WORDS FROM A MOTHER TO HER DAUGHTER ABOUT MARRIAGE

1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is not a law
court.

2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home - placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and
trousers -lacks wisdom.

3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of "women's rights" to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself.

4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace
through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help.
A man should be eager to run away from office to be at home, for that should be the safest and closest place on earth for him.

5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean competition, It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to turn around and become the defacto head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of an empty home.

6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he
assumes that he is the head. Once he gets that
feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the head actually turns to wherever the neck wants without a protest.

7. A wife that does not pull herself away from
friends' influence and advice or even from the
control of her mother and father will have herself to blame.

8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses
women of different shapes and sizes to choose a wife But soon after childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of childbirth to let go of themselves. Many stop bothering about their looks,shape, dressing, etc.
Within 5 years of marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the man's aunt, even though she is 7 years younger. Her defence is that if he truly loves her, he should love her the way she is but when looking for a wife, he saw people like the present YOU and ignored them and settled for the former YOU. Today, you go to bed smelling of onions.... You go to bed wearing grandmothers' clothes. Why are you playing with your marriage? Love is not about looks - we know But looks enhances love and marriage There is a difference between someone disfiguring herself and the person being disfigured by an accident. Please don't be complacent. As hard as it may be, work on looking like you were when he first saw you and began the chase.

9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down
with headache or fever, "not in the mood," you are a joker, a serious comedian!

10. If your children suddenly become more
important to you than your husband, you need
prayers.

11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be pampered and fussed over while the man is a stone that has no emotions, you need to be pitied.

12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not
excite her husband. Wives are usually complacent
and presumptuous. A wife must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend, A girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more loving and always thinking of ways to wow her sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to win all arguments, does not call the man a "useless man", is not careless about her looks or dressing, always smiles and laughs with the man, sends the man sweet
messages and calls, etc. Are you your husband's
girlfriend in word and in deed?

LASTLY, DO NOT INFORM ME OF YOUR QUARRELS, I DIDN’T JOIN YOU TOGETHER, GOD DID, GO AND
INFORM HIM AND HE WILL SORT
YOU OUT.
#RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE BUILDER

Word of advice from a Father to his son about marriage


Never beat your wife.... If you feel aggressive, go register at the nearest boxing institute
.... A man's muscle should be employed in providing for his family, not assaulting it

Draw a limit to in-law burdens..... Don't take on a burden that isn't originally yours... When your father-in-law has grown up sons, why should you be the one to shoulder his burial expenses?
.... Be a good in-law and help out where it is ABSOLUTELY CONVENIENT for you... You haven't committed a crime by marrying their daughter

Do a DNA on all the kids she bears for you even before you take the step of naming them..... She could have 'accidentally' gotten pregnant for someone else.....There isn't a life more wasted than one spent unknowingly raising someone else's kids.... and no, this doesn't mean you dont trust her.... it's just that you don't like paying in money into the wrong bank account

Help out in domestic chores.... She is your wife, not your maid or slave.... Your peniss won't become smaller if you do the dishes or prepare Junior for school...After all, the home and kids belong to both of you, not only her


NEVER operate a joint account or buy landed property jointly with your wife..... The shy, sweet harmless cutie you married may in future turn out to be a ruthless scheming gold-digger who may even take steps to bankrupt you or appropriate your property to herself. ... Fall in love all you want, but don't give her the rope with which she can hang you



Written by buygala

Thank you

absolutely on point. but 78% of married ladies won't abide by any of these rules afta 6months of marriage

I see

My daughter don't play hard to get, be hard to get!

Absolutely on point. One of the major causes of our problems is the misplaced aggression to emulate the western culture. The nascent gender equality drive has subjected us to unfounded mendacious sentiments and has virtually made almost all our women to become feminists. And most of us are trying so hard to live an European life in Africa.
Every society operate based on their value system and cultural inclination. For instance, western countries encourage single mothers and so they are indirectly increasing the number of bastards and marriage breakups. In Africa, a woman is more dignified and respected by the society based on her ability to build an enviable home. In Africa, a respectful woman has more power and influence over a man and can get anything she wants.
To justify my point, a true african woman will appreciate this advice from a mother but it's a complete trash to a Western lady.
My fellow women, we must be truly African to live peacefully and happily in Africa as trying to be Western in Africa will result to increased frustration.
Woman submit and respect your husband and the Man should love his Wife.

