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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by derock533: 7:14am On Jul 21, 2015
But wait ooo...since its hard for them to get married to our brothers out there with them ( the foreign base)...how possible then will it be for them to marry any of us (the home base).
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 7:16am On Jul 21, 2015
Adaeze003:
Just here to watch guys lie to themselves...

wink wink

Plus, why do I feel like this thread is meant to make naija gurls weep? Smh...
only galz with gold-digging mind would weep cos of wat the Op posted#naijagalzshldstpbinaleech #makeurownmoney #menarenotatmmachinewinkwink weep not ma dear.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 7:19am On Jul 21, 2015
Cutehector:
anita dah even wants to marry a billionaire..
chai! Naija galz would neva CHANGEgrin i think halfrica is diff.grin
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 7:21am On Jul 21, 2015
halfrica:
Who mix me i be cream well yeah mixed with anoda african country tho When av u seen my pix before
u sef try put pix b4 i change ma mindundecided
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Dinhodinho(m): 7:23am On Jul 21, 2015
Mission Impossible

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by AIG07: 7:23am On Jul 21, 2015
After reading few pages-I came to this conclusion that most Nigerian guys @ home n in diaspora have this kinda affinity for whites.
But seriously, Nigeria girls are funny de remain girls all their life-wife amist them are rear! When u meet those ones you think should be k-you find out that they're OVERAMBITIOUS... Always wanting to finish all their education career(if possible get a professorship title) always turning down proposal while still young and attractive- thinking that d best suitor will come for them after achieving their dreams probably between d ages of 35-40yrs so as to Lord over the man(husband). So now tell me how will a nigeria man in his senses will want to settle down with peeps like this when he has alternative.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 7:25am On Jul 21, 2015
Cutehector:
lmao.. He see am for mirror grin
angel reveal halfrica pix to amgrin
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 7:27am On Jul 21, 2015
halfrica:

Half of 2 african countries o half de rica for full bt half of 2 african countries grin a mixture of *asian descendant from maternal side sha*
pix or u knw the rest. . . . . sadsad
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 7:29am On Jul 21, 2015
halfrica:


I still see mysef as a nigerian sha na papa get pikin dads a nigerian
mum nko?
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by eightsin(m): 7:30am On Jul 21, 2015
Why should they marry them when the guys know what most of them went to do in Europe

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Kjking(m): 7:31am On Jul 21, 2015
ddami:
Mr. man CHANGE THAT ALL TO SOME/MOST..... don't generalize you don't know all girls
hello Mrs woman, would you prefer to take bitter leaf instead of honey

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 7:32am On Jul 21, 2015
sinaj:
nigga itz called choice....



u dnt av to generalise because a hot hoe u got married to, burnt you.


avnt u heard of Caucasians dat are happily married to Nigerian gurls
I'm sure the Caucasian can afford her flashy cars
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 7:36am On Jul 21, 2015
Kjking:
hello Mrs woman, would you prefer to take bitter leaf instead of honey
your case has been closed since yesterday..,,,, so I want NATHING
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 7:37am On Jul 21, 2015
zeb04:
your mentality is shaped based on the behaviour of your sisters and your girlfriends but whose fault is ?

whose fault is it that you keep on attracting hoes .you better check yourself man before you reach 40 and would still be attracting motor park girls when others are busy getting married to successful intelligent women.
now this is WICKED!
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 7:37am On Jul 21, 2015
jerryunit48:
The rate at which Nigerian young men are marrying ladies of other nationalities leaving our NIGERIAN girls wondering what really has gone wrong is so alarming. I attended a friends wedding in Germany last weekend and it was lovely,beautiful couple the guy Nigerian the girl a German and no it's not what you think,the guy is German citizen, I have to make a thread like this because I have another friend who just got engaged to his Lithuanian girlfriend and I have a lot of friends with either a girl from Cameroon or Kenya and even Ghana so I ask myself are we scared of Nigerian girls? Well I met one who asked me if I have ever seen the queen walking behind a man? We have heard so many stories about our girls and even in nairaland if you are regular you must have heard of one guy in U.S. Warming us against marrying an Aruchukwu girl so really are they all bad ? Well I witnessed one case of a friend who brought his wife to Germany and she eventually asked the police to kick him out even though she was the one that slept around with guys but really there have to be some good ones.
Pls help our Nigerian girls with some advice while we we are very much happy for our married guys irrespective of the nationality of the wife because ultimately it's their happiness that matters


Why should I wash my hands with saliva when I live by the river bank. Naija gals overseas are gold diggers, lazy indolent and have very low iq.
Not to talk of their tendency to put on excessive weight when they marry, unlike their European counterpart who are trendy , disciplined and keep their form even after many years of marriage.

