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NgwaManNaija4LF:
All you b_itch ladies writing here are not even virgin,real virgins are not on nairaland.Shm.

Mmadu Ngwa, I don't usually bother with posts like this but why the insult. cant you make your point without insulting the women on the thread

Gurgle:
Well everybody knows that women are always the losers in this world

Our world is fallen, so things are not as they should be, they are just the way they are

Everybody should just be realistic with what they expect in their lives and how they allow others to influence them

Because once its gone, its gone...

What do u mean by everybody knows that women are always the losers in this world

PunkyVeer:
Hahaha. In this day & age, I thought the only grown virgins in existence is the pope & the dalai lama. It must be rare. Honestly, I'd think he has psychological issues. But that's just me.

yeah I would be interested to know his reasons. I would assume it was sexual purity, psychological issues wouldn't even occur to me but that might be it for some people

drbre:
I guess itz in order to congratulate u in adv tho..

Happy 2nd Anniversary as a NairaLander. God bless ur hustle.

Tnks dear tho I jst recently became active cos of job search

Gurgle:
Mmadu Ngwa, I don't usually bother with posts like this but why the insult. cant you make your point without insulting the women on the thread

My dear,he is from ngwa

shut:
you just summarized my point
thanks for your honesty

U r most welcum..as an addendum, me think the virgin mongers are the ones causing the likes of Boko and ISIS to thrive... Come to think of it, isnt that deir ideology? Be a suicide bomber and get 700virgins in heaven...just kidding though...

Just to butress d virgin thing...a girl gets disvirgined in 2004 and by 2014 she, in her own words has lost the count of d men shes slept with...by d way, d guy dat dv her is still hooked to her cos he feels he's some sort of hero cos he dv her...dis girl has slept with countless guys and dis she does flippantly without any coercion...ow does her virginity of 2004 affect her recklessness of 2014? Talking chastity

sahm4u2nv:
What do u mean by everybody knows that women are always the losers in this world

both men and women indulge in sex, but only men can come out of it without scandal or shame to their name if its revealed somewhere or if something goes wrong

women are the ones tasked with extra-marital pregnancies, abortions and the like- is it not a man who impregnated her? but nobody ever cares about that side

women are insulted for losing their virginity, letting too many guys touch them, blah blah but guys don't get any of that

Even outside sex, in employment, and in society women generally lose

Should I continue

maiahsaiah:
My dear,he is from ngwa

lol, and so?

do you mean you have a point to add to this

https://www.nairaland.com/2502524/igbo-stereotypes

shegsky:
How to Tell if a Guy is a
Virgin?
First of all it’s important to understand that there’s no way of physically knowing
that he’s still a virgin – guys don’t have anything like a hymen which can be broken
during intercourse. So you will have to go by your intuition and gut instinct when it comes to determining if your present boyfriend is
a virgin.

Here Are some common signs that suggest he is a virgin?


He is Very Shy About
Touching You
This is not a definitive sign but it can well be an indication that the guy is a virgin. Men who have had intercourse at least once would not be so shy of touching a girl. In fact shyness towards the opposite sex decidedly reduces in men who have been in intimate before. But
can you tell if a guy is a
virgin just because he is shy about being intimate? Not really but it’s a strong sign. So if a guy is shy about touching you, especially at the intimate body parts, it does hint at this being a virgin.

He is Very Uncertain
While Getting Physically
Intimate
If he is quite clueless about how to react to your advances then there is a possibility that it might well be his first time. Most guys
who are not virgins would just need a hint to start tearing at your clothes – they have done this before and their experience helps
condition their mind. Virgin guys would be very circumspect about how to go about getting intimate. IF YOU ARE NOT A VIRGIN,YOU WILL FIND THE VIRGIN GUY ESPECIALLY CLUELESS.

He Kisses Awkwardly
Some guys are bad kissers but that does not mean they are virgins. But if a guy
kisses awkwardly, in a very shy or inhibited manner, it’s almost a sure sign that he is
a virgin. If a guy is pretty good at kissing you can be sure that he is not a virgin no matter what.

Using these signs you can tell if a guy is a virgin with relative surety, but of course there are no guarantees.

Only God n d guy can tell,so ur points cn be regards clueless. to som xtents
I guess God was bias wen it coms2 this
#Noffense

TK16:
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queencalipso:
Lol no be small copying the guy do he copied every word.

Be happy, at least, he has drummed your opinion into the ears of thousands

Gurgle:
yeah I would be interested to know his reasons. I would assume it was sexual purity, psychological issues wouldn't even occur to me but that might be it for some people

You sound very mature. Good for you.

