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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Dragonking: 5:57am On Jul 21, 2015
skyfullofstars:


The problem is husbands illtreat their wives. Does the Bible entitle men to illtreat their wives? Oh please, I'm done! Non sense

So women dont maltreat their husbands too abi? This your claim is just one sided and bias. I have seen cases were women treat their husband like trash but the man cant come out to say anything unlike the women that can voice out and everybody will support her even when she is at fault.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by skyfullofstars(f): 5:58am On Jul 21, 2015
Dragonking:


So women dont maltreat their husbands too abi? This your claim is just one sided and bias. I have seen cases were women treat their husband like trash but the man cant come out to say anything unlike the women that can voice out and everybody will support her even when she is at fault.

Then the world is fu€ked up...
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Dragonking: 6:04am On Jul 21, 2015
skyfullofstars:


Then the world is fu€ked up...

You know that my statement is true. Women are meant to be submissive to their husband and am yet to see any religion that says other wise. No man will have issues with a submissive wife unless he is a retard.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by sanmibukunmi: 6:12am On Jul 21, 2015
seunny4lif:
The truth of the matter is,u take a white lady on a date,she pay for whatever,she order while u pay for anything u order by urself..... cheesy cheesy grin grin





But,with Nigerian lady,the case is diff becos all are friends dey come the date like say na introduction.. shocked shocked shocked



grin grin grin
They will even bring friends and family to the date....it happened to my
friend and I felt pity for him

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by ModiKen(m): 6:20am On Jul 21, 2015
sinaj:
nigga itz called choice....



u dnt av to generalise because a hot hoe u got married to, burnt you.


avnt u heard of Caucasians dat are happily married to Nigerian gurls

Really?! I haven't heard ooo!

*with ring in hand and on bended knee*.......I'm a black Caucasian, babe would you marry me please? grin
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 6:22am On Jul 21, 2015
youmour:



I die well grin see this half ijebu,half nasarawa dey claim foreign



Na togo and efuru ni with descendant of niger delta dude go and dig up ur brain up from whr dem use am feed ur ancenstors if not for anytin atleast for d sake of common sense which contains *minding ones bussiness*
Truss me u wee live long after u dig and posses ur possession
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by doskie(m): 6:27am On Jul 21, 2015
jerryunit48:
The rate at which Nigerian young men are marrying ladies of other nationalities leaving our NIGERIAN girls wondering what really has gone wrong is so alarming. I attended a friends wedding in Germany last weekend and it was lovely,beautiful couple the guy Nigerian the girl a German and no it's not what you think,the guy is German citizen, I have to make a thread like this because I have another friend who just got engaged to his Lithuanian girlfriend and I have a lot of friends with either a girl from Cameroon or Kenya and even Ghana so I ask myself are we scared of Nigerian girls? Well I met one who asked me if I have ever seen the queen walking behind a man? We have heard so many stories about our girls and even in nairaland if you are regular you must have heard of one guy in U.S. Warming us against marrying an Aruchukwu girl so really are they all bad ? Well I witnessed one case of a friend who brought his wife to Germany and she eventually asked the police to kick him out even though she was the one that slept around with guys but really there have to be some good ones.
Pls help our Nigerian girls with some advice while we we are very much happy for our married guys irrespective of the nationality of the wife because ultimately it's their happiness that matters
even here in nigeria. its hard to see a good person to settle with. talkless of where you have options. nigerian ladies are proud. they nag. and very unsupportive. they compare. they are bad

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by doskie(m): 6:30am On Jul 21, 2015
sinaj:


If u will readily give ur sister away to a wealthy devil,
xori to dissapoint u man, my family aint like dat wink

beside what will I need his money for when I will happily earn mine.

dont think errione think like you do, coz iz not every gurl dat money moves like a monkey okay!

this person is a liar.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 6:30am On Jul 21, 2015
ibkgab001:
NIGERIA girls are so classy , picky and so fake They started the war they can't end


Driving faster to my Zimbabwe baby

10 hours behind the wheel

Freecocoa, sophyrocks come to mind. Walahi, if those ones are real the way they exhibit their characters here on nairaland, even a lame man will never marry them when he can stresslessly opt for a better choice from foreign chics. I cant marry them and others cant marry them as well. So what do i do, i go for foreign chics. I've been trying to have a second thought abt Nigerian ladies. They are just full of troubles. I dont blame who go for outside ladies. A typical example was why Adam Oshomole had to pick a lady from outside to marry leaving all hungry Nigerian ladies to disappointment. Reason was Nigerian ladies are full of troubles and to avoid getting to fight and kill themselves for property later on in life. Their antecedent is now haunting them.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by ModiKen(m): 6:30am On Jul 21, 2015
sinaj:


u got it all wrong dude...

u guyz always think dat gurls are after yo money nd itz not evn as if u guyz got d money undecided

Babe, I'm starting to doubt if you are a Nigerian.

