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LaDivva:
Emusmith please what's your favourite drink coz I'm willing to buy it and send it to you no matter your location

Number one is so true coz I've been a victim more than once, I agree with everything you said. Though I'm a lady but I love this truth mehn!

I'll pm it to you...like seriously, a lady liking this thread?

emusmith:
Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful".


At first, I was doubting it but just this evening I confirmed it myself as a friend on a social network complained bitterly.
Trust me, I get facts before opening a very sensitive thread such as this.

Forgive me ahead as I'll hit the nail hard and fast

The unethical quest to "become beautiful" has turned sour and disgusting. Most ladies have thrown caution to the wind as they have decided to do "all manners" just to be termed "Beautiful". Shey na by people calling you "fine" go turn you to Cinderella?

"Self esteem can go to the trash", they say. Hmm!


My advice: As long as you're trying to look like Adaeze, Aisha, Anabel or Abimbola who are naturally beautiful, you'll NEVER accept yourself or be happy with your. When you're not happy with yourself, no one will be happy with your real inner self (though, they'll happy with your "body self".

Quickly, lemmie list some:

---

1. They use the DPs of other pretty friends of theirs on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram.

Most times, these friends aren't aware these girls "stole" their pix to claim fake popularity in a particular social network. I'm pretty sure there are some girls on NL who are using the pix of friends on Facebook. They may steal like 10 of it so you'll never know. Gross! FYI, a friend lodged a complaint on Facebook on how a fellow girl was impersonating her. #i already knew but needed a proof like this #
Don't go for face surgery please. Someborry loves you that way!

If you're guilty, CHANGE!


2. Expose Delicate Parts Of Their Bodies

It beats my imagination; what's the connection between Beauty and "Going unclad"? Funny, that's what most girls(fine or unfine) have resorted into doing. Ok, the one that is "unfine" is even worst; she reveals her cleavages so the guy doesn't see her "twisted" nose but look "where her necklace plummets into"- Hope it ain't the cross?
Some fine ones too can be annoying. You're fine and you now wear make up that makes you look like masquerade. Hmm! #I better stop here#

If you're guilty, CHANGE!


3. They open their legs

Psychologists said, "An AVERAGE lady will give sex for "love"..."

What that means is, an average Lady can allow you in her if only you can praise and keep praising her enough- calling her beautiful and all that.

Even the "James Bond" ladies sef, still fall for this scheme.

CHANGE is at the door!


4. They Change Their DPs Incessantly

As one NLer once asked in her thread, "Is it a sign of immaturity to change DP every two minutes?
Yes it is. Immaturity owing to Insecurity!
To me, only girls who arent sure of themselves change DPs incessantly. Especially on FB, you change it and tag the whole world.
Girls who are really truly pretty don't attach so much relevance on those things...yea.



5. "Pouting" on a selfie

The celebrity that introduced "pouting" didn't do well even as it's been misused. FCO, Pouting doesn't make anyone look more beautiful than they already are na. To me, its just a pre-kissing posture.

MODIFIED


6. Bleaching Their Skin

This is where the desire to become "beautiful" graduates to OBSESSION.
FCO, who will you see when you gaze at the mirror? Yourself or your bones?
#Some girls be bleaching their skin as if that's the certificate to heaven#



7. Putting on of "Mirage" Materials

"Mirage" gives a FALSE impression of something. It lies. It "makes up" for something that is lost.

What do I mean?
Fake eyelashes, bum pad, butt pad, fake fingernails and toenails, fake hair etc.

The list is endless...

Change, I say CHANGE.


LAST BULLET: If a guy must love you, let him love you for who you really are (I don't mean presenting your "raw" or "unprocessed" self to a man). Let him be sure that your eyes are yours and not someone else's.

Who fine, fine. Quit excessive making up just to tease guys to think you're Kim Kay. Teasing is sequel to getting laid, remember?
At the long run, you've ruined everything. "A piece of shit", he'll call you. He may be tempted to think he is right..

