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Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by LaudGuy: 10:21pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
Tell them o. Self righteous c*nts. The lady in question might be a slob for all we know. The average naija married woman is not sexually stimulating to the eyes. I see y'all walk about like heavy bags of beans. deadZONE: |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Nobody: 10:22pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
cococandy: This is the real problem going off the OP. The drugs seem like a last ditch effort due to the bold. She tried to help him through it for the better part of a decade - and that throughout her 30's - but from some of these comments, you wouldn't know it. That's, like, sainthood + nine years in a nunnery. Someone anoint her already |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by SirShymexx: 10:30pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
CFCfan: Lol. I think of late (or perhaps recently is a more befitting word), you've been posting certain things that show you might have a Ph.D in womanology. At this rate, I may have to step my game up, to get on ya level - but for now, I'm too busy chasing that paper. Yes. It's probably mentality issues or insecurities. As a guy, if you're not reaching the sexual standards your woman wants you to get to, you should know. Women show these things via body language and other things. And if you're not selfish or basically caught up in ya own world, the onus is on you and ya male ego to want to do the right thing and show her who the boss is. He should be the one taking the medication, without the woman knowing - rather than waiting for her to get him the pills. Then again, their problem might be that he isn't really sexually attracted to the woman anymore - and there's a next woman out there. When things are like that - satisfying the sexual desires of the one at home might be problematic. He's human, not a robot, and there's only much you can do, especially when the interest/attraction isn't there anymore. |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by emmatok(m): 10:38pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
Icecomrade: Sorry I don't need to debunk your comments. From the report the woman married @31 which means the man is probably above 31 when he married. And the woman @35 left the man due to unsatisfactory sex. At that age the man sees no reason kill himself over sex. Its the younger stronger men that strives to prove their sexual prowess to women. Older matured men don't do that, that's why you see most of them with young girls. |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by cococandy(f): 10:39pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
EnlightenedSoul:lol. I'm not looking at the comments. Nigerian women never win in the court of public opinion. (babygirlf 2015) Say it was the husband who had endure lack of proper sex and he would be justified to do anything he wanted. As the case is reversed, the story will change. Who takes these mor0ns seriously anymore? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Icecomrade: 10:48pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
emmatok: @emboldened. You sound that satisfying a woman is one hell of a task. That's where you got it wrong. Women don't take sex lightly especially in marriage. You can seek counsel from married men if you are not married. It takes Littles skills and understanding your woman's body and knowing the right places to touch. If you compromise this in the name of "You are old now, it's for young people" Be rest assured that one young guy is gonna help your wife. Every married woman demands that you execute your conjugal task in the best way possible. Vary to keep it up. Except you are just joking on Nairaland, no carry am play, if u want to keep your family together. |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Nobody: 10:53pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
SirShymexx: I'm still at the undergrad level in that dept. i can only get better, lol. Yes, sexual attraction is important in a marriage/relationship. Either party can communicate to each other physical preferences. The married man with the bloated tummy may not be attractive his wife; likewise a woman whose overweight may be a turn off to her partner. Communication matters a lot. |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Nobody: 10:59pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
cococandy: I don't blame you one bit, Coco. On the bold especially. When it comes to women, the popular opinion on here is generally fvcked up. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by SirShymexx: 11:08pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
CFCfan: Nah, mate. You sound like an Emeritus Professor these days...and I saw you drop some advance knowledge on the art of eating the box a couple of months ago. Only academics with well researched (with enough wealth of practicals in the lab/field) scholarships can pull that off. Err, since both Cuadrado and Falcao have been impotent (they might be eunuchs based on their current form, who knows?) in all the pre-season games - we might need ya help/services to get them viagra (pause - no homo), to get them going again. Yes, a lot of things happen in relationships/marriages that folks don't really open to each other about, due to lack of communication/understanding. Hence communication is always the key. Heck, even with the topic on this thread - whatever reason the woman gave is so vague, that you can't tell if the man's past his peak sexually and he's on the valley, in need of help to enhance himself, to meet his estranged wife's standards. Or it's basically due to lack of interest/attraction |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by emmatok(m): 11:15pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