From personal experience, Nigerian girls too like money! Always demanding.

Very few would be willing to stay with a guy who is yet to make it even if they can see he is educated and working hard.

Most Naija babes jus dey find ready-made; where dem don cook food make una come chop.

However, I have met a few who are loyal and believe that no condition is permanent; that though he is jumping on okada today, he would definitely buy a Range Rover someday as long as he keeps working hard and being honest.

They are very rare to find among Nigerian girls; very rare...

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by doskie(m): 6:35am On Jul 21, 2015
sinaj:


it will take you more dan jux your money to knw d type of pant I wear.
this girl is a fkin liar! I swear!


even a 90 y/o rich man can perfectly draw the tatoo on her pudendas.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by NoRetreat(m): 6:38am On Jul 21, 2015
Every general rule always has exceptions come what may, many girls are out there not to lavish your money.they believe in symbiotic relationship.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 6:39am On Jul 21, 2015
sinaj:


If u will readily give ur sister away to a wealthy devil,
xori to dissapoint u man, my family aint like dat wink

beside what will I need his money for when I will happily earn mine.

dont think errione think like you do, coz iz not every gurl dat money moves like a monkey okay!


Enough of these annoying lies! Enough!!

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Teespice(f): 6:42am On Jul 21, 2015
Nigerian girls this Nigerian girls that.

they have low IQs
The language they understand is money
they are not capable of loving
they are classless

bla bla bla bla.

I still maintain that there are bad eggs yeah but it doesn't mean that the whole lot are that bad.

ever paused to think that for those castigating these girls that sometimes the male folk are what they attract.

the Nigerian girls wey una dey yab dey castigate, no be this same set of girls dey serious relationships dey marry and being good wives and mothers.

for those who think and feel that foreign girls are their spec, good luck to you. for those married to them, happy married life to you. but don't ever use that as a basis for comparison. it is never fair.

I don dey talk too much abeg.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by erico2k2(m): 6:44am On Jul 21, 2015
doskie:

even here in nigeria. its hard to see a good person to settle with. talkless of where you have options. nigerian ladies are proud. they nag. and very unsupportive. they compare. they are bad
Bross all that shakara nah B4 the age of 35,once dem cross 37, them go re brand.^A man that has a goal^

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by sojiboy(m): 6:46am On Jul 21, 2015
sinaj:



it will take you more dan jux your money to knw d type of pant I wear.


Even befor I gat money, I know it's Q-string. Lmao

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 6:47am On Jul 21, 2015
cococandy:


Your father a hopeless animal. Lineage of imbeciles. Only the grandfather of imbeciles would raise one like you.

I bet your puss.y and lips stink to heavens from all those ugly, smelly concoctions you post in the food section, thinking you're cooking real food. Your husband (poor guy) better be seeing a woman outside to purge his belly from your repulsive offerings. Nasty shiitface.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by gezzyvinci(m): 6:49am On Jul 21, 2015
Nigerian girls r so fake...it makes me scared of getting married. I hv friends dt got good paying jobs and r stl single nearing 40. I work in a financial institution n my take home is good....but I too aint tinking marriage to any naija babe......u c a gal dt is a student n has alwaz had bt 2-5k in her acc.....going around with I-phone 6 and galaxy 6......HOW

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by fairheven: 6:56am On Jul 21, 2015
Niklausa:
Why won't foreign based guys shy away from them.
When most of them are pompous, unintelligent lasses with low IQs, who think that men are money bags where they are at will to deep their greedy hands into, anytime they like.

There are only few Nigerian ladies that are worthy of marrying and they keep on decreasing daily.

Any other vice you mentioned are debatable but unintelligible and low IQ? No way ..Nigeria women are the most intelligent of any women,that I can bet my finger. So men actually feel intimidated by their intelligence,the more reason they are quick to jumb on foreign women who tend to be laid-back

.I mean there may actually be more foreigners married to Nigerian women than there are Nigerian men married to foreign women. I mean they aren't complain about lack of husbands so why the castigation?