Deal with it that you are the way you are for a perfect reason: flat big nose, small b**bs, robust body, big b**bs, slimmie-, k-legs, short etc. Deal it with and focus on the major!
The earlier the better, in terms of many things.

Moral Lesson: Nobody can treat you more or less than you treat yourself

sharing facebook things !!!

safarigirl:
thank God you said 'boys'....it's men who get married, not boys.

And at the last count, there are more married 'oloshos' than married 'virgins'.....

And where did you get that fact from?
Who counted them, you?
Smh

emusmith:
I'll pm it to you...like seriously, a lady liking this thread?

Yes o, coz I'm in school, I have friends and I SEE things.

LaDivva:
Yes o, coz I'm in school, I have friends and I SEE things.

The truth is, the truth is bitter.
Thank God, you are sincere and have been a victim of this. I thought it was fake, until a Facebook friend complained of impersonation. I'm sure most NL ladies are guilty of this.

What level of insecurity and self rebuttal!

And they call this thread, "trash"?

We'll keep speaking truth anyways...

chibwike:
Changing their voices on phone
that number two, most ladies do that here a lot

its irritating

Stop giving urself unnecessary irritation by checking out DPs of ladies.

emusmith:
The truth is, the truth is bitter.
Thank God, you are sincere and have been a victim of this. I thought it was fake, until a Facebook friend complained of impersonation. I'm sure most NL ladies are guilty of this.

What level of insecurity and self rebuttal!

And they call this thread, "trash"?

We'll keep speaking truth anyways...

Fire on

LaDivva:
Fire on

At least, I have a lady who thinks the truth should be said and heard. Do you know I didn't bash, as it were, ladies?

Creamish:
WOW!!

U must have nothing else doing. BTW...how many NL ladies have u called so far? Its irritating and U still call?

Miss "I have something doing", I know him, he is highly respected- watch your flippant tongue!

Creamish:
Stop giving urself unnecessary irritation by checking out DPs of ladies.

I feel like stealing those earrings of yours, they're lovely.

LaDivva:
Yes o, coz I'm in school, I have friends and I SEE things.

then its just a confirmation that we are all living in a sick society were the ivory towers of academic and exellence pursuit has been reduced to a rowdy sessions of wannabe celebrities who still confuse fantasies with realities.

safarigirl:
thank God you said 'boys'....it's men who get married, not boys.

And at the last count, there are more married 'oloshos' than married 'virgins'.....

C'mon! Stop feigning ignorance that you misfired with that submission of yours about oloshos and the reality on ground.

Between, I didn't say 'boys' I said 'guys' and that includes men and not just boys.

Go modify ya topic and stop defending the indefensible.

safarigirl:
Thank you for your insightful post, but let me tell you a reality you fail to realise.

This write-up is some inconsequential BULLSHIT.....girls wey dey change DP everytime do so because they take a lot of pics......and there are people who appreciate them. I change DPs once in at least 3 months and ain't nobody chatting me up for that.

Secondly, the 'mirage' you speak of, is what heightens marketability. Yes, if you want to get attention, you have to look shiny, nobody buys the dull looking toys. Even you, would not walk up to a girl with zero make-up and 'attachment' on the road or anywhere. No, people are drawn to the attractive girls, Nd the 'brighter' you are, the more people will approach you. It is a fact many male hypocrites here will attempt to dispute.

Thirdly, any girl wey wan open leg go always find guy wey wan make her leg dey permanently open and that guy will marry her. Afterall, there are many renowned oloshos now living happily with their husbands while all the girls whose legs remained closed are starting to develop cobwebs between them cuz nobody has time to start welding that shiiit open.


So, Mr. OP, for everything you find nauseating about any girl's attitude, there are thousands of guys that find it attractive, you're just one dude in over a billion on earth, your opinion will only matter to one girl- your wife.

God bless you for this

Randyhot:
then its just a confirmation that we are all living in a sick society were the ivory towers of academic and exellence pursuit has been reduced to a rowdy sessions of wannabe celebrities who still confuse fantasies with realities.

