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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 12:38am On Jul 21, 2015
halfrica:

Half of 2 african countries o half de rica for full bt half of 2 african countries grin a mixture of *asian descendant from maternal side sha*


I die well grin see this half ijebu,half nasarawa dey claim foreign

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by martineverest(m): 12:38am On Jul 21, 2015
MrBasketball:
And i got no time for a daft man like you.
ur stupidity stenches..
back off
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 12:39am On Jul 21, 2015
ceecee0703:


Abeg no vex bt him put Most nigerian gurls av low IQ u fit no follow oo...bt na true d way some reason eeeh can make a goat hav amnesia

Oh wow.

I'm literally in shock. That's not right.
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 12:39am On Jul 21, 2015
Chibaby87:
Cos some girls lifestyle are not good, they shouldn't generalize it that all girls are the same. Where there is good, must be bad within.


Is well, God will see us through.

GOD WILL SEE WHO THROUGH undecided

SHM

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by MrBasketball: 12:41am On Jul 21, 2015
martineverest:
ur stupidity stenches..
back off
Dumbass should we start it?
Seems your brain is shut-down... Try wake it up.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by marriedvirgin: 12:45am On Jul 21, 2015
na so ,before nko??its because the ladies have wised up a lot in recent years.I even heard Nigerian men are very exploitative of their women.No be talkam ohhh I hearam.I also heard that they marry the other nationalities because they don'y yet know the truth about them.Is it true?? hummm



jerryunit48:
The rate at which Nigerian young men are marrying ladies of other nationalities leaving our NIGERIAN girls wondering what really has gone wrong is so alarming. I attended a friends wedding in Germany last weekend and it was lovely,beautiful couple the guy Nigerian the girl a German and no it's not what you think,the guy is German citizen, I have to make a thread like this because I have another friend who just got engaged to his Lithuanian girlfriend and I have a lot of friends with either a girl from Cameroon or Kenya and even Ghana so I ask myself are we scared of Nigerian girls? Well I met one who asked me if I have ever seen the queen walking behind a man? We have heard so many stories about our girls and even in nairaland if you are regular you must have heard of one guy in U.S. Warming us against marrying an Aruchukwu girl so really are they all bad ? Well I witnessed one case of a friend who brought his wife to Germany and she eventually asked the police to kick him out even though she was the one that slept around with guys but really there have to be some good ones.
Pls help our Nigerian girls with some advice while we we are very much happy for our married guys irrespective of the nationality of the wife because ultimately it's their happiness that matters

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Dragonking: 12:48am On Jul 21, 2015
cococandy:


Check the poverty rate of NIGERIA.
Fifty percent live below poverty level. About 30 percent middle class. The rest upper class.

What am I even saying, more than 70 percent aren't rich. So yes if these large number are poor and have women in their lives, who are the ones that only marry rich people?

Please provide the link were it is stated that 70% of Nigerians arent rich? Lets confirm your own statistics.

I even read you say only one in a million do that grin and I'm guessing your dearly beloved femmes are among those. You evaded saying a yes or no to that.
If you thought i was going to exclude my own family and yours then you are sitting on a long thing.

All Nigerian culture knows is to reach the girl child how to be a perfect woman, live to please the man, be submissive bla bla bla and you guys know is to disrespect your women any slightest chance you get. More like any congregation of a few dudes mostly on NL turns into a breeding ground for hate and more derision for their ladies.

How did you come to the conclusion of the bolded? Also, was your own mother submissive to your father or not? If she was, did your father disrespect her for being submissive? Also, yes, guys have to lash out because ladies lash out too when they see threads like " Man beats wife" but they remain dumb and mute when they see thread like " Wife abuses ex-husband freeze". SO, before you want to condemn guys here, start condemning ladies too for lashing out at the guys. Lets see how that will go.
You people need to change
Yes we need change, that why we are dropping your money-hungry lazy azz for other foriegn ladies both from Africa and the rest of the world. cool

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by HOTWATER(m): 12:52am On Jul 21, 2015
Men,Boys are tired of In-law wahala for naija.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by martineverest(m): 12:55am On Jul 21, 2015
MrBasketball:
Dumbass should we start it?

Seems your brain is shut-down... Try wake it up.
count urself lucky dat we re far apart

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by tpiadotcom: 12:57am On Jul 21, 2015
otunsman:
The day a girl will request for a bottle of water or better still pay for her and her date meal in a five star restaurant I will give a standing ovation for that girl.

You are just saying five star restaurant as if you've ever been to one, talkless take somebody there.

