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Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 7:41pm On Jul 17, 2015
starlingslimnet:
No bro am August. born....August 10 to be precise
it may be natural
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by DaisyII: 7:41pm On Jul 17, 2015
Cutehector:
heard dat crap many times.... World is full of imperfect people...
i noticed u use the word 'imperfect' too often.

In love,don't search for a perfect person cuz nobody is perfect.Don't expect so much frm your partner.Dn't force love into your heart,let it find its way.

Even if love is a two-way street,give without expecting.
(when you are with a 'woman' and not a 'girl')Then u'd understand y luv is a beautiful tin amidst hurt n pain.
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Jul 17, 2015
davien:
You're asexual i think..or just an indifferent person..it's natural either-way.
By asexual you mean......
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by herald9: 7:42pm On Jul 17, 2015
sirthisthickkal:
It's kinda weird you know, but I have learned to deal and live with it. The only difference between you and I is that I get offended, but I don't show it out. I believe the best way to deal with your enemy is to make him your friend. Isn't it weird? undecided
Because you don't have many enemies. undecided
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Emodeee: 7:43pm On Jul 17, 2015
Oyind17:
They should be grateful you opened up to them, I can't date a guy without emotions. I once dated a guy who's not excited about sexxx, he's just there nothing more. no facial expression, I would be wondering if he's an Alien. Lolzzz
sometimes i doubt if u r truly a female.
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 7:43pm On Jul 17, 2015
shockwave91:
#StoneHearted
hmmm...... but I love Ladies..
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 7:44pm On Jul 17, 2015
DaisyII:
You jez build walls around your heart but dere ll always b dat 'imperfect' lady dat'd bring it down lyk d walls of Jericho.
I pray so...........
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 7:46pm On Jul 17, 2015
Teempakguy:
they're not . . . being emotionless is almost impossible.
But I am a living example.... don't you get it... science can't explain everything
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by sirthisthickkal: 7:47pm On Jul 17, 2015
NnamdiN:
you guys ain't alone wink
Sup bro
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 7:47pm On Jul 17, 2015
Booty4me:
gay alert
Am not gay bro.....
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by herald9: 7:49pm On Jul 17, 2015
starlingslimnet:
Can't even say......
When I said series of events I meant heartbreak, rejection, disappointment, betrayal, etc.
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 7:50pm On Jul 17, 2015
Emodeee:
sometimes i doubt if u r truly a female.
What's the meaning of that? do I look like I give a flying fvck about your doubt? pls don't get me angry this peaceful evening. I say whatever I like here and I'm not looking for bf here so get that into your small brain. Take your small penisssssss and large balls off my mention!!
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Cutehector(m): 7:50pm On Jul 17, 2015
DaisyII:
i noticed u use the word 'imperfect' too often.

In love,don't search for a perfect person cuz nobody is perfect.Don't expect so much frm your partner.Dn't force love into your heart,let it find its way.

Even if love is a two-way street,give without expecting.
(when you are with a 'woman' and not a 'girl')Then u'd understand y luv is a beautiful tin amidst hurt n pain.
yes... Wen I am with a woman... My perception of a woman lies in d age of 28 and above...
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 7:50pm On Jul 17, 2015
starlingslimnet:
But I am a living example.... don't you get it... science can't explain everything
hey . . . being emotionless would make you unable to do anything or make any choice. You wouldn't have a sense of humor, or ever be sad or happy. You wouldn't prefer anything, nobody would be special to you. Even your mom. You wouldn't ever be scared nor would you aspire to be successful. undecided
You wouldn't believe in anything. Even God. You wouldn't care about anything.


So what are you saying right now? undecided
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 7:51pm On Jul 17, 2015
Oyind17:
They should be grateful you opened up to them, I can't date a guy without emotions. I once dated a guy who's not excited about sexxx, he's just there nothing more. no facial expression, I would be wondering if he's an Alien. Lolzzz
haha.......just concerned about my future.....considering the trend am venturing into music and writing....
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by no2fuks(m): 7:53pm On Jul 17, 2015
Teempakguy:
do you understand the concept of emotions themselves?
They are simply trends in the brain that push us in certain directions. Without emotions, we would not be able to make choices . . . or understand anything. huh
Even animals have emotions.
is there an abnormality not known to man? there are emotionless people brah
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by sirthisthickkal: 7:54pm On Jul 17, 2015
herald9:
Because you don't have many enemies. undecided
Easy bro, I am not adolf Hitler.
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 7:55pm On Jul 17, 2015
starlingslimnet:
haha.......just concerned about my future.....considering the trend am venturing into music and writing....
OK dear
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 7:55pm On Jul 17, 2015
starlingslimnet:
Guys.....I am probably one of few who falls into this category... No emotions, no feelings, don't get hurt by breakups,don't get offended ....you know. So have Been wondering if it's natural..or what you think?
Probably you have schizoid personality
schizoid personality is characterized by a lack of interest in social relationships and a tendency towards emotional coldness


. Schizoid people enjoy being alone and don't crave social contact. You can start reading about it here http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schizoid_personality_disorder. but again, you should follow through with a therapist.
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 7:56pm On Jul 17, 2015
Teempakguy:
hey . . . being emotionless would make you unable to do anything or make any choice. You wouldn't have a sense of humor, or ever be sad or happy. You wouldn't prefer anything, nobody would be special to you. Even your mom. You wouldn't ever be scared nor would you aspire to be successful. undecided
You wouldn't believe in anything. Even God. You wouldn't care about anything.


