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HandsomeLoner:
You don't have to understand everything, that's why we all are different; that's why you are who you are... thinking what you like.
one thing I'd like to make clear is: I ain't you and you're neither me. We are who we are, let us live.
Thank you

benstuber:
just joking bro ...maybe the reason why u are still single is cos God isn't ready to share you with anyone yet....one thing i do believe is there's someone out there made for you no matter who you are...

HandsomeLoner:
it's cool, bro.
I'm just so worried cos this thing is killing inside. It's almost becoming a "stigma"
Thanks for your kind words though.

yeahmeee:
Ur personality or u jez rantin,probably u nt gud lukin enuff or u strictly go with high klass baes or u brag too much Ion know tho

HandsomeLoner:
I'm a cool easy going young fellow; I don't brag nor lead an ostentatious lifestyle. I won't deny going for the "high class baes" as I have a high taste for everything in life but I always have a way of keeping it moderate. My motto is: live according to what you have available at every point in time and you'll surely be happy.

All you've read here ain't no ranting nor me seeking for cheap sympathy of any sort. I just want to fix this area of my life for good.
Thank you for commenting though.

YourMain:
Maybe you're not actually as good-looking as you think...

Or you've a pretty rubbish personality.

GodblessNig247:
That's the hard truth he needs to hear

yeahmeee:
maybe u shuld drop the high klass baes for now,a pretty,simple bae wuld be ok 4 you,not the lousy and flashy type.

HandsomeLoner:
Since I was a kid, I always hear people compliment my good looks. Some would would wish I was a girl so they marry me when I'm grown
Just to cut the long story short I'd say that I'm a handsome good guy with the fear of God.

But I've never lived to enjoy anything from my looks, instead I've lived to suffer heartache, disappointments and rejections from almost everywhere I go. A lot of people judge me even before they talk to me; it's so sad... a lot of people judge me by the standards of what they see on the movie screen. They believe every good looking guy is a cheat, proud, arrogant etc... but that's not the case with me.

The problem that brought me here is this: I'm 28 and I have no girlfriend in this country of over 70 million date_able pretty girls. This is really getting me sad. I have talked to the pretty once, the beautiful once and the "not-bad looking" girls but all to no avail. They always find one reason or the other to turn down my proposal. This is really exasperating. I do not know what could be responsible for all this

I've got all it takes to be happy in this life but something keeps driving away all the girls from around me. Why?
Could it be that I'm under a spell or something?

Pls help. I don't want no sermon from any religious sect but "pure true" talk to change the situation around me.

HandsomeLoner:
Since I was a kid, I always hear people compliment my good looks. Some would would wish I was a girl so they marry me when I'm grown
Just to cut the long story short I'd say that I'm a handsome good guy with the fear of God.

But I've never lived to enjoy anything from my looks, instead I've lived to suffer heartache, disappointments and rejections from almost everywhere I go. A lot of people judge me even before they talk to me; it's so sad... a lot of people judge me by the standards of what they see on the movie screen. They believe every good looking guy is a cheat, proud, arrogant etc... but that's not the case with me.

The problem that brought me here is this: I'm 28 and I have no girlfriend in this country of over 70 million date_able pretty girls. This is really getting me sad. I have talked to the pretty once, the beautiful once and the "not-bad looking" girls but all to no avail. They always find one reason or the other to turn down my proposal. This is really exasperating. I do not know what could be responsible for all this

I've got all it takes to be happy in this life but something keeps driving away all the girls from around me. Why?
Could it be that I'm under a spell or something?

Pls help. I don't want no sermon from any religious sect but "pure true" talk to change the situation around me.

HandsomeLoner:
Since I was a kid, I always hear people compliment my good looks. Some would would wish I was a girl so they marry me when I'm grown
Just to cut the long story short I'd say that I'm a handsome good guy with the fear of God.

But I've never lived to enjoy anything from my looks, instead I've lived to suffer heartache, disappointments and rejections from almost everywhere I go. A lot of people judge me even before they talk to me; it's so sad... a lot of people judge me by the standards of what they see on the movie screen. They believe every good looking guy is a cheat, proud, arrogant etc... but that's not the case with me.

The problem that brought me here is this: I'm 28 and I have no girlfriend in this country of over 70 million date_able pretty girls. This is really getting me sad. I have talked to the pretty once, the beautiful once and the "not-bad looking" girls but all to no avail. They always find one reason or the other to turn down my proposal. This is really exasperating. I do not know what could be responsible for all this

I've got all it takes to be happy in this life but something keeps driving away all the girls from around me. Why?
Could it be that I'm under a spell or something?

Pls help. I don't want no sermon from any religious sect but "pure true" talk to change the situation around me.

YourMain:
I apologize if you feel I wasn't being helpful enough. But from your moniker and your post it seems you think you are good-looking and usually guys who have to stress their looks arent as good-looking as they think.

Anyways it may just be down to your personality and the way you carry yourself that is just unattractive.

cubby4:
let's see ur pictures den...

africaflozy:
You not the only one facing this kinda problem...i will advice you to be patient and stop thinking over it,believe me it will happen when you least expect it...and don't be desperate at all

HandsomeLoner:
Thank you.

DaisyII:
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you know,what gives some people concern,actually gives me protein.

YourMain:
Maybe you're not actually as good-looking as you think...

Or you've a pretty rubbish personality.

Adufetohposh:
I love ur post girl! U dropped it like its hot

KingMakaveli:
Real fine boys just observe and never speak the part, willy oo

HandsomeLoner:
Good to know

DaisyII:

uhmm...twasn't a big deal telling

HandsomeLoner:
quote author=anasbeaut post=35816377]Mbok picture o

i don't feel ok to post it yet; the pix might distract or make the thread loose focus.

HandsomeLoner:

HandsomeLoner:
It's okay...
One thing I know that I do is, I don't go where I'm not invited and that's because of my kind of personality. I'm an introvert; the Melancholic/Sanguine type of guy. I easily get moody but hardly show it as I don't transfer aggression. Also, I get excited and confident whenever I'm in a company of people with radiant faces.

The problem is a lot of girls shows interest in me from afar but they kinda "crawl inside" whenever I open up to them about my feelings. Something tells me they feel a little bit "intimidated" (no offence to the female folks) by my looks and the fact that I am still single. I know it's hard to believe that a guy like me is not in a relationship... it's just so worrisome

coolestofall:
I can relate 2 dat but u need 2 up ur game, get off ur ass n go outside ur comfort zone.