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Food rejection tends to happen in a home were the woman and man are not in good term, but what I don't get is, most men refuse food just to show how angry they are or to increase their Ego! For me! I dey Eat o..

Just in case! You know na

its lack of maturity

...so that the wife will take the issue serious!

So she doesn't poison us ... You know women Na

TRADELYN:
...so that the wife will take the issue serious!

so food is the bedrock of seriousness.

The same reason why the wife too will deny the husband sex when they have misunderstanding

No appetites

Blessinzy:
its lack of maturity

Completely wrong

I remember my dad used to say ' I am angry then I will be hungry on top again me I cant lose on two fronts ' LOL

My man "used" to do that!! Any little fight, he will sleep on empty tummy..


The only thing that solved it was me making his favourite dish and serving meself alone.
Go to an African market, get the foodstuffs and come make my magic, when i'm done cooking i will just eat alone while he will be forming vex..

One day same thing occured, i was eating my food and ignored him, e be like better hunger don waya him, he just snatched my food and said you know you are wicked


The day he was gisting with my mum, he said he is the one always gon lose, him go bring money make i cook and he still wont eat it. LOL

OluwaChinenyenwa:
My man "used" to do that!! Any little fight, he will sleep on empty tummy..


The only thing that solved it was me making his favourite dish and serving meself alone.
Go to an African market, get the foodstuffs and come make my magic, when i'm done cooking i will just eat alone while he will be forming vex..

One day same thing occured, i was eating my food and ignored him, e be like better hunger don waya him, he just snatched my food and said you know you are wicked


The day he was gisting with my mum, he said he is the one always gon lose, him go bring money make i cook and he still wont eat it. LOL

what is this?

Blessinzy:
its lack of maturity

You kuku know sey you go para for inside the middle of between your mind So no come here dey form

lets hear from the men that are guilty of this... Tell us#curious.

dey refuse food cus dey av misunderstanding wit der partner. simple


xpecially wen d lady us at fault nd shes stil forming am always right, its better dan flogging sennses into her. And wen a man nd refusing to eat his partners food fr misunderstanding sake, a reasinable woman wnt eat too stead find possibke way to resolve issue

Anger doesnt stop me from eating

I too am guilty of this but I'd say men don't for turn boost their ego bit to spite their arrogant wives. At least that's why I do it. Just so she will understand her place in the home.

Cos we love being begged,and teased to eat..
And the ego tripping of being led to the dinning table.

OluwaChinenyenwa:
My man "used" to do that!! Any little fight, he will sleep on empty tummy..


The only thing that solved it was me making his favourite dish and serving meself alone.
Go to an African market, get the foodstuffs and come make my magic, when i'm done cooking i will just eat alone while he will be forming vex..

One day same thing occured, i was eating my food and ignored him, e be like better hunger don waya him, he just snatched my food and said you know you are wicked


The day he was gisting with my mum, he said he is the one always gon lose, him go bring money make i cook and he still wont eat it. LOL

The guy fall my hand. He should call Dominoes pizza order a size according to his belly with two cokes sit in front of the tv & watch supersports or action movies till he crashes.
When the money with the woman finishes lets see who will last longer with the ego tripping.

Usually this doesn't only come with not eating, not talking too follow join.

I'm doing research to find out if you have an affair during this period does it also qualify as cheating? cos I know that would be the next immediate line of retaliation from her. (Now you know the answer to the famous "why do men cheat"? question)

Me I dey gbadun the thing no be small, if she keeps the ego I keep my ego(cash).

terrymason:
Food rejection tends to happen in a home were the woman and man are not in good term, but what I don't get is, most men refuse food just to show how angry they are or to increase their Ego! For me! I dey Eat o..

my husband is quite the opposite of this. He eats either he is angry or not. He doesn't joke with his food oo. Lol. na correct MAN.

taryour:
my husband is quite the opposite of this. He eats either he is angry or not. He doesn't joke with his food oo. Lol. na correct MAN.

lolx! Same with sis hubby! That guy sha, he nor dey play with at all

Blessinzy:
its lack of maturity

Everything for you lots is immaturity. Why should a man eats the food of someone he's not in talking terms with? Can't he prepare his or are there no longer restaurants even if he can't cook himself? If a man is angry and eats the wife's food won't that signify that he's unserious and the wife repeating what she did again some other time?

