bushdoc9919:
Get a good creche. Possibly at place of work.

Re Creche.....that is something the Nigerian Government should invest in. Funding for creches in government offices, as well as generous maternity leave plus maternity leave for dads, and reduced working hours for working mums with babies under 12 months.....could help this young family.

A happy Nigerian Family makes Nigeria a Happy Nation!

leggo:
should you allow?? are you some sort of dictator?

mcocolok:
after all my suffer, i no still reach ftc.. God please help your boy

Burger01:

So, you haven't seen a two month old bay in the care of nanny while madam goes off to work? Siddown there. No be money dem go take cater for the baby?

jaybee3:
How about asking for resource support from your parents?
You can look at getting a creche for your baby
If her salary is way more than yours then simply resign

Above all, make sure you do family planning as a matter of urgency

Bonapart:
my guy, my believe be say money must surely come so we shouldn't take drastic moves to get money

"Labour not to be rich, cease from thy own wisdom" book of proverb

lurlah2014:
this is not about money its about survival

ndidibabe:
He should resign?

Burger01:

Bruhs, bone that proverb abeg. He who wears the shoes knows where it pinches the most. Money matter for family matter

jaybee3:

YES

What's wrong with that?

He is already struggling with the finances that will most certainly grow in line with the baby's growth

What if he was on a 50K per month job and the wife received a 500K per month job offer, should he still allow the wife lose out just because he simply wants to be the man?

Makes no economic sense

Bonapart:
survival is sure....
But as for me i would risk such....
Till he's at least 1

ndidibabe:
Hmm..

Midehi:
yea! that is a really tough one, my own advice is to allow her mum or yours; someone very close to you to stay and help with the baby till hes of age for daycare.

goodluck!

jaybee3:

hmm
No let cat bite your tongue so talk wetin dey ya mind

MOORCHMOORE:
I am a low income earner, with a wife, son (3 months +), nephew then 1 inlaw today another tomorrow.
My wife suddenly came home day before yesterday with the news she went Job interview.
The next day, she was ask to start work on next Monday.

Dilemma!
With what am passing through, I desire my wife to work so that we can meetup with some bills.

Our problem is we have a Son that is heading 4th month, her employers can't accept her with our baby.
She went to day cares around and was told they only admit a year plus. I tried to discourage her, knowing what our son is going to pass through. But she accused me of not being supportive.

Please I need professionals here.
This is one place I always get answers and support

steppin:
Op, you should get a maid from OLX nigeria.
I'm sure you'll find a lady perfect for the job.

ndidibabe:
Nothing really. Just strange..

Bonapart:
Money isn't worth the time we spent with our love ones
In this case it's a lil innocent child who needs her mom around him at all time
If it was me, even if am jobless and also dem broke, i no fit let my wife try such

Cutehector:
wat if they livn in one bedroom apartment?

Bonapart:
4 months baby? Money has indeed destroy the world
Think again