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Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Cutehector(m): 8:07pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Shezhawt:darlin, its not necessary traditional marriage must be done in ur home town, it can be done in ur father's house in d city... The main thing is just d presence of few uncles, ur dad"s frnds etc.. No biggie... Seems u just dnt wana do traditional marriage.. Why? |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by 0lushola(m): 8:16pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Hmm, WOMEN!! owk lemme paint the picture am looking here.. AMAKE wants the court marriage irrespective of any traditional or church weeding.. she feels the court is her maximum insurance incase prince decides to go waywArd.. or later in the future, if anytin happens, prince being d only man of the family, the family members may act above wat prince nd amake had already pland 4 demselves.. Which I think she is right to some extent. SHE'S GOT THE FEAR OF THE KN0WN AND THE UNKN0WN to battle with.. PRINCE on the other hand. being the 0nly man in his family, and also the head of the family in his own right, he's g0t trailer loads of responsibilities. inwhich he must accomplish'd. this is africa, we kn0w h0w tinz work here. So having that in mind + knowing the kind of w0man he wants to settle down with. he decides to 0ption out of anytin court or joind by the law.. hmmm are u guys thinking w0t am thining? THERE IS MORE TO THIS THAN WHAT WE CAN IMAGINE HERE.. |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by histemple: 8:16pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
It is important that both Amaka and Prince understand that marriage is the only known institution without graduates. But it appears that both of them understand it very well and are being cautious. Based on their stand, love is not their major reason for this marriage and regrettably so. Amaka is certainly not too sure of Prince's commitment and love just as Prince is uncertain about Amaka's love and how far the marriage will last. My stake in every marriage is for couples to marry for love because every other calculations such as children, property, security etc can fail. The truth is if a man doesn't love you as a wife, you will face hell until you are forced to seek divorce. And if a man marries you with the mindset that you compelled him to do court marriage because you foresee divorce so that you can get hold of a percentage of his wealth, he will not only sideline you but might kill you if that is his last option. As hard as it might sound, both of them should move on separately because I see a marriage that is destined to fail. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by OsoDupe(f): 8:26pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Let them do both. |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Nobody: 8:28pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Cutehector: Hahaha.... It's just as you said... No biggie... That's why not ... Besides anything traditional ain't my cup of coffee... |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Nobody: 8:30pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
freecocoa:If I'm ever gonna get married it is registry. Just note that the court doesn't protect anybody in d real sense...it is cheaper... guys shld opt for it. I saw anyhow guys today... doing their thing. Some second wives enjoy more than d recognized first... that is y oloshos are everywhere. |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by cyprus000: 8:32pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
efemenaslectura:[size=13pt] Then,it's better you jump inside lagoon,cos no human being can dictate for me. my fada/moda didn't do that. It will be one woman from nowhere that will do that...lyk watdefuck WTF..do you ladies think marriage is to men?..I personally don't think I will marry,so save me that crap. Cos you ain't doin no one any favour,its 50/50% So look for all this "sissy" men to shove that bullcrap terms and condition in their throat. What the heck do you ladies think love is?..a kind of mumu MODE It has come to my notice that you people use it to emmitionally blackmail gullible guyz and give it a new meaning to suit your selfish interest. I only pity those men..SMH [/size] |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Cutehector(m): 8:33pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Shezhawt:yea.. I like u, u dream big... Ur wedding's gona be in dubai.. I hope ur boyfrnd is already seeing to dhat.. |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Nobody: 8:34pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
suggyspic:This is nothing but conflict of interests. The igbo tradition demands that the union of a man and woman should also be solemnized traditionally aside the white wedding. So both marriages are as important as the other. The emphasis on traditional marriages differs from one community to the other. In some communities a man can pay his spouse dowry and MUST come back for the traditional wedding much later in the marriage (this means their first daughter must not wed until her mother's traditional marriage is performed). While in some communities, the man has no legal right over the children if he does not perform the traditional marriage rites. In my opinion, they should put heads together, find a way to make their union work. Five years of their courtship is enough to make their heads reason together. |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Neplusultra(f): 8:35pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
efemenaslectura:You win! 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by no2fuks(m): 8:37pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
the guy must be a pant |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Ikiriye(m): 8:37pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Prince should marry her in both,but make sure she contributes heavily as you in the marriage as in acquiring properties.don't acquire properties for her to grab when she is tired.empower her and if you sniff funny attitude it's time to sell off what property she knows you have bought without she knowing.hide your documents not in the house.men be wise. |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by omojeesu(m): 8:38pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