When people living together aren't in good terms they employ which ever means they can to protest their botheration towards each other. For most men they display their dismay by refusing to eat the wife's meal and for women they're usually unwilling to engage in sex. It's a matter of everyone employing whatever means they have at their disposal to send a message that they're angry and won't condone whatever led to the dispute again if they eventually reconcile.

We're humans with emotions and we have different ways of reacting to aggravation. Even new born and animals react when annoyed. And our reactions are determinable by the individual we're dealing with. For women, men rejects their food because it hurts. Don't bring that usual immaturity blackmail babblings here.

Ebi ni o pa but seriously that can be painful ooo

Op, if you can answer this question then you've found the answer to your own queston.

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Why do women refuse sex when they have misunderstanding with their husband/patner***

terrymason:
so food is the bedrock of seriousness.

Una no go kill person for this nl

lmaoo!!!

i love the idea of making his favourite meal and eating by yourself!!! when he gets hungry enough he will go grab a plate!! i also love that u don't beg him to eat, like some women would do. u start begging him to eat whenever there's an argument and u'll be doing that for the rest of ur life 'cuz he'll always be expecting it!! what kinda bondage is that?? and if u don't, that might even set off another unecessary argument 'cuz "ohh, you're eating and he's not", lol. as if he's a baby. but u've been handling things well, that's how u do it! good job!!

OluwaChinenyenwa:
My man "used" to do that!! Any little fight, he will sleep on empty tummy..


The only thing that solved it was me making his favourite dish and serving meself alone.
Go to an African market, get the foodstuffs and come make my magic, when i'm done cooking i will just eat alone while he will be forming vex..

One day same thing occured, i was eating my food and ignored him, e be like better hunger don waya him, he just snatched my food and said you know you are wicked


The day he was gisting with my mum, he said he is the one always gon lose, him go bring money make i cook and he still wont eat it. LOL

aflyingbird:
lmaoo!!!

i love the idea of making his favourite meal and eating by yourself!!! when he gets hungry enough he will go grab a plate!! i also love that u don't beg him to eat, like some women would do. u start begging him to eat whenever there's an argument and u'll be doing that you will be doing it for the rest of ur life 'cuz he'll always be expecting it!! what kinda bondage is that?? and if u don't that might even set off another unecessary argument 'cuz "ohh, you're eating and he's not", lol. as if he's a baby. but u've been handling things well, that's how u do it! good job!!

LOL. When i call them infants in adult bodies, them go begin dey wag mouth!!
Tell me who rejects a food cause you must have disagreed with him on an issue and start sulking up like a baby? Hian!!



He knows how it goes now, if i ask the normal question of what he wants to eat or are you eating? And he ignores me cause of one yeye fight like that, na to carry myself go chop up alone!! . I will just take it that he isn't hungry yet!! [/font][/color]

cuz d winch
mite hv poisoned
d food
neva truss a bitta woman

refreshrate:
The guy fall my hand. He should call Dominoes pizza order a size according to his belly with two cokes sit in front of the tv & watch supersports or action movies till he crashes.
When the money with the woman finishes lets see who will last longer with the ego tripping.

Usually this doesn't only come with not eating, not talking too follow join.

I'm doing research to find out if you have an affair during this period does it also qualify as cheating? cos I know that would be the next immediate line of retaliation from her. (Now you know the answer to the famous "why do men cheat"? question)

Me I dey gbadun the thing no be small, if she keeps the ego I keep my ego(cash).

Hehehehheeh, you just don't know how it feels to have our sweeet African delicacies staring you in your face in the middle of nowhere, do you?
A proper African man will reject a one year Voucher of free Pizza delivery just to have a plate of Vegetable soup and Pounded yam!!