Oh right, you are referring to other peoples' dates, not your own. undecided

You be lizard?

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 12:57am On Jul 21, 2015
youmour:
I been swear say i no go marry at all,but if anything like marriage go ever happen na foreign based oh,Naija girls wahala too much abeg,i cant shout
MY NIGGA!! I WILL MAKE SURE I GIVE YOU THE SUPPORT YOU NEEDED WHEN THE TIME ARRIVE.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by MrBasketball: 12:57am On Jul 21, 2015
martineverest:
count urself lucky dat we re far apart

I would have beaten the crap outta your brain.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by danbrowndmf(m): 1:00am On Jul 21, 2015
sinaj:
nigga itz called choice....



u dnt av to generalise because a hot hoe u got married to, burnt you.


avnt u heard of Caucasians dat are happily married to Nigerian gurls
*******Para Mood*****
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by martineverest(m): 1:01am On Jul 21, 2015
MrBasketball:


I would have been the crap outta your brain.
irresponsible kids everywhere..

stay òff my mention
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pansophist(m): 1:02am On Jul 21, 2015
See as all this young boys storm the thread like sheep released to the grassfield. Only naija men put down their own women and exalt others.


Shameful cry

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by AAinEqGuinea: 1:03am On Jul 21, 2015
I'm reading a lot of comments about Nigerian men hitting women. I never thought I'd hit a woman... until the day came that I did. She was black and I remember her "post traumatic" words were "now I understand what you're trying to say" lol I bet she understood me afterwards

Black women; I love them but they're a different breed to handle

AA women joke that black men date white women only because they take it easy on black men. Id love that.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by MrBasketball: 1:04am On Jul 21, 2015
martineverest:
irresponsible kids everywhere..
stay òff my mention
Stupidity is not a crime... You are free to go.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 1:04am On Jul 21, 2015
cococandy:


Of course not. My father isn't rich.
My mom didn't wait for him to get rich to marry him.
I don't have rich brothers.
I didn't wait for my DH to get rich before I married him.

I can say the same for many Nigerian families.
More than 70percent of Nigerians aren't rich yet they are all married and have families . They have wives who work, teachers, nurses, bankers, traders and everything in between to support their families.

Going by these statistics, how dare you guys come online and make such disparaging generalizations about your women?

I don't know if the black race is cursed or anything but you guys obviously in the comparison to the other races are the ones who never have anything good to say about your women.
You will end up with white ladies and do things you never thought of doing for your black ladies but can't seem to respect the black women who tolerate your excesses.

I REALLY WANTED TO HAVE A CLOSE TALK WITH YOU, BUT THERE IS NO NEED,



BEAUTIFUL WOMAN LIKE YOU WHO MARRIED A MAN OLD ENOUGH TO BE HER FATHER COST OF MONEY!! KEEP ON TALKING TRASH

INFACT A TRASH WILL ALWAYS BE A TRASH

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by danbrowndmf(m): 1:05am On Jul 21, 2015
sinaj:


If u will readily give ur sister away to a wealthy devil,
xori to dissapoint u man, my family aint like dat wink

beside what will I need his money for when I will happily earn mine.

dont think errione think like you do, coz iz not every gurl dat money moves like a monkey okay!

and this is the main reason why i'm chasin u.cheesy
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by MrBasketball: 1:06am On Jul 21, 2015
pansophist:
See as all this young boys storm the thread like sheep released to the grassfield. Only naija men put down their own women and exalt others.


Shameful cry

And you think those ladies won't pull you down too.

They are talking about fact here, which Nigerian women are not it.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by friends4ever(m): 1:12am On Jul 21, 2015
adorable29:




Hahahahahaha! Can't stop laughing. Who knew such an intelligent, straightforward, realistic, civil and awesome guy as this exist on nairaland!

You gave it to em cry babies and losers straight up!

I am for real, truth is bitter. Men should treat ladies good.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by omonnakoda: 1:14am On Jul 21, 2015
sinaj:



it will take you more dan jux your money to knw d type of pant I wear.
So you wear pant

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by 190: 1:14am On Jul 21, 2015
Nigerian girls

Those dirty things Lool glad m out

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Coldfeets: 1:20am On Jul 21, 2015
Genycharl:
Hmmm, all these noise makers will still end up with naija babes

God forbid.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by tpiadotcom: 1:20am On Jul 21, 2015
pansophist:
See as all this young boys storm the thread like sheep released to the grassfield. Only naija men put down their own women and exalt others.


