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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 8:20am On Jul 21, 2015
Insidous:

I am not. undecided
b4 i say sumtin. . . . .are u M or F
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 8:22am On Jul 21, 2015
pbs4real:
ma guy marry her sharpaly. . . .no worry God go make tinz work well.
AMEN, WE ARE PLANNING IT SHALL
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 8:22am On Jul 21, 2015
Cutehector:
I knw she is different... She makes me laff everyday....and forget my sorrows.. grin

Singing*now hes faaaalllliiiinnngggg for me faaaallliiinnnggg for me he cant hold on anylonger he just had to say it*
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 8:22am On Jul 21, 2015
The problem is with our culture. Our culture promotes riches and wealth accumulation, and that is what Naija ladies travelled out with thereby making many of them home or abroad too materialistic.



www.aftatech.com

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by sinaj(f): 8:22am On Jul 21, 2015
bayulll01:


Sinaj stop defending the indefensible,in all my dealing with nigerian gurls,most of them are pathetic,it willl be so cool to give birth to a cool fine whitie

if u looking for a mixed race babie, u shud type xo nd stop spoiling Nigerian girls name
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by rigarmortis: 8:22am On Jul 21, 2015
why marry a Nigerian girl with all their attached burden when you can marry a foreigner that will complement you with all her attached beauty..............................and brains, and love and independence.


marry

that

foreigner.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 8:22am On Jul 21, 2015
MrBasketball:
So if she didn't work how will she eat... So all her entire life depend on the man right? undecided

Use your brain.

Use your own brain to. If the hyenas is ready to work to provide solely for his family and the wife does not mind dedicating her time solely to her family, how should that be your problem? Why should finance define a marriage? Do you seriously think that being a housewife is easy? If they can afford it, I say why not go ahead with it. She will be giving up work for her family and the husband vice versa will be giving up headaches that comes with managing a family for work.

You are just like every idi.ots who think with a close mind or with the thinking of a western men yet if you are asked to carry out a task in the home, you claim it is the woman's role. Most women out there work, come home to cook, clean and serve their family while the men think that holding a job makes them men. You can't eat your cake and have it.

Ode!

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 8:23am On Jul 21, 2015
halfrica:


Date any girl in d world no giv am money wen she need am na dat time u go kno say any kind of relationship is a bussiness not only marriage
i don dey fear u sha. shockedshocked u wan scare all NL guyz 4rm u shey?grin

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Demmocrats(m): 8:23am On Jul 21, 2015
hardbody:


There is no place called Aruchukwu. There is Arochukwu and yes their gals wont look at you twice let alone contemplate marriage. We are educated, exposed, wealthy, savvy and generally urbane. A typical Aro girl will almost always marry an Aro guy. And guess what, the bride price is N25.20k.

Our culture forbids a married lady to sleep around and the implications are far too real to be ignored. Little wonder the guys stick by and marry from these girls who really understand the implications of taking such a wrong step.

Go marry your girls and leave ours alone.
I laugh once again, even Satan himself knows that I can never be poor. In this world million will go to a particular business and fail me will go there and become a financial giant. Bro in next 5 years you will understand what am saying as for your sluts you call girls you can keep them besides how did I know so much about if they don't flirt around me because of wealth. Bro deep down you know what am talking about.
www.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by rigarmortis: 8:23am On Jul 21, 2015
sinaj:


If u will readily give ur sister away to a wealthy devil,
xori to dissapoint u man, my family aint like dat wink

beside what will I need his money for when I will happily earn mine.

dont think errione think like you do, coz iz not every gurl dat money moves like a monkey okay!



your asinine textspeak gives you away, typical naija girl mentality.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Cutehector(m): 8:24am On Jul 21, 2015
pbs4real:
i swear that gal nah charactergrin Ow body?
fyn fyn fyn..
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Cutehector(m): 8:25am On Jul 21, 2015
halfrica:


Singing*now hes faaaalllliiiinnngggg for me faaaallliiinnnggg for me he cant hold on anylonger he just had to say it*
who sang dat song?
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by 9jalyte: 8:25am On Jul 21, 2015
sinaj:


If u will readily give ur sister away to a wealthy devil,
xori to dissapoint u man, my family aint like dat wink

beside what will I need his money for when I will happily earn mine.

dont think errione think like you do, coz iz not every gurl dat money moves like a monkey okay!



But seriously, do you talk they way u are sounding in this chicken "shyt" u wrote? we are talking about fake and unintelligent ladies and u had the guts to show ur low life here in defense of ur fellow ladies. Please how old are you, if u are older than 15, then sorry.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by sinaj(f): 8:25am On Jul 21, 2015
youmour:


Hardworking as per runz?
it seems u got a thing for hoes.