No mind wetin u see for movies , oyibo chicks are actually better than they are actually portrayed in film.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 7:39am On Jul 21, 2015
Insidous:

And how is that a bad thingundecided
lyk ciriously Tel me u kiddinggrin
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Dragonking: 7:41am On Jul 21, 2015
cococandy:
Because your link was a study done at a different time and I didn't use it,that means I don't read.
If you read your own article that you posted you will find out that you didn't read it properly. Learn to make proper investigations before jumping to inaccurate conclusion s.
Ok 33 percent are poor. Let's take that.
What percent are middle class and what percent is rich?
So, you no longer argue that 61%-70% of nigerian men are poor as you earlier claimed?
Add the middle class and the poor and tell me that all of them are single because Nigerian girls won't date or marry them.
This is a statistics that I can't determine on my own, however, we now have a growing number of rich guys or well to do guys that are single.
if you can't say that with a straight face, then pls carry the bullet you've put into your own foot and limp out of here.
I have dealt with this severally. No need for repetition.
I pity the ones that still regard naija dudes with your mindset as worth it. when all you have for them is disrespect. All they will ever get is disrespect. They need to wake up and start dissing yous.
You should pity the naija ladies more, as I see a lot of them going from one church to another asking the pastors to pray and break their single hood. They are very desperate.. They form and make high demands that even their own fathers never had when young, now they are almost 40yrs they run up and down looking for any guy that will marry them. Also note that nobody respects someone that doesn't have anything to offer in return..Nobody loves a blood sucking leech.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by poseidon12: 7:42am On Jul 21, 2015
skyfullofstars:


Well, that's true, but it's society fault. Women are taught to do that since they are little girls...! If you wanna change the situation, then men should empower Nigerian women, let them be independent, and don't confide them in the space of the kitchen. The matter is much more deeper than what you mention.

Doesn't this system of sugar daddies teach girls that all they have to give is sex, and that as long as they do it they will receive money?

Also, I'm tired of reading in this forum how the wives should be submissive to the husbands. If that's what you want, you know which result you will get...

You make a lot of sense here. The complaints from Nigerian guys are valid. But its society's fault as you said. It's actually cultural I think. Our Nigerian cultures rigidly place man as the sole breadwinner and overlord in a relationship. In spite of modernity, we have carried on with this mindset. So from childhood, the average Nigerian girl is thought to be totally dependent on a guy. They carry this mindset into adulthood. So, even if she is earning a decent income, most of them still believe that their man should be solely responsible for their upkeep. This mindset makes them to always think of material things first in a relationship, and it shows. It's really a put off for me.
Nigerian guys are also partly to blame. In Nigeria, most men use money as bait to get women, to gain advantage over other men. They will readily dish out cash to a girl they just met, without the girl asking for it. It's really a cash-and-carry culture we have in Nigeria. It's nauseating.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by cococandy(f): 7:43am On Jul 21, 2015
Dragonking:

If you read your own article that you posted you will find out that you didn't read it. Learn to make proper investigations before jumping to inaccurate conclusion s.

So, you no longer argue that 61%-70% of nigerian men are poor as you earlier claimed?
yea

I've taken your own statistics. So please tell me that that 33% plus the middle class are all single because no girl will be with them.

We are waiting.

Mind you 33 percent of 170 million as more than 55 million. Add the middle class (a good number of millions too) and divide by two to give the average number of males in that population.

We are waiting for your final analysis of how many millions of dudes are single because the gold digging Nigerian girls won't touch them.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 7:43am On Jul 21, 2015
Its unfair with the way guys are generalizing this issue on our girls...while the recent trend might be many hoes strolling around the streets looking for rich guys to date and marry,i can unequivocally say that a lot of girls are still hard working and ready to manage and grow with guys who might not have much now but has a promising future due to his diligence...