Icecomrade: Look around, you will see the poor man's wife complaint about low sex excuses to leave her husband. While the rich man's wife won't give such excuses knowing he will always get good sex elsewhere, if she leaves. There's a certain age the man stops focusing on sexual prowess, but wealth and power. They only have sex once a while. The sugar mummy/s you see around are probably some rich men's wife. NOTE: The man in question didn't bother coming to court after several invitations. That means he's moved on.That he can't satisfy his wife doesn't mean he can't enjoy sex or satisfy another woman |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by simdam500(m): 11:18pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
Court or no court, sue or no sue. Am not bothered. What i am bothered about is "have they had any children at all" 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Icecomrade: 11:41pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
emmatok: Note. Men's sexual satisfaction is more psychological than you think. The old men who look for young girls still want to show off sexual prowess. Isn't it better to invest that energu at home ND keep your family together. [b]You sound more like, I make the money the woman can go to hell. Its not as easy as you think. How many women is he willing to discharge because he is incapable of satisfying a woman. Guy, no man wants to be seen as a weakling in bed because he got cash. That's one ego 98per of men try hard to preserve [/b] |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by PecE2Make: 11:43pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
Men started banging you @ 16 years. why won't it turn to bore hole and you expect him to be comfortable ni? |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by PecE2Make: 11:44pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
Men started banging you @ 16 years. why won't it turn to bore hole and you expect him to be comfortable ni now that you are 39 years ni? Women problem to themselves |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Temysteve(m): 12:12am On Aug 07, 2015 |
Islie:U urself nos dat trust etc.. ar minor. Fine, a lady can luv u 4 who u are but @ d same time what do u expect her to gain in d relationship? No money, no s*x, wat do u want to appreciate, wat do u want to 4give! Man it's impossible to keep loving widout dose major tinzz, no matter hw long, it gonna fades away |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Pamelayoung: 2:19am On Aug 07, 2015 |
Vanquay: Na wetin be ds? Ds ur food tho. |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by BlackOnassis(m): 3:57am On Aug 07, 2015 |
"sexually weak" is such an ambiguous term. she shld be more specific. btw, some girls have such huge holes that only masturbation and cunnilingus can please them. |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by DedeNkem: 7:05am On Aug 07, 2015 |
This is why it's good to have sex with whoever you want to marry before you marry them! |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Efesuave: 7:29am On Aug 07, 2015 |
EnlightenedSoul: lolz b consoling yuhselfs |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Nobody: 8:23am On Aug 07, 2015 |
Efesuave: What, did I lie? 'Cuz I didn't feel the least bit uncomfortable making that categorical statement. Its the simple truth. |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Efesuave: 8:50am On Aug 07, 2015 |
EnlightenedSoul: yerr yuh spoke YOUR truth. buh d bottomline is everyone cannot see life d same way yuh do. deal with it. |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Nobody: 9:05am On Aug 07, 2015 |
Efesuave: This isn't some fly-by opinion based on rando subjective experience(s), but the observation of an outsider. You can take it or leave it. |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Joy1706(f): 10:53am On Aug 07, 2015 |
These naija men are not loyal abeg. They don't deserve any loyalty from their women. If your husband can't do, abeg get yourself a side guy and hump away. Or kukuma divorce him n get urself another man. It's allowed. Buh if ur husband is one of the exceptional few, stick with him n help him. If he's not, no dull yourself abeg |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by juizzyemmanuel(f): 11:23am On Aug 07, 2015 |
yea, u rite u knw |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by omoharry(f): 12:28pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
Maybe the guy impotent Or a closed Gay... |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Babham(m): 12:52pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
Ooo...epl im waiting too lonG jawe |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by tonychristopher: 3:47pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
Activa: why you talk like that |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Nobody: 4:54pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
tonychristopher: Your comment seemed innocent but ignorant. An average 39-yr old woman still has a good libido. Your assertion that 'no virginity, no marriage' also sounded playful but also ignorant. No insult intended. |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by tonychristopher: 6:37pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
Activa: noted |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by ijustdey: 7:25pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
Joy1706: are they ladies loyal too am sure you can see for yourself with this survey carried out by condom makers Durex https://www.nairaland.com/2048436/new-survey-ranks-nigerian-women |
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by NAPC1(m): 10:33pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
[color=#990000][/color]hahahahaha-- Are you sure his weakness is not your fault?? |
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