If you just noticed that then you noticed it late, I'm sure you're either in school or have graduated. Just can't wait to graduate

OluwaChinenyenwa:
Good to know that we still have intelligent people who read and counter the hogwash when necessary. .


And did the O.P just call someone a kid for stating a different opinion??
Now who is the kid that can't accept other opinions or even debate intelligently.
Rubbish..

I must open thread to bash girls.
If you must do, please conjure up intelligent write up


Thread dead on arrival.

I am sure it was only moved to FP to show you that we still have matured peeps who don't focus their time on 99.9% of irrelevancies..

Exactly my problem these people that pulls out shiity lists from God knows where. You counter thier list, they term you an "hater" , that the thread is hitting you directly, they assume your mood and how you shouldfeel. In thier world every list they churn out is perfect and shouldn't be countered but simply accepted.

If humans didn't have a different opinion about things in life, wouldn't life be more boring than it already is? That's why i see some threads and comments most times, i do nothing but shake my head.

emusmith:
Miss "I have something doing", I know him, he is highly respected- watch your flippant tongue!

Mr judgmental-wit-issues-he-cannot-resolve-so-he-minds-other-people's-bizness ..mind ur damn bizness! A highly respected man wont be snooping around most ladies' DPs in search of lawd-knows-what.

Like Blackett basically said.. get a life.

LaDivva:
I feel like stealing those earrings of yours, they're lovely.

Thanks boo...I luv them too.. BTW, dat aint me.

emusmith:
Some Appalling Things Our Ladies Now Do Just To Be Identified As "Beautiful".


At first, I was doubting it but just this evening I confirmed it myself as a friend on a social network complained bitterly.
Trust me, I get facts before opening a very sensitive thread such as this.

Forgive me ahead as I'll hit the nail hard and fast

The unethical quest to "become beautiful" has turned sour and disgusting. Most ladies have thrown caution to the wind as they have decided to do "all manners" just to be termed "Beautiful". Shey na by people calling you "fine" go turn you to Cinderella?

"Self esteem can go to the trash", they say. Hmm!


My advice: As long as you're trying to look like Adaeze, Aisha, Anabel or Abimbola who are naturally beautiful, you'll NEVER accept yourself or be happy with your. When you're not happy with yourself, no one will be happy with your real inner self (though, they'll happy with your "body self".

Quickly, lemmie list some:

---

1. They use the DPs of other pretty friends of theirs on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram.

Most times, these friends aren't aware these girls "stole" their pix to claim fake popularity in a particular social network. I'm pretty sure there are some girls on NL who are using the pix of friends on Facebook. They may steal like 10 of it so you'll never know. Gross! FYI, a friend lodged a complaint on Facebook on how a fellow girl was impersonating her. #i already knew but needed a proof like this #
Don't go for face surgery please. Someborry loves you that way!

If you're guilty, CHANGE!


2. Expose Delicate Parts Of Their Bodies

It beats my imagination; what's the connection between Beauty and "Going unclad"? Funny, that's what most girls(fine or unfine) have resorted into doing. Ok, the one that is "unfine" is even worst; she reveals her cleavages so the guy doesn't see her "twisted" nose but look "where her necklace plummets into"- Hope it ain't the cross?
Some fine ones too can be annoying. You're fine and you now wear make up that makes you look like masquerade. Hmm! #I better stop here#

If you're guilty, CHANGE!


3. They open their legs

Psychologists said, "An AVERAGE lady will give sex for "love"..."

What that means is, an average Lady can allow you in her if only you can praise and keep praising her enough- calling her beautiful and all that.

Even the "James Bond" ladies sef, still fall for this scheme.

CHANGE is at the door!


4. They Change Their DPs Incessantly

As one NLer once asked in her thread, "Is it a sign of immaturity to change DP every two minutes?
Yes it is. Immaturity owing to Insecurity!
To me, only girls who arent sure of themselves change DPs incessantly. Especially on FB, you change it and tag the whole world.
Girls who are really truly pretty don't attach so much relevance on those things...yea.