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 6:56am On Jul 21, 2015
Gurgle:
Lol
if they like make them marry from planet Mars
there are still plenty of guys who would prefer to marry from home
and I only need one such fellow
Carry go my brothers
Looking forward to seeing your mixed-race children at my kids' school
I hope you give them proper native names o
chai! U dn signundecided
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 6:58am On Jul 21, 2015
fairheven:


Any other vice you mentioned are debatable but unintelligible and low IQ? No way ..Nigeria women are the most intelligent of any women,that I can bet my finger
lyk ciriouslyundecided
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by gabpaul: 6:59am On Jul 21, 2015
Niklausa:
Why won't foreign based guys shy away from them.
When most of them are pompous, unintelligent lasses with low IQs, who think that men are money bags where they are at will to deep their greedy hands into, anytime they like.

There are only few Nigerian ladies that are worthy of marrying and they keep on decreasing daily.
I agree with you 99.9%

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 7:02am On Jul 21, 2015
sinaj:


to ur first question Sir... I will not nd cannot be penniless in diz Life. My being in skul is not goin to b for granted. hence, m not jumping to any proposal of a man coz of money.


to ya second quest., My dream in life ix NOT to marry a wealthy man, but rather to make a name for my self!

nd m pretty sure m not d only gurl with diz kinda goal Sir.

u guyz should modify dat mindset of gurls being after your money plzzzz!

THANKS!
*applauds* thats mah baewinkwink stress less bae,i aint getting married to any white monkey nt wen u dre. .grin
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by cococandy(f): 7:02am On Jul 21, 2015
Dragonking:


Women are meant to be submissive to their husbands.. Our africa tradition permits and commands it, our imbibed religion ( Islam and Christianity orders it) so you have no justification. All this your mutual respect talk is why marriages nowadays are ending up with divorce.
of course there shouldn't be mutual respect in marriage.

You should be respected but your wife doesn't deserve respect or faithfulness. Una never start to cry. With this kind of mindset, most of you will end up 55 and single with child support trailing you all over the globe and no decent woman worth her salt to share your life with.

You guys Keep dreaming that you will find foreign babes ready to stomach your shitty egomaniac attitudes.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by gabpaul: 7:03am On Jul 21, 2015
Niklausa:


Shut your trap!
Won't you agree to marry/date a rich guy, despite your own financial status?
Won't you readily accept the proposal of a man who has money even if you don't have a penny?

Are your dreams not to marry a wealthy man?

Are you not the same ladies that abandon a broke guy that loves you and foolishly trail a rich guy like a lost sheep?

Most of you ladies even don't care about building a successful future for yourselves, all you do is day dream about establishing a financial empire on the foundation of the financial success of man.

See your mouth like "girls are not after your money"
Nonsense!
nailed it!!!

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by otobomax(m): 7:03am On Jul 21, 2015
TWO THINGS HAVE ACTUALLY PICTURED WHICH WILL BE NORMAL THE RATE HIGH IN THE NEXT HALF A DECADES TO A DECADE: NIGERIA GUYS GETTING MARRIED TO FOREIGNERS AND THE RATE OF DIVORCE.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by princenation(m): 7:04am On Jul 21, 2015
With the hard hopeless life in Nigeria I don't blame the female folks who go after men with huge wallets, a country whose economy existence is fallacious. Bring those foreign ladies to pass through what Nigeria Ladies are passing through on a daily basis I bet you they'll do worst. The hard life in Nigeria can make one do anything to salvage one's situation. the rate at which Nigeria Men are in search of marrying a sugar mummy alone will give you a clear indication of the harsh life in the country. Please let no poor dude come to our house saying he'll marry my sister in the name of love, this country is too harsh for such penniless Love, I won't take that shit, can't stand seeing my sister suffer.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by deebrain(m): 7:06am On Jul 21, 2015
ibkgab001:
NIGERIA girls are so classy , picky and so fake They started the war they can't end


Driving faster to my Zimbabwe baby

10 hours behind the wheel


Oga you said it all. Don't generalize though. There are still very few wonderful nigerian girls.


Its hard truth but reality is showing who is more "wicked" (naija ladies seem to know how to sing the "men are wicked" anthem more).

