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my girlfriend utters some words (or should i say beliefs)that i sometimes wonder if she is will be a problem to me in the future
this are some of the words( i intend to marry her if things work out)

(1)she believes having sex with someone other than your partner is not cheating,it only becomes cheating if you fall out of love with your partner and fall in love with the new person,ie she means its just to satisfy sexual urge
(2)she told me of a friend of hers that got married to a guy and they didnt have an issue yet,she said the guy has always accused her friend of been barren so the friend got herself a boyfriend and got pregnant .but her friend has vowed never to let the husband know that he is not the true father of the child until the child is 21 or so.she says she is doing it as a punishment to the husband .
then i told her i will always find out the paternity of my child to know if ishe/he is my biological child,she sworn never to allow me to that and she supports the friend alot.
(3)she believes its ok to get sex workers into the house to stir up our love life when things are down(she means a male one for her and female one for her partner)crazy right?
(4)she has got a kid already and the child answers her surname instead of for the father,i asked her ans she says its HERS not his.
(5)she has got some ,should i say femminist characters.
and some more
i dont really know who she will turn out to be in future or some hidden traits

the earlier the better for u

so that you may live ling my broda...find your own wife. or else hyper tinz at ur door

Bro,it is written in capital letters on d wall!Move on,she's not ur type.

That's a sincere lady. They are hard to find.

op... patear esa chica fuera de tu vida

If you can endure all these continue.... If you can't Leave....

That's All

You have a choice to make.

na wa o

U'ld be surprised to know that regardless of what she says,she is gonna be one loyal babe.





All those things she's saying na for mouth.

Danger. Danger. Danger.

have ''patience'', ''sit-her-down and have a heart-to-heart discussion with her'' and lastly, ''keep praying for her to CHANGE'' according to most Nairalanders

see wife material 100yards!
OP wife dat babe
sharperly

Y nt run for ur life? U already knw d future nw. D future is ''INFIDELITY''

Having d mindset dat pple will change in future is d height of stupidity.


OP, pple like u are d cause of ur own predicament wen it happens. Seeing all red flags/flash points nd still deliberating on wot to do
Somfin must b wrong somwia.

If you are okay $ can cope with all she said, goodluck to you.

I will likely b available wen u are back here to seek advice on getting d second wife.

@OP, tank whatever u worship dat she show her character b4 u marry her, dat girl is not a wifey material, and moroever av u check her background? she may be an call/escort girl b4.

@ OP if you know you can't put up with such,you had better back out now cos the signs are clear.

Why on earth will you say sleeping with someone other than your partner is not cheating,a woman for that matter!

But at the same time I'm sure there with are men out there who might have same mindset with her,then we know she met her match.

martin222:
my girlfriend utters some words (or should i say beliefs)that i sometimes wonder if she is will be a problem to me in the future
this are some of the words( i intend to marry her if things work out)

(1)she believes having sex with someone other than your partner is not cheating,it only becomes cheating if you fall out of love with your partner and fall in love with the new person,ie she means its just to satisfy sexual urge
(2)she told me of a friend of hers that got married to a guy and they didnt have an issue yet,she said the guy has always accused her friend of been barren so the friend got herself a boyfriend and got pregnant .but her friend has vowed never to let the husband know that he is not the true father of the child until the child is 21 or so.she says she is doing it as a punishment to the husband .
then i told her i will always find out the paternity of my child to know if ishe/he is my biological child,she sworn never to allow me to that and she supports the friend alot.
(3)she believes its ok to get sex workers into the house to stir up our love life when things are down(she means a male one for her and female one for her partner)crazy right?
(4)she has got a kid already and the child answers her surname instead of for the father,i asked her ans she says its HERS not his.
(5)she has got some ,should i say femminist characters.
and some more
i dont really know who she will turn out to be in future or some hidden traits

People's views and behaviour generally tend to remain consistent over time.

What you see right now is what you'll get. The only difference is that she will HIDE things from you.

Johnnoah1st:
@OP, tank whatever u worship dat she show her character b4 u marry her, dat girl is not a wifey material, and moroever av u check her background? she may be an call/escort girl b4.

dude i have been luking for u.

Better port unto the next one ASAP except if you dig the potential 3sòmes & 4somes.

But me no go mind to marry dat kind girl tho..

she wants to sleep around ?

i'll show her how itz done.

Captainswag225:
dude i have been luking for u.

HEY! NIGGA, AM HERE

Johnnoah1st:
HEY! NIGGA, AM HERE

how did ur day go?

Captainswag225:
how did ur day go?

ITS CUL AND URS?