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| "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by HembaqMbk: 5:39pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Marriage counsellors keep advising singles to always marry their friends. My question is - who really is your "Friend" ?. I believe answer to this question will help us understand all these "Marry your friend" preaching. See thread where such advice was give - https://www.nairaland.com/5971268/marry-best-friend-bishop-chris Please I implore married men and women on this forum to tell us what it means to marry your friend and who your friend is in the context of marriage. Thanks. 22 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by ELibraryNG: 5:50pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
If you ask me na who I go ask? On a Serious note, if you have a best friend from the opposite sex, marry the person Modified. - All those shouting FTC always, how much Una dey collect from nairaland? 92 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by bukatyne(f): 5:52pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Your friend is your friend. 22 Likes |
| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by ImaIma1(f): 6:02pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Falling in love with your friend is awesome and makes life and marriage easier. I am a beneficiary of this  207 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Klass99(f): 7:12pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
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| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by LordKO(m): 8:30pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
ImaIma1: So ImaIma1 wey I de mobilize my village people to come follow me go and pay her bride price tomorrow don marry finish. 5 Likes |
| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by ImaIma1(f): 8:47pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
LordKO: Please de-mobilize them 36 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Righteousness89(m): 9:51pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Before Marriage, seek God's Face for Direction. Very Important As Humans, we are Extremely Limited.. God Speaks! God Directs! God Reveals! All you need is to seek Him with a Honest Heart! Don't seek God Almighty with a Choice in mind! If not devil may also give u a dream... I remember telling God years ago, that if I don't hear him, I won't Marry! I had so many people around me who were willing to marry me but my mind was made up. Glory to God, He Gave me His Choice for me.. Hearing God eliminates Struggles! When things are looking funny, HE Shows up and fixes it because HE is only Committed to where He sends you! It's what God Gives that He is committed to! 156 Likes 11 Shares |
| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by VirginFinder: 10:24pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Righteousness89: 7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by GboyegaD(m): 10:28pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Whoever you choose to marry, beyond the love, make him/her your friend. Be interested in what s/he is interested in, be willing to be that person s/he looks to spend quality time with. 87 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by HembaqMbk: 10:41pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Lalasticlala, RoyalRoy, can we have wider view here for more contributions? Thanks. |
| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by akaahs(m): 10:51pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Ur friend in marriage is someone U have real affection, someone U re fond Of or U like, someone U have strong bond, someone that support and feel deep connection. Summary ur friend is someone U can play, pray, or eat together. 85 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by HembaqMbk: 10:54pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
akaahs: Well elaborated. Thanks bro 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Boss13: 3:32am On Jul 06, 2020 |
@OP ignore this new breed of marriage counselors that know nothing about marriage but keep repeating talking points created by Hollywood, American Advert Companies, and Fantasy writers. These people have sold a deception and got a lot of people confused about marriage. Marriage has nothing to do with love. 74 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by tobechi74: 4:33am On Jul 06, 2020 |
anybody that add value to your life 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by flyingpig: 10:30am On Jul 06, 2020 |
GboyegaD: Exactly |
| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by mrkings84(m): 11:11am On Jul 06, 2020 |
My friend is my friend na... Abi my friend na your friend?? On a serious note, the only advice I will give to couples or intending couples is, LOVE SOMEONE YOU MARRY, DONT MARRY SOMEONE YOU LOVE. Don't be confused about that statement. It means, even if it's an unavoidable situation that made u both become husband and wife just love yourselves cos that's the only way your marriage can be successful. Saying u should not marry someone u love doesn't mean u should marry someone u hate..NO, but u will agree many people were lusting cos of maybe the current qualities their spouses had then, so what happens when those qualities are no longer available  Hatred sets in, and the family is torn apart.... Love your wife, love your husband!37 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by emmabest2000(m): 11:11am On Jul 06, 2020 |
Police is your friend Marry police  248 Likes 34 Shares
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| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Tonymegabush1(m): 11:12am On Jul 06, 2020 |
Your Frnd. Anyone u can laugh with like these 38 Likes
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| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by millionboi(m): 11:12am On Jul 06, 2020 |
Your friend may not want u as a spouse 20 Likes |
| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by PureGoldh(m): 11:12am On Jul 06, 2020 |
This question looks rhetorical in nature 2 Likes |
| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Alexaonfleek: 11:13am On Jul 06, 2020 |
Hmm. But if you look at it from another angle,marrying your friend might make you overfamiliar with him/her. Which might kill the sexual attraction. My opinion 13 Likes |
| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Nobody: 11:13am On Jul 06, 2020 |
I'll marry myself. I am my own best friend 21 Likes |
| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Farki: 11:13am On Jul 06, 2020 |
Some people will say Jesus is their friend. What they mean is marry the girl or guy you can vibe with and won't get tired of their presence. Not because she has enlarged ukwu and makes sweet pounded yam or he has oko like ogede and drives Bentley. 36 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by Kenny9857(m): 11:13am On Jul 06, 2020 |
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| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by osamz007: 11:13am On Jul 06, 2020 |
YOUR FRIEND NA DAT PERSON WEY GO DEY FOR YOU WHEN NO ONE DEY FOR YOU YOUR FRIEND NA THAT PERSON WEY GO SUPPORT YOUR HUSTLE YOUR FRIEND NA DAT PERSON WEY GO FIT UNDERSTAND YOUR DISPOSITION YOUR FRIEND NA DAT PERSON WEY GO LOVE YOU IRRESPECTIVE OF CIRCUMSTANCES YOUR FRIEND NA DAT PERSON WEY GO ALWAYS PUT YOU IN PRAYERS EITHER TO GOD ALLAH OR ELEDUMARE IN CONCLUSION YOUR FRIEND NA DAT PERSON WEY GO STAND LIKE LONDON BRIDGE WEY NO GO FALL INSPITE OF ALL WATERS OF LIFE WEY PASS UNDER ALL WINDS WEY HIT AM ALL LOADS WEY E GO CARRY. 48 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: "Marry Your Friend" - Who Then Is Your Friend? by joseph1832(m): 11:14am On Jul 06, 2020 |
One would think they're promoting homosexuality. Lol. Then again, hardly have I seen a man having a woman as his best friend and hardly have I seen a woman having a man as her best friend. 12 Likes 1 Share |
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