: What Do U Do?? by gabbidonb(op): 2:39pm On Jul 06, 2015

trendy01:
He should talk to her nicely abt eating healthy and avoid late night food, they should exercise together and he should avoid buying her junk foods

thanks for ur brilliant suggestion

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