My immediate sisters(siblings) are a living example to squash whatever claims being fomented by the guys on this forum...

We all should try to look for good people to date and marry...all countries have both good and bad women...its up to you to choose who to marry...let this generalization stop...its silly..


angry.....

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 7:43am On Jul 21, 2015
halfrica:




Na togo and efuru ni with descendant of niger delta dude go and dig up ur brain up from whr dem use am feed ur ancenstors if not for anytin atleast for d sake of common sense which contains *minding ones bussiness*
Truss me u wee live long after u dig and posses ur possession


Togo no follow na,u for just claim naija get more swag for your life,wait oh.so if dem announce say make foreigners come out to be counted you sef go come out? Ur pally na sharp guy sha,after him don knack knack our naija mothers finish na togo him enter cos e rhyme like toto..bad guy

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by cococandy(f): 7:44am On Jul 21, 2015
ROSSIKE:


I bet your puss.y and lips stink to heavens from all those ugly, smelly concoctions you post in the food section, thinking you're cooking real food. Your husband (poor guy) better be seeing a woman outside to purge his belly from your repulsive offerings. Nasty shiitface.

Look at him. Has any guy on this forum ever tried to exchange words with a lady without referring to her private parts? The day that happens will be the day. Bunch of ill bred scumbags looking for decent ladies to be with.

Very soon pigs will even be too good for you.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 7:45am On Jul 21, 2015
YourMain:


shocked That is a really disgusting and ignorant thing to think about a group of people.

You have zero right to speak of women in such manner. If you Nigerian men didn't have such fragile little egos you would sit back and allow women to be the breadwinners. But you don't. You frown at a woman who is more successful than you in life, then have the audacity to complain.

Unintelligent with low IQs ? Do you realize how ignorant you sound. You should be absolutely disgusted with yourself.
lady! That's his opinion and he is also entitle to it. . . .like he also said*we still have good ones amongst them*naija gals are like pendulum. . . . Trust mewink
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 7:47am On Jul 21, 2015
sonofananimal1:
ME TOO OHH. I DON DEY PREPARE TO MARRY MY RUSSIAN BABE, BUT I STILL DEY WAIT SEE HOW THINGS GO BE. STILL PRAYING
ma guy marry her sharpaly. . . .no worry God go make tinz work well.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 7:48am On Jul 21, 2015
donxab:
With beg sef
guy easy nah. . .grin

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by derock533: 7:49am On Jul 21, 2015
Please I don't have a job and I am single...will readily accept a good girl (home base or foreign base) who is ready to accept me for who I am and what am going to be. Contact me
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by sinaj(f): 7:50am On Jul 21, 2015
Nyaknor:
Well to me i think that is good for them... @sinaj Apart from money, Most Nigerian ladies are too proud onto nothing including u. Most of them are just bunch of block heads cheap prostitute. You can't even trust a girl nowadays.


m not a hoe, neither m I dull.

some of them being proud, does not make all of dem proud.
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 7:51am On Jul 21, 2015
zeb04:
he is talking about his mother obviously because if she had done a good job,he wouldn't be these stu.pud.
now u taking it too farundecided

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 7:52am On Jul 21, 2015
sinaj:



m not a hoe, neither m I dull.

some of them being proud, does not make all of dem proud.
bae ow was ur nyt?
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by sinaj(f): 7:55am On Jul 21, 2015
Cyriloha:







@sinaj
.........you just annoyed my heart now with your decisive comments okay lemme ask you a question.........It true that don't know my wealth status but. ....
CHOOSE BETWEEN ME AND WIZ KID. ?
YOU SEE WHY DID YOU CHOOSE HIM BECAUSE IF THIS MONEY SEE AS ALL THE GIRLS LEFT YOU AND DISAPPEARED YOUR HEAR TALKING BULLSHHHIIIT


YOU Bleep UP INFACT YOU DON LOCK UP MISS TITUS LIKE YOU. ..NONSENSE! !!!!!

I dont even know who wiskid is to start with, xo why wil I get marid to him...
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by sinaj(f): 7:56am On Jul 21, 2015
pbs4real:
bae ow was ur nyt?
twaz ok peebee kiss

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