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Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by angieberry(f): 6:03pm On Aug 06, 2015
Shut up jareh. All what you mentioned don't count. He's weak and that's all to it. Don't try to defend your fellow male.
deadZONE:
undecided undecided undecided
did u wash ur hole well
and tighten it and your
husband didnt bang u
red and black?
some ladies eeehh
because we men dont want
to talk shey!!!!

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Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by darlenese(f): 6:04pm On Aug 06, 2015
Eyaaaa cool

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Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by ijustdey: 6:05pm On Aug 06, 2015
ojibwa:



abeg tell us the remedy instead of u guys to suggest solutions to ur fellow man.u are here critisizing the girls. ladies shine ur eyes 50% of men are impotent. zero sex peeformance. they can get u pregnant bt thier pencil no dey stand.

is not that the guy can't perform but he just can't match her pace and power..... that's the main reason she had to purchase the enhancing drug.....




what stops her from taken over the bedroom
what stops her from being the lioness
what stops her from being his bitcchh
because am sure she will just stand like a log of wood on the bed expecting the man to perform the magic

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Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by damiloladuke: 6:06pm On Aug 06, 2015
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Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by delazore(m): 6:06pm On Aug 06, 2015
Maybe she's not always satisfied when having sex.....so the man has to stay back or else he is gonna die.... undecided

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Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Deckynyansha(f): 6:06pm On Aug 06, 2015
ijustdey:


is she a doctor to have know the remedy to his problem
cheesy who says enhancing drugs is the remedy
ask her oo
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by 4ifyomedon(m): 6:06pm On Aug 06, 2015
You guys don't seems to understand when an invitation has been extended to u. The set date for final judgment is 2nd September. And u know what this woman wants. If u r up to the task. Drop ur contact. By then she is free. Make sure u can do better no go funbule
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Ofodirinwa: 6:07pm On Aug 06, 2015
Solutions:

A lot of the time when men are 'weak' there is a mix of issues

1. Diet: bad eating habits
2. Sleep: lack of sleep
3. Sloth: lack of physical activity
4. Health: blood pressure issues, diabetes, bad personal health maintenance, presence of diesese or illness
5. Trauma: bad connection to sex in the past, violence or anxiety.
6. Psycho-Social: Stress
7. Mental: Focus or attention issues, bad connotations with sex, PRESSURE!
8. Environmental: Check location for odors, light, dirtiness, uncomfortable surroundings, some men are more reactive than others.
9. Sexual: This one's complicated.



Solutions
1. Diet - If your man isn't eating well, he's going to have issues like all men that don't eat well. Caffeine, Alcohol, Salt, and artificial flavouring can all have negative effects on sexual health for men. For good sexual health go green and use A LOT of spices! I recommend Gingseng and foods that boost Nitric Oxide production (spinach, cranberries, watermelon..research other)

2. Sleep: Bad sleeping habits effect sexual health. Early to bed early to raise improves it.

3. Sloth: If he exercises more, especially workouts that improve his core, the sex will improve significantly

4. Health: Get a check up. It doesn't have to be about sexual health but check for things than can be bigger issues like blood pressure and diabetes. These all make erection difficult

5. Trauma: People don't believe men can be sexually damaged (assault for example) but it can happen and it's common. A past of being raped, committing rape, being mocked, addictions to pornography ALL cause issues with conventional sex.

6. Stress: Men are often expected to be sexual at all times and this is daunting. If a man is depressed, or under-pressure he's not going to be able to perform. Make sure there's balance in your man's life and be a part of the reason he finds it if there isn't any.

7. Mental: Men can often loose their train of thought during sex. It sounds funny but it can happen. Sex is very visual for men..more for them than women. This is why men are more prone to staring at someone they find sexual appealing then women. Make sure a man is mentally intune with all aspects of sex. Sounds, sights, smells, tastes etc. This takes pressure off the visual. Without changing positions the mind will register sex as something that's 'happening' and focus on something else even DURING sex. Sounds strange but this mental function is the reason we don't hear ourselves breath, our heartbeat, or even forget we're chewing sometimes when we're wearing something. When the mind sees something as constant, attention breaks. Also, does your man feel comfortable doing what he's doing? If his mind is elsewhere, you're getting nowhere.

