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freecocoa:
My dad bathed my elder sister while she was still in the university.

Although, I must say, I believe a child of 12 is capable of bathing herself, I'd worry more first, that he's over pampering her, than that he has sexual intentions.

did he bath yuh too ??

diz explains y yuh r so screwed up
yuh fadda waz a pervert!

wrong..The dad should be arrested for being stupid..

chineloSA:
Disgusted. Such an old girl like that. One day, the father will scrubb off her blood cloths. A 12 year old is ready or is already getting her menstrual periods.

I don't know what to say to that woman.

That's how molestation starts.

It doesn't always has to go down to molestation, her dad may just be over pampering her, I was a daddy's girl and know how it can be, some parents don't just know where to draw the line, it's good to know when to draw the line.

25omega:
umm this wan pass me o. Her father is highly disturbed and her mother is a coward for allowing such to continue to happen.

Hello, nice Idea but some kids are late bloomers. That is to say she is not even close puberty. Besides the dad may have been bathing her and her sibs either together or singly for years. Stopping won't be a bad Idea but I won't be fast in judging the man who may be Innocent!

Gurgle:
Yeah he should stop

He is probably doing it innocently but its not right anyway

Nothing innocent for a father batting a 12 yr old girl? That man need to be reexamined to be able to determine his state of mind.

How dear you pick your girl of 12 yrs that has started developing fixtures and be bathing her in the name of "my daughter" well, I believe that there is something going on between them.

KINGSAMURAI:
even the girl herself is a dundee

no you can't blame the girl.. she's just 12..

andyanders:
Nothing innocent for a father batting a 12 yr old girl.That man need to be reexamined to be are to determine his state of mind.

How dear you pick your girl of 12 yrs that has started developing fixtures and be bathing her in the name of "my daughter" well, I believe that there is something going on between them.

yeah I was just trying not to jump to conclusions

Its wrong sha I know

The girls mother needs to speak up before something very bad happens

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At the age of 12 her dad should wear her and change her pampers.

OVER WRONG............... 1 day Devil go enta the Man e go begin with fingering the Girl b4 You Know It Some tin Bad don dey happen....

Bonapart:
Stupid question.... 12? What is the world turning into...
only 12... what is there to worry about

The rate at which girls grow nowadays eehh if you see some 12 years old girls and what they are carrying you'll be tempted to toast them..... so I think there is something to worry about...

At twelve, I was hiding the little buds on my chest from everyone....
Can't imagine this....

RobinHez:
Wetin do the mama hand??

Wetin do the girl hand is a better question!

zeb04:
my dad stopped bathing me at about 10,11.the problem was he never washed my private and I didn't do it well either myself.

finally,the day my mum took turn to bath me she was asking my dad, why is there so much sand in her bum bum. my dad just didn't reply

it is just sad that everyone thinks a man bathing his daughter is abnormal. just because some psychos take advantage of that doesn't mean there are not men that do it for the sake of bonding with their kids.

as a matter of fact it is an insult to the good men out there.

AGREE WITH YOU ON THIS ONE

yeye dey small

WRONG!

Gurgle:
yeah I was just trying not to jump to conclusions

Its wrong sha I know

The girls mother needs to speak up before something very bad happens

Something is not right about the whole family set up for a woman to be there and be watching her daughter of 12 yrs having her bath with her father in a bathroom.

You yourself can think back when you were of that same age bracket and see now if it is right. We have seen issues of fathers now sleeping with their biological daughters and when caught, they start blaming the devil.

This particular issue is not right at all at 12? Hell No.

Gurgle:
yeah I was just trying not to jump to conclusions

Its wrong sha I know

The girls mother needs to speak up before something very bad happens

YOU HAVE A VERY BAD WAY OF THINKING!

sonofananimal1:
YOU HAVE A VERY BAD WAY OF THINKING!

Please, don't troll me on this. I didn't say anything wrong and this is serious

toopsy22:
The rate at which girls grow nowadays eehh if you see some 12 years old girls and what they are carrying you'll be tempted to toast them..... so I think there is something to worry about...

point a gun at my head, I will still tell you there's nothing to worry about except he's not the biological father.... this is one blood we're talking about here o and a father for that matter

Gurgle:
Yeah he should stop

He is probably doing it innocently but its not right anyway

Innocently? When d devil would be ministering to him with woofers now, d wife would come to her senses.

Is d girl a retard?
At age 12, I was in JSS3 and already cooking beans, making eba and d likes!
I thot children get smarter wit each passing day!
D reverse seems to b d case wit ds girl.
So, i don't blame d father...i blame d daughter. She seems to enjoy being bathed by d dad

So wrong

Pukka36:
Wetin do the girl hand is a better question!

ah! yeah....but if it was the mother bathing her...it wouldnt raise much eye brows...

A child of 12 years old should be able to bathe herself, except if she's an slowpoke.
At least, I father one.

andyanders:
Something is not right about the whole family set up for a woman to be there and be watching her daughter of 12 yrs having her bath with her father in a bathroom .

You yourself can think back when you were of that same age bracket and see now if it is right. We have seen issues of fathers now sleeping with their biological fathers and when caught, they start blaming the devil.

This particular issue is not right at all at 12? Hell No.

DID YOU USE YOUR ANUS TO READ THIS TREAD?

HE IS NOT BATHING WITH HER, HE IS ONLY BATHING HER!! GET THAT TO YOUR HEAD AND STOP SPREADING THE WRONG MESSAGE


WHAT IS WRONG IN BATHING A CHILD OF 12YRS.
HAS HE NOT SEEN THE YANSH AND BREA&T IN HIS WIFE?

YOU PEOPLE HAVE A MAGGOT MENTALITY

GOSH, DAME YOU NAIRALAND

Truckpusher:
Abusive fathers don't show any form of doting or love to their kids - they start with both physical and sexual abuse.
Though I got your drift.

Not true some abusive fathers start by gaining trust of their victims ( daughter) . And normally they prevent anybody from having access to their victim so that there can never be an opportunity to ask questions and thereby spilling the beans.

How they gain trust is by giving extra ordinary love and attention to their victims.

This kind of incest can go on for years without anybody in the family suspecting. The father will be confusing the victim with attention and love. The victim will be confused because she will be getting attention and love and can never tell because of guilt and avoiding to disappoint the father who gives her so much attention.

some girls start menstruating even before age 12... the father is daft.

too risky. so her dad will be washing her punana too? her mum should stop him from bathing her before she begin to hear it's the handwork of the devil. But it depends on the kind of father he is.

chineloSA:
Not true some abusive fathers start by gaining trust of their victims ( daughter) . And normally they prevent anybody from having access to their victim so that there can never be an opportunity to ask questions and thereby spilling the beans.

How they gain trust is by giving extra ordinary love and attention to their victims.

This kind of incest can go on for years without anybody in the family suspecting. The father will be confusing the victim with attention and love. The victim will be confused because she will be getting attention and love and can never tell because of guilt and avoiding to disappoint the father who gives her so much attention.

You're right but these kind of fathers hardly exist here.

The father might not see it as anything, besides my ex dad bathed her till she was 18