I mean business nd works too.
av seen gurls dat kip 2 jobs to make end meet

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 8:26am On Jul 21, 2015
Cutehector:
who sang dat song?

Teen beach movie
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Demmocrats(m): 8:27am On Jul 21, 2015
Richy4:


Your sisters and nieces are worst than they are.

just shut up already and stop making general assumption you can not defend.

In real life if you see me you won't have the guts to tell me shut up, I don't blame you and secondly am talking from experience your so called girls are sluts and pros inside of you knows the truth.
www.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 8:27am On Jul 21, 2015
190:
Nigerian girls

Those dirty things Lool glad m out
MY NIGGA!! YOU DESERVE MY UNINTERRUPTED RESPECT
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Cutehector(m): 8:28am On Jul 21, 2015
halfrica:


Teen beach movie
ok.
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by lastpage: 8:29am On Jul 21, 2015
This issue is deeper than one you can attend to satisfactorily, with just a few line of post.
It is not just in Europe alone, IT IS EVERYWHERE IN THE DIASPORA!
They have "adopted and standardised" the life style of "Single Woman" collecting Child benefits and Child support!
Its all about GREED and the MONEY!
undecided

A Church leader once asked at a Church gathering: Where are the men ? Where are the husbands of all the women and kids in my church?
Apparently, he has a large congregation with only less that five men, whereas his congregation has close to hundred women with children!
grin grin



But for summary: It is just not Nigerian women, Nigerians in general have this toga of 'arrogance and swag' which is not such a bad thing
The problem is that our Nigerian women, cant manage the power which Western democracies have conferred on their own "native white women" who over generations have been able to manage such enormous powers, to some extent. They think it is meant to be abused, to harass their husband and to be used to destroy the home

When our Nigerian women are exposed to such powers, their "innate arrogance and vengeful spirit" kicks-in, goes into overdrive and over time, majority of Nigerian men (especially the Youths who are just entering "marriageable age" who themselves, have seen a lot of this happening as they grew-up!) have come to realise that in 95% of the cases, marrying a Nigerian woman when both of you would live abroad, is a RECIPE FOR MARITAL DISASTER...and no disaster could be worse than that, as it attracts other disasters!

We dont even need to start cataloging their shenanigans and abuse of power..... it is just too numerous and too common to mention.

Ofcourse, there are the wonderful women, very rare cases in the range of 5% and they must be celebrated.

Again, guys are getting "smarter" by the day now. Cunny-man die, Cunny-man bury am. undecided undecided



Lastpage!

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by bayulll01(m): 8:29am On Jul 21, 2015
sinaj:


if u looking for a mixed race babie, u shud type xo nd stop spoiling Nigerian girls name

Nigerian babe are docile and got a very bad attitude babe,no one is spoiling them jawe,u will do worst seff with the way u just dey form

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by tym92(m): 8:30am On Jul 21, 2015
Niklausa:


Shut your trap!
Won't you agree to marry/date a rich guy, despite your own financial status?
Won't you readily accept the proposal of a man who has money even if you don't have a penny?

Are your dreams not to marry a wealthy man?

Are you not the same ladies that abandon a broke guy that loves you and foolishly trail a rich guy like a lost sheep?

Most of you ladies even don't care about building a successful future for yourselves, all you do is day dream about establishing a financial empire on the foundation of the financial success of man.

See your mouth like "girls are not after your money"
Nonsense!
am jst short of words...but

#GodBlessU

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by adbokus(m): 8:31am On Jul 21, 2015
Niklausa:
Why won't foreign based guys shy away from them.
When most of them are pompous, unintelligent lasses with low IQs, who think that men are money bags where they are at will to deep their greedy hands into, anytime they like.

There are only few Nigerian ladies that are worthy of marrying and they keep on decreasing daily.
You are an immortal!...

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 8:33am On Jul 21, 2015
Insidous:


Use your own brain to. If the hyenas is ready to work to provide solely for his family and the wife does not mind dedicating her time solely to her family, how should that be your problem? Why should finance define a marriage? Do you seriously think that being a housewife is easy? If they can afford it, I say why not go ahead with it. She will be giving up work for her family and the husband vice versa will be giving up headaches that comes with managing a family for work.

You are just like every idi.ots who think with a close mind or with the thinking of a western men yet if you are asked to carry out a task in the home, you claim it is the woman's role. Most women out there work, come home to cook, clean and serve their family while the men think that holding a job makes them men. You can't eat your cake and have it.