Shameful cry


Wonder who raised them like that.

And they still dont get respect in spite of their desperate attempts to malign their women.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by cococandy(f): 1:26am On Jul 21, 2015
pansophist:
See as all this young boys storm the thread like sheep released to the grassfield. Only naija men put down their own women and exalt others.


Shameful cry

I don't totally blame them. They are entitled.

The women sometimes lay themselves like doormats and get trodden on like doormats.
Nothing good can ever come out of that kind of arrangement.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by AjaniDWickedBoy(m): 1:37am On Jul 21, 2015
You are likely to die in a plane crash grin grin grin than to come across a naija lady that's not after your pocket (wealth) cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by adorable29(f): 1:59am On Jul 21, 2015
friends4ever:


I am for real, truth is bitter. Men should treat ladies good.

I like the 'real' part....

You have exposure. This ignorant mushin boys don't know any better...

They think a typical. 'oyinbo'. wife can be half as submissive as a typical Nigerian wife. From preparing their husband's breakfast, lunch and dinner, to serving it, and washing his plate, to doing his laundry and making his bed etc.

Or even condone a quarter of what some (many actually) Nigerian wives condone... From having to tolerate her not so nice inlaw's, to his extramarital affairs, to suffering emotional, and physical abuses from their husbands etc....


Unlike a typical Naija wife who mostly keeps praying for you despite all the ill treatment (as adviced by her pastor), you dare not try some of this eish with a typical wife from these foreign countries, you will be divorced instantly, and/or arrested, or better still, shot dead! Hehehe.

Those women don't take nonsense the way naija wives do from their husbands! Lol

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by purpledandelion: 2:03am On Jul 21, 2015
Personally I didn't have much luck with Nigerian girls in the past, both here and back home. Nothing against our beautiful ladies but honestly most Nigerian babes are money hungry.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by cococandy(f): 2:04am On Jul 21, 2015
These ignorant ones yapping here on NL
Only need experience to humble them.

That's when they usually start running home to NIGERIA to look for wives.
adorable29:


I like the 'real' part....

You have exposure. This ignorant mushin boys don't know any better...

They think a typical. 'oyinbo'. wife can be half as submissive as a typical Nigerian wife. From preparing their husband's breakfast, lunch and dinner, to serving it, and washing his plate, to doing his laundry and making his bed etc.

Or even condone a quarter of what some (many actually) Nigerian wives condone... From having to tolerate her not so nice inlaw's, to his extramarital affairs, to suffering emotional, and physical abuses from their husbands etc....


Unlike a typical Naija wife who mostly keeps praying for you despite all the ill treatment (as adviced by her pastor), you dare not try some of this eish with a typical wife from these foreign countries, you will be divorced instantly, and/or arrested, or better still, shot dead! Hehehe.

Those women don't take nonsense the way naija wives do from their husbands! Lol

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Haywhymido(m): 2:06am On Jul 21, 2015
purpledandelion:
Personally I didn't have much luck with Nigerian girls in the past, both here and back home. Nothing against our beautiful young ladies but honestly most Nigerian babes are money hungry. Even a taxi driver from Eritrea was a victim and witness to our Nigerian babes motive in a relationship.
they r actually GREEDY. their area of speciality is in getting free things

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by cococandy(f): 2:15am On Jul 21, 2015
http://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-17015873

I was even generous to put Nigerian poverty line at 50 percent.
This link actually puts it at above 64%

Add the middle class and you find that the rich are only a slim percentage of the population. Yet ignorant guys like you come here to claim the ladies only date rich guys.

So all poor men in NIGERIA are single.

Set of ungrateful human beings.

Nothing the ladies do for the likes of you will ever be enough. Even if they like, let them die trying to uphold the Nigerian relationship system, all they will get disrespect in return.

Dragonking:


Please provide the link were it is stated that 70% of Nigerians arent rich? Lets confirm your own statistics.

If you thought i was going to exclude my own family and yours then you are sitting on a long thing.


How did you come to the conclusion of the bolded? Also, was your own mother submissive to your father or not? If she was, did your father disrespect her for being submissive? Also, yes, guys have to lash out because ladies lash out too when they see threads like " Man beats wife" but they remain dumb and mute when they see thread like " Wife abuses ex-husband freeze". SO, before you want to condemn guys here, start condemning ladies too for lashing out at the guys. Lets see how that will go.

Yes we need change, that why we are dropping your money-hungry lazy azz for other foriegn ladies both from Africa and the rest of the world. cool

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