8. Environment: The wrong place at the wrong time is the wrong place at the wrong time. Sexual environments don't have to be clean, but they have to be conducive and encouraging. Hell, some men like to have sex in dirty places too lol. As long as the place makes sense. If there's something about the environment your man is uncomfortable with, fix it.

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Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by ronald4lif(m): 6:07pm On Aug 06, 2015
Why is it always expected of men to be sexually skilled and exceptional but never same for women? Countless times we see women seeking for the dissolution of a marriage on the premise of a poor sexual performance by the man but never have men seek to dissolve a marriage sighting same grounds.

In light of this, one is compelled to ask if the desire for a contented interco*rse or to please each other in coitu*s is an exclusive tasking for the men? What roles does the woman play in the bedroom in ensuring that the man is equally satisfied? Why are women always rebellious when a man doesn't fits in to their sexual expectations when they most of the time lie like a log of woods during sex?

We men, craves for sexual satisfaction too and we demand that women must seek to enhance their skills to ensure we are equally contented during sex. We'd not tolerate all these sluggish ladies with their languorous attitude towards sex and hereby implore on married men to equally approach the tribunals for dissolution of their marriage when their wives aren't living up to their sexual satisfaction. undecided

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Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by IYANGBALI: 6:07pm On Aug 06, 2015
At 39 preek still dey hungry her,mtcheeeeeew
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by tonero230(m): 6:08pm On Aug 06, 2015
clefstone:
I comment my reserve. Meanwhile, have u ever wondered if Mr Buhari still straffs?

lol
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Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by abacusCm(m): 6:09pm On Aug 06, 2015
I learnt that married women should be given 3 Os by their husband i.e Owo (money),Oko (joystick) and Ounje (food)
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Bacteriocin(m): 6:10pm On Aug 06, 2015
Activa:





How did you know this?
Do you know him?



Yes. na him help us dig soakaway
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by idupaul: 6:11pm On Aug 06, 2015
This is what happens when u marry a woman U are not sexually attracted to
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Nobody: 6:11pm On Aug 06, 2015
D whole is too wide for d guy 2 dig, let her get intimacy gadget. Life goes on
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by sule5727: 6:12pm On Aug 06, 2015
chymystique:
E be like say the husband is possessed by evil spirits
how do u know!!!
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by kokoranking: 6:13pm On Aug 06, 2015
She buy jedi hor d man ni
ijustdey:



is she a doctor to have know the remedy to his problem

cheesy
who says enhancing drugs is the remedy
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Nobody: 6:13pm On Aug 06, 2015
kulobyno:
[size=15pt].Could be the woman has been enjoying mind shattering orgasms necessitated by powerful thrusts of anacondas of drug driven sex maniacs from her teen years and her so called husband wants to ruin her precious life. Mbanu [/size]

hahahahahahaha. See how u take dey reason
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Generalk007: 6:14pm On Aug 06, 2015
Dnt blame d mann he mite nt lk d woman pussy again or havin affairs outside
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Ofodirinwa: 6:14pm On Aug 06, 2015
wanted to make Sexual a seperate post it's self.


Sexual: What is think from your story is this. It sounds like he's under a lot of pressure. When a man doesn't perform once, it's normal. When he doesn't perform twice, it's normal. If he goes months without performing, still normal. The minute it become permanent and abnormal is when he FEELS it's permanent and abnormal. Having 'issues' isn't sexy, and if your man doesn't feel 'sexy' he's going to have issues. The reason I think this is the problem is his reaction to you giving him medicine.