5. "Pouting" on a selfie

The celebrity that introduced "pouting" didn't do well even as it's been misused. FCO, Pouting doesn't make anyone look more beautiful than they already are na. To me, its just a pre-kissing posture.

MODIFIED


6. Bleaching Their Skin

This is where the desire to become "beautiful" graduates to OBSESSION.
FCO, who will you see when you gaze at the mirror? Yourself or your bones?
#Some girls be bleaching their skin as if that's the certificate to heaven#



7. Putting on of "Mirage" Materials

"Mirage" gives a FALSE impression of something. It lies. It "makes up" for something that is lost.

What do I mean?
Fake eyelashes, bum pad, butt pad, fake fingernails and toenails, fake hair etc.

The list is endless...

Change, I say CHANGE.


LAST BULLET: If a guy must love you, let him love you for who you really are (I don't mean presenting your "raw" or "unprocessed" self to a man). Let him be sure that your eyes are yours and not someone else's.

Who fine, fine. Quit excessive making up just to tease guys to think you're Kim Kay. Teasing is sequel to getting laid, remember?
At the long run, you've ruined everything. "A piece of shit", he'll call you. He may be tempted to think he is right..

Deal with it that you are the way you are for a perfect reason: flat big nose, small b**bs, robust body, big b**bs, slimmie-, k-legs, short etc. Deal it with and focus on the major!
The earlier the better, in terms of many things.

Moral Lesson: Nobody can treat you more or less than you treat yourself

Truth be told. You nailed it. Every single point is on point. Unfortunately, the wise will add to their wisdom while the foolish? Well they will never CHANGE.

Creamish:
Thanks boo...I luv them too.. BTW, dat aint me.

Lol, I get. But make sure you buy for two whenever you come across it.

You're welcome

Creamish:
Mr judgmental-wit-issues-he-cannot-resolve-so-he-minds-other-people's-bizness ..mind ur damn bizness! A highly respected man wont be snooping around most ladies' DPs in search of lawd-knows-what.

Like Blackett basically said.. get a life.

Oh! I have a lovely life and a lovely job. When I return from "life", I sit back on my cozzy bed and dole out a piece of my intellect...Have you seen how many persons actually LIKED it? BTW, i think this thread influenced your PM, confessing the lady there isn't you. I'm saying the same thing...

Eronmosele:
Truth be told. You nailed it. Every single point is on point. Unfortunately, the wise will add to their wisdom while the foolish? Well they will never CHANGE.

Thanks bro. I'm used to bashers so I'm not fazed in the least bit.

No.4 is so so annoying especially that tagging stuff on fb and then again no.7 the fake nails. I love ladies with natural long nails not those fake attachments.
Emusmith its been a while. Nice write up!

emusmith:
And where did you get that fact from?
Who counted them, you?
Smh

lol....go and count them now.

Fo and count all the no make-up girls that are married.....except, they're usually in boring marriages, with boring men. Such boredom.....

Emusmith, I don't like when you make such threads, because i'm a living testimony that guys really aren't attracted to non-olosho girls who have on no make-up, no fake hair, no fake lashes, no boobies and no butt.

So I implore you, stop making it sound like there's a long queue of men just waiting to pen down numbers, cuz there are none.

emusmith:
Oh! I have a lovely life and a lovely job. When I return from "life", I sit back on my cozzy bed and dole out a piece of my intellect...Have you seen how many persons actually LIKED it? BTW, i think this thread influenced your PM, confessing the lady there isn't you. I'm saying the same thing...

Influenced my PM....how dumb can someone be?

Just for the sake of it, use ur intellect and ask a few who've seen my DP & PM way before ur intellect came up with this thread...just for the sake of it u know... ask them if it's ur intellect that prompted that PM...

oooor u can save urself the realization that u just might be dumb for making dat statement and not ask...


Ur choice boo.

safarigirl:
lol....go and count them now.

Fo and count all the no make-up girls that are married.....except, they're usually in boring marriages, with boring men. Such boredom.....

Emusmith, I don't like when you make such threads, because i'm a living testimony that guys really aren't attracted to non-olosho girls who have on no make-up, no fake hair, no fake lashes, no boobies and no butt.