So what are you saying right now? undecided
You are going by the book am going by reality.... That's what science told you right? but That's not what nature says.....Let me tell you something confusing... I love people with no emotion attached... I aspire to be successful more than anyone can imagine... Still no emotions..
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Cutehector(m): 7:56pm On Jul 17, 2015
DaisyII:
She'd be there to hold u frm falling.she'd rather have u whole than in pieces.
wow...I am realy astonished... I knw its very weird to get to knw d person behind dis moniker.... So I rather keep it like dis..
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jul 17, 2015
no2fuks:
is there an abnormality not known to man? there are emotionless people brah
very few of them exist. And their lives are pretty difficult. Not having emotions accounts to a handicap.
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jul 17, 2015
starlingslimnet:
You are going by the book am going by reality.... That's what science told you right? but That's not what nature says.....Let me tell you something confusing... I love people with no emotion attached... I aspire to be successful more than anyone can imagine... Still no emotions..
hey, chill.
How do you define emotions?
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 7:59pm On Jul 17, 2015
oseod:
Probably you have schizoid personality
schizoid personality is characterized by a lack of interest in social relationships and a tendency towards emotional coldness


. Schizoid people enjoy being alone and don't crave social contact. You can start reading about it here http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schizoid_personality_disorder. but again, you should follow through with a therapist.
Close to that.....except I don't get offended
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 7:59pm On Jul 17, 2015
Teempakguy:
hey, chill. How do you define emotions?
How do your book defines it?
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by DaisyII: 8:00pm On Jul 17, 2015
Cutehector:
yes... Wen I am with a woman... My perception of a woman lies in d age of 28 and above...
To me,maturity is nt about the age.It's something more than that...sumtin more than increasing figures.

There are ladies who fall below that age range who are very much matured.
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by joywendy(f): 8:02pm On Jul 17, 2015
davien:
You're asexual i think..or just an indifferent person..it's natural either-way.
Exactly! Go and read more on Asexuality. Try and see if you fit into it. Don't mind those calling you names.

Asexual
Asexuality (or nonsexuality) is the lack of sexual attraction to anyone, or low or absent interest in sexual activity.

Because there is significant variation among people who identify as asexual, asexuality can encompass broad definitions. Researchers generally define asexuality as the lack of sexual attraction or the lack of sexual interest, but their definitions vary; they may use the term "to refer to individuals with low or absent sexual desire or attractions, low or absent sexual behaviors, exclusively romantic non-sexual partnerships, or a combination of both absent sexual desires and behaviors."

The Asexual Visibility and Education Network (AVEN) defines an asexual as "someone who does not experience sexual attraction" and stated, "[a]nother small minority will think of themselves as asexual for a brief period of time while exploring and questioning their own sexuality" and that "[t]here is no litmus test to determine if someone is asexual. Asexuality is like any other identity – at its core, it's just a word that people use to help figure themselves out. If at any point someone finds the word asexual useful to describe themselves, we encourage them to use it for as long as it makes sense to do so."

Asexual people, though lacking sexual attraction to any gender, might engage in purely romantic relationships, while others might not.There are asexual-identified individuals who report that they feel sexual attraction but not the inclination to act on it because they have no true desire or need to engage in sexual or non-sexual activity (cuddling, hand-holding, etc.), while other asexuals engage in cuddling or other non-sexual physical activity. Some asexuals participate in sexual activity out of curiosity.Some may masturbate as a solitary form of release, while others do not feel a need to do so.

With regard to sexual activity in particular, the need or desire for masturbation is commonly referred to as sex drive by asexuals and they disassociate it from sexual attraction and being sexual; asexuals who masturbate generally consider it to be a normal product of the human body and not a sign of latent sexuality, and may not even find it pleasurable.[6] Some asexual men are unable to get an erection and sexual activity by attempting penetration is impossible for them. Asexuals also differ in their feelings toward performing sex acts: some are indifferent and may have sex for the benefit of a romantic partner; others are more strongly averse to the idea, though they do not typically dislike people for having sex.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexuality
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by no2fuks(m): 8:02pm On Jul 17, 2015
Teempakguy:
very few of them exist. And their lives are pretty difficult. Not having emotions accounts to a handicap.
thats what I've been trying to say. co-sign
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Aitee1: 8:03pm On Jul 17, 2015
Teempakguy:
Wait till your mom dies before you conclude that you are emotionless. wink
What if he doesn't love the mum or you think that's not possible? Remember there are wicked mom around the globe, forget all those "I love my mom" lyrics you read online daily it an online show that some people put up.

Have you asked yourself all those mean women we come across in the workplace, at school and the likes who are their offspringhuh
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by herald9: 8:04pm On Jul 17, 2015
sirthisthickkal:
Easy bro, I am not adolf Hitler.
grin
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 8:04pm On Jul 17, 2015
starlingslimnet:
How do your book defines it?
emotions simply means trends . . . mental trends that cause us to act in certain ways. They are the ways with which the brain deals with abstract concepts. smiley

How do you define emotions?
Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 8:05pm On Jul 17, 2015
starlingslimnet:
Close to that.....except I don't get offended
Ah!!!!
Eleyi gidi gan!!!!

Your personality might not be great for relationships, but trust me its great for business.....employers in big firms would love ppl like you.....
No sentiments...garbage in garbage out
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