He's indirectly letting you know that being seen as 'weak' or someone that has a 'problem' IS the problem. When a man doesn't perform the women in their lives often react in a way that makes the problem worst.
Don't panic
Don't act like he's 'sick'
Don't act like he's 'weak'
Don't act like you expect him to 'fail'
Don't act dissatisfied
etc.

Doing anything that makes a man feel like less of a man is as much a turn on for men as telling a woman she's fat, ugly and you don't want to be with her is for women. Men place too much of their sexual pride in their 'performance'. If a man feels like a non-performer, he will be a non-performer. He won't be able to 'go all out' every single time. All healthy relationships have moments of success and failure.

The women in the family did a lot of stupid things that made the problem worst

1. She got his family involved. Are you turned on by having you more and father hear the details of your genitals? Why would he?
2. She labeled him as weak.
3. She was impatient.




So advise is if a man isn't turned on TURN HIM ON. It's that simple there are a lot of things that turn men on that women aren't willing to consider or try. If you're not open minded you will have this problem with every man you encounter to varying degrees.

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Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Islie: 6:15pm On Aug 06, 2015
Temysteve:
it seems u dnt knw wat is called love, what does a lady want in man than is money, ability to be gud on bed nd rest of mind. U ar nw saying she dnt understant what love is

Love is more than money and sex.....

Love is spiritual, can't be quantified
Money and sex are just ingredients that helps sustain it and its never love


Their are many ingredients that sustain love
Eg trust, appreciation, forgiveness, working together in agreement, compromise etc
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Ephemmm: 6:15pm On Aug 06, 2015
khassy:
sex na foodundecidedundecided

Chief! It is more than food oooo tongue tongue tongue tongue

However, women are the most confused being living on earth, they can only appreciate what they don't have. There are some women out there complaining that their husbands' wahala too much.
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Toro2015(m): 6:15pm On Aug 06, 2015
Vanquay:
BORING RECYCLED CRAP
why u post this dirty food here ?

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Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by joystickextendr: 6:16pm On Aug 06, 2015
too bad tell your man to contact us ...he needs our cream
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Nobody: 6:17pm On Aug 06, 2015
Ma'am its for better and for worst.
Av u forgotten so soon ?
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by 9jatatafo(m): 6:17pm On Aug 06, 2015
Is madam kpekus clean? Because smelling kitty-cat will make joystick drop dead and refuse to perform.

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Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Islie: 6:18pm On Aug 06, 2015
ronald4lif:
Why is it always expected of men to be sexually skilled and exceptional but never same for women? Countless times we see women seeking for the dissolution of a marriage on the premise of a poor sexual performance by the man but never have men seek to dissolve a marriage sighting same grounds.

In light of this, one is compelled to ask if the desire for a contented interco*rse or to please each other in coitu*s is an exclusive tasking for the men? What roles does the woman play in the bedroom in ensuring that the man is equally satisfied? Why are women always rebellious when a man doesn't fits in to their sexual expectations when they most of the time lie like a log of woods during sex?

We men, craves for sexual satisfaction too and we demand that women must seek to enhance their skills to ensure we are equally contented during sex. We'd not tolerate all these sluggish ladies with their languorous attitude towards sex and hereby implore on married men to equally approach the tribunals for dissolution of their marriage when their wives aren't living up to their sexual satisfaction. undecided

Well said

Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by macminista(m): 6:20pm On Aug 06, 2015
Eleyi gidi gan grin angry grin[color=#006600][/color] angry grin
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by 4stylz: 6:21pm On Aug 06, 2015
Vanquay:
BORING RECYCLED CRAP

This eba you keep posting nor dey finish
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by adeagbo101(m): 6:22pm On Aug 06, 2015
gabazin080:
I no blame the woman jare.
Even folorusho alakija (richest woman in Nigeria no go pray make God comot pr*ck for her matter
[b][/b]lol
Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by Icecomrade: 6:22pm On Aug 06, 2015
So many men, ruining the happiness of women.

If you can't deliver satisfying pleasure, pls stay single.

Marriage is not all about breading babies. Its more about happiness between 2 people.

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