So I implore you, stop making it sound like there's a long queue of men just waiting to pen down numbers, cuz there are none.

Lols...we'll settle it over there...
Wait o...nobody said that wearing a fake hair etal makes a girl an "olosho" as you described.

An olosho is one because she thinks like one and she knows she is one. That's why my thread hurts her more than a 1000 pins piercing through her skin.

Creamish:
Mr judgmental-wit-issues-he-cannot-resolve-so-he-minds-other-people's-bizness ..mind ur damn bizness! A highly respected man wont be snooping around most ladies' DPs in search of lawd-knows-what.

Like Blackett basically said.. get a life.

thats were you got it wrong misswhathshername,ur dp is just a referal state that satifies the harmless curiousity inherent in human nature,your in a community,if you walking down a street and a someone looks at your face,you dont bash the prson and tell him to get a life.

Creamish:
Influenced my PM....how dumb can someone be?

Just for the sake of it, use ur intellect and ask a few who've seen my DP & PM way before ur intellect came up with this thread...just for the sake of it u know... ask them if it's ur intellect that prompted that PM...

oooor u can save urself the realization that u just might be dumb for making dat statement and not ask...


Ur choice boo.

Ok

Blackett:
[color=#150000]Wondering how any of it is your business. . . I often wonder if folks like you have a life you care about. It's rather appalling how you can sit down and analyze other peoples lives and choices, and call it appalling.

Newsflash: It's their lives, their decisions. The consequences of their actions, they live with it, not you or anyone else. Start worrying about your own life and how to make yourself better. Pointing fingers at others and analyzing the lives of others doesn't make you a better person. . . Doesn't even pay your bills. It only earns you "likes" on nairaland from your fellow jobless beings who also have no life, than to sit down and nit pick the lives of others.[/color]

GOD BLESS U.... SO MANY SELF- RIGHTEOUS NIGGAS ON THIS NAIRALAND,.... WITH ALL THE POINTS STATED ABOVE, THEY STILL GO AFTER THESE GIRLS THAT BEHAVE LIKE THAT.................#SMH#.....buh , he is right in a way thou...

Kingsasian:
No.4 is so so annoying especially that tagging stuff on fb and then again no.7 the fake nails. I love ladies with natural long nails not those fake attachments.
Emusmith its been a while. Nice write up!

Thanks bro.

Randyhot:
thats were you got it wrong misswhathshername,ur dp is just a referal state that satifies the harmless curiousity inherent in human nature,your in a community,if you walking down a street and a someone looks at your face,you dont bash the prson and tell him to get a life.

Look Randy.. If u'v gathered from DP search experience that most ladies here expose body parts and it irritates u, why bother looking at more DPs? Why risk more irritations?

Walking down the street is totally different from staring at DPs....except ofcourse he is implying that he has seen most NL ladies in person...dat would be a fallacy now wouldn't it...mrvoltron?

emusmith:
Lols...we'll settle it over there...
Wait o...nobody said that wearing a fake hair etal makes a girl an "olosho" as you described.

An olosho is one because she thinks like one and she knows she is one. That's why my thread hurts her more than a 1000 pins piercing through her body.

how does an olosho think?

Most of your threads make out oloshoa to be girls who basically hVe on fake everything....

Anyway, like I said, your threads do not reflect the true reality of things and most of you guys who criticise these women online actually lust after them offline.

safarigirl:
how does an olosho think?

Most of your threads make out oloshoa to be girls who basically hVe on fake everything....

Anyway, like I said, your threads do not reflect the true reality of things and most of you guys who criticise these women online actually lust after them offline.

I repeat: The word "olosho" is foreign to me.
You tag them fake.

You are not being factual just assumptuous: "most" of you guys / "most oloshos are getting married than virgins" NOW you think (from your "experience" that most guys that speak against oloshos lust after them...Are you tryna divert my attention?

I gave facts about what a fellow girl on Facebook complained about...yours, no fact, just plain guess!
Where is the proof, barrister? You should know this better?

What's true reality of things, young lady?