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Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by Anidorby(f): 9:34pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
so cute |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by shonupe(f): 9:39pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
allanphash7:: Y evils ? |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by allanphash7(m): 9:44pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by fragile96: 10:18pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
omojoshy:wat r u waiting for? Marry d 2 of dem together na. Soro niyen? |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by mrajims(m): 10:21pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
This is beautiful. our culture is the best. sulia kan! ayetoro kan. lovely pics. |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by laudate: 10:36pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
omojoshy: Did you ask her to marry you and she declined? Why the matter dey pain you like dis? Oya, find husband for her now.... |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by Whynotthetruth(m): 12:25am On Jul 31, 2015 |
VickyRotex: Are you per chance insinuating that divorce has anything to do with destiny or something |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by VickyRotex(f): 12:32am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Whynotthetruth: No, not that. I'm not saying that. I'm talking about getting married. I mean, everyone's clock ticks differently. He shouldnt compare Omotola's marital life to Funke's as regards that. We all know what happened to Funke recently. She's got her choice to make. And I dont think it should affect anyone. |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by Whynotthetruth(m): 12:51am On Jul 31, 2015 |
VickyRotex: True but ambiguous... Kindly note that; I am not a relationship expert...but I think getting married and staying married is a question of choice not destiny too...Its pretty nonsense that one would cite irreconcilable differences as reason for divorce...Irreconcilable with someone you claimed to love ab initio...Not true...Maybe you never loved at all...Marriage is about unique individuals who can never be the same but chooses to accommodate and understand their differences...Why chicken out in between the journey?... Time of marriage isn't about destiny too...its about personality and environment... 1 Like |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by VickyRotex(f): 1:01am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Whynotthetruth: Maybe I chose the wrong use of word "Destiny" But I'm sure you get my point. I mean, it's a matter of choice, its not a must she remarries. And no one can force her to. Cos she's the one who wears the shoe, and knows where it hurts. That asides, @bolded, remember it takes 2 to reconcile. I dont know much about what went down between her and her ex-husband. But there are cases whereby, one of the 2 is ready to reconcile, but the other would rather divorce. How do you settle such issue amicably, without resulting to divorce? There are lots of divorcee who truly loved their partner, and wanted things to fall in place. But the other partner wouldnt want it. You cant say everyone who is divorced never truly loved their partner. Different sides of a coin. And yea, "Marriage is about unique individuals who can never be same but chooses to accommodate and understand their differences" You're right, not everyone understands that tho. 1 Like |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by Whynotthetruth(m): 1:18am On Jul 31, 2015 |
VickyRotex: Yea...I got your point but I simply get freaked out seeing how people justify divorce maybe I have primitive African mentality...especially the so-called celebrities... Maybe because I am too timid so I can't understand them... BTW are you married?...Under what condition will you go for divorce? |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by VickyRotex(f): 1:32am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Whynotthetruth: lols. Talking about the rate of divorce amongst celebrities, that's just so rampant. That I cant even say which can be justified, and which can't be. But I think to an extent, divorce can be justified. I think some people have genuine reasons why they chose to divorce. Some women cant stick to men that batters. It's a total turn off. Just as I stated up there, not everyone wants it, but most cases, your partner decides what you get. A case where you partner isnt ebven ready to reconcile, and files for divorce. what do you do? Need I say, there are couples who aint staying together, but they dont see it as being divorced, cos there are no legal agreements binding it. But the thing is, they are apart. I think the Divorce is Divorce tho! Btw, I'm not married, so there are no conditions yet. |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by Whynotthetruth(m): 1:42am On Jul 31, 2015 |
VickyRotex: For me, battery isn't enough ground for divorce...maybe still my primitive African mentality... I had a chat with a Lady...I told her that men has their physical strength to intimidate ladies while ladies have their mouth to intimidate men...(In marriage, let the man hold his hand and let the lady hold her mouth)... I still believe that there's hardly any sufficient reason for divorce...not emotional or physical trauma that folks sing around these days...Why not stay unmarried if you can't condone or tolerate excesses of another...Whatever you see in marriage, there must be a pointer during courtship... |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by VickyRotex(f): 1:56am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Whynotthetruth: Oh, dont say that! Battery? No! No!! No!!! People have died cos of this. Some men/women are great pretenders. That you wouldnt know they could do such. (But in most cases, I must admit that those signs shows while courting, but not all cases) Some, situations makes them change. You stated something up there ""In marriage, let the man hold his hand and let the lady hold her mouth"" Yes, I agree with you, but not everyone can do that. It just wouldnt work in some marriages. Not everyone has that level of self control. There are sufficient reasons why people divorce, just like I said, there are some, that are quite justifiable. Permit me to bring in the scriptures here. The scripture aint against divorce. It even gave conditions for it. Please kindly read: 1st Corithians 7 vs 15, and Matthew 5vs 31 to 32. One major issue we have with constant rate of divorce these days is cos of the way youths rush into marriages. A popular saying goes "Marriage is an institution, when you rush in, you rush out" You said "Why not stay unmarried if you can't condone or tolerate excesses of another" That's exactly what brought about this discussion. People have their reasons why they choose not to marry or remarry. I dont think they should be blamed for it. Not everyone gets what he or she anticipated for in the marriage. Besides, our level of patience differs. |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by EmekaBlue(m): 7:17am On Jul 31, 2015 |