Its now getting to the point of having singles naija ladies @ 50...

Una better change! You are imperfect yet you want the perfect man who must man up to your weakness-yet you cannot "woman-up" to his!

"Men are wicked, Men are wicked" abi? Keep singing it.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 7:06am On Jul 21, 2015
sinaj:



it will take you more dan jux your money to knw d type of pant I wear.
here she goes againcheesy Bae guess wat?wink we getting married asap. . grin
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by cococandy(f): 7:09am On Jul 21, 2015
Because your link was a study done at a different time and I didn't use it,that means I don't read.

Ok 33 percent are poor. Let's take that.
What percent are middle class and what percent is rich?

Add the middle class and the poor and tell me that all of them are single because Nigerian girls won't date or marry them.
If you can't say that with a straight face, then pls carry the bullet you've put into your own foot and limp out of here.

I pity the ones that still regard naija dudes with your mindset as worth it. when all you have for them is disrespect. All they will ever get is disrespect. They need to wake up and start dissing yous.

Dragonking:


First of all, learn to read before you come here to comment. Let me break it down for you;

Nigerians living in poverty rise to nearly 61% according to your outdated article...(My Number 5 statement is a perfect response to this crap you posted)

1. This is not 70% as you earlier claimed.

2. In the 2012 bbc article, the north-west and north-east of the country poverty rates were recorded at 77.7% and 76.3% respectively, compared to the south-west at 59.1%. Hence the north has the highest percentage of poverty rate ( well due to their constant breeding, almarjiri mentality and total neglect by their govt). This leaves the south at 59.1 out of the 61% poverty in Nigeria according to the article.
3. Out of the 61% are women included or not, or is it just the men.
4. Last time i checked, Nigeria is still number 3 among the richest african countries with a GDP of $521.8Bn..http://answersafrica.com/richest-countries-in-africa.html/18 This is for 2015 and not a 2012 article you posted here.
5. Learn to make more research before you come out to make a complete embarrassment of yourself. According to a 2014 survey by the world bank, the World Bank Cuts Nigeria's Poverty Rate to 33.1%, Says North is Poorer. Not 61% or 70% as you earlier claimed..This justifies my earlier statement..Read it here; http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/world-bank-cuts-nigerias-poverty-rate-to-33-1-says-north-is-poorer/184259/
6. This concludes that you ladies are nothing but money-hungry lazy azz hoes with nothing meaningful to offer upstairs. wink

You are even too lazy to make a proper research. SMH

BTW, you didnt answer some other questions that i also ask in my last post to you.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by trapQ: 7:10am On Jul 21, 2015
Hello?? I really hate it when men speak like this like you guys aren't worse. Majority of the guys you see who marry white girls do so for papers. I say this cuz I've seen this first hand. I've met lots if them here, and many even say they'd leave the white women later. Nigerian men are the real gold diggers. Tell me how many stories have you heard of nigerian men marrying the whites for money and papers, hundreds right?

You come here sounding like men are always victims, like you wouldn't ditch your gf for dangotes daughter if she comes along. Or tell me, do you yourself pray to marry a broke, poor girl in the name of love?
Yes, many nigerian girls are gold diggers but the guys are guilty as well.
Niklausa:


Shut your trap!
Won't you agree to marry/date a rich guy, despite your own financial status?
Won't you readily accept the proposal of a man who has money even if you don't have a penny?

Are your dreams not to marry a wealthy man?

Are you not the same ladies that abandon a broke guy that loves you and foolishly trail a rich guy like a lost sheep?

Most of you ladies even don't care about building a successful future for yourselves, all you do is day dream about establishing a financial empire on the foundation of the financial success of man.

See your mouth like "girls are not after your money"
Nonsense!

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 7:11am On Jul 21, 2015
Gurgle:


Yeah and I honestly wish them the best of luck in their marriages

I don't want any of them and I don't mind what they do with themselves

Wouldn't it be very terrible if women from other places were running away from our men? Wouldn't it be an insult if no foreigners wanted to marry any of us

In fact its a sign that our men (and women) are valuable. So any of my fellow countrywomen who are pained by the phenomenon should just step up their game and turn their heads back in our direction

Mixed race people are very interesting self. The coming together of different cultures in marriage is something to be celebrated

Looking forward to seeing their kids
u didnt end that statement why looking forward to seeing their kids* in ur kids sch* wink

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