Ode!
i didnt expect this insults frm u tho. . . .anyways i think it has to be an agreement btw the man and the woman. . . .if u dnt want ur wife to sit at home as a full house wife,engage her and look for a househelp,i for one wont allow my wife overwork herself cos she's human too. . .the fact is. . . . The man and wife nids to sit and talk on how they want to run the fam. . . .
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 8:33am On Jul 21, 2015
pbs4real:
i don dey fear u sha. shockedshocked u wan scare all NL guyz 4rm u shey?grin

grin i need a man not a boy or a guy
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Dragonking: 8:33am On Jul 21, 2015
cococandy:
yea

I've taken your own statistics. So please tell me that that 33% plus the middle class are all single because no girl will be with them.

We are waiting.

Mind you 33 percent of 170 million as more than 55 million. Add the middle class (a good number of millions too) and divide by two to give the average number of males in that population.

We are waiting for your final analysis of how many millions of dudes are single because the gold digging Nigerian girls won't touch them.

Please read the article an stop asking silly questions. It is even stated in that article that the World Bank estimates further suggested that the number of poor Nigerians remained at 58 million adding that more than half of the figure are located in the North- east or North- west.. This means that more than half of the 58 million that are poor are from the north, and it is quite under stable since there is total neglect by their leaders in that region.. This leaves you with less than 28million people for the southern part of Nigeria and middle belt out of which the poor include the young children, the elderly, males and females. By the time you do a proper estimation, you will find out that the poverty statistics is no where near what you were shouting and clamoring about.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by freecocoa(f): 8:34am On Jul 21, 2015
RedBenson:


Freecocoa, sophyrocks come to mind. Walahi, if those ones are real the way they exhibit their characters here on nairaland, even a lame man will never marry them when he can stresslessly opt for a better choice from foreign chics. I cant marry them and others cant marry them as well. So what do i do, i go for foreign chics. I've been trying to have a second thought abt Nigerian ladies. They are just full of troubles. I dont blame who go for outside ladies. A typical example was why Adam Oshomole had to pick a lady from outside to marry leaving all hungry Nigerian ladies to disappointment. Reason was Nigerian ladies are full of troubles and to avoid getting to fight and kill themselves for property later on in life. Their antecedent is now haunting them.
You better respect your nonsense self and leave me out of your rubbish.

Yea, this is how I am in the real world and would rather die single than marry a beast like you.

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by sinaj(f): 8:35am On Jul 21, 2015
pbs4real:
hmmm! Didnt u get my other mentions?

av not gone through my mentions
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Nobody: 8:35am On Jul 21, 2015
sinaj:


it seems u got a thing for hoes.


I mean business nd works too.

av seen gurls dat kip 2 jobs to make end meet


2 jobs for this Naija? Tahh dem no tell u the full gist

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Kjking(m): 8:36am On Jul 21, 2015
ddami:
your case has been closed since yesterday..,,,, so I want NATHING
anyways on a lighter mood, I know people are different but with the percentage of naija girls that will do anything you have a rich bf, its hard to believe

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by pbs4real(m): 8:36am On Jul 21, 2015
halfrica:


grin i need a man not a boy or a guy
for ur mind?grin why u knw wan gree shw us ur pix Btw that reminds me wre's mumsy frm?i knw ur dad is frm naijacheesy
Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by Freiburger(m): 8:38am On Jul 21, 2015
This thread here represents another disgrace cheesy

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Re: Marriage? Nigerian Guys In Europe Are Shying Away From Nigerian Girls by lastpage: 8:39am On Jul 21, 2015
YourMain:


shocked That is a really disgusting and ignorant thing to think about a group of people.

You have zero right to speak of women in such manner. If you Nigerian men didn't have such fragile little egos you would sit back and allow women to be the breadwinners. But you don't. You frown at a woman who is more successful than you in life, then have the audacity to complain.

Unintelligent with low IQs ? Do you realize how ignorant you sound. You should be absolutely disgusted with yourself.

This is part of the problem!
Nigerian men are not wired (culturally and mentally) to "sit back and allow their wife to be the bread winner and control their life".
From birth a Nigerian Mother drums it into his son's head that he has to work hard and be "the head and bread winner" for his family.

How then do you expect that man to get married and change overnight simply because he now lives in an environment where women are "empowered" to throw their husband out at the slightest argument and then go on using him as an ATM for the rest for their life?


See, it wont work-out, it will never work-out.
Hence, the guys are adopting an "avoidance tactics".... instead of fighting in court without end
. undecided undecided


Lastpage!

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