No wahala. They should have both. Court marriage first, then traditional follows. Each knows his or her motive. Where is love here? |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Nobody: 8:45pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Ikiriye:u dey mind d woman. I blame d guy for having only her for consideration. She wanna kill d guy and fuccck all d guys around. I see women do it. How much is she bringing in d union...how can sb who won't even sponsor a wedding be d one setting terms and conditions? A lady once told me only she decides who she marries... but her fiance just left her...and she was sulking. I asked her y she didn't make it to d altar with d guy as she is d only decider... she kept mute till today. |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by cyprus000: 8:46pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
omojeesu: [size=13pt] I see none too,only selfish interest smokescreened with the term LOVE. [/size] |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by bashydemy(m): 8:47pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
freecocoa:Why is Amaka insisting on Court marriage, she's upto something and if i were to be Prince i will maintain my ground is she now want make she go to hell.. 2 Likes |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by freecocoa(f): 8:56pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
ferdimako:So you think. I do know it's cheaper though. Any woman that continues to stay after her husband has taken a 2nd wife, has chosen a path and should live with it. Oloshos being everywhere doesn't change anything as far as I'm concerned. |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by freecocoa(f): 8:59pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
bashydemy:She's only protecting herself, given how the culture here treat women. I don't understand how that can be a bad thing, how can she possibly harm the man with a court wedding? Na wa o. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by 400billionman: 9:01pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Cutehector: NO. . |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Nobody: 9:01pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
freecocoa: Protect herself from what, exactly? What are these culture treatments that she needs to protect herself from? And can we also make the argument that Prince is also just protecting himself? 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by 400billionman: 9:03pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
People do not marry for love anymore.. |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by IYANGBALI: 9:04pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Pavore9:abortion na beans? |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Ikiriye(m): 9:05pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
freecocoa: Can you explain what men gain in European marriages.you.watch alot of movies so explain to the house. |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by id7574(m): 9:06pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Dating 4 5yrs isn't ok 4 dem let dem date more yrs den dey will make up der mind. |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by bashydemy(m): 9:06pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
freecocoa:Protect herself after 5yrs? What will the court do to Prince is he decide he is not interested in her anymore? Will they jail him? |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by bashydemy(m): 9:09pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
angelz:All this ranting will not stop prince from impregnating another woman and heaven will not fall, The worst that will happen is divorce. No be Nigeria we dey? Bleep court weeding. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by freecocoa(f): 9:14pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Timbuktou:Stop feigning ignorance biko. How do you expect to have this debate when you don't see anything wrong in a man deciding he wants another wife and can have that, whenever he wants, regardless of what his wife thinks or how it affects her? |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by freecocoa(f): 9:16pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Ikiriye:I seriously don't know what this is supposed to mean. You sound like marriage is a business one is supposed to 'gain' something from. |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by freecocoa(f): 9:22pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
bashydemy:After 5 years of what? I didn't realize dating and marriage mean the same thing. Ofcourse he won't be jailed, but he has to abide by the contract of their marriage. |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Ikiriye(m): 9:27pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
freecocoa: I use European satellite at home not dstv so I watch some channels dstv don't offer and I see lots of divorce rates and how beneficial it is to women.have you wondered why most men in Europe are not married.partial systems that favors the women and against the men.they get the guys committed and encourage him to sweat and buy a house,then they set the men up with paid prostitutes that stalks the man until he falls and they have video recording to that effect.the rest you should know.Nigerian ladies are copying very fast.I don't encourage 2 wives syndrome but we have wicked women that wish our mothers dead so they can run us.this is AFRICA MEN SHINE YOUR EYES. 2 Likes |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Nobody: 9:37pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Cutehector: |
Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by SpeedyConnect(m): 9:37pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Chidoks: Oh my bad. So sorry o ma, never in the least meant to slight u. Was only being humorous. At any rate, dont be agree. Sound vivacious to me. The fact that you have no legal background yet possess more than a smattering of that is commendable. Floreat. 2 Likes |
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