lol..she no fine fr face sha |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by laudate: 11:16am On Jul 31, 2015 |
Whynotthetruth: From your post, it appears you are either unmarried or you hardly interact with the rest of society. Domestic violence/battery is enough grounds for a divorce. It is a major factor of the irreconcilable differences, that someone mentioned earlier. How would you like to stay in a marriage where someone turns you into a punching bag, on a daily basis? If you are a woman would you do so? If you are a man, would you advise your daughter, sister or loved one to remain in such a marriage? Using your African mentality? Do you know how many women have been battered to death, in their homes within Nigeria? Such cases are often under-reported because the man or the extended family often finds an excuse to cover it up, out of shame or fear. There was a time I acted as a volunteer for an NGO in a general hospital. I lost count of the number of women who came to the hospital to receive treatment for injuries inflicted on them by their husbands. Just to refresh your memory, here is a story about domestic violence that went viral a few years ago. Maybe the woman would still be alive if she had gotten a divorce. There is no marriage, that is worth dying for. http://www..com/talk/topic,101658.0.html 1 Like |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by OLUWAFUNMISE(f): 1:09pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by Whynotthetruth(m): 9:08pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
laudate: Though I am single still...but I believe in indissolubility of marriage and efficient communication in marriage... Sorry nothing justifies divorce so far to me...especially given that avenue for communication still exist in our society... thanks |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by shonupe(f): 4:28pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
allanphash7:. Lols... I C, U want further tutoring ryt? Anyways, the handwriting is boldly written on d wall. So, Open ur blind eyes to read cux d last tym I checked; U av a degree in spectatorship. Hahahahahah allanphash7:. Lols... I C, U want further tutoring ryt? Anyways, the handwriting is boldly written on d wall. So, Open ur blind eyes to read cux d last tym I checked; U av a degree in spectatorship. Hahahahahah |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by allanphash7(m): 4:30pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
Olodo Owo mi a to e shonupe: |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by shonupe(f): 10:08pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
allanphash7:. allanphash7:. |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by laudate: 10:56pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
Whynotthetruth: Now you have confirmed my suspicions.... you are still single. Oya, go and get married first. Then after 3 years of marriage, come back & revisit this thread and update us on your findings! Am sure your African mentality would have undergone a major overhaul! Oh, you think the women (or men) who have been battered black & blue by their spouses did not try communication, initially? Communication is a 2-way street. Can you communicate with someone who is unwilling to listen to you? Or can you communicate with someone whose only means of communication is his fists? Bros, the day you see your beloved sister or daughter being pummeled like a punching bag under the auspices of marriage, please stand up and chant "communication," maybe it will quell the battering of her body. |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by Whynotthetruth(m): 7:14am On Aug 02, 2015 |
laudate: Bro, I still believe in communications... everybody even a madman listens to somebody... there's always something or someone to positively blackmail them with...there's always a way to get back together...there's always a solution if you look hard enough...Most so-called "irreconcilable" differences is a fight of ego and pompous personalities...No matter, how you paint it, it is only in mathematics class that minus minus can give you a plus...Someone pays the price in any peaceful relationship or society...When nobody wanna pay the price and everybody believes they are right, then you start seeing all these media noise and advert for sympathy...Stoop down low to pick your eggs and graciously incubate them notwithstanding the pain...thanks |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by laudate: 2:36pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
Whynotthetruth: Hahaha.... .... it is people like you that misled that dead banker whose husband beat her to death and stabbed her. Tell me, what kind of communication do you want to have with a mad man? Share the experience with us, since you seem to have so much knowledge in this area. Isn't it someone who wants to stand and listen to you, that you can communicate with? Bros, go and get married first before yarning all these stories. Your view would change sharp, sharp once you are faced with domestic violence on a continuous basis. When you are being battered black & blue, tell me how you can sit to incubate any egg? I feel sorry for anyone who is in an abusive marriage that listens to your advice. Once a person's life is threatened in an abusive marriage, I beg pack your bags and go. No marriage in which a person is turned into a punching bag, is worth dying for! 1 Like |
Re: 6 Hottest Asoebi Styles Of Funke Akindele (SEE PHOTOS) by Whynotthetruth(m): 4:11pm On Aug 02, 2015 |
laudate: You get babe wey you go give me for marriage? I will always get married to peace of mind...No doubt... |
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