I remember when we had an issue, we were not talking to each other, my mum sent me some foodstuffs through someone that was coming around, and by foodstuffs i mean Stockfish, Driedfish, Grounded Cocoyam and co. In abundance not like i enjoy cooking with all these o, but i had to thank my stars and make Vegetable soup with stockfish!!

He forgot that we were even ignoring each other when he perceived the aroma of what i was eating figure out the rest


Cheating cause my man is ignoring me? I laugh!! There are many ways to kill a rat na
I have been together with him for as long as i can remember, cheating to get back at his tantrums will get my name into the guiness book of record for the most foolish person ever!!

I don't know other forms of retaliation for other ladies though!!


Men cheat cause its their right na
Lubbish!!

When some women are angry, they can go to any level

Maybe to avoid eating poison

OluwaChinenyenwa:
Hehehehheeh, you just don't know how it feels to have our sweeet African delicacies staring you in your face in the middle of nowhere, do you?
A proper African man will reject a one year Voucher of free Pizza delivery just to have a plate of Vegetable soup and Pounded yam!!


I remember when we had an issue, we were not talking to each other, my mum sent me some foodstuffs through someone that was coming around, and by foodstuffs i mean Stockfish, Driedfish, Grounded Cocoyam and co. In abundance not like i enjoy cooking with all these o, but i had to thank my stars and make Vegetable soup with stockfish!!

He forgot that we were even ignoring each other when he perceived the aroma of what i was eating figure out the rest


Cheating cause my man is ignoring me? I laugh!! There are many ways to kill a rat na
I have been together with him for as long as i can remember, cheating to get back at his tantrums will get my name into the guiness book of record for the most foolish person ever!!

I don't know other forms of retaliation for other ladies though!!


Men cheat cause its their right na
Lubbish!!

If you're not in Nigeria that can hold.

if you are ehn see there's this restaurant near IMB Abi what's the name of that glass house opposite what used to be bar beach? You want African dishes you go tire for the place.

Then ask any Nigerian man they all have this secret fettish for buka food trust me you don't want to know how many are all over the city of Lagos

Ebute Metta I hail o! Think there's even a thread on nairaland for favourite bukas...you go fear response.

The pizza is not for the guy or his main meal ( when buka never finish for Lagos?) How many guys do you see walking into dominoes or debonaires to get pizza for themselves? Na girls dey maga for that kind thing.

The pizza is to make the wife green with envy. let her form all she wants, unless she's never had a pizza in her life.

The cheating thing isn't retaliation, you miss the point.
The cheating na substitution. How do you want to go and start asking her to open leg when you're not in talking terms?
Women being what they are, she go use you clean ground.

instead *opens phone book, scrolls down to 's' checks for silifas number* "ello baby se o wa around?" sounds much easier to deal with.

OluwaChinenyenwa:
LOL. When i call them infants in adult bodies, them go begin dey wag mouth!!
Tell me who rejects a food cause you must have disagreed with him on an issue and start sulking up like a baby? Hian!!



He knows how it goes now, if i ask the normal question of what he wants to eat or are you eating? And he ignores me cause of one yeye fight like that, na to carry myself go chop up alone!! . I will just take it that he isn't hungry yet!! [/font][/color]

My sister you are playing with fire. Big one for that matter.

You see whilst you're forming this, you're 100% certain one smallie somewhere isn't giving him all the attention you think you're forming by not giving him?

Eh

I'm a man o and I'm telling you that small oil in you're saying you're calling him blah blah blah will manifest then people will start running to meet Mumsi & mother in law that the boy is following another girl.

Issokay o.

You think when devil wants to enter a relationship it's when everything is ok he will enter abi?

kontinu you no get problem at all.

Let me let you in on a little secret. often times when we run around with these smallies we have a craving for attention that is often misconstrued as a craving for sex.

That's why most times after the sex most guys just turn to get rid of the girl. But if he has already scored a goal. babe step mother don enter equation be dat o.

Really what does it cost you to treat him like a king and make him feel like the most valuable person you can't live without ?

Beg him if you have to.

Have you noticed the difference between present day marriages and the ones our parents had?

This your forming if he's not ready to eat, seriously what's the upside to it?