I'd still think he's some weirdo though or simply not my type. No foul. That sort of guy is just not edgy enough for me. Good to know some of you chicks are "understanding" though.

I can take someone that has decided to abstain for whatever reason. What I wouldn't take is someone that hasn't done it before. TOTALLY. I find it odd.

Gurgle:
both men and women indulge in sex, but only men can come out of it without scandal or shame to their name if its revealed somewhere or if something goes wrong

women are the ones tasked with extra-marital pregnancies, abortions and the like- is it not a man who impregnated her? but nobody ever cares about that side

women are insulted for losing their virginity, letting too many guys touch them, blah blah but guys don't get any of that

Even outside sex, in employment, and in society women generally lose

Should I continue

Lady gurgle yeah! I'm ffg, buh u ve said it all

A virgin wife is not necessarily a faithful wife

Vick4rill:
;hw much u go pay

lol,pls just help me out, and i will appreciate if you will spread the word, i have just one day left plsss

sahm4u2nv:
Lady gurgle yeah! I'm ffg, buh u ve said it all

Ffg?

PunkyVeer:
You sound very mature. Good for you.

I'd still think he's some weirdo though or simply not my type. No foul. That sort of guy is just not edgy enough for me. Good to know some of you chicks are "understanding" though.

I can take someone that has decided to abstain for whatever reason. What I wouldn't take is someone that hasn't done it before. TOTALLY. I find it odd.

Thanks, and so do you

Yeah its good that you know what you want from him, it will stop you from being indecisive in future

I think because its not really a massive dealbreaker for me, so if all other things are in place with him, like his character and behaviour, then it doesn't really matter to me

Gurgle:
Thanks, and so do you

Yeah its good that you know what you want from him, it will stop you from being indecisive in future

I think because its not really a massive dealbreaker for me, so if all other things are in place with him, like his character and behaviour, then it doesn't really matter to me

I agree with your last paragraph. I think we all want a good guy, that's a given, but some of us just want a little extra, I guess. Ah well. Different strokes...

Gurgle:
Mmadu Ngwa, I don't usually bother with posts like this but why the insult. cant you make your point without insulting the women on the thread

Must you comment on my post? Did you lost your virginity to me?Calm down and take a cool drink miss google.

Gurgle:
Ffg?

Ffg=following
Is that understood?

sahm4u2nv:
Ffg=following
Is that understood?

Oh. yeah

NgwaManNaija4LF:
Must you comment on my post? Did you lost your virginity to me?Calm down and take a cool drink miss google.

Lol

ok

Gurgle:
Oh. yeah

Lol dnt mind me @ a prof wen it coms2words abbre
So dnt make same mistake nxt tym ok

sahm4u2nv:
Lol dnt mind me @ a prof wen it coms2words abbre
So dnt make same mistake nxt tym ok

Lol yeah I understand it now

Gurgle:
Lol

ok

Lol,that's my gurl4real.

IamLEGEND1:
so we should date without nacking?

THE LION HUNTS TO KILL, NOT FOR FUN.

#ApexPredators

if u want to nack while dating then stop looking fr virgins to marry.

Hmmm, true talk.

delectablegyal:
Can u prove that a guy is a virgin? No. So that's why.

There is proof a guy is still a virgin.
Frequent feverish feelings,
Stomach pain weekly or even monthly.

Add yours if you know any.

gloriana:
if u want to nack while dating then stop looking fr virgins to marry.

trust me

i dont do virgins.....

#DatzHowIroll

In short ,i had to come into conclusion that simple thoughtless greed, is at the bottom of 99% of the seeming contradictions of all social behavior.

shegsky:
But why is it that only girls are asked to keep their virginity? What about us men, eh? I have read a lot of posts and comments that talk about girls keeping their virginity, and some guys even insult those that are not virgins.

But my question is this: Is it only girls that are meant to keep their
virginity?

What about guys? And again how will a lady be able to keep her virginity when guys are always asking for sex then turn around and
insult her for losing it?
It is not only women that are expected to be pure, guys should be pure as well. You want a lady to be pure, yet,
you won't stop asking for sex. If she still refuses, you try to make her weak in her
defence. Yet, you will come online or elsewhere and shout about girls keeping
their virginity until marriage.. Are we immune to virginity?

Let’s stop asking ladies out, and even when they accept to date us, don't ask them for sex.

Help them to keep their
virginity until marriage and stop putting the whole virginity and purity struggle on them alone!

Just my humble opinion though.

Thanks!

I concur.

NgwaManNaija4LF:
Must you comment on my post? Did you lost your virginity to me?Calm down and take a cool drink miss google.

Chai! U go fear gbagaun.