[quote author=buygala post=35672812]dis inglish haf pass my power na



Op, can u please fit to transit it into Ibibio or idoma? [/quote
No nau na Itshekiri or Ijaw

histemple:
Absolutely on point. One of the major causes of our problems is the misplaced aggression to emulate the western culture. The nascent gender equality drive has subjected unfounded mendacious sentiments and has virtually made almost all our women to become feminists. And most of us are trying so hard to live an European live in Africa.
Every society operate based on their value system and cultural inclination. For instance, western countries encourage single mothers and so they are indirectly increasing the number of bastards and marriage breakups. In Africa, a woman is more dignified and respected by the society based on her ability to build an enviable home. In Africa, a respectful woman has more power and influence over a man and can get anything she wants.
To justify my point, a true african woman will appreciate this advice from a mother but it's a complete trash to a Western lady.
My fellow women, we must be truly African to live peacefully and happily in Africa as trying to be Western in Africa will result to increased frustration.
Woman submit and respect your husband and the Man should respect his Wife.

Coming from a woman? This is just beautiful. Men can get their own advice from this thread https://www.nairaland.com/2439762/steps-make-wife-happy
Cc: Ishilove
Lalasticlala

This is wonderful, OP welldone

Pinocchioo:
This is wonderful, OP welldone

Thanks

FP tins Jor... my guy u too much nice article

Let me buy this land first. I will comment after reading.

Quite true

Them no go hear..
Small thing them go wear jeans dey sleep

You have a dream? friends and family think you are a slowpoke, do the best you can to achieve it and get them to sing, 'He is our own'.
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We should do our wives or GFs a great favour by letting them see this, its either they see it as corrector or as a reminder

Very inspirational, this is the reason why marriages in the past lasted for decades. Unfortunately, some women nowadays think nagging all the time is the way forward. They have been influenced by trashy reality shows portraying women as naggers and hot tempered. Kudos to all the wise women in the world, you will enjoy your marriages

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histemple:
Absolutely on point. One of the major causes of our problems is the misplaced aggression to emulate the western culture. The nascent gender equality drive has subjected us to unfounded mendacious sentiments and has virtually made almost all our women to become feminists. And most of us are trying so hard to live an European life in Africa.
Every society operate based on their value system and cultural inclination. For instance, western countries encourage single mothers and so they are indirectly increasing the number of bastards and marriage breakups. In Africa, a woman is more dignified and respected by the society based on her ability to build an enviable home. In Africa, a respectful woman has more power and influence over a man and can get anything she wants.
To justify my point, a true african woman will appreciate this advice from a mother but it's a complete trash to a Western lady.
My fellow women, we must be truly African to live peacefully and happily in Africa as trying to be Western in Africa will result to increased frustration.
Woman submit and respect your husband and the Man should love his Wife.

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You are right, complete trash! See your mouth like truly African to live peacefully. You can't have your cake and eat it, love!

...gbam!

nice

Good advice

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Some hungry feminists here won't agree with no 5.
Well, these toothless internet aggressors are the most gentle in their homes.

And baby feminist shows up. The absence of a father figure in a person's life no good.

VictoriaBee:
I am sure a man wrote this but if that's a woman, could you please tell her things are fast evolving and no lady would be a doormat these days except dumb and leech ones that know not their right and wrong.

A woman with hot pus*** sy cannot be satisfied in bed

Nairaland feminist won't be happy...

Op. U be thief. U stole my post come make fp

I am sure a man wrote this but if that's a woman, could you please tell her things are fast evolving and no lady would be a doormat these days except dumb and leech